r/getdisciplined • u/Walls • 3h ago
[Plan] Weekly Plan! Monday 19th- Friday 23rd October 2026!
The best of luck this week!
r/getdisciplined • u/FelEdorath • Jul 13 '25
Hey legends
So the last week or so has been a bit of a wild ride. About 2.5k posts removed. Which had to be done individually. Eeks. Over 60 users banned for shilling and selling stuff. And I’m still digging through old content, especially the top posts of all time. cleaning out low-quality junk, AI-written stuff, and sneaky sales pitches. It’s been… fun. Kinda. Lmao.
Anyway, I finally had time to roll out a bunch of much-needed changes (besides all that purging lol) in both the sidebar and the AutoModerator config. The sidebar now reflects a lot of these changes. Quick rundown:
Certain characters and phrases that AI loves to use are now blocked automatically. Same goes for common hustle-bro spam lingo.
New caps on posting: you’ll need an account at least 30 days old and with 200+ karma to post. To comment, you’ll need an account at least 3 days old.
Posts under 150 words are blocked because there were way too many low-effort one-liners flooding the place.
Rules in the sidebar now clearly state no selling, no external links, and a basic expectation of proper sentence structure and grammar. Some of the stuff coming through lately was honestly painful to read.
So yeah, in light of all these changes, we’ve turned off the “mod approval required” setting for new posts. Hopefully we’ll start seeing a slower trickle of better-quality content instead of the chaotic flood we’ve been dealing with. As always - if you feel like something has slipped through the system, feel free to flag it for mod reviewal through spam/reporting.
On top of all that, we’re rolling out a new posting guide as a trial for the [NeedAdvice] and [Advice] posts. These are two of our biggest post types BY FAR, but there’s been a massive range in quality. For [NeedAdvice], we see everything from one-liners like “I’m lazy, how do I fix it?” to endless dramatic life stories that leave people unsure how to help.
For [Advice] posts (and I’ve especially noticed this going through the top posts of all time), there’s a huge bunch of them written in long, blog-style narratives. Authors get super evocative with the writing, spinning massive walls of text that take readers on this grand journey… but leave you thinking, “So what was the actual advice again?” or “Fuck me that was a long read.” A lot of these were by bloggers who’d slip their links in at the end, but that’s a separate issue.
So, we’ve put together a recommended structure and layout for both types of posts. It’s not about nitpicking grammar or killing creativity. It’s about helping people write posts that are clear, focused, and useful - especially for those who seem to be struggling with it. Good writing = good advice = better community.
A few key points:
This isn’t some strict rule where your post will be banned if you don’t follow it word for word, your post will be banned (unless - you want it to be that way?). But if a post completely wanders off track, massive walls of text with very little advice, or endless rambling with no real substance, it may get removed. The goal is to keep the sub readable, helpful, and genuinely useful.
This guide is now stickied in the sidebar under posting rules and added to the wiki for easy reference. I’ve also pasted it below so you don’t have to go digging. Have a look - you don’t need to read it word for word, but I’d love your thoughts. Does it make sense? Feel too strict? Missing anything?
Thanks heaps for sticking with us through all this chaos. Let’s keep making this place awesome.
FelEdorath
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If you’re struggling and looking for help, that’s a big part of why this subreddit exists. But too often, we see posts that are either: “I’m lazy. How do I fix it?” OR 1,000-word life stories that leave readers unsure how to help.
Instead, try structuring your post like this so people can diagnose the issue and give useful feedback.
A little context helps people tailor advice. You don’t have to reveal private details, just enough for others to connect the dots - for example
Age/life stage (e.g. student, parent, early-career, etc).
General experience level with discipline (newbie, have tried techniques before, etc).
Relevant background factors (e.g. shift work, chronic stress, recent life changes)
Example: “I’m a 27-year-old software engineer. I’ve read books on habits and tried a few systems but can’t stick with them long-term.”
Example: “Every night after work, I intend to study for my AWS certification, but instead I end up scrolling Reddit for two hours. Even when I start, I lose focus within 10 minutes.”
This is crucial for people trying to help. It avoids people suggesting things you’ve already ruled out.
Strategies or techniques you’ve attempted
How long you tried them
What seemed to help (or didn’t)
Any data you’ve tracked (optional but helpful)
Example: “I’ve used StayFocusd to block Reddit, but I override it. I also tried Pomodoro but found the breaks too frequent. Tracking my study sessions shows I average only 12 focused minutes per hour.”
Spell out what you’re hoping for:
Practical strategies?
Research-backed methods?
Apps or tools?
Mindset shifts?
Example: “I’d love evidence-based methods for staying focused at night when my mental energy is lower.”
Include anything else relevant (potentially in the Who You Are / Context section) such as:
Stress levels
Health issues impacting discipline (e.g. sleep, anxiety)
Upcoming deadlines (relevant to the above of course).
Title: Struggling With Evening Focus for Professional Exams
Hey all. I’m a 29-year-old accountant studying for the CPA exam. Work is intense, and when I get home, I intend to study but end up doomscrolling instead.
Problem: Even if I start studying, my focus evaporates after 10-15 minutes. It feels like mental fatigue.
What I’ve tried:
Scheduled a 60-minute block each night - skipped it 4 out of 5 days.
Library sessions - helped a bit but takes time to commute.
Used Forest app - worked temporarily but I started ignoring it.
Looking for: Research-based strategies for overcoming mental fatigue at night and improving study consistency.
Want to share what’s worked for you? That’s gold for this sub. But avoid vague platitudes like “Just push through” or personal stories that never get to a clear, actionable point.
A big issue we’ve seen is advice posts written in a blog-style (often being actual copy pastes from blogs - but that's another topic), with huge walls of text full of storytelling and dramatic detail. Good writing and engaging examples are great, but not when they drown out the actual advice. Often, the practical takeaway gets buried under layers of narrative or repeated the same way ten times. Readers end up asking, “Okay, but what specific strategy are you recommending, and why does it work?” OR "Fuck me that was a long read.".
We’re not saying avoid personal experience - or good writing. But keep it concise, and tie it back to clear, practical recommendations. Whenever possible, anchor your advice in concrete reasoning - why does your method work? Is there a psychological principle, habit science concept, or personal data that supports it? You don’t need to write a research paper, but helping people see the underlying “why” makes your advice stronger and more useful.
Let’s keep the sub readable, evidence-based, and genuinely helpful for everyone working to level up their discipline and self-improvement.
Try structuring your post like this so people can clearly understand and apply your advice:
Example: “This is for anyone who loses focus during long study sessions or deep work blocks.”
Example: “I started using noise-canceling headphones with instrumental music and blocking distracting apps for 90-minute work sessions. It tripled my focused time.”
This is where you can layer in a bit of science, personal data, or reasoning. Keep it approachable - not a research paper.
Evidence or personal results
Relevant scientific concepts (briefly)
Explanations of psychological mechanisms
Example: “Research suggests background music without lyrics reduces cognitive interference and can help sustain focus. I’ve tracked my sessions and my productive time jumped from ~20 minutes/hour to ~50.”
Give clear steps so others can try it themselves:
Short starter steps
Tools
Potential pitfalls
Example: “Start with one 45-minute session using a focus playlist and app blockers. Track your output for a week and adjust the length.”
A short reference list if you’ve cited specific research, books, or studies
Resource mentions (tools - mentioned in the above)
Title: How Noise-Canceling Headphones Boosted My Focus
For anyone struggling to stay focused while studying or working in noisy environments:
The Problem: I’d start working but get pulled out of flow by background noise, office chatter, or even small household sounds.
My Method: I bought noise-canceling headphones and created a playlist of instrumental music without lyrics. I combine that with app blockers like Cold Turkey for 90-minute sessions.
Why It Works: There’s decent research showing that consistent background sound can reduce cognitive switching costs, especially if it’s non-lyrical. For me, the difference was significant. I tracked my work sessions, and my focused time improved from around 25 minutes/hour to 50 minutes/hour. Cal Newport talks about this idea in Deep Work, and some cognitive psychology studies back it up too.
How to Try It:
Consider investing in noise-canceling headphones, or borrow a pair if you can, to help block out distractions. Listen to instrumental music - such as movie soundtracks or lofi beats - to maintain focus without the interference of lyrics. Choose a single task to concentrate on, block distracting apps, and commit to working in focused sessions lasting 45 to 90 minutes. Keep a simple record of how much focused time you achieve each day, and review your progress after a week to see if this method is improving your ability to stay on task.
Further Reading:
Newport, Cal. Deep Work.
Dowan et al's 2017 paper on 'Focus and Concentration: Music and Concentration - A Meta Analysis
r/getdisciplined • u/Walls • 4d ago
Please post your plans for this date and if you can, do the following;
Give encouragement to two other posters on this thread.
Report back this evening as to how you did.
Give encouragement to others to report back also.
Good luck!
r/getdisciplined • u/Walls • 3h ago
The best of luck this week!
r/getdisciplined • u/Walls • 3h ago
Please post your plans for this date and if you can, do the following;
Give encouragement to two other posters on this thread.
