r/BlackLGBT • u/xxGalacticalxx • 1h ago
r/BlackLGBT • u/AutoModerator • Oct 29 '25
Quick Mod Update
Greetings and an early Happy Halloween for those who celebrate. Quick update to the rules:
- AI Ban
- A critical mass supports banning AI content, so going forward, no posting or reposting of AI content will be allowed.
- No Posts Involving Fights/Violence
- From now on, all posts involving physical or verbal altercations will be removed.
We as mods try our best to be receptive to ya'll, but we are few and rely on ya'll to keep this community a safe and positive space for us to gather.
Peace, Love, and Soouulll
r/BlackLGBT • u/TheDivergent1 • May 18 '25
Mod Post Quick Update: No More NSFW Photos
Hey everyone,
Just a quick heads-up as we tighten things up a bit. Starting now, we’re no longer allowing explicit images in the sub. That means no nudes, no porn, and no posts focused on sexual acts or body parts, even if they’re tagged NSFW. Shirtless photos (including gym pics) must be tagged NSFW, even if not sexual in nature, just to keep things clean and consistent.
This isn’t about shaming anyone or killing the vibe. We’re just trying to keep r/BlackLGBT a space that feels safe, accessible, and welcoming for more people, including folks who are here for community, support, and identity-centered conversation. You can still talk about sex, gender, and intimacy — we’re not censoring the real stuff. We’re just asking everyone to keep the visuals respectful.
If you’re ever unsure whether something’s okay to post, feel free to message us and ask. We’d rather have a convo than have to remove a post later.
Thanks for understanding and helping us take care of the space 🖤🏳️🌈
— Your Mod Team
r/BlackLGBT • u/Shivan8760 • 5h ago
Discussion Proud to Be Me — Black, Queer, and Unapologetically Human.
Being Black and LGBTQ+ means being part of a community filled with courage, diversity, and beautiful stories. 🖤🏳️🌈🏳️⚧️ This picture represents my pride, my identity, and my hope for a world where everyone can live freely without fear or judgment.
Our identities deserve respect, our voices deserve to be heard, and our lives deserve dignity. No matter the challenges we face, we deserve love, safety, and the freedom to be ourselves.
To every Black LGBTQ+ person finding their way in this world: you belong, your story matters, and you deserve to be seen. Let's continue building a community rooted in solidarity, understanding, and mutual support. ✊🏿❤️
#BlackLGBT #BlackQueer #LGBTQCommunity #QueerPride #TransPride #BlackExcellence #QueerVisibility #LGBTQRights #PrideAndDignity #LoveIsLove
r/BlackLGBT • u/KindDigital • 9h ago
Media Gays, Your ‘Type’ Is Keeping You Single
Thought this was interesting
Credit :imuRgency
r/BlackLGBT • u/BitGroundbreaking392 • 3h ago
Discussion Am I delusional or doing something wrong?
I’m genuinely at a loss. I'm not sure if I’m doing something wrong or if I’m just delusional about my looks. Whenever I interact with gay guys around my age (early to mid-20s), I’m either instantly blocked or ignored.
I’m not sure why that’s the case, considering:
1. I'm new to this city.
2. I have no history with the people here.
3. I’m not involved in the gay scene at all, online or offline. I don’t even have an Instagram or TikTok.
4. The city I’m located in is more of a place I sleep than live, so most of my daily human interactions aren’t with people who live here.
5. I know this post might read as a bit arrogant, but IRL most people describe me as quiet and pleasant.
As far as I can tell, there’s no possible way I could have gotten an entire community of gay people I've never interacted with to hate me. And it’s specifically gay guys in my age range. Older gay guys (28+) who are rather attractive are willing to interact with me. Women, straight men, everything else, they’re cool with me.
I thought maybe I was being too picky, so I tried speaking to guys who don’t exactly fit conventional beauty standards, and I got the same results, instantly blocked or ignored.
I’m not sure what I did, or if I’ve been delusional about my looks, or if I fit outdated standards that don’t appeal to people my age. I just want to date someone who isn’t nearly a decade older than me (I tried it, and I hate the way they act like they’re my father).
I know I’m not entitled to their time and attention or anything, but it’s actually insane how for 10 months straight I’ve gotten the same result every time.
r/BlackLGBT • u/Feisty-Chicken6907 • 6m ago
Discussion Queer spots in North Suburbs of Illinois
I just moved to the northern Suburbs of Illinois and I’m struggling to find any lgbt events up here that aren’t in Chicago or aren’t all white people. Idk if yall know something I don’t because it’s lonely up here. Let me know if yall know somewhere.
r/BlackLGBT • u/Rare_Opening_2743 • 1d ago
Pictures Loc’d 3 years today
Just wanted to celebrate trusting the process :) Any other loc’d peoples in here?
r/BlackLGBT • u/Junior_Conclusion_78 • 1d ago
Discussion I Swear We're Friends just dropped their first two episodes on Dewayne Perkins YouTube channel and it's my new black gay obsession. If you looking for a black gay friendship-centered comedy like Noah's Arc, THIS is the show
r/BlackLGBT • u/bbysprfrk24 • 2d ago
you can always find me at karaoke at the gay bar
r/BlackLGBT • u/Sendsay • 2d ago
Fav pic of myself currently. Hello!
28m Hello! Gamers, anime fans and nerds hmu! 😁
r/BlackLGBT • u/Ordinary_Pool_3726 • 1d ago
I can’t lol! Them damn kids ain’t bothered
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r/BlackLGBT • u/roxanne_ROXANNE999 • 1d ago
Callen-Lorde expands Bronx location to increase services and capacity
r/BlackLGBT • u/According_Reality_54 • 2d ago
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r/BlackLGBT • u/IcyLion2939 • 1d ago
Serious Question/Request: Let's create a list for the safest and most thriving places for Black Gay Men TO LIVE (not vacation).
r/BlackLGBT • u/According_Reality_54 • 2d ago
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r/BlackLGBT • u/ReminaBlueSFW • 2d ago
Pictures Anyone wanna be friends in SoCal? (24 Trans F)
As u can see i do be loving fashion so shopping buddies would be elite ofc. I also only have my switch here (I just moved) gamewise. Im also really wanting to explore with ppllllll
We can still b friends regardless of where ur from dw