I’m generally a happy person but lately life has been incredibly stressful and taking a toll on me. I’d love to be in a deep sleep right now but here I am, posting at almost midnight, on a Thursday night.

I’m looking for a tall, dark, and handsome distraction to bring some happiness, fun, and excitement back into my life. I connect best with people that can hold a conversation, make me smile and laugh, and distract me from the stressors of work, aging parents, and the way of the world these days. I enjoy flirting and fun banter, but I don’t mind talking and “listening”about serious subjects.

I would like to make an emotional connection with someone that leads to a physical relationship. I’m a quality time, physical touch type of woman.

Shoot your shot and let’s see what happens.

If you’re like me, you’re here because the boredom of marriage is killing you. You miss that feeling of being wanted, that feeling you get when someone is obsessed with you. You miss the flirting, playing hard to get even then you want them just as bad as they want you. You miss being remind how hot you are, and that someone is waiting for you because talking to you is the best part of their day.

I want to be that someone. I want to have that feeling I had when I was in highschool and I was utterly obsessed with a girl. I want to get excited every single time I see a notification, praying it’s from you. I want to get red in the face everytime you flirt with me and have my mind racing with thoughts of you and the things I want to do to you. I want to learn all about you and fall harder with every little fun fact that makes you different from everyone else. I want to remind you that you are fucking hot, and seeing you just drives me crazy.

About me, I’m 28, a country boy from Texas, 6 ft, with tan skin and thick curly hair. I go to the gym often and when I’m free I’m either running or playing rugby. I’m a big sports guy who can talk you ear off about any game going on and loves to grill when the weathers right. Just like you, I’m not looking to change anyone’s situation but at the same time understand if you need to talk and will respect if you don’t want to talk about it. Besides that I’m an open book so if you got this far, don’t be afraid to reach out! Life is too short to be wondering if you should’ve spent the day having fun and being happy.

Big dick Latino looking for fun. HMU if you love fit/athletic hung Latinos and want to get stretched out. I love showing off. Especially if you have a fat ass. Girls only unless you’re offering your wife/gf.

Losing an AP is one of the toughest things to go through. You can’t really tell anyone about it and you can’t show the emotions you’re feeling. You just kinda have to act like it didn’t exist but deep down part of you longs for what you just lost.

So that being said let’s try this again. 6’2, no tats or piercings. Athletic build and I live an active lifestyle so it fills out nicely but still room for improvement! Slowly getting back to me again! I enjoy being outside out the park but I also love to read. Audible has become my new best friend for road trips. I’ve gotten into self help books but more on the mental side of performing at work or in sports (the men’s league is real).

If that’s of any interest to you come say hi! If not best of luck out there!

I’ll keep this simple and to the point!

A little about me:
- Married, very involved, dad of 2
- Tall, muscular, well-kept beard, nice eyes, and naturally a bit old-fashioned and dominant, and attentive. I’d say I’m attractive, and have been told as much.
- Driven with a great white collar career
- Hobby-wise, I enjoy reading, cooking, and taking care of myself. Have always played sports, so still try to remain active with pickup basketball, pickleball, or similar.
- I work hard, so I tend to enjoy the finer things in life. I don’t see anything wrong with having expensive taste
- Haven’t been super happy in my marriage for awhile, so I know what I want and what I’m looking for.
- Not the best at talking about myself, so please feel free to ask all the questions you may be curious about!

What I’m looking for:
- Age doesn’t play a big role for me here. If you’re mature and know what you want, then that’s what I want.
- Would prefer you’re also a parent, but not the end of the world if you aren’t
- Personality matters a lot to me! I want someone who is excited to talk and get to know each other.
- Looks aren’t the end all, be all for me, but I’d prefer if you were also someone who enjoys looking nice and enjoys taking care of themselves. Confidence in your own skin is attractive! Bonus if you also enjoy the finer things in life.
- I don’t want someone who is just looking for a fun fling. I’d like something longer term and real.
- Someone in the San Antonio area, or at least reasonably nearby

Drop me a chat and tell me about yourself and what made you wanna reach out. I am comfortable moving off of here to Snap or Telegram after we chat a bit.

Remember life PM? You know, pre-monotony. Before the endless Zoom calls, grocery pickups, and nightly debates over what to eat for dinner. Back when a certain name lighting up your phone gave you butterflies, and getting ready to see someone involved a little music, a few outfit changes, and one last look in the mirror thinking, “damn, I look good.”

Who decided we had to grow out of that? Because I’d like to file a formal complaint.

