We've been close for years. S/he has been so supportive after I came out. He/she stood by me for years and did 99 things right! But recently, he/she said one thing that made me worried, "[Quote of less than perfectly Q4-2026-woke language]." I'm worried s/he has been reading transphoba-adjacent stuff on the internet and could eventually turn on me. How do I save our relationship?

i will never pass and no one will ever love me. i'm not even a beautiful troon; i'm very ugly. i look like someone's transphobic caricature come to life. this is a post of me sharing how i don't take pictures of myself much but i felt like i actually looked ok for the first time in a long while. i do not pass at all in the picture and look like i have never been on HRT despite being on it for years.

the comments:

But yeah let's keep pointing fingers at other trans people ruining everything for us better trans people

And as an Ally™, I just want to say, I stand with you in your struggle. I hate 4tran too. Just thinking about all those nasty self loathing trans people makes me mad. Can you believe all the hateful shit they say. FUCK I despise 4tranners.

To my other Allies™, did you guys (gender neutral) know about how much 4tran sucks? They fucking suck so much. Oh the horror. Let me tell you all about this most pressing issue facing the trans community today, or at least what I heard about it from the Ally™ who told me about it. Just like always all the bigots are actually just queer themselves haha

Dear transwomen. I may be a cis man who's hurt many of the women in my life, but i know a misogyny when i see it, and I am holding you accountable for a much worse crime: misandry against poor, hypothetical cis femboys. we're at a point now where trans is the new normal, and us "cissies" (chokes back a tear) are forced to live under your boot. just yesterday, I heard a transwoman say "e*g" at the grocery store and I was forced to hold back the urge to strangle her and watch the light leave her eyes. every day, I'm bombarded with vile cismisandry, my wet dreams of pure and wholesome HRT femboys shattered to pieces because of the trans regime decreeing that every expression of femininity equals woman. I ask you.....are you happy? you've become so much worse than those who once opressed you, and men like me are made to suffer.

(falls to knees and smashes fist on the ground)

WHEN WILL IT END!?!?!?!?!?!

i know you asked me not to call you that but i don't mean it in a bad way. like xy-chromosome masculine manly adam apple man bro (gender-neutral) why are you even mad at me saying this? i'm not misgendering you or anything

/uj typing this out physically hurt

comments:

Like, I can't understand why someone would want to use she/her. That kinda implies you're a woman, and women aren't people.

I love using apps working on my voice only for the app to tell me its 100% masculine. So affirming i love hearing the fakest voice and being awful at it listening to myself and hearing my deep voice is so fucking affirming.

Love love love love not actually not knowing shit about voice training and how to actually raise my pitch. Love not being able to afford a voice training coach to actually help. I loveeeeee also it being the only thing i can do right now to affirm myself cause im not on E yet. Love love love everything about it.

aaaaaaaaaand post

uj/ https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Imaginal_Disk

Title is self explanatory

I just need to set aside half an hour a day

Well I couldn't do it the first day, I'll just start a day late. Oh, it's midnight already, I need to go to sleep

It's been a busy week, but with that out of the way I can finally start voice training

Oh, right, voice training, I guess my schedule got a bit too busy but I can do it on weekends

Damn, I forgot about that. How long– It has been a month and a half

/uj Let's just ignore the four years of procrastinating that came before this month and a half

Rejoice! The National Health Service in the UK has finally caught up with the law and decided to comply with our beloved Supreme Court ruling (the one segregating trans people from the normals in wards, and the one that places their opinions above the actual lives of trans people). This is wonderful news and every newspaper in the UK is definitely not rejoicing! This will definitely not make trans people have worse health outcomes from hospital visits when they aren't placed anywhere, or placed in dangerous places (remember folks, separate but equal!).

The comments:

uj/ I am so tired, folks. They used the words 'