I know people will see this and be like SEE THIS IS WHY NO OKE LIKES YOU AND YOU GET TREATED LIKE SHIT YOURE LAZY

Yeah okay whatever

But for my genuinely ugly people who are just so tired and exhausted have you also found yourself just barely able to keep up with the bare minimum of hygiene and especially don’t feel compelled to do the most anymore because of how depressed you are to get out of bed? And how it all feels like at best you’re just preventing yourself from becoming uglier opposed to ACTUALLY becoming more attractive and bettering your life?

I hate that being ugly can affect your mood and motivation so much to where it’s like a downward spiral in many areas of life. Health and hygiene being 2 of those things from an endless long list of things ugliness just turns rotten

My frame of mind is if I was naturally attractive and desirable I wouldn’t be so isolated and alone so then I would be less likely to have moments where I’m just bed rotting

I’d be around people and that would in turn make me wanna upkeep and even improve my appearance

It’s like being decent looking and attractive keeps your life in a foreword momentum

Where being ugly kinda either keeps you stuck or quickly regress to a place that can no longer be fixed or restored

Does anyone else relate?

I’ve been laughed at by three different people in the past month. I am ostracized. The best outcome for me is being ignored. Do you realize how messed up that is. It’s awful. My life is literally hell on earth. Nobody I know has the same problem as me. I’ve grown to hate people and try to be alone as much as possible. I honestly believe if I died I would be much better off.

more particularly when they enjoy it. like if you weren't complaining then all would be good, but why are you complaining that people find you attractive but you know damn well you're enjoying all the attention you're getting from being attractive in their eyes. like gosh it must be so hard getting compliments all the time oh my.

I was considered very pretty when I was younger but gaining a bunch of weight due to binge eating ED and breaking my nose basically ruined my life. Posted myself on r/amiuglybrutallyhonest and got fried so yeah I've basically given up hope of ever looking good again lol. If anyone else can relate please give me advice on how you coped

I've finally come to terms with how ugly I am. I used to have intense feelings of limerence when I met new people but I don't anymore. I've stopped participating in conversations about sexuality or preference, I have no horse in those races, standards are for people who have options.

I haven't had a crush in about half a year now. It does feel depressing but I'm starting to get used to it. In a sense, the hopelessness surrounding any romantic pursuits feels nice, it allows me to channel my energy into other things and takes a huge amount of stress off of my shoulders.

I wonder tho, do y'all still have crushes? And if so, do you have hope that one day someone will reciprocate?

Always been rated around say a 5+ in a lot of rating places (6.2-6.5 in FaceIQ Labs in various pictures), but I do not seem to feel it because I'm treated the same way as below average people who've had people look at me which is weird because I've had an ugly friend who had been viewed the same in public, so I know i'm experiencing the way how people feel "ick" just by looking at me.

I feel like i'm more like a 3-4 than a 5+ with how i'm being treated in real life. Oh, and i've been bullied (to the point of being beaten up) as a child simply for being ugly so I guess it checks out that i'm INDEED uglier than I thought I am, and than how people rated me. Just put me out of my misery already

No girl has ever told an ugly guy they’re funny unless they are years into the friendzone. Good looking guys get told they are funny or confident but it has nothing to do with them. They then repeat that advice of “just be funny” or “just be confident” to us thinking its actually their humour. Lemme say it again. If a girl tells you that you’re funny when they first met you. You are just hot. You are NOT funny

When I was a child, I was constantly bullied by my classmates. They called me ugly and refused to play with me. Every single day at school, I was completely alone, just staring at the teacher. I would sit by myself in the park, watching my friends play football from afar. Some of them were so cruel they would physically hit me simply because they disliked my face. At times, the pain was so overwhelming that I even thought about killing the entire class.

I grew up carrying deep trauma and a crushing sense of insecurity. By middle school, I started wearing a mask because it was the only thing that made me feel safe. I wasn't bullied while wearing it, but the wounds from elementary school never left. Middle school just slipped by in a blur.

When high school arrived, I was determined to focus entirely on my studies. In tenth grade, I still wore my mask, though many classmates kept demanding I take it off. In eleventh grade, I finally gave in and took it off—and it unfolded exactly as I had feared. Several people mocked me, and I remember some girls taking pictures of me without my knowledge, leaving me wondering what they were doing with them.

Being unattractive in high school taught me the cruel reality of fake compliments. I knew when girls called me "handsome" that it was just a manipulative cruel joke. I learned how hollow friendship could be. I remember so-called friends using my face as an insult, making it painfully obvious they never actually wanted to be near me.

Now, I am in college. The very first thing I noticed was how vastly different people treat me at first glance. On the first day during the ceremony, some girls whispered and laughed, while one muttered, "Stop it, he's a human being too." I'm majoring in biology, where there are only three guys in the class. One of them is exceptionally attractive and tall, and he is treated completely differently. We became good friends, and the contrast in how the class treats the two of us is agonizing:

1.When we both make jokes, somehow I am always the one blamed.

2.He constantly receives all the attention from the girls in class.

3.On the very first day, I was immediately assumed to be stupid.

4.The girls subtly push me away from their circles.

Throughout my life, I have attempted suicide three times. I am haunted by how wretched my life has been, constantly envying those who were blessed with a beautiful past. I am trapped in the suffocating belief that everyone hates me. And constantly, my mind drifts to the same painful question: What if there is an alternate universe where I never had to endure any of this? What if I had just been born attractive?

Sorry for bad English

Thought a lot of people on here would appreciate it since it made fun of stuff like looksmaxing, aura farming, and mewing 🤣

This question gets asked in this sub so many time it’s so boring, got to the point when no one can be bothered to answer but will still get spammed with the same pointless question.

