Mom is forcing me to go to Sunday school as an atheist, but I’m fine with it because I have a crush

My mother without my permission signed me up for classes. At first, I hated it. I’m a closeted Atheist and I’m already forced to go to church. When I went into class I sat in silence and drifted off, until I saw him. A wave of euphoria hit me and I was hooked. I barely see him at school so an extra hour of looking was amazing. Now that I noticed him, I began seeing him in the halls. It’s like a little treat. I genuinely was disappointed when next weeks class was canceled, meaning I couldn’t see him again. I wish I got to know him better but I don’t want him to know I have a crush on him. I’m kinda stressed yet excited about this situation.

I luv pho like a lotta.. and I always go to this one pho restaurant and I always see the same waiter

he’s super cute but prolly wayyy older than me

#no chance and he’s probably 20

Ik this sounds stupid but I see him round school all the time i think he is the year above and Ive not even had a fucking convo with him but his hair is so cute and he just seems so cool he gives off heavy bisexual not to assume but I’m assuming but I’m so socially awkward let alone with someone i really like I just don’t know how to approach him without seeming like a creep lmao

so last photo is a VERY old one and like the two others are just like recent photos anyways what should I do with my hair? I want to cut it and like I ALSO DO DIY hair cuts on myself

Salut tout le monde !

Après avoir pris quelques mois pour le digérer, j'ai décidé de partager mon histoire de coming-out plutôt inhabituelle.

C'était la dernière semaine de l'école, et un événement Pride se tenait dans ma ville. Comme je ne sors presque jamais de chez moi, je me suis dit que je devais faire mon coming-out avant d'y aller — sinon, ma présence aurait vraiment suscité des questions (de plus, des événements comme ça sont plutôt rares ici et attirent beaucoup de monde).

C'était un mercredi, et pendant une activité scolaire avec des amis, j'ai pensé : "Je dois absolument faire ça avant de rentrer chez moi."

Alors, j'ai rédigé un message et l'ai envoyé à Gemini, en demandant :

"C'est un bon message à envoyer à ma 'maman' ?"

Eh bien, il s'avère que Gemini avait accès à ma liste de contacts... et ça a réellement envoyé le message ! 😂

Je suis presque sûr d'être le seul être humain sur Terre à avoir été outé par une IA.

Au final, ça ne s'est pas trop mal passé — ma mère "l'a bien pris", mais c'est quand même un sujet très tabou entre nous.

(Normally she’s supposed to ask you first to check that the message is correct, but I didn’t even know she could send it—I must have pressed something by accident or I don’t know)

I turned 20 about a month and a half ago, I've just been lurking lol but it's probably time for me to take my leave

I joined when I was 18 and met some cool people on here, I also met the love of my life who I now live with, and don't get me wrong life ain't perfect but it's pretty damn good

If anyone else has any experiences u wanna share go ahead.. how y'all doing?

Stay safe you guys, and good luck! Go join r/gayteenadults

P.S. esteban if you're reading this I hope u understand all the mean shit you said to me didn't do anything and I became successful with someone else ;) hugs

A NSFW topic I know. Whenever I use a dildo, it kinda hurts. I use plenty of lube and it has a flared base. It’s also made of silicone too. But it still hurts when I use it. Is there something I’m doing wrong? Help would be appreciated

Clearly they want me. It's obvious. So obvious...

Hi, I’ve got a question – well, actually, I’m looking for some advice. How do you manage not to suffer so much when you have straight crushes? To be honest, I’d never had a crush until this year, which surprised me; I’d always thought I was aromantic, but it turns out I’m homoromantic and asexual, and it really is a whole new world for me. I don’t have any gay or bi friends to talk to about this, I’ve got girls friends, but it feels weird to talk about this with them.

He has a girlfriend and fine okay I’m not going to go any further with him because there’s no way. Anyways I can’t change how I feel about him. I had a dream about him the other night and what’s even CRAZIER is that it was that he said he was in love with me now. And then today my grandma saw him irl and called him handsome. So like idk where this is taking me but I’m living in another world with this and I’m all for it. It feels so good to be in love even when it’s not going anywhere. K bye.

😏😝

I know I’m attracted to girls, but I just don’t know about boys… There’s definitely something of an attraction there, but there’s also still a part of me that detests that which is buried deep. I think it’s also only like a super specific kind of guy that I’d be interested in, but it almost seems like my “type” is kind of also just what I wish I was, if that makes sense? Like, I like femboys, they’re cute, but I sort of wish that could be me? I don’t know, I guess I deny myself being that mostly because of how I’ve been raised, in the Canadian equivalent of the Bible Belt, by very homophobic parents who I still live with.