As for the guy behind this little rebellion against monotony, I’m 40, a dad, and work in tech. I’m 5’10”, 175 lbs, athletic, stay pretty active, and clean up nicely when the occasion calls for it. I have a healthy appreciation for queso, an unhealthy relationship with the Cowboys, and enough dad jokes to make my kids question their genetic inheritance. I’ve traveled a good bit, collected some stories, and even picked up a couple of languages along the way, though years in Texas have apparently reduced my fluency to ordering tacos.

Now, about you. I’ve always had a soft spot for the unassuming woman with a little mischief behind that innocent smile. Maybe you’re the mom-next-door type who’s a little nerdy, open-minded, and can surprise me with an unexpected opinion or some obscure rabbit hole you’ve fallen into. You’ve lived a little, have stories worth telling, and wouldn’t mind making a few new ones. And to my curvy queens, don’t be shy. I see you over there. ;)

If you’re open to connecting and rediscovering some of those PM moment, drop me a message and let’s see where this goes. ;)

Hey! I’m a guy in Longview, TX, looking for a woman interested in a friends-with-benefits situation. I’m open to seeing where things go naturally, but I’m mainly looking for good chemistry, mutual attraction, and something fun without the pressure of a serious relationship.

If you’re too shy to post something publicly, feel free to send it my way. I’m happy to give honest but kind feedback on selfies, outfits, or whatever you’re curious about.

No pressure, no saving or reposting pics, and SFW is completely fine. We can always chat here first and see if we click.

Happy to be a judgment-free second opinion 🙂

Houston & surrounding areas:

I got to stress "Normal." I'm not interested in your OF account, l'm Not looking for a s3x worker, I'm tired of the sc@mm3ers too!! With that being said, I'l get to my posting....

I listed some random facts about me & what I'm looking for below:

*I'm married, Simply bored & looking for a Long-Term Discreet Friendship with the right woman

*I'm not a smoker, no drugs & a social drinker

*I take care of myself: Slim, STRAIGHT WHITE TEETH!, great hygiene, well groomed & smell nicel!

*l'm a super easy going, very respectful, Gentleman

*I don't need anything from you: I got my own job, money, assets, etc

*I'm looking for a Long-term Discreet Friendship with '1' special lady. Not here trying to find multiple women!

*Not interested in changing your home life at all

*l'm not just looking for a chat buddy, I'm interested in hanging out when we can. Be local, within 50 miles of H-Town

*YOU reflect some of the things listed above. You are easy going, Slim-Medium Build, etc

32-year-old married dad who is really missing having someone to genuinely connect with someone on a deep level. I'm looking for the kind of relationship where you look forward to hearing from each other every day when you wake up. Good morning messages, lunch selfies, good night texts. No games, no low effort, just a new best friend and lover.

A little about me: I'm tall, bearded, active, confident, and have been told my eyes are my best feature. I work out, run, love sports, and probably have more old-fashioned and lean naturally more dominant than most. I have a great job, I’m a hard worker, and I’m proud of the life I’ve built. I like to read, I like to bake, I like to think I’m a well rounded human. I’m not the kind of guy that you’d expect to be on Reddit looking for a long term affair. Just the cute dad you smile at at daycare drop off.

I'd love to meet someone kind, playful, emotionally open, and most importantly, social - I want a social butterfly. I tend to connect best with fellow parents my age or older, that being said, emotional maturity is most important for this, and I value that over a specific age. If you enjoy taking care of yourself - whether that be at the gym or at the nail salon, or both - extra bonus points. Bonus points if you’re religious, ironic I know.

If we click, I'm happy to move to Snapchat or Telegram and really dig into our relationship. Let’s find a slice of happiness in each other.

If you want pictures of me feel free to check my profile out I have a good amount posted. If you’re interested please feel free to message and if you have any questions I’ll be happy to answer them. :)

Getting lost in the everyday cycle of life and miss feeling of having a connection with that someone. I know there’s someone out there feeling stuck and unappreciated… and well, I hope I can help create a little special escape:)

I am married, although it’s rough. Also have kids and would like to find someone in a similar situation

I'm missing that exciting, new connection. The person I grab my phone to talk to or see if they've messaged me.

Please understand life gets busy and I can't always respond as fast as I'd like.