Report back this evening as to how you did.
Give encouragement to others to report back also.
Good luck!
r/getdisciplined • u/Walls • 3h ago
Please post your plans for this date and if you can, do the following;
Give encouragement to two other posters on this thread.
Report back this evening as to how you did.
Give encouragement to others to report back also.
Good luck!
r/getdisciplined • u/Walls • 3h ago
Please post your plans for this date and if you can, do the following;
Give encouragement to two other posters on this thread.
Report back this evening as to how you did.
Give encouragement to others to report back also.
Good luck!
r/getdisciplined • u/Don_Crespo • 1d ago
The biggest meta-analysis on procrastination (Steel, 2007, pooling about 700 correlations) found it tracks four things:
Three of the four are about how the task feels and how you feel about yourself. That’s why another planner or a better to-do app so often changes nothing.
Later work (Sirois & Pychyl, 2013) puts it bluntly: we put off a task to escape the feeling it gives us right now, whether boredom, anxiety or “I’ll get it wrong”. We trade a bad feeling now for a worse one later.
So the fixes follow from the causes:
Try it today (12 minutes):
For the rest of the week, each time you catch yourself avoiding something, write one line (task, feeling, what you did instead), then “fine, start now” and the timer. No commentary.
Curious what feeling comes up most for people here. For a lot of tasks I’d guess it’s less “lazy” and more “I’ll do it badly”.
r/getdisciplined • u/Odd_Acanthaceae_2548 • 2h ago
I’m a student and I have a long break coming up, around two to three months. I really want to use it well: improve my skills, prepare for interviews, and work on a few personal goals. I don’t want it to slip away.
Here’s the problem. Every morning I write down my top three tasks, and I usually start well. Today I even cleaned my room for 20 minutes without touching my phone. But then I opened my laptop “for a minute,” went to Reddit, then YouTube, and later wondered where the time went. It’s not one big decision, it’s a chain of small, automatic ones, and I barely notice it happening and the day is gone.
It also happens during exam time, when I know I have to study i procastinate till the last minute not knowing the seriousness of it . what to do i dont want to waste my time
r/getdisciplined • u/Prestigious_Fun6709 • 1d ago
been thinking about this after watching my cousin. he wakes at 5, gym, meal prep, reads 20 pages, the whole routine. everyone in the family calls him the disciplined one. he also has no commute, no kids, sleeps a full 8 hrs, works from home and his parents cover his rent.
my situation: 10 hr workdays plus about 1.5 hrs of travel, i get home around 8:30, and by then i'm cooked. i've tried the 5am thing three separate times and every time it lasted about a week before sleep debt killed it. then i skip the gym once and spend the rest of the evening feeling like a failure compared to him.
i'm not saying effort doesn't matter. he does show up, i'll give him that. but i'm starting to think a big chunk of what gets called discipline online is really just having fewer things pulling at you, more sleep, and more free hours. and a lot of us beat ourselves up comparing to people who are running a much easier race and don't realize it.
what i'm actually looking for: if you built habits that stuck while having a messy life (long hours, kids, bad sleep, money stress), what made the difference? did you scale the habit way down, change the time of day, or just accept a lower bar? and if you think i'm wrong and this is just me making excuses, i'm open to hearing that too.
r/getdisciplined • u/meSHAHIN555 • 17h ago
I woke up early today, but instead of getting out of bed, I decided to sleep a little longer because I thought I needed more rest. Eventually, I woke up around 7:30 AM.
I went swimming, came back home, had breakfast, and went through the news and finance. I also completed my LeetCode practice.
However, I didn't study at all today, which is something I need to work on.
Today, I applied for 20 job openings.
While going through the application process, I realised something important: applying for more jobs is only one part of the equation. I also need to elevate my skills and build more projects that demonstrate what I'm capable of.
I want to work in AI and machine learning, and I need a portfolio that reflects that ambition. I don't want to keep applying for jobs without making meaningful progress on the skills and projects that could help me stand out.
This was a useful reminder that I need to balance job applications with actual skill development. Sending applications matters, but so does becoming a stronger candidate.
I also got my motorcycle fixed today.
I think the repair will keep it running for quite some time, but it's still more of a minimal fix than a complete solution.
Looking back at what I wrote on Day 50, I can see that I'm still dealing with the consequences of choosing temporary solutions over proper ones. I hope this repair holds up, but I also need to be more thoughtful about how I handle these situations financially.
Sometimes, a temporary solution is necessary. The problem is when temporary fixes become a habit and prevent us from addressing the root cause.
Once again, I wasted a lot of time today.
