47M, married, dad, hoping to find a little romance and a genuine connection.

I have a good life, a career I enjoy, hobbies, and a family I love. I take care of myself, stay active, and make time for the things that matter. But I miss feeling close to someone in a way that goes beyond the everyday routine.

I'm hoping to meet a woman who wants something warm, romantic, and meaningful. Someone to flirt with, laugh with, confide in, and slowly get to know. Someone who makes me smile when her name pops up on my phone and who I find myself thinking about throughout the day.

I love good conversations, voice notes, and hearing someone's voice. I'd rather build something real than trade a few messages and watch things fade away.

I'm in Southwestern Ontario and would love to meet someone local for coffee, a walk, a movie, or a quiet evening talking about everything and nothing. I miss the little things: holding hands, lingering hugs, cuddling close, and feeling genuinely wanted by someone. For me, the emotional connection makes the romance and physical chemistry that much sweeter.

I enjoy sports, reading, cooking, and spending time outdoors. I'm drawn to a woman who's affectionate, playful, thoughtful, and open to letting a connection grow naturally.

Maybe you miss feeling seen, desired, and understood, too. Maybe life looks good from the outside, but there's a little something missing. I'd love to find someone who understands that feeling.

I'm not looking for a fairytale or instant fireworks. I'd rather start with a conversation, a little flirting, and the excitement of discovering someone new. If we find ourselves smiling at our phones, staying up later than planned, and looking forward to hearing from each other, maybe we're onto something special.

If this sounds like something you've been missing, tell me a little about yourself. I'd love to hear your story.

Maybe we can bring a little warmth, excitement, and romance back into each other's lives.

Hi all!! Im 24 south asian a little bigger build and been living here for quite a while.. I have been told by people around me that I am quite good looking even though Im a bigger guy..

I feel like I have done all the side quests living here except dating or physical intimacy.. I have been trying all the dating apps but none of them work.. So here I am looking for an fwb or something casual at the least not looking for just dating but not against it either if we click.. I am a pretty laid back guy and really friendly i don’t have any types in any ethnicity just someone who is a little patient and easygoing with someone new in this.. If this sounds good to you let’s chat in dms..

Also if anyone can just give me tips on how to find any fwb like situation in the city I would really appreciate it..

A bit about me: 39, engaged, Caucasian, blonde hair, blue eyes, 5’8, uptown Toronto (North York), average build, gym couple times a week. Corporate professional, educated, clean, groomed, well mannered, respectful, drive, etc.

Seeking an attached desi/indian FWB (ideally ongoing). Open minded and easy going, not concerned about age, background, experience. This would be a first for me. What I’m looking for is great communication and discretion, with clear boundaries and expectations.

Chemistry and the physical element is key, but being able to connect and actually talk, laugh, and enjoy each other (discreetly) is just as important.

Not looking to change either of our situations. Just looking to add a bit of fun and spice as a compliment.

If this sounds interesting, send me a message and let’s see where things go 🙃

...if the answer is "yes" I'd definitely like to hear from you.

I'm white, a parent, fun, fit and reasonably smart (but I'm here though, not smart enough to know better, apparently).

If you're cute, active/HWP, educated, well, lucky me?

I like coffee meetups, ideally to break up a workday. I also like women who are emotionally intelligent and skilled in the dark art of banter.

Let's see how this goes?

Fair warning: this might be desperate. It might also be the bravest thing I've typed all year, which says a lot about my year.

Somewhere along the way, my marriage went quiet. Not dramatic, no plates thrown. Just two people who are very good at logistics and very bad at remembering the last time we held hands for no reason.

So I'm sending this into the void. There's a decent chance the bots find me before any real people do. If you're a real person, please beat them to it.

What I'm looking for is simple and also not simple: company. Affection. Holding hands, a good kiss, and the kind of passion that makes you forget to check your phone. Someone to feel wanted with, and to want back.

The only thing I ask is that you get it. That you know what a slow, lonely marriage feels like from the inside, so neither of us has to explain the ache.