If you actually think about the question you are asking. You question it like you have opinions/choices when in reality you really don’t. So the real answer is you don’t really have a choice regardless how you feel.

Once you accept that reality things would improve. So you been dealt with a bad hand that’s part of life. Better to try in life than don’t.

This guy's entire page is about hating ugly people, i mean sure some ugly people are jealous and shit, but to hate someone just because they're born that way is so absurd, in one of the posts he says ugly people are second class citizenss and shouldn't be allowed to vote, he says ugly people are from hell and we shouldn't even talk to them all, i mean he's not even that pretty himself with all fairness

His comments are worse, average/below average people agreeing with him and seeing themselves as super attractive, so weird.

I miss just being invisible. I used to just be ignored, once in a while I got laughed at or insulted, but not that often after Junior High. Now that I'm older and look a lot worse from aging, steroid weight gain, as well as poor health/meds which has drastically affected my appearance, it's hard for me to go out just for an hour without finding that SOMEONE is staring at me. I'm so tired of it. I just want to be left alone. I don't get why people have to stare. They look at you like you're a circus freak on display.

I sometimes think to myself "Christ, I can't be THAT bad, can I?" But apparently I am that bad.

Just the other day, I had to go to a garage as I needed a repair done on my car. As I sat in the waiting area, there were two men sat together on the side. One was in his forties. The other one looked about 65. As soon as I sat down, they both stared at me. When I caught them staring, the younger man at least looked elsewhere - not instantly though - only after a few seconds, but the older man continued to stare. His expression was as if someone had just brought in a bag of rubbish and set it down. I kept staring back at him because I'm that fed up with it all, and he finally looked away.

I am tired of not being able to go anywhere without someone staring at me. It probably happens 80% of the time I go out. It makes me want to just stay at home and never go anywhere. But I guess that's what they want. They WANT you to feel ashamed when they stare at you so you don't show yourself in public anymore. I catch small children staring at me, teenagers, grown women, but it's usually middle aged men that stare. The only groups that don't seem to stare at me are old ladies or people in wheelchairs.

I wish things were different. I wish I could just look okay and be invisible to everyone. Why can't people just leave me alone? I'm not bothering anyone. I'm minding my own business. I can't change how I look, and I do make effort to look at least somewhat "presentable" when I go out. But it still happens. How do I cope better with this?

genuinely asking, ive never been looked at or spoken to or any if that as an ugly girl, i really do wonder if its a possibility or if its just a delusional wish

I don’t have any motivation to do anything. I don’t see the point in living if I’m ugly. I want to enjoy life and do things but I can’t really do it unless I’m beautiful. Even things that technically don’t require being good looking like reading a book or eating breakfast are completely not enjoyable for me if I look bad. I just get anxious that I need to do something about my looks, but theres really nothing short-term I can do.

In the future I’ll get surgery, but how am I supposed to live my life until I have enough money? I’m just sabotaging myself and at this point I’ll never be beautiful.

Does anyone have advice on what to do?

tomorrow I have graduation and I don't feel confident in myself. I've been wearing mask everyday at school and not everyone in my batch has seen my face. I think only half but I'm scared to show my to other half. Why? because what if they laugh at me because of how I look? and the other that never got chance to see my face actually kind of the type of people that criticised people and laughing and making sound. and I remember one of them talk behind my back saying that I'm a guy. at first I didn't really care but right now it's just feels weird. and with people never really talk to me making its harder to accept myself... I mean even my classmates don't talk to to me at all. and when they want to ask me they just ask my friend to deliver it to me... I feel really ugly right now. and I don't think tomorrow gonna be a great day for me. I don't know what to do anymore. I feel so scared. what if they don't talk to me because I was ugly and unattractive... I just want to give up...

Why don't people here date each other? Well if assuming ugly people may not feel attracted to other ugly people, atleast we can make some friends given how many of us here are lonely.

I turn 24 Saturday and I can’t believe this is how life is going to play out for me. I have never in my life ever been wanted or desired by a man in 24 years. I’ll never have a boyfriend, I’ll never do any of the shit I’ve been wanting to do with a guy, I’ll never get married, I’ll never have kids, nothing.

I’ve done everything and nothing has ever worked. Anytime I’ve approached a man they humiliated me it’s like they get off on making you feel awful. They act like I’m an eyesore to look at. Like I’m disgusting. Like I’m a biohazard. I’ve had guys literally say fucking ew and act like I’m contagious.

Then on top of dealing with all of that I go online and will randomly scroll and then see some guy make a video on why BW are ugly yadda yadda. Like wow. It’s over.

I am 21M and I feel completely disconnected from women.

Throughout my life personally and academically, I have maintained absolutely 0 relationships, whether romantic or platonic with women. I have only viewed them as professionally.

when I reflect on my failure of a love life, I can't even begin to think, starting a romantic life with a woman, because it feels foreign

I don't look at women a certain way. I don't flirt with women i try my best not to bother them in public, that's why I don't cold approach even onlibe I try not to talk to them because i've almost zero experience with a woman

I believe this is because no woman throughout my life has ever liked me romantically enough to start a relationship with me or platonically enough to start a friendship with me.

It's because I'm ugly and it was already hard enough to make friends with just about any gender. It's more of a challenge to engage with the opposite gender

Everywhere I go, I see beautiful faces and couples walking the campus together, which makes my heart ache. I usually wear a cap to hide my face, but the asshole teacher, for no reason, tells me to remove it in class. I try to focus on my studies, but it feels genuinely impossible