I managed to complete several tasks, but I didn't use the day as effectively as I could have. I keep telling myself that tomorrow will be different, yet I still fall into the same patterns.
I want to fix this somehow, but I know that simply hoping for a better day isn't enough. I need to make different decisions when I notice myself slipping into distractions.
I also need to stop expecting one perfect day to undo weeks of inconsistency.
I'm hoping to make tomorrow a really productive day.
I want to study properly, make progress on my projects, continue my job search, and avoid wasting hours on unnecessary distractions.
More importantly, I want to focus on the work that will genuinely improve my future rather than just completing tasks to feel productive.
Day 53/90 complete.
I have 37 days left in this challenge.
I still have time to make meaningful progress, but I need to stop relying on motivation and start building consistency through my actions.
Tomorrow, I'll try again. Not because a new day magically fixes everything, but because I still have work to do, and postponing it will only make things harder.
r/getdisciplined • u/RamyGomaa • 15h ago
Hey everyone, I'm a developer with 5 years of experience.
I noticed my memory was getting worse and my focus was slipping because of doom scrolling, so I built an app to help me replace that habit with reading. Which is funny, because I had never finished a book in my life.
The app lets you set a reading goal, and it locks your apps until you hit it. You upload your book as a PDF or EPUB.
I built it myself instead of using something that already exists because I wanted it to work the way I needed. The apps I tried didn't work for me. They were basic, shallow, and missing the features I needed.
Making the app actually push me to read took 5 months of work instead of the 2 weeks I'd planned.
Here's what's in it:
* A brain character that gets weaker when you stop reading, gets stronger every time you read, and grows with you.
* Offline text-to-speech in 6 languages: English, French, Italian, Dutch, Spanish and Portuguese. The English voices are great.
* AI quote extraction, also offline. It pulls out the best quotes and puts them on a home screen widget, so the book stays on your mind and you feel like you're living in it.
* Spark: a piece of knowledge you can read in 5 minutes, meant to get you talking about it later that night. You don't need to finish a book to say something interesting when you're out with people, and that convinces your brain you're a well-read person, which makes you want to read more.
* Translation, online or offline.
* Highlight the quotes you like, and when you finish the book it shows you everything you highlighted as a recap.
* Connect to your Calibre library on your PC and pull your books straight into the app, so you don't have to move files around by hand.
* Paid feature: chapter summaries in 5 key points, to help you understand the chapter or remember where you left off. If you're reading a novel, spoilers are hidden so the story isn't ruined, and you can reveal them if you want. And sync your progress across devices
I finished the first book of my life with this app. It made a real difference for me and cut my scrolling from 4 hours a day to an hour, sometimes less, so I wanted to share it with you.
The app is currently live on the Play Store and is very close to being in the closed testing phase for the App Store. Its Called FirstPage: Reading App Blocker
I would love to send you a redeem code to access the premium version of the app for free and to get your feedback.
I'd really appreciate any feedback or help.
Thanks for your time 🙏
r/getdisciplined • u/amandeavor • 19h ago
TL;DR: Avoiding a task you fully understand is usually a reaction to how the task makes you feel, not a planning problem. Name the obstacle, shrink the first step to one physical action, attach it to a specific cue, and don't treat a missed start as a verdict on yourself.
Why it happens
Fuschia Sirois and Timothy Pychyl describe procrastination as a self-regulation failure in which short-term mood repair takes priority over the intended action (Sirois & Pychyl, 2013). The task triggers boredom, anxiety, uncertainty, or fear of doing it badly. Delaying removes that feeling immediately, and the cost lands on your future self.
Piers Steel's 2007 meta-analysis of 691 correlations found task aversiveness, task delay, low self-efficacy, and impulsiveness among the strongest predictors (Steel, 2007, Psychological Bulletin). Those four give a workable checklist.
What to do
1. Identify the obstacle.
Picture yourself starting. Which fits best?
One sentence is enough. The answer tells you which part of step 4 to lean on.
2. Reduce the goal to one physical action.
"Work on my assignment" is a goal. "Open the document and write three rough bullet points" is an action. If you would need to make another decision before beginning, break it down further. David Allen calls this the next action in Getting Things Done.
3. Attach the action to a cue.
Use this format: "If [specific event], then I will [specific action]."
Example: "When I finish lunch, I will sit at my desk, open the document, and write three bullet points."
Gollwitzer and Sheeran's 2006 meta-analysis found a medium-to-large average effect (d = 0.65) across 94 tests, including on initiating goal pursuit. That is an average, not a guarantee.
If you can't start right now, a specific plan still helps. Masicampo and Baumeister (2011) found that making one eliminated the intrusive thoughts and interference that unfinished goals otherwise cause. These were lab studies.