I really wish I could just get a fresh start, try and live as who I really am, but I don’t have the means to do so, so that’s kind of just a pipe dream. Even if I get a fresh start though, I’m not sure that I could even accept myself for who I really am. I also just don’t really have the body for it, I’m really tall, and I love working out and getting stronger, so I’m pretty muscular. I love my body as it is, but it feels kind of weird for that to be my body. I don’t know, maybe it’s not quite right to say I love my body, I more so admire it, if that makes sense.

It all feels so alienating, like I’m an abomination. How could I expect anyone to love me if I can’t even fully accept myself, hell, when I don’t even know who or what I am? It also doesn’t help that I’ve always struggled to make friends, and honestly, I wouldn’t say I have anyone I can consider my friend right now. I really just don’t have anyone to talk to, especially not about this stuff.

Thank you if you read this, just had to get some stuff off my chest.

So i was talking to this guy online and we planned on dating, but first we agreed to meet one another, he just said hed bring his sister and her fiance just to stay with us for around 30 mins to see how i was, protecting him which i respect. So we planned on meeting at 11 and i was there on time but they said they'd be about 30 mins late, that was totally fine with me, i get it. Then they turned up 2 hours late, I still let it go because I dont want to argue. When I finally met them tho, they all barely talked to me, and instead of staying for abt 30 mins, his sister and her fiance were basically just shopping, again barely even acknowledging me, i felt so awkward and uninvolved. Then they eventually had to leave for something, but they just said bye and left.

Later his sister messaged the group chat and asked "did you both have a good time?" The guy whom i was meant to be out with said "yeah" and I mentioned how invisible I felt, tho nobody commented. Later the guy said that he didn't think things would work out between us and we're too different so he doesn't want to go on, and i agreed tbh so I just asked if we could be friends, then I was blocked abruptly. I was shocked and messaged his sister and asked he to ask him why he'd done it, after about 36 hours she finally asked him and he added me to a different group chat.

He told me he did it because he didn't want to lead me on and wanted me to get on with my own life, I just said that I was fine with him blocking me as long as he told me first. He then proceeded to basically shout at me for nothing, call me things and never speak to him or his family ever again, so I left. His sister then messaged me asking if I was okay and I said that im glad I dont have to deal with that anymore tbh. She then told he wanted me back on the group chat and added me back, where he shouted at me again for messaging his sister (she messaged first) and he just shouted at me some more and called me names etc. I just left after that, then I received voice notes from his sister and I heard her fiancé's voice and he was saying horrible things to me which I wont repeat here. In the end I just blocked them all.

Sooo am I the ass hole?

My birthday was on Friday, I am officially old nlw

they’re the gay mans drug of choice supposedly…
but what does everybody think of poppers?
my two cents are that i like them to an extent, but when im asked to share them amongst strangers that kinda pisses me off.

thoughts?

I live in France and i m stds and herpies négatif

Sup, I’m the guy who posted that one pic of the outfit I wore at the tattoo convention, you people seemed to have really liked it and I was wondering if maybe you would be interested in seeing some more of my outfits…? 👉👈

That was probably the best one I had, but I think it’d be fun to share some others too

What are your guys like first crushes on guys, irl or fictional. I can’t actually remember much of them, probably because I pushed the idea of being gay so far down that I didn’t realize it. But I definitely had a crush on my then best friend looking back, I mean people always joked about us dating because we were so close, and I know that if it happened to me nowadays Id be falling for him head over heels. This happend to me when I was like 8-12 years old. And then my first fictional/celebrity crush might be Orlando Bloom, and then specifically as Legolas and that one guy from pirates (will something) because looking back he’s hot and my favorite people were never men in movies, him as an exception, and this started when I was like 9/10 and I think it really solidified when I accidentally stumbled upon his n*des like when I was 11 which also kinda solidified me not being so straight (which I didn’t accept or fully realize till I was 14/15)
But what are your first crushes???

i live in a conservative christian area, so i can't find guys to date around here, how do you find guys to date online?

I want to but I genuinely can’t get over the awkwardness of actually like saying something to my parents, or even like sending them a text message 😭. Sigh

okay okay so like I need to be somebody's puppy. like it isn't even funny PLEASE call me a good boy and pet my hair and let me chew on you IDC I'll do anything I'll be so good bro

......woof

If you don't know who I am, I used to post all the time on here, with posts usually about boywife adventures and signing off with aspiring boywife. Anyway ive been in the middle of the wilderness for like a bajillion years now without my phone and stuff, but I've been doing great! I'll be back in December; wanted to let you gays know I'm okay and gayer than ever lol (also lost 30 pounds)! Stay safe, stay gay, love y'all

- aspiring boywife

i have been so bored everyday and not doing anything 😭 i have like no video games to play and all i do is assignments lol