About me: 36, considerate, and genuinely fun. Previous reviews say I'm "still attractive after the first date," which I'm choosing to take as a five-star rating.

Discretion is a given on my end and I'll treat yours the same way. Message me and tell me one small thing you miss. I'll go first if you want.

I'm married and seeking a regular FWB partner for friendship, intimacy, and fun. I'm looking to build a deep, exclusive FWB connection – dates, great sex, and a genuine friendship.

Ideally, you have the freedom to meet during the day. I WFH and have a flexible schedule. I'm looking for someone like myself: Emotionally stable and clear on what they want. Please don’t reach out if you’re unsure or prone to flaking – you need to be decisive, discreet and self-assured.

I'm athletic, attractive, and highly sociable. I'm an open book and love to chat, almost as much as I love having one-on-one time with a special woman.

Tested and disease-free. Love giving oral, edging, and lustful, primal energy. Into running, swimming and travels.

If you think we sound like a good match shoot me a message and tell me a bit about yourself, what you are looking for, and put your favorite movie in the title so I know you read this :)

In a city of 1.6 million, it really shouldn't be so hard to find one woman looking for the same things I am, should it?

I'm 43, married but unfulfilled sexually, and looking for a female that is more or less in the same boat, or at least open to a discreet FWB scenario with a married man. At the risk of overselling myself too much, I'm a well-endowed Journalism graduate with a playful sense of humour and passable grammar. Music nerd with esoteric interests (a delicate balance of high-brow and low-brow.) I am available for texting most of the time and can host part of the week.

I have a profound weakness for intelligent, arty girls, but I'm not hung up on any particular age, body type, race, etc. All I ask for is honesty (no ghosting, please!) I adore hearing women describe what turns them on, be it with past partners or current fixations, so you'll never have to worry about any hint of jealousy on my end.

Basically, I'm looking for the great love affair of our lives ... when our schedules allow. 😉

38M, mixed Latin American, athletic build, and a professional. I'm married and in an open marriage, looking to connect with someone interested in an ongoing FWB or affair-buddy arrangement. I'm clean, hygienic, easygoing, and respectful. I'd love to find someone I can have fun with, flirt with, share some laughs, and build genuine chemistry with. Ideally, something casual and ongoing where we enjoy each other's company both in and out of the bedroom, without unnecessary drama or pressure. I'm big on discretion, honesty, and good communication. Attraction matters, but so does being able to talk openly and feel comfortable with each other. Feel free to message me, tell me a little about yourself, and let's see if we click. Maybe we can make a little magic happen

Hello to all the women out there. Looking for the secret lady that lights up my world outside of my world. If you crave listening, attention, care then we have common goals. With this starter package, we can see where it takes us.

More about me: 36 male, brown skin, decent hair on my head, facial hair, eyes that can kill and definitely in the handsome category. Toronto based. Bit of a science nerd and that's what I do professionally. I enjoy travelling, long walks, taking in nature, cooking and painting. Willing to share photos if we click initially or find ourselves at the same wavelength. I'm open to all races and body types. We have a common goal, remember? And that is more important.

Feel free to get in touch.

Remember when someone noticed the little things? When a message from them made you smile, and you felt interesting, wanted, and seen as more than just the person everyone else relies on?

I'm not after a one-off, and I'm not here to complicate your life. I just want the kind of connection where a message from you makes me smile, the banter comes easy, and at some point we both catch ourselves wondering when we'll see each other again.

A bit about me:
I'm 40, tall, attractive and here’s come the kicker……South Asian (yes, brace for the unconscious bias 🙄). I've built a solid career, I stay fit so I can keep eating pizza guilt-free, and I'm told I'm pretty funny. I'm respectful, attentive, and I genuinely enjoy getting to know someone.

About you:
I'm looking for someone mature and respectful, a woman who knows who she is and doesn't need to prove it. Mutual attraction matters to me, and I'd like to feel it from both sides. Confident, but not vain. Playful, with a bit of an adventurous streak. Most of all, I want someone who can hold a real conversation, the kind that moves easily from funny to genuine and makes you forget to check the time.