4. Make the first attempt easy.
Commit to two minutes, or ten minutes with permission to stop afterwards. A bad first draft counts. BJ Fogg's behavior model (Tiny Habits) says that when motivation is low, the practical fix is to make the behavior easier. Pychyl's advice in Solving the Procrastination Puzzle is simply to get started.
Match the adjustment to your obstacle from step 1:
This matching follows from the factors in Steel's review. It has not been tested as a package.
5. If you miss, don't treat it as a verdict.
Acknowledge it and go back to step 2. In a study of 119 first-year students (Wohl, Pychyl & Bennett, 2010), self-forgiveness for procrastinating was associated with less procrastination before the next exam, partly through lower negative affect. The relationship appeared among students who had procrastinated heavily the first time. It is correlational and limited, not proof that self-forgiveness alone fixes this.
When this isn't enough
If trouble starting tasks is persistent, affects many areas of life, and comes with low mood, constant worry, or attention problems, the cause may be something other than habit, such as ADHD, depression, or anxiety. A clinician can evaluate that.
Question for the thread: which of the four obstacles is most common for you, and what has helped?
Sources (searchable by title): - Sirois & Pychyl (2013), "Procrastination and the Priority of Short-Term Mood Regulation," Social and Personality Psychology Compass - Steel (2007), "The Nature of Procrastination," Psychological Bulletin - Gollwitzer & Sheeran (2006), "Implementation Intentions and Goal Achievement," Advances in Experimental Social Psychology - Masicampo & Baumeister (2011), "Consider It Done!," Journal of Personality and Social Psychology - Wohl, Pychyl & Bennett (2010), "I Forgive Myself, Now I Can Study," Personality and Individual Differences - Books: Allen, Getting Things Done; Fogg, Tiny Habits; Pychyl, Solving the Procrastination Puzzle
r/getdisciplined • u/psgamer2 • 1d ago
All it took for me was a week, infact less, probably a couple of days of following a timetable that I made, It wasn’t even be productive 24/7 type of thing, I just made a 50/50 timetable, 50% of the time I’ll have fun and play video games and watch youtube or whatever, and 50% of the time I’ll be productive, so lets say I have 6 hours of free time, I’ll fuck around for 3 and be productive for the other 3, It’s a simple concept, I followed through it, took me one day to go from 0 hours of productivity in the past couple of years to 2 hours, only one motherfucking day, then I started averaging at 3-4 hours of productivity almost everyday, and 6-7 hours on weekends, and Honestly saying Now I don’t even like wasting time, I’ve become naturally more productive after being disciplined, “Action creates motivation” i thought that was a bullshit statement until I tried it, now I feel limitless, that I can achieve a lot, and I can never go back to that version of myself who used to waste time all day, I’ve wasted time my whole life. Being disciplined is easy, Very easy. You just need to shutup, make a timetable, follow through and let the self-trust build.
r/getdisciplined • u/CuriousWanderer1818 • 10h ago
What do I mean by that?
Ask yourself this, why do you procrastinate? It's because the work is hard
So rather than just making the work feel better, make procrastinating feels hard
Let's say this:
You need to do a presentation for a report or work. It's long and it's hard so you end up doom scrolling
Try watching something that you want to but is hard to watch. Like Re:Zero(it's an example, you need to pick something that you want to watch but is hard to), it's something you want to see but struggle to watch
You feel it's exhausting, sometimes even pausing to take a breather. Use that as a way to do work. Make whatever you're doing when procrastinating hard so the work feels more appealing
The whole point is weaponizing the escape from what you are watching to make work more appealing. Now I won't say it's guaranteed to work but it's worth a shot
This isn't really a theory, I have done this and it works for me. I remembered needing to make a report on the Filipino subject about Ibong Adarna, it was long and I procrastinated. When I watched Re:Zero I was struggling to watch it so I took a breather by doing my report. I kept doing it and last thing I know I was finished with the report
r/getdisciplined • u/Bananamoe315 • 14h ago
I’ve spent the past four months building a small accountability app, and working on it has made me question what actually makes accountability useful. I’m disclosing that upfront because it’s part of why I’m asking. I’m not sharing a link or asking anyone to sign up.
The idea involves small groups where each person commits to one daily goal. My friends tested it and reacted positively, but they didn’t seem particularly interested in continuing. That feedback left me unsure whether the approach solves a meaningful problem for people who struggle with consistency.
What I’m trying to understand is the difference between accountability that helps you return after a difficult day and accountability that makes you feel guilty enough to disappear.
