r/vancouverhousing • u/Sad-Rent42 • 8h ago
tenants Landlord(‘s husband) keeps coming into our unit to use bathroom?
Ok so basically me and 2 other girls (all 22F) have been living in this basement suite for 3 months now. For reference, our landlord is a lady, but her husband name is also on the tenancy agreement. Let’s call her husband Bob. There are tenants on the main floor or this house as well as the top floor, and the property also has a laneway house with separate tenants. Our landlord’s husband does all the maintenance work/ lawnmowing etc.
When our 3rd roommate got here 2.5 months ago to do an internship, Bob started saying hello a lot more, as he speaks the same language as her. He has also called her work on a number of occasions but that was to help her find a bed/ mattress when she first came here (still weird though cause the landlords have our / her phone numbers, but also weirder cause he is like 65?). Anyways that’s not the issue here (even though he invited her to his birthday party lol)….
So Bob does a lot of yard work, is fixing the deck upstairs and is all around a very helpful and friendly guy. He has been very nice to me and my roommate, gave us a free used bench from his neighbour recently that I cleaned up, came with a handyman to replace a toilet that didn’t flush and a sub-par fan in the bathroom. So he has done some work and nice stuff which we greatly appreciated.
The problem is, when we are in our unit, he keeps entering when he assumes we are not here. I stay in my room and am quite quiet most of the time so he doesn’t think anyone is home.
This has happened at least once before where he has entered, I was asleep cause it was 10am and i was super sick. I heard him knock, enter, open the bathroom door to use it, toilet flush, and he leaves and locks the front door of the unit. I told our landlord (his wife), and she said she’s looking into it, later responding it was an emergency; he was doing yard work and is incontinent and it will not happen again. Super weird and a violation of our rights as tenants and our privacy but whatever, he’s old and if he’d asked I probably would have let him in. One of my roommates said yes to him using the bathroom when he was giving us a new fire extinguisher so I can see why he might think it’s ok? But also it’s clearly not.
Like him and his wife own this property…. but that doesn’t mean you can come in and use the bathroom whenever you want!
Anyways she said it wouldn’t happen again so fast forward to today, I’m in my room… I heard a knock (maybe??) next thing i know i hear him say “Hello??” as this is probably the third time he has entered like that. I heard the bathroom door close, some shuffling around, heard it open again and then heard the door to the unit shut. I leave my room to investigate, and there is a fat drop of piss on the seat! And the window is open (we don’t leave it open, and it was left open too the last time he did this). The door to the bathroom was shut and it was cold in there (hence why we don’t leave the windows open, we don’t have access to our thermostat- that is upstairs and controls the whole house). So i text my landlord to see what she has to say about this. Last time she profusely apologized for her husbands actions, said it was an emergency and he would have pooped his pants otherwise and that it wouldn’t happen again.
He obviously does this without her knowledge and maybe even did it to previous tenants too without their knowledge, but I don’t think apologies cut it here. Bob has for all intents and purposes been aware that we are likely not home when he uses the bathroom here. He could use the upstairs units bathroom (where he is working on their deck) but chooses not to ask them when I know they are home…. he comes down here instead to use our private bathroom because it’s quiet and he thinks he won’t get caught! Why would he not use theirs? The upstairs tenants? Heck even the bathroom of the laneway house about 25 metres away??? Like a male landlord entering the unit that three female tenants live in is violating!
Anyways, currently waiting to hear back what the landlord says about her husband’s behaviour…. I’d like to change the locks but i don’t think we would be allowed? It’s also such an unnecessary expense (keep in mind i’m concerned how much soap at toilet paper Bob might have used in breaking into our bathroom, since we are paying HIM/HIS WIFE to live on their property in the first place!!).
But yeah, lowkey debating attaching the photo i took of the urine on our toilet seat he left behind this morning but you get the picture… He’s violating our rights as tenants and i HATE IT! (no notice is ever given!)
TLDR: landlord keeps using our bathroom when he thinks we aren’t home… what do i do?