r/weddingshaming • u/Impossible-Code9339 • Aug 28 '25

Dressed like a Bride It happened… his sister wore white.

Just need to vent….

Got married a couple of weeks ago and can’t stop thinking about it. I thought his sister and I got along well, no issues.

For our engagement party, she was the only attendee in cream and white besides me, the bride, in a white dress. Gave her the benefit of the doubt - it’s just our engagement, she came from out of province, etc etc.

Then came the giant texts about how offended her and her husband were about having a child-free wedding and how their kids were more important than all my cousins kids, so there should be an exception.

Wedding day arrived, and it being such a whirlwind I honestly didn’t notice what she was wearing. Then multiple guests started quietly coming up to me, asking who the one in white was. I guess word got back to her because at the end of the night, she went to my now husband, holding a flower against her dress and said “for the record”, implying it wasn’t white…. I suppose she is colourblind.

Not sure if we/he/I should be asking if there’s an issue or if we should address it at all.

Ugh.

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u/stankenfurter Aug 28 '25

Agree with this, but DO photoshop her dress color in the pics, or just photoshop her out of them altogether lol

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u/No_Signature7440 Aug 28 '25

Yes! And if she asks why you did it, don't act angry, but concerned. Like, "We felt so badly for you. We heard over and over about your faux pas. We were so taken up with our day we didn't even notice! But we didn't want you to have to continue being embarrassed by seeing the pictures...."

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u/Bluesailfish Aug 29 '25

This is such a fake "nice" thing to do, and slightly petty.....but I LOVE it!