If you’ve tried an accountability partner or group, what happened after the first week or two? Did you keep checking in once the initial excitement faded? When someone missed a goal, how did the other people respond?
I’m particularly interested in what made you stay or leave. Was it having a specific goal, knowing the other members personally, getting encouragement, or simply knowing someone would notice?
I’d appreciate experiences where it didn’t work, too. What would you change if you tried it again?
r/getdisciplined • u/Federal_Director8016 • 16h ago
I am tired of introspecting myself to be able to find the root cause where I am currently at life today. I am always assuming the wrost case scenario towards each and every aspect of my life and unintentionally/intentionally actions follow the course of it and thus I dig my own grave be it carrer , relationships,friendships each and everything.I have analysed myself I am unable to effectively manage my time , emotions and thoughts work gets pending and every other aspect it gets affected.Sometimes I think did I made a wrong carrer choice or so .I do have fragile mindset where I doubt my own abilities any negative opinion about myself will stay for long I accept it as truth rather than letting it go.
I have seen sevral Mental health professionals Therapist,Psychatrist etc.I do know that no advice /antidode is available which will change everything within 1 night in my life.I have tried several times to change myself it stickens upto 2-3 days and then again I fall on face/lose hope.I was in this phase earlier also then I joined gym I used to go regularly started taking care of my ownself , diet everthing .Then gym was the only thing I was looking for tomorrow it gave me purpose to live , I felt I can finally change my life things did started falling in place as I began to put efforts into it .But one guy made a comment that you still look skinny despite my gradual progress over couple of months I began to doubt my diet / workout plan then stopped going to gym and everything went off the track.Similar thing happened in my carrer aspect.
Now I live like recluse I can go days without interacting anyone in life , I have pushed out everyone out of my life.I don't even take care of myself anymore just the screens and me.The willingness to Study,Enjoy life in genral lost every bit of it.I really want to change my mindset and outlook for life where I don't worry about my job,learning constantly each day,finances,carrer etc and live in the present.I have written whole Timestamp history of my life in the years to introspect myself.I begging to get out of this hellhole please help me.
r/getdisciplined • u/Plus_Ad3379 • 16h ago
I'd read enough by that point to fill a decent sized bookshelf. habits, discipline, productivity, neuroscience, behavioral psychology, the whole genre. I could explain why people procrastinate with more precision than most people who don't procrastinate. I understood the dopamine system, the default mode network, the gap between intention and action and why it exists. genuinely useful information, accurately understood.
and I was still the same person making the same choices I'd been making before I read any of it.
that specific realization took longer to arrive than it should have. because reading felt like progress, it has the texture of forward motion, you finish a chapter and something has changed even if only inside your head, and for a long time I confused that feeling with actually changing. they feel similar enough that you can spend years in the first one thinking you're doing the second.
what I eventually figured out is that knowing and doing aren't on the same spectrum. they're not even the same type of thing. knowing lives in the part of your brain that processes information, makes connections, builds models of how things work. doing lives somewhere else entirely, in the circuits that actually initiate movement, that respond to repetition and discomfort and showing up when you'd rather not. you can develop the first one indefinitely and the second one won't move an inch because it wasn't listening to any of it.
school spends twelve years building the knowing side. read this, understand this, demonstrate that you understood it. nobody builds the doing side because you can't teach it in a classroom. it only develops one way, by doing hard things repeatedly until the reflex to act despite resistance gets strong enough to run on its own.
the books weren't useless. but I was pouring everything into a tank that wasn't connected to the engine.
what actually moved something was stopping the reading for a while and doing one uncomfortable thing every day with no information attached to it. not to learn anything, not to improve anything measurable, just to give the doing side some reps while the knowing side took a break from being the only thing that ever got any work.
r/getdisciplined • u/Grouchy-Movie2775 • 1d ago
I’ve been unemployed for the past 3 months, and I’m currently trying to improve my language skills and work on my professional development.
I have so many things I need to do, like taking trainings to improve my professional skills, preparing for job interviews, and etc . But somehow, my days just go by without me accomplishing anything...
Every time I sit down at my desk to study, I suddenly feel sleepy and start yawning. Or I end up scrolling through my phone.
Even when I put my phone away, my mind starts wandering, and I get lost in my own thoughts. No matter how hard I try, I just can’t seem to focus on what I actually want to do :(
I want to be productive and improve myself.
It’s becoming mentally exhausting, and I don’t know how to break out of it.
**Has anyone else experienced something similar? Do u have any tips to overcome it?**
r/getdisciplined • u/KonpekiCompass • 18h ago
I've noticed something oddly specific about my productivity. Starting a task isn't actually my biggest problem anymore. It's getting back to it after something interrupts me.
