r/AmItheAsshole • • 5h ago

WIBTAH if I I kept him

I’m struggling with this one. We were leaving town after a wedding, we’d left the hotel late and grabbed a bowl of bacon on the way out. As we were driving down the frontage road, about to merge onto the highway I saw a fluffy dog running TOWARDS oncoming traffic. I pulled off and used my bacon to get him closer… I just reacted. He was matted pretty bad and a bit skinny, but very friendly. No collar, and the only person kind of close said they had no idea who the little guy was. I had an 8 hour drive ahead of me, thought he had been out there for a long time given his state so I wrapped him up and took him with me and my other two dogs.

Once I got home I went straight to the vet, and had them check for a chip. He had none. We agreed I’d take care of the matting then have him fully check out (that’s coming tomorrow his coat was in baaaad shape) Made a post in the area I found him, then called my local shelter. They couldn’t take him in but I was told to keep looking for his owner and to make sure I got verifiable proof if someone came forward.

I did find his family, and they are pissed I took him all the way home. Arrangements have been made for someone to pick him up, and I’ve gotten some proof that he’s theirs. But no recent vet records, only one from years ago…and the longer I’ve had him the worse I realize his condition is. The matting could not have happened within the “day” or so he got out. He’s got critters living on him that would have needed months to get to point they’re in.. I’m torn. I can’t really have another pet, but what if I don’t have a choice? EDIT: What I mean is, what if no one comes to pick him up? And another big issue for me is just the state he is in vs what they’re saying happened. I would not just refuse to give him back-just struggling if I should involve the authorities or Animal Welfare.

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u/Ok-Heron8017 Partassipant [1] 5h ago

I'm sorta stuck on "and we grabbed a bowl of bacon". Like wtaf?

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u/Delicious-Intern6618 5h ago

That’s all they had left from the hotel breakfast- and that’s all I had with me to help get him off the road it was that or let him get hit by car

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u/Thin_Bother8217 1h ago

I think the confusion is that it sounds like you were leaving the wedding (which was at a hotel) and grabbed a bowl of bacon on your way out of the wedding. I took it that way at first, but I'm also kinda dumb lol

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u/LaPasseraScopaiola Partassipant [1] 1h ago

Is it alllowed to take food out of the buffet?