This ultimate simping is very prevalent on Indian forums.

I have seen it on Reddit, Facebook etc where poster will post on behalf of their "female friend".

Maybe the female friend is busy with her outings and dates, she does not have time for loser stuffs like posting online ads for rental etc.

She can post herself. If she doesnt have an account (obviously she doesnt, women are not losers to be on Reddit), she can ask another female friend to post.

Why are you posting it, fellow man?

Is this normal during your first intimate experience? (19M)

Hey everyone, I'm 19M, and I had my first intimate experience with my partner yesterday

We used protection, took things slowly, communicated properly, and made sure we were both comfortable. However, when we tried to have sex, we couldn't go through with penetration.

I was fully aroused, and my partner seemed comfortable and naturally lubricated, but it felt like there was too much resistance, and I couldn't manage to enter. We tried taking things slowly, but it just wasn't happening, so we didn't force it.

I'm wondering whether not using additional lubricant could have been the reason, or whether this is something that can happen during a first experience. I had assumed things would be relatively straightforward if both partners were comfortable and aroused, but apparently that's not always the case.

For women who've experienced something similar, is this normal? Is there anything we might have overlooked or should do differently next time?

I'm genuinely looking for advice and would appreciate serious answers. Thanks!

So guys I am drunk writing this. Hope its Saturday already.

I am an Indian man. Yes I am a man. Whoo hoo. I like it. Because I have been in a lot of relationships. 😍

But you got to learn how to be a man. Let me teach you something.

First, always pay for dates. Why do you keep paying half half? Girls love a man. Who is responsible. Who is strong.

Strong se yaad aaya, second, be strong. Ye kya gym me you guys keep doing bodybuilding? Bhupp.. do powerlifting guys..tell me your bench, squat and deadlift. Egg ke jaise bicep is easy.

Third, respect her but respect yourself way more. Remember guyss, we are the prize. We. Not them, we!

Aur last me, enjoy karo bas. Its not easy. But its easier than being a woman. Their life is tougher than ours. So respect them. Dont make it hard for them. They have already seen 20 creeps by the time they turn 20. Don't be in that list.

I love you all. Muaah.

Today, women are getting more rights and freedom which is absolutely good due to which they're getting more selective and hypergamous with lesser restrictions, they'll choose the best out of all and also social media provides that access.

Most women rate 80% or majority of men unattractive, they would always date that attractive chad guy. Meanwhile average guys would struggle and below average would not even get to experience anything.

Arranged marriage will no longer be a good solution because of the laws of the country as well as most women enjoying in their youth and settling with average and below average guys using them as ATM.

Are Indian guys ready to face this?

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Death sentence is only given in rare of the rarest of brutalities like in this case or during nirbhaya.

And it is already stated that if death sentence is provided for all the grape cases then grapists would kill there victims after assault

Hi everyone,

I'm looking for honest perspectives from men who've been in long-term relationships (2+ years) and later realised the person wasn't right for marriage.

I'm not asking about early-dating red flags or short-term incompatibility. I mean the patterns that only become visible after you've spent significant time together: how she handled conflict, money, family, or life decisions over time.

A few things I'm curious about:

1) What was the moment or pattern that made you think "this won't work long-term"?

2) Were there choices or values that looked fine early on but became dealbreakers with time?

3) Looking back, what did you ignore that you wish you hadn't?

4) Was it something she did, or a fundamental mismatch in what you both wanted?

I'd also love to hear from those who stayed and made it work, especially what you saw that told you it was worth it. Contrast helps.

Please keep it constructive. I'm trying to learn what to look for, not to bash anyone.

Thanks in advance.

Note: I used AI to help polish the language of this post, but the question and context are my own.

Whenever she is in stress she keeps saying that our marriage won’t be possible and this threatens me and my mind feels ill

We had a movie plan 2 days ago but we eventually went and last moment she said that she wanted to cancel.

1 day ago she told me that our marriage won’t be possible and she just does this in stress or anger

Is it a good decision to marry a women like this?

My life is total mess like i dont wanna talk about it it too unfair to me in young age i got parkinson thats make me feel like i cant do anything like normal people do, i am just watching enjoy people do fun, they have job, they have girlfried and my site full of lonelyness nothing going well even a single thing not working me, come and go visit to doc and med also runing out of money feel like i dont have purpose to live how much i try to find job not working, forgetting thing because of brain fog.

Women who call themselves modern and progressive how was your experience with them?