Last Saturday I finally sat down to sort out some paperwork I'd been avoiding. Got everything spread out, figured out which documents were missing, and was making decent progress.
Then my sister called. We talked for maybe 12 minutes.
After hanging up, I made some coffee, noticed the dishwasher needed emptying, replied to a message and somehow ended up watching videos. By the time I remembered the paperwork, almost two hours had passed.
The stupid thing is I wasn't even avoiding the paperwork originally. I was already doing it! And the phone call wasn't particularly stressful or distracting.
This happens with studying, cleaning, exercise, pretty much anything that takes more than one sitting. Once the momentum breaks, returning to the task feels almost like starting something completely new.
I've tried timers and leaving everything set up exactly where I stopped. Both help a little, but neither really solves it.
I also can't realistically eliminate every interruption. People call, deliveries arrive, things need attention.
Does anyone have an actual method for getting back into a task after an unplanned interruption? I'm especially interested in what you do in those first couple of minutes after coming back, before your brain starts negotiating what else you could be doing.
r/getdisciplined • u/PositiveSimba • 23h ago
I could spend twenty minutes reading about meditation. Sitting quietly for two was apparently beneath me.
My plan was always twenty minutes before work. First few mornings, fine. Then I’d wake up late, have a call to prepare for, and decide I’d do it properly tomorrow.
By Friday I wasn’t meditating anymore. I was researching a better morning routine.
My boyfriend once asked why I needed another app to sit on a chair. Fair question. Annoying delivery.
Eventually I made the minimum two minutes, after making coffee. Phone stayed in the kitchen.
And I hated counting it.
I’d finish and immediately think, “That barely counts. You should do ten.” Which sounds ambitious until you remember my alternative was usually doing nothing for another week.
So I left it at two. Some mornings I wanted to keep sitting. Other mornings I spent the entire time composing an email in my head and got up when the timer went off.
The useful moment came on a rushed morning. I did the two minutes, left for work, and didn’t spend the rest of the day negotiating when I’d make up the missing eighteen.
There weren’t eighteen missing. I’d done what I said I would.
These days it’s usually eight or ten minutes. Sometimes still two. I use Rootmates with two close friends now, and I’ve been quite clear that the short version counts. I don’t need an audience making me ambitious again.
I’m not sure two minutes does much for me on its own. But it got me sitting down regularly enough to find out whether I actually liked meditation. Turns out I do, once I stop grading myself while doing it.
Anyone else have a version of a habit they’ll happily skip because the smaller version feels embarrassing?
r/getdisciplined • u/Imaginary_Salary8374 • 23h ago
I’m 24, graduated and JOBLESS, and trying to get my career on track. I’m working on DSA , AI, LLD, projects, and interview preparation.
The frustrating part? I know almost everything there is to know about productivity, but I can’t seem to translate that knowledge into consistent action.
I know about dopamine, morning sunlight, routines, reducing distractions, implementation intentions, and breaking tasks into smaller chunks. I’ve read about procrastination and why we avoid difficult tasks.
Yet I still struggle.
Here’s what makes this particularly confusing:
Before exams, I can study 10–12 hours a day for several consecutive days. Give me a deadline, a finite syllabus, and consequences, and suddenly I can work incredibly hard.
At the gym, I’m genuinely motivated. I’m fascinated by fitness, consume gym content voluntarily, enjoy the process, and have a clear vision of the physique I want.
With career preparation, everything feels like a push. I have to force myself to start. The reward feels distant, progress is difficult to appreciate, and the path seems endless.
I also have a recurring pattern: I become extremely productive, try to utilise every hour, and set very high standards for myself. Then a social event or a few disrupted days turn into weeks or even months of avoiding work.
Eventually, I restart and repeat the cycle.
Recently, I’ve been exploring the concept of autonomous motivation from Self-Determination Theory: doing something because you personally value it, rather than primarily because of guilt, fear, or external pressure.
I suspect I want the outcome of career success, but I haven’t developed the same genuine desire for the daily process that I have with fitness.
That leads me to some questions:
How do you cultivate genuine, autonomous motivation for something that doesn’t naturally excite you?
How do you develop an emotional connection to long-term goals when the rewards are uncertain and far away?
Have any of you successfully transitioned from deadline-driven bursts of productivity to sustainable, self-directed work?
What actually helped you become someone who wants to do the work, rather than someone who knows they should do it?
I’m not looking for another list of generic productivity hacks. I’ve tried plenty of those.
I want to understand what fundamentally changes the relationship between a person and their work.
What made the process itself rewarding enough that you could keep going even when the initial motivation disappeared?
Personal experiences, neuroscience research, books, and practical experiments are all welcome.
r/getdisciplined • u/AtefehSalahshoor • 15h ago
When I came to Germany, I was doing everything at once. Studying for my master's, working, learning German, dealing with visas and paperwork, trying to build a career in a country where I didn't know how anything worked. I had big goals and I was not short on motivation.
My problem was much simpler and much more frustrating. I'd wake up in the morning and have no idea what to do today to get closer to any of it. I had the big plan in my head. I had lists. I watched productivity videos. But between "I want to [get a good job here / speak fluent German / build something of my own]" and "it's 7 AM, what do I do in the next hour?", there was a gap I couldn't close. So I'd do whatever felt urgent, and the important things kept getting pushed to "next week".
The worst part was that being busy all day made me feel productive. Then I'd look back after a few months and realize I hadn't moved closer to the things I actually came here for.
At some point I stopped looking for the perfect app and started building the tool I wished I had. That became Targela. You tell it your goal and how much time you actually have each week, and it breaks the goal down into concrete next steps that fit your real schedule, so you wake up knowing what today's step is. When life gets in the way, it re-plans instead of making you start over.
If you've ever had big plans and still not known what to do next morning, I'd love to hear how you handled it. And if you want to try it, I'm happy to hear what doesn't work for you.
r/getdisciplined • u/lil_pixie_nya • 1d ago
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I’ve been preparing for this run for a long time. Right now, for me, it’s all or nothing. I’ll be religiously dedicated to every single day. Aside from family and essential duties, I’m cutting out all distractions. I’m going 200% in, and you’ll basically be my main point of contact during this sprint.
Ideally, once the 160 days are over, it would be amazing to meet up (or jump on a celebrate-call) and talk about how wild the journey was.
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r/getdisciplined • u/Practical-Sound328 • 19h ago
Day 1 is done. Not exactly how I had imagined it, but I’m glad I managed to get things moving.
Today was extremely hectic at work. From 6 AM to 9 PM, I barely got any time for myself. By the time I could finally sit down and focus on my own goals, I was already exhausted.
Honestly, this is exactly the kind of situation where I usually end up postponing things. Work gets hectic, energy runs out, and personal goals get pushed to the next day. Eventually, one day becomes a week, and the whole plan falls apart.
But this time, I’d made a commitment to myself to start on 15 October, and I didn’t want to end the first day without making any progress. So I managed to squeeze out some time in between everything and get the planning done.
Today’s Progress
1. Course A: Completed the preparation roadmap. I now have a clearer idea of how to approach the syllabus and organise the preparation.
2. Exam A: Completed the study plan for the first reading. The objective is to cover the entire syllabus with proper understanding rather than rushing through it at the last moment.
3. Python: Prepared the learning roadmap till 31 December. Now the focus will be on following it consistently, understanding the concepts and actually writing code instead of just consuming tutorials.
4. Fitness: Managed to run 5 km at an easy pace and completed an upper-body workout. Considering how hectic the day was, I’m happy I got this done.
I didn’t manage to start the actual academic preparation today, but at least the roadmaps are ready. The next step is to stop planning and start executing.
Rules of Engagement — Day 1
I had also committed to the following:
NO SUGAR
NO JUNK FOOD
NO ARTIFICIAL DOPAMINE
NO UNNECESSARY PROCRASTINATION
I didn’t manage to stick to all the rules today. That’s something I need to be honest about rather than conveniently ignoring it in the end-of-day report.
The point of this challenge is to track what actually happens, not to create a perfect-looking progress report. If I’m serious about changing my habits, I need to acknowledge where I fall short and work on correcting it.
Day 1 — Final Assessment
I’m completely exhausted. It’s been a long day, and I don’t have much energy left.
Still, I’m glad I didn’t let the entire day go to waste. I completed all four roadmaps and got my workout done. That’s a reasonable start, even though there’s plenty of room for improvement.
One thing is clear: my schedule will not always go according to plan. Work will be hectic, unexpected tasks will come up, and some days I’ll have very little time or energy left. I need to learn how to keep moving forward even under those circumstances, without burning myself out.
Tomorrow, the focus shifts from planning to execution. Follow the schedule, make progress on the actual syllabus, practise Python and stay disciplined with food and habits.
No need to compensate for today by making tomorrow unnecessarily difficult. Just get the basics right and keep going.
Day 1: Completed.
Day 2 — 16 Oct 26.
Let’s keep the momentum going. One day at a time.
r/getdisciplined • u/supercaterpillar315 • 22h ago
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