r/AffairsTX • • 10h ago

Dallas 28 [M4F] #Dallas looking for that spark and to remind you who you are NSFW

0 Upvotes

If you’re like me, you’re here because the boredom of marriage is killing you. You miss that feeling of being wanted, that feeling you get when someone is obsessed with you. You miss the flirting, playing hard to get even then you want them just as bad as they want you. You miss being remind how hot you are, and that someone is waiting for you because talking to you is the best part of their day.

I want to be that someone. I want to have that feeling I had when I was in highschool and I was utterly obsessed with a girl. I want to get excited every single time I see a notification, praying it’s from you. I want to get red in the face everytime you flirt with me and have my mind racing with thoughts of you and the things I want to do to you. I want to learn all about you and fall harder with every little fun fact that makes you different from everyone else. I want to remind you that you are fucking hot, and seeing you just drives me crazy.

About me, I’m 28, a country boy from Texas, 6 ft, with tan skin and thick curly hair. I go to the gym often and when I’m free I’m either running or playing rugby. I’m a big sports guy who can talk you ear off about any game going on and loves to grill when the weathers right. Just like you, I’m not looking to change anyone’s situation but at the same time understand if you need to talk and will respect if you don’t want to talk about it. Besides that I’m an open book so if you got this far, don’t be afraid to reach out! Life is too short to be wondering if you should’ve spent the day having fun and being happy.


r/AffairsTX • • 11h ago

Austin 30 [M4F] #Austin - AP breakups suck! Who’s with me!? NSFW

1 Upvotes

Losing an AP is one of the toughest things to go through. You can’t really tell anyone about it and you can’t show the emotions you’re feeling. You just kinda have to act like it didn’t exist but deep down part of you longs for what you just lost.

So that being said let’s try this again. 6’2, no tats or piercings. Athletic build and I live an active lifestyle so it fills out nicely but still room for improvement! Slowly getting back to me again! I enjoy being outside out the park but I also love to read. Audible has become my new best friend for road trips. I’ve gotten into self help books but more on the mental side of performing at work or in sports (the men’s league is real).

If that’s of any interest to you come say hi! If not best of luck out there!


r/AffairsTX • • 7h ago

San Antonio 38 [f4m] #SanAntonio - Life is hard. This shouldn’t be. NSFW

13 Upvotes

I’m generally a happy person but lately life has been incredibly stressful and taking a toll on me. I’d love to be in a deep sleep right now but here I am, posting at almost midnight, on a Thursday night.

I’m looking for a tall, handsome, intelligent distraction to bring some happiness, fun, and excitement back into my life. I connect best with people that can hold a conversation, make me smile and laugh, and distract me from the stressors of work, aging parents, and the way of the world these days. I enjoy flirting and fun banter, but I don’t mind talking and “listening”about serious subjects.

I would like to make an emotional connection with someone that leads to a physical relationship. I’m a quality time, physical touch type of woman.

Shoot your shot and let’s see what happens.


r/AffairsTX • • 19h ago

24 [M4F] #CorpusChristi - looking for lowkey fun ;) NSFW

2 Upvotes

If you want pictures of me feel free to check my profile out I have a good amount posted. If you’re interested please feel free to message and if you have any questions I’ll be happy to answer them. :)


r/AffairsTX • • 19h ago

Dallas 35 [M4F] #Dallas Professional Pilot NSFW

3 Upvotes

I am a Professional Pilot in a dead end relationship. We are great friends and she uses me for warmth but is not in the place for nurturing or caring for me. I am typically flying in and out of DFW/HTX/ATX/SA lets chat and meet! Females only please, I am into pleasing


r/AffairsTX • • 21h ago

San Antonio 35 [M4F] #SanAntonio , Sometimes all you need is someone who understands. NSFW

2 Upvotes

35-year-old Hispanic male from San Antonio. Blue-collar worker, hardworking, laid-back, down-to-earth, and easy to get along with. I'm also bilingual, so we can speak English, Spanish, or a little Spanglish lol.

Not looking to change or blow up either of our situations. Just looking to fill that void that probably brought most of us here in the first place.