Pics will be exchanged and OPSEC must be taken seriously.

If you’ve made it this far; please send your first message with your 3 best pizza toppings 😉

Looking for a fwb, emphasis on friends. Local to Durham region of close please (2 hours away is not close.)

I'm attractive, blonde hair, blue eyes, fit body. You should also be hot, prioritize your fitness etc..  

I'm married and have kids but I'm not here to complain about my life and I'm not particularly interested in hearing about how sexually desperate you are in your dead bedroom, instant turn off. 

I'm definitely here for sexual connection, but that comes from having genuine interest in you. I'm looking for someone I enjoy chatting with, conversation flows easily, sense of humour aligns etc.. 

As for my interests I enjoy novels, Netflix and working out.

Please respond with more then "hey have you found anyone yet" I'm only going to respond if you seem like you might be what I'm looking for.. Looking to also exchange pictures right away to establish physical attraction as that is important to me. I don't have a specific age range but I'm not looking for someone significantly older or younger

Hi there, I'm looking to explore and build trust with AP who enjoys her dom, loves her body praised and worshiped, submissive, spanking, breast play, fingering, preferring someone who is in charge. Casual, easy going we can enjoy autumn and winter together. Black girls please welcome. I'm 6'1 tall, fit, easy going with thick bwc and love bigger girls as well, safe rough and gentle play, cuddles. I like to have open and honest conversations about what we both like. If you can't communicate what you need and want, I'm not AP for you.

You: your body type is curvy, maybe pear-shaped, so you carry most of your weight in your hips, thighs, and ass. Have nice tits I can suck on then and your ass is quite big, round. You have soft skin and you generally take good care of yourself. Clean and ddf. If this sounds interesting dm me a bit about yourself. Maybe this sounds too good to be true, you never know if you don't reach out:)

I’ll be totally honest. I’m an open book. After 20 years together, my wife isn’t sure she wants to be together anymore. Her mental health has declined. I’ve done everything I can to support her. But it doesn’t seem to be enough.

So yes. I guess I could say that I am potentially looking for someone who is open to a changing situation. I’m tired of feeling alone. Feeling unsupported. Of giving my everything to this one person who doesn’t show me any affection back. She doesn’t work. Barely cooks. Barely cleans. I’ve provided everything. Fuck, I even USED to work out of town often and I let her fuck other guys since I felt it wasn’t fair she was stuck being alone. When I say I’ve tried everything to make her happy… I’m not kidding.

I miss having adventures. I miss sex. I miss that excitement of going out and having that time together. The hand holding. The comfort. Having that person who is your rock. I thought I had mine… apparently not.

I love with all my heart. I work hard. I have a good career. I’ve worked hard to be in a position where I can live comfortably and only work 40 hours a week. I work out every day. I’m big and strong. I’m compassionate. Emotionally intelligent. I do the little things to help and surprise. My wife has repeatedly assured me… her wanting to separate has nothing to do with me as a husband and father… it’s her (but that doesn’t make it hurt any less)

I am a big teddy bear of a guy. Keep a beard, once it gets too mountain man, I trim it 🙃. I shave my head bald. I am quick to laugh, and have deep and intelligent my eyes. I am that guy that can have a deep conversation with a random stranger and not even think twice about it. I wear my heart on my sleeve, and I have a big heart.

I am happy to stay in a read a book. I am happy to go out to a nice restaurant and have a night on the town. I like fires and hanging with friends. I have a wide variety of interests. I love hockey. I love gaming with friends. I enjoy a good board game.

I lean more of the extraverted side of the spectrum.