I am pretty easy going, love someone who can help keep the conversation going, like to stay fit, but mostly just looking for a great personality match. Former firefighter and Work in Aviation, don’t hesitate to say hi :-)

I am a Professional Pilot in a dead end relationship. We are great friends and she uses me for warmth but is not in the place for nurturing or caring for me. I am typically flying in and out of DFW/HTX/ATX/SA lets chat and meet! Females only please, I am into pleasing

Looking for a woman in the Houston area that's 40 years or older. I feel we would have more in common and more to chat about.

I'm married and 6'0", have a dad bod and have been told I'm handsome. I'm sweet and down to earth, if I had to say anything negative about myself it would be maybe I'm too cautious but with the right woman I'd be comfortable.

Physical traits don't matter as much to me, I'm more interested in personality, although attraction is important too.

Looking to chat and get to know each other than maybe meetup and flirt or go on walks and maybe more if there's chemistry but mainly just wanting something simple to pass the time.

If that sounds like fun and you're in that age range send me your age and part of Houston and let's chat!

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I'm fit, take care of my body and have a high libido.

At home, I'm a father of 2 and a successful career.

I certainly have a big emotional and physical gap at home and hoping to connect with someone who needs the same.

I'm open to all types, ideally you're married and with kids too.

Discretion is important. Connection is important.

Happy to verify I'm real.

Hello I’m married and just looking for someone to chat with. Doesn’t have to be anything sexual or anything like that, but if it progresses to that then so be it. Just wanting to get to know someone and chat the day away. Tell me whatcha got planned for the day. What is the meaning of life? Could 100 men win against a gorilla? If you could have a super power what would it be? Who would win in a physical fight a grilled cheese or a hard shell taco? Is a hotdog a sandwich? Is cereal soup? Is water wet? Any Disney characters you have the hots for?Let’s discuss life’s mysteries

35-year-old Hispanic male from San Antonio. Blue-collar worker, hardworking, laid-back, down-to-earth, and easy to get along with. I'm also bilingual, so we can speak English, Spanish, or a little Spanglish lol.

Not looking to change or blow up either of our situations. Just looking to fill that void that probably brought most of us here in the first place.

Maybe you're the wife who feels lonely, unappreciated, overlooked, or just misses having someone genuinely interested in you. Someone who asks how your day went, makes you laugh, gives you attention, and makes you feel wanted again.

I'm not here to judge your situation, and you don't have to pretend everything is perfect. You can talk to me, vent about anything, tell me about your day, or just have someone who actually listens. Sometimes it's nice having someone to talk to who understands.

Discretion is an absolute must, obviously. I respect your privacy just as much as I expect you to respect mine. We're both adults with our own lives and situations, and the last thing either of us needs is unnecessary drama or complications.

Not looking to rush or force anything. Let's have some good conversations, share a few laughs, maybe flirt a little, see if there's any chemistry, and just let things go wherever they naturally lead.

Maybe we can bring back a little of that excitement we've both been missing. Who knows, maybe we're exactly what each other needs.

If any of this sounds familiar, don't be shy. Say hello. Let's see where a simple conversation takes us.

Seeking a lady to give attention to and to get attention. I want to talk and get to know each other , to laugh and to share about all kinds of stuff on our minds. Just looking for someone to open up to who wants to do the same with me. I’m 47 and I’ve been married 15 years and honestly, I just want to feel the magic again.

Like the title says, I’m handsome. I think you would would agree with my grandma.

I’m 35, a dad, I work out daily, I’m cursed with being attractively tall (I’m 6’6”), brown hair and green eyes that you could run your fingers through(the hair, not eyes).

Chemistry is key, but attraction is also important so I’m happy to swap photos if we hit it off.

I’d like to meet a woman who’s confident, playful, and enjoys a little flirting and back-and-forth. Someone to grab a drink with, get lost in conversation, and hopefully find ourselves making plans to do it again.

I plan on finding one AP. I’m not interested in having multiple.

49-year-old married professional in DFW looking for the right woman to share a mutually fulfilling, ongoing connection. To be completely transparent up front: I value my marriage and am not looking to alter my home life. I am, however, looking for a meaningful escape—a mutual spark to bring energy and romance back into the routine.

I’m established, reliable, and appreciate a balanced life. I love sports, travel, and being outdoors, but I’m just as happy relaxing over a quiet coffee and sharing a real conversation.

The Blueprint:

• DFW Resident: Local enough that meeting up feels easy, not a chore.
• Intimacy & Attraction: A strong physical bond is a major priority for me. I want a passionate relationship where we both feel a strong mutual desire.
• Long-Term Mindset: I prefer building a steady, reliable connection over time.
• Total Discretion: Mutual privacy is critical. We protect each other's situations completely.

