r/GayYoungOldDating • • Jun 25 '23

Age limits for posting here: minimum 18yo for “younger” men; minimum 27yo for “older” men.

152 Upvotes

Whether you’re “looking for younger” or “looking for older”, there are minimum ages that apply.

Check out our rules: https://www.reddit.com/r/GayYoungOldDating/about/rules/

Younger men, looking for older

This subreddit is for consenting adults to find partners. Out of caution, and because Reddit is based in a jurisdiction where the age of consent is 18, that means everyone must be 18 years old to post here or to reply to posts.

If you are under 18, you will be banned on sight.

Sorry. We need to protect this subreddit from potential accusations of paedophilia and sexual content involving minors.

Older men, looking for younger

This subreddit is about men looking for men where there is a significant age gap. This, combined with the fact that the youngest men we’ll allow here are 18, means that you must be a certain number of years older than 18 in order to be considered an older man looking for a younger man.

We have fixed that minimum age at 27. You must be 27 years old to post here looking for younger men.

If you’re younger than that, then you’re not looking for an age-gap partner. Try these general “looking for” subreddits instead.


r/GayYoungOldDating • • 2h ago

Online chatting 19m twink looking for older men

6 Upvotes

Hey! i‘m here looking for good chats and a online bf. I live alone in a big city and need someone (i have a thing for older guys obv.) I like reading, painting and going out. Just hmu for more!


r/GayYoungOldDating • • 1h ago

Online chatting 19m looking for older dominant man to keep me company!

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hiii 19wm slim 5’7 cute butt looking for an older pervy daddy to make my shower a bit more interesting!!!!!! hmu if interesteddd


r/GayYoungOldDating • • 1h ago

USA.NJ 23 college twink looking for older DL fwb, im looking to gain some experience and explore!

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stats: 23 latino bottom twink 5'9 155lbs slim/toned

DL ONLY

looking to find someone special to talk to and build a friendship. lets see where it goes from there. im very open so just ask!


r/GayYoungOldDating • • 3h ago

Online chatting M19 looking for older 40+

4 Upvotes

My stats
Latino
5,7
130lb
Slim
Bubblebutt

Looking for a man who wants to use me preferable be kinky also be a top


r/GayYoungOldDating • • 1h ago

Canada.ON 38 Masc Toronto Canada Seeking longterm Boyfriend. Pics are a must. Looking for younger

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Hey seeking someone for longterm


r/GayYoungOldDating • • 6h ago

Online chatting M29 Top looking for older

6 Upvotes

Hello, I'm a soft dom top, average masc guy (tall and lean), 29 years old from Norway. I'm highly educated, and have a natural but relaxed dominant personality. A few of my interests are within the nerdy fields of reading, games, fantasy, music and so on.

I'm looking for an older submissive/bottom guy who wants to create a strong and deep dynamic based on open communication, trust, common interests and shared desires for this type of lifestyle. Ideally this would be a type of dad-son dynamic and relationship mixed with dom/sub.

As for preferences, I like all types of guys and ages, although I want someone who is mentally mature enough to understand what this potential dynamic is about, and is motivated to give it a try. While I don't mind chatting online at first to get to know each other and establish baselines, I do want something that can evolve into a real life situation at some point in the future. Therefore you would have to be located within Europe, a similar timezone, or be willing to visit/relocate at some point.

While not an extensive list, these are some of my main kinks that I'm actively looking for in this type of dynamic for those who are interested. There are very likely more that I can't think of at the top of my head right now.

Kinks: Dom/sub, age difference, dad-son, slave play, pup play, roleplay, multiple slaves, bdsm, feet, hypno, toys.

As for my limits, these are hard limits that are not up for negotiation

Limits: scat, blood, extreme violence, feminization.

Low effort messages will be ignored, as I want to get to know who I'm talking to. If this interests you, and you have read this far, feel free to send me a DM.


r/GayYoungOldDating • • 4h ago

Online chatting 21 | looking for older (21-40)

3 Upvotes

I am looking for a sexy older guy who I can chat (and possibly do more) with. I’m a really passionate guy. I would love to write a really long paragraph but people don’t read it anyway. I’m skinny with nice ass and big cock if that matters. Don’t text me by just saying “hi” ler me know you, thanks.


r/GayYoungOldDating • • 1h ago

Online chatting 24M here looking for older men

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I am straight but recently can't stop thinking about older men making me do things I didn't imagine once dm me


r/GayYoungOldDating • • 2h ago

USA.TN 33m looking for younger bf

2 Upvotes

I’m looking for something serious with a younger guy. Still haven’t really found anyone. I’m kind of a nerd. I work a lot but love my job, I’m an internist/hospitalist and my typical schedule is 7on/7off (but sometimes pick up shifts in my off weeks) and travel a lot when I’m not working. I have a goofy dog and a cat that are my whole life right now (they get put up in a super expensive pet luxury hotel when I’m out of town lol). I pretty much always have my nose in a book - really enjoy sci-fi and fantasy. Play a little Xbox. Starting cooking classes so that I can become an amateur chef. Live in Nashville currently.

I’m looking for a cute younger guy/twink to develop something serious with. I want to be the older, loving, patient bf that takes care of you and makes you feel safe and loved and protected. I also have a high sex drive and want a guy who’s not afraid to explore and experiment. Obviously if we started something serious we’d have to be okay with long distance, but I someday hope to meet someone to move and find a new job for. If you vibe with anything I just wrote, please send a dm. 😊


r/GayYoungOldDating • • 2h ago

UK.England 24 yo looking for older daddies 50+

2 Upvotes

Would be fun to chat with or meet some daddies who like to be in control around bedfordshire : )


r/GayYoungOldDating • • 2h ago

Online chatting 20M4M • Hairy Latino bottom with a bubble butt looking for older top daddy

2 Upvotes

As the title says, I’m looking for an older top daddy to sext with & possibly cam [I only have X for video cam, by the way].