I just want to be appreciated and loved.
*notabot

46M from Kitchener, Ontario…I’m apparently old enough to know better, but still young enough to ignore that advice

I’m outdoorsy, active, into DIY, and generally pretty handy. I can fix things around the house, although there’s a strong possibility I’ll make two trips to the hardware store first

I’m looking for a woman who enjoys witty banter, playful flirting, and the kind of connection where you check your phone and smile

Ideally, we can keep each other entertained, share some laughs, flirt shamelessly, and see where the chemistry takes us. Discretion, (since we both have significant others) good conversation, and a healthy sense of humour are definitely appreciated

Bonus points if you can keep up with the flirting. Extra bonus points if you can make me laugh hard enough to forget what I was pretending to be busy doing

If you're looking for a little excitement with a Canadian guy who comes with dad jokes, outdoor stories, and questionable DIY confidence, my inbox is open

It's actually been difficult trying to write this cause I don't want to exaggerate myself and also want to be honest about what I want cause my luck on Reddit hasn't been spectacular and my palate is developing more now.

Married but in dead bedroom, not unloved but haven't been laid in many moons.

Primarily looking to flirt, fantasize, and sext in the beginning.

This always seems to be the part that falls apart, if we connect well I do want to chat more the next day and so forth, small talk, learning about each other, maybe some light banter keeping the convo fun... and I can be needy and talkative when I'm having a good time. I've found many times conversations disappear for days or weeks or simply ghost.

Dadbod and homebody. I honestly could stare at my phone screen for hours and be fine with it, and with short attention span things like tiktok so available I don't think I'm the only one like this.

Working on my mental health taking meds but still struggle with lows and anxiety some days.

I work in healthcare so actual understand anatomy and physiology (hint hint).

I'm in Pacific time zone and as a working parent I will be asleep during my night hours, but my job does allow time to chat during work hours and while I make effort to talk in mornings, evenings, and weekends please understand I have a family and my time with them comes first.

I'm no english major but I can hold a conversation and use my big boy words, plus I can think with both heads at the same time 😉.

I'm into softer kinks. I do find CNC and freeuse to be huge turn ons. I also enjoy voyeurism and exhibitionism, I enjoy the thought of sharing and being seen and watched by others.

I want us both to have fun at the same time.

I don't think I'm a unicorn, more a dull needle in a haystack.

I do like consistent back and forth when able.

I don't have other social medias so am fine keeping chatting to Reddit.

Hey! So just as you, I’m married, living the life, but missing something. Me too, I want to enjoy every aspect of my sexuality, but it’s not just that, there’s a sense of camaraderie missing. Life in general is good, everything is as it’s supposed to, but that rush that you get when you see the message of that person and all you want to do is reply back… I’m missing that. For a while now, it feels like the spark is gone, there’s no excitement and even though everything is as it’s supposed to, i’m not completely whole.

If you are into having a bit of adrenaline every now and then and have something more to think outside of your routine life, if you are looking for someone who notices you and actually wants tonhear about your day DM me! Maybe we are exactly what we needed.

I’m 35, married, no kids. I’m 5’8, slim in decent shape, kind face, brown eyes, black hair. Take care of myself, very clean. Respectful and kinky. Educated, well mannered, but still fun with a tad of black humor.

Can’t wait to hear from you

I have met few redditors online, but never got where i wanted to be or LDR didn’t work for my partner, so always decided to mutually end things. I am looking for a female partner, with whom i can develop a meaningful connection, talk anything and everything, be attracted to physically and emotionally, make her feel wanted and make myself feel wanted, appreciate and get appreciated and much more. Online only if you are outside of North America. Possibility of meeting IRL if you are in Canada or USA.

ABOUT ME

Physical stuff:I am 42, 6’2”, around 210 lbs, athletic build. I am not gym toned, i do not like gym i get my exercise from running and playing couple of sports that i like.

Married and not looking to change my situation

I am based on the east coast (Toronto) and am usually available through out the day and would like someone to talk to while i go through my work. (I might be busy somedays so need someone who understands what’s important for me as i would for you). Would love to build trust and comfort so that we can talk about anything and everything, listen to your rant about your day, discuss the positives and negatives, give the attention you need and take back the attention I deserve. I am basically looking for someone with whom I can be me and you can be you.

The Good Stuff:

I love to talk a lot, and i would expect the same from you.. i really enjoy an intelligent conversation, could be on any topic.