Maybe you're the wife who feels lonely, unappreciated, overlooked, or just misses having someone genuinely interested in you. Someone who asks how your day went, makes you laugh, gives you attention, and makes you feel wanted again.

I'm not here to judge your situation, and you don't have to pretend everything is perfect. You can talk to me, vent about anything, tell me about your day, or just have someone who actually listens. Sometimes it's nice having someone to talk to who understands.

Discretion is an absolute must, obviously. I respect your privacy just as much as I expect you to respect mine. We're both adults with our own lives and situations, and the last thing either of us needs is unnecessary drama or complications.

Not looking to rush or force anything. Let's have some good conversations, share a few laughs, maybe flirt a little, see if there's any chemistry, and just let things go wherever they naturally lead.

Maybe we can bring back a little of that excitement we've both been missing. Who knows, maybe we're exactly what each other needs.

If any of this sounds familiar, don't be shy. Say hello. Let's see where a simple conversation takes us.


r/AffairsTX • • 13h ago

San Antonio 31 [M4F] #SanAntonio area - Cute dad searching for something more NSFW

2 Upvotes

I’ll keep this simple and to the point!

A little about me:
- Married, very involved, dad of 2
- Tall, muscular, well-kept beard, nice eyes, and naturally a bit old-fashioned and dominant, and attentive. I’d say I’m attractive, and have been told as much.
- Driven with a great white collar career
- Hobby-wise, I enjoy reading, cooking, and taking care of myself. Have always played sports, so still try to remain active with pickup basketball, pickleball, or similar.
- I work hard, so I tend to enjoy the finer things in life. I don’t see anything wrong with having expensive taste
- Haven’t been super happy in my marriage for awhile, so I know what I want and what I’m looking for.
- Not the best at talking about myself, so please feel free to ask all the questions you may be curious about!

What I’m looking for:
- Age doesn’t play a big role for me here. If you’re mature and know what you want, then that’s what I want.
- Would prefer you’re also a parent, but not the end of the world if you aren’t
- Personality matters a lot to me! I want someone who is excited to talk and get to know each other.
- Looks aren’t the end all, be all for me, but I’d prefer if you were also someone who enjoys looking nice and enjoys taking care of themselves. Confidence in your own skin is attractive! Bonus if you also enjoy the finer things in life.
- I don’t want someone who is just looking for a fun fling. I’d like something longer term and real.
- Someone in the San Antonio area, or at least reasonably nearby

Drop me a chat and tell me about yourself and what made you wanna reach out. I am comfortable moving off of here to Snap or Telegram after we chat a bit.


r/AffairsTX • • 14h ago

Austin 40 [M4F] #Austin - Butterflies with a side of mischief NSFW

2 Upvotes

Remember life PM? You know, pre-monotony. Before the endless Zoom calls, grocery pickups, and nightly debates over what to eat for dinner. Back when a certain name lighting up your phone gave you butterflies, and getting ready to see someone involved a little music, a few outfit changes, and one last look in the mirror thinking, “damn, I look good.”

Who decided we had to grow out of that? Because I’d like to file a formal complaint.

As for the guy behind this little rebellion against monotony, I’m 40, a dad, and work in tech. I’m 5’10”, 175 lbs, athletic, stay pretty active, and clean up nicely when the occasion calls for it. I have a healthy appreciation for queso, an unhealthy relationship with the Cowboys, and enough dad jokes to make my kids question their genetic inheritance. I’ve traveled a good bit, collected some stories, and even picked up a couple of languages along the way, though years in Texas have apparently reduced my fluency to ordering tacos.

Now, about you. I’ve always had a soft spot for the unassuming woman with a little mischief behind that innocent smile. Maybe you’re the mom-next-door type who’s a little nerdy, open-minded, and can surprise me with an unexpected opinion or some obscure rabbit hole you’ve fallen into. You’ve lived a little, have stories worth telling, and wouldn’t mind making a few new ones. And to my curvy queens, don’t be shy. I see you over there. ;)

If you’re open to connecting and rediscovering some of those PM moment, drop me a message and let’s see where this goes. ;)