Looking for someone who is kinky, but also loving. DM me with your age & stats so we can start something fun!

My stats:
• 5’5”
• 140 lbs
• Hairy
• Bubble butt


r/GayYoungOldDating • • 4h ago

USA.VA 34 Asian Daddy looking for younger

2 Upvotes

Hmu if you like Asian daddies with dadbods..


r/GayYoungOldDating • • 4h ago

Canada.QC 18m BBC Top looking for older

2 Upvotes

if you are older and like getting dominated dm me i have discord too


r/GayYoungOldDating • • 8h ago

Online chatting 34 older looking for younger for serious relationship

3 Upvotes

I am looking for someone to date, get to know, and looking to be with someone. I would like someone to watch Netflix with, travel with, live our lives together. I love cuddling. Text me if u want to date or get to know each other.


r/GayYoungOldDating • • 40m ago

Online chatting 34 looking for younger for love

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Hey, um… yeah 😅 This is extremely awkward for me, but I’m looking for someone I can genuinely build a life with.

I’m 34, almost 35, slightly chubby, and much more connection-oriented than appearance-oriented. I tend to get attached through spending time together, like gaming and hanging out in calls. I’m quite quiet but I warm up fast and do well with others who enjoy talking.

My main hobbies are gaming, reading, and watching anime. Right now I’m really looking forward to WoW Forever, and it would be really cool to have someone to play with, although you absolutely don’t have to be into the same games I am. I also enjoy watching any games. In terms of reading, I’ve been into horror themed graphic novels.

What I’m looking for is something serious and long-term. I’m not worried about distance. I’m not interested in one-time or two-day conversations, or anything casual. I want the kind of relationship where we actually get to know each other, become close, and eventually figure out how to build a real life together. If that sounds like what you’re looking for too, tell me a little about yourself when you message.


r/GayYoungOldDating • • 4h ago

Poland 30 looking for older

2 Upvotes

looking for guys to talk to and hopefully build a genuine friendship with. ❤️

I’m 30, gay, and from Poland. I’d really love to find someone I can chat with every day, share random thoughts with, talk about life, laugh together, and get to know better. Unfortunately, most of my previous conversations faded away pretty quickly, and I’m hoping to find someone who actually wants to stick around this time.

I’m open to meeting people from anywhere in the world, but it would be especially nice if you were from Poland too! 🇵🇱 I’d also love someone who’s comfortable with NSFW conversations, since I’m definitely into that side of chatting. 😉

Feel free to DM me or add me directly on Snapchat: wojtek_b9262 👻


r/GayYoungOldDating • • 4h ago

USA.NY 22 looking for older men over 50

2 Upvotes

Thicc bottom here looking to chat and help some daddy’s have some fun ;)


r/GayYoungOldDating • • 58m ago

Online chatting 37 tiny dicked beta bottom looking for older men 40-55 for horny chats ;)

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looking for long term chats with a man that knows how to keep a conversation going. wanna build a nice chemistry and power balance between us. please read my «about me» in profile before messaging me☺️


r/GayYoungOldDating • • 4h ago

USA.NC 38 daddy looking for younger twink boy

2 Upvotes

Older daddy looking for a younger twink boy, 18-27 who’s looking for a dominant older man to use and own them longterm. Open to just online or meet in person with IRL relationship with the right boy.

About me:
38, USA
Daddy build, pics are in my profile
Love to travel
Have a dog, work in tech
Dom and very kinky

Bonus points if you’re a submissive twink/twunk boy


r/GayYoungOldDating • • 1h ago

Canada.ON 38 soft dom daddy looking for younger

• Upvotes

Always looking to explore the daddy thing more in person, especially the soft dom side of things. Love making a cute younger twink or college boy's brain melt. Love a nice, long, lazy, cuddle and makeout session, naked hangouts, pillow talk, beach dates during the summer. I'd much prefer something ongoing over one-offs, quality over quantity, I'm not looking to rush into anything. Daddy issues welcome if you're willing to talk them out maturely--I'm not looking to traumatize any cute young guys. I’ve got some pics on my profile and prefer if you open with them if your profile’s blank. Tell me a little bit about yourself and what you're after and let's take it from there. Looking forward to hearing from you, boys.


r/GayYoungOldDating • • 1h ago

Online chatting 28 twink looking for older. Love older, muscles, hairy guys. Send me a dm pls

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I have pics on my profile if u want


r/GayYoungOldDating • • 1h ago

Online chatting 34 older looking for younger for serious relationship

• Upvotes

I am looking for someone to date, get to know, and looking to be with someone. I would like someone to watch Netflix with, travel with, live our lives together. I love cuddling. Text me if u want to date or get to know each other.


r/GayYoungOldDating • • 5h ago

UK.England M21 UK virgin chub looking for older daddy to play with regularly (read full)

2 Upvotes

Im a bit chubby with a fat ass and small uncut cock

Im bi and never done anything yet

Looking for an older man (35+) to have fun with, only oral (not looking for anal) hopefully on a regular basis

West Midlands only


r/GayYoungOldDating • • 2h ago

France I (29) looking for older

1 Upvotes

I am 29 years old, a little bit feminine. I like to wear women's clothes. I like to serve. I am very submissive. I am looking for gentlemen to connect and love.