My love language - my biggest love language is quality time and physical touch

Kinky stuff:This is not what we would be discussing in our first conversation, but i thought of putting this here so that you know a bit about my other desires. I like some form of bdsm dynamic, and vanilla romance at times. You could expect me to be rough at times and be clingy at the same time.

With the right partner I would love to explore each other’s kink.

About you:

Physical stuff:You are well-groomed and takes good care of your health and fitness. You are smaller than me. Be 24 or above (Age is not a hard limit as long as you are mature and can have a good conversation)

Bonus: You are married and understand my situation. Respectfully.

The fun stuff:

Emotionally intelligent

looking for long term online only to begin with

loves to text or get on a call and have long conversations.

Clingy

you are ideally between 24 and 44 (No hard limit on age as long as you can have a conversation)

What i look for in you would be to include an adventurous, responsive personality, a good sense of humor, ability to hold conversations, strong intellectual sense, creative, and interest in all variety of kinks.

I do see lot of girls in here are not into video and pictures, i understand that privacy is important and i do not ask for videos or picture, but you might want to okay with getting on voice calls with me. And please do not be a ghost. If you need me time then just communicate and things will be fine.

I am okay with chat or DM on reddit, however, after talking here for some time, i would like to move to a more comfortable platform.

This was long, but if you are who i am looking for you probably at least didn't completely hate reading it, if that’s you, message me, if not, you should probably message me anyway, so i can fix you

Looking for someone married and in dead bedroom situation.

Drugs, disease and drama free, fully discreet and expect the same.

I had found someone local couple months ago but my old account got deleted before we could meet up, trying again to find someone closer to me.

Willing to travel for the right person if vibes match, would love to chat a bit before meeting at a public place and taking things to the bedroom. Not in a rush, willing to wait for right person

DM's open

Summer gasps, surprised to still be here, humid breath on leaves caught changing, abashed to be seen in anything less than their verdant green.

Yes, I'm opening by waxing poetic about the weather. But it is weird and humid today, amiright?

I'm a happy married dad, successful and I think self actualized, secure in my life, comfortable compartmentalizing, deeply, incurably driven to see our that other mind that I can connect with, who is similarly comfortable and confident, who knows that there is something magical when minds and bodies connect in a space that is unabashedly and self-centeredly ours.

I'm fit and you should be too. I'm mentally stable and intentional about my adultery- we both know we want this, as an act of creation that is about us rather than some dissatisfaction with our partners of other parts of life. Team cake eater, not team roundabout exit strategy. Though this will feel like so much more than empty calories.

I want to be casually awestruck by the movements of your mind, and driven to distraction by the remembered movements of your body. In return I'll provide a calm strength, praise for your efforts, an unrelenting sense of wonder for the world and gratitude at the incredible improbability of our connection, even now, after so much living.

There are amazing people out there; finding the right fit is more difficult. Let's be cautious but honest, mysterious but generous, and open enough to feel even if it hurts a bit. It's about finding the person where it feels natural to make time; let's not settle, here if all places.

I think maybe that's enough for you to get a taste. If you'd like to nibble a bit more, please reach out!

Hey there,

Posted here before but haven’t had success in meeting anyone to date.

I’m a tall, handsome male looking to find a play partner and connection. I’m at the point in my life where I’d be open to older or younger and open to most of not all body types - I find all women beautiful.

I’m shy at first but will open up once I feel comfortable - intelligence is important to me as well.

Feel free to say hi if like what you see or if the above intrigues you - good luck everyone :).

More specifics about me:

- 6’0” tall
- relatively fit
- loves music, the outdoors, boardsports
-420 friendly
- loves curves, lingerie, cute toes, and high heels
- would like to find one person to connect with and form a play partner relationship on an ongoing basis when we can both meet up
- missing that spark and excitement in my day
- photos on my profile

37 [M4F] #Meadow Lake, Saskatchewan – A Little Chemistry, A Lot of Discretion!

I'm searching for ONE woman, preferably localish to Meadow Lake, Sask, who's interested in a long-term affair.

Let's start online, get to know each other, and go from there. I'm not interested in changing relationships. I AM interested in finding some of what might we lacking. Maybe we can bring a little joy, excitement, and a few extra smiles into each other's lives and make the best of our current situations.

A little about me!

• Married with one kiddo.

• Bluecollar guy. I love fixing, tweaking, building things, and generally working with my hands.

• I'd consider myself inquisitive, emotionally aware, and open-minded.

• 5'11" and around 250 lbs. Yeahhh, a little chub, but I'm working on it!

You!

• Over 25 and mature, please. No games!

• Localish to Meadow Lake

• Discreet and trustworthy

• Looking for something more than just a physical connection.

Cant wait to share some laughs, build a connection, and see where things take us!

I want to find one amazing friend in the same boat, with great chemistry to compliment each others lives and make it better for the long haul without blowing up each other current family lives.

I'm married 6'2" tall, fit, white, good looking, and good sense of humor.

Hope to find someone down to earth, wants a friend as well as a lover and is hoping to find the complimentary piece for the longer term

I'm truly a great catch for the right person, good life, funny, just missing that something.

Feel free to reach out and ask me anything and share pics.

Ideal first date:

An activity that will have us both laughing. I'm a competitive guy and love good banter. I want you having fun and playfully hitting me!

About myself:

I live a healthy and active lifestyle. I'm conventionally attractive. I'm white with European roots. I have blue eyes and light brown hair. I go to the gym regularly. I don't smoke.

What I'm looking for:

A woman who is physically active and loves the outdoors. Who shares a similar lifestyle as I do. Maybe we can work in at the gym sometime. Any Goodlife Fitness woman here? Ideally looking for a woman who lives locally in the Durham Region between Pickering and Bowmanville. I'd be willing to go as far as Toronto (west) or Cobourg (east). I'd prefer a discreet exclusive relationship with one person.

Let’s be real…. most posts like this sound the same. “I’m good at what I do,” “I’ll make your toes curl,” blah blah blah. But let’s cut the clichés and talk about what really matters.. you, me, and that breathless, mind-numbing pleasure you’ve been craving and most definitely deserve.

Not just here to talk a big game, I back it up taking my time, paying attention, and knowing exactly how to make your body give in completely. You know that moment when your breath hitches, your body arches, and your legs start shaking because you’ve lost all control? Yeah, that’s what I’m here for.

About Me:

30M here. Nerd, sharp, & successful professional. Gym daily, clean-cut, well-dressed, and take care of myself: hygiene, skincare, the whole package (including the package, nice and girthy).

Big on being safe, clean, respectful and DDF (recently tested). You won’t catch me smelling foul like most men, just amazing cologne and amazing vibes. You know that intoxicating scent of a man who takes care of himself? Yeah, that.

I respect boundaries, I listen, and I make sure you feel comfortable and desired. No awkwardness, no pressure… just pure satisfaction.

From deep, intoxicating kisses to the kind of teasing that makes you squirm, I know how to take my time and keep you on the edge. And no, I’m not a one-and-done guy, I’ve got the stamina to match your wildest desires.

I tease, build it up, and deliver. I pull you in and make sure every second of it is unforgettable. I want you to melt under my touch, to feel your pulse race, to be left craving more even when you think you can’t take any more. Whether you need slow and sensual or deep and intense, I know how to deliver exactly what your body needs.

What I’m looking for:

Open to something consistent but also casual. Could be a quick blow off during your lunch break, late-night fun, or just straight-up fucking the stress out of each other, whenever and wherever. Slow and sensual? Rough and nasty? Your call. Just tell me your freak level.

I want a woman who knows what she wants or who’s curious to explore. Someone who wants to be devoured, worshipped, and left completely satisfied. Whether you’re a pillow princess who just wants to be taken care of or someone with a wild side looking for a partner who can keep up, I’m here for it.

I’m discreet as hell, so if your life’s complicated, you have nothing to worry about. We keep it between us.

Open to all backgrounds, shapes, and stories. Whites, Blacks, South Asians, Hispanics are all welcome - I don’t discriminate.

A proper message introducing yourself is highly appreciated. You will be required to verify that you’re a female.