How's your experience in real life? Have u met women who call themselves feminists, preach about equality and don't expect you to pull most of the financial load and think it's not a gender-based role?

If your partner told you they hate gender roles.. Have u ever realised they are practising gender based roles for their own benefit?

During your dates or honeymoon, did they contribute enough?

Do they celebrate your birthday as you celebrate her birthday?

Do they make you feel special?

Do they give you expensive gifts when they expect you to give expensive gifts?

I met an Indian man that pursued me and showed interest in a relationship. Then he talked about debt and how debt recovery is bad in India before asking me for money.

He described threatening calls, visits to his home, calls to his mother, harassing his family and possibly going to jail. My question is for those in India, is debt recovery actually like this, if so what kind of people might this person owe money to?

Personally, i wouldn’t, I can’t be with someone who doesn’t respect my privacy.

Once a catcher, always a catcher.

In college times it was fun to get drunk and let it go. But it no longer is, now that I am in 30s. I don’t smoke anything and I am fully opposed to recreational drügs. So in this situation which is the next best way to relax and ‘let it go’?

Like in my class 12, there's a girl who's good at studies and sits at front row in class so one day I went outside in breakup and when I came to class, i found that my bag has full of pen scratches like a someone used their pen to draw lines on my bag.

So i didn't know who did that and asked my male friends and they've no idea and then the girl and her female friend came and said (the friend of the girl) she did that and sorry for that. I was like okay I can't say anything/do anything because they are girls (i also never had much female interaction and don't know how to react with girls so I didn't say anything) and the female friend of the girl said you're so good and the next day the girl and her friend came and sit infront of my bench and that girl turned back and leaned her head very close to me like in a romantic mood/ to show interest in me.

I was like wth she's doing (her friend just seeing this scene) and i immediately got anxious and can't even move so she again leaned so close to my head with her head and i immediately got up and went to front row in my male friends group and sat there. And she understood I'm not interested in relationships so after few days I saw she got into relationship with back bencher(who's a rowdy) and that's it I don't know what happened to their relationship nor About anything related to them.

About my bag, that night I rubbed with baking soda/powder + water by seeing YouTube tutorials and after hours of rubbing i cleaned all.

Wth she was doing.

Fed up with the expectations which I develop involuntarily and feel hurt when someone doesn't meet them.

So how to come out of this???

Realised it lately but correctly that as a short ugly guy I'll never get love, and real not gold digger or settlement, but whatever that true love or desire people say so now going to live with that, it feels bad, hollow and depressing initially but will get better ig...

I am a qualified lawyer. Working in the compliance department of a major NBFC. Passed cs inter and now preparing for CS finals.

Age: 26

Salary : 8LPA.

My parents have started searching for girls. I have been rejected by 1 family till now due to my salary.

I was in a relationship was 3 years. She cheated on me with her colleague. They are engaged now.

Now exploring the AM route.

So what now ? Should I prepare for a lone life ? I don't think it is going to get any better..

I don't want to generalise women and girls and women around me (siblings, cousins, friends, colleagues) everyone is great and none of them is a pseudo feminist but some women on reddit are a nightmare.

There was a man hating post on one sub about demeaning Indian men which I defended as an Indian man and asked them not to generalise.

Some women called me a "pick-me" because they realised I am gay from my flair.

I was defending myself and others (all men I know around me- be it family, homies/friends or colleagues) who have never acted in a mysogynistic way. How does my sexuality even matter here?

Is defending your own kind a "pick-me"?

Sometimes I feel "Thank God I'm gay" because I can't deal with such women, what if I were straight and ended up marrying a girl like this, my life would become a living hell.

Just wanted to rant. Didn't know which flair to choose to went with serious.

Subha sree to pata hoga jo inst-gram pe subscription lagake yearly crores kamati he. Uska kaam he body and clevaaage dikhana dance karke aur haraamii ladke usko dekhne ke liye subscription bhi lete he ab iss paiso se bada sa ghar bhi kharid liya.

Mujhe problem usse nhi he mujhe problem inn haraamii ladko se he kyu ki ladkiyon ko ye easy way to earn wala option and privilege hota hai par hum ladko ko bas bohot mehnat karke he utna paise kama sakte he.

Screw you hormy males who buy subscriptions in Inst-gram to see girl's body when there are already freely available pomm and girls free online pics.

I am 22 (5'6) and I don't know why but I am attracted to girls taller than me... But, I don't think they would wanna be with me anyway... Is there anyone like me? Or am I some alien??

What are some of the red flags in women one should look out ?