Whether we are dressing up for a great night out or just taking a breather from our busy schedules to unwind together, it’s all about quality time. If this sounds like the missing piece you've been looking for, let's connect.

📩 Drop a DM with a snapshot of who you are, what catches your eye about this, and your general DFW neighborhood.

Yes, I’m real (in case you had any questions). 52 M4F, in Denton, 6ft, athletic (I do CrossFit 6 days a week), and VERY heterosexual (no judgement. I just get a lot of DMs from guys who don’t read my bio or preferences.. sorry fellas). Oh, also.. I AM NOT A CONTENT OR SERVICES SELLER (Why would anyone ask a 52 year old man a question like that?.. but people do for some reason.. wtf?). I have a regular 9 to 5 (I’m just a pornstar in my mind 😂).

Full disclosure, I am married. If that’s an issue, I understand and wish you well. If not, pull on up. Just understand that I’m not looking to change my (or your) situation. I’m at a point where I have a very non sexual roommate relationship with my partner. There’s respect, but there’s an ache that I can only describe as profound loneliness. I want, need, and crave a little more passion in my life than what I currently have (or don’t have as the case may be). I may be in my 50s, but I’m not dead.

So, what am I looking for exactly? I’m glad you asked. I’m fairly open with respect to race, ethnicity, body type, height, hair color, and age (although I am a sucker for piercings and tattoos 🥵). Just be a decent (or indecent 😉) woman, as the case may be.. and ABSOLUTELY NO MAGA (non negotiable.. lifelong progressive liberal here✋🏼). I’m open to an ongoing AP or mutually beneficial NSA activities (just depends on the vibe and interest/intention). Additionally, PLEASE be able to hold a conversation and ARTICULATE what you are (and aren’t) looking for. Nothing is more frustrating than opening up a mailbox full of DMs just saying “Hey.” Actually put some effort into reaching out. Lack of effort is an indicator of eventual lack of follow through, and a guaranteed non response (just being real).

With that being said, ladies (married, you have a boyfriend, you have a girlfriend, single, needing to have all your itches scratched, it’s complicated) if you’re looking for someone who can just focus on you and your pleasure (and if you want to maybe focus on me and my pleasure a little too), chat me up. Comments are open. DMs are ALWAYS open. Let’s talk (and I mean really talk.. no bs or games). Seriously, let’s see what’s what. What’s the worst thing that could happen?😏

*UPDATE.. I can’t believe I have to say this, but if you’re SELLING content or services, please go away. You’re wasting your time. I’m not here for that. If you’re selling, I’m NOT buying. Only interested mutually stimulating and SERIOUS women who know what they want, and aren’t afraid to ask for it.

Getting lost in the everyday cycle of life and miss feeling of having a connection with that someone. I know there’s someone out there feeling stuck and unappreciated… and well, I hope I can help create a little special escape:)

I am married, although it’s rough. Also have kids and would like to find someone in a similar situation

I'm missing that exciting, new connection. The person I grab my phone to talk to or see if they've messaged me.

Please understand life gets busy and I can't always respond as fast as I'd like.

I am pretty easy going, love someone who can help keep the conversation going, like to stay fit, but mostly just looking for a great personality match. Former firefighter and Work in Aviation, don’t hesitate to say hi :-)

Not looking to change my situation or your situation. Just looking for someone that makes our respective situations a little more fun along the way. I'm a white-collar professional, working in the Richardson area. My kids are the most important thing in my world. I try not to take life too seriously, always trying to find the humor in stressful situations. Introvert by nature, I prefer to keep my circle of friends smaller and develop more meaningful relationships.

A little about me: white, 6 ft, average build dad bod.

What I'm looking for: F, under 40, ideally located in the Garland/Richardson or surrounding area, down-to-Earth, loves to laugh, knows what she wants and isn't afraid to speak her mind.

If you've read this far and like what you've read, DM me with what your ideal weekend would look like!

Losing an AP is one of the toughest things to go through. You can’t really tell anyone about it and you can’t show the emotions you’re feeling. You just kinda have to act like it didn’t exist but deep down part of you longs for what you just lost.

So that being said let’s try this again. 6’2, no tats or piercings. Athletic build and I live an active lifestyle so it fills out nicely but still room for improvement! Slowly getting back to me again! I enjoy being outside out the park but I also love to read. Audible has become my new best friend for road trips. I’ve gotten into self help books but more on the mental side of performing at work or in sports (the men’s league is real).

If that’s of any interest to you come say hi! If not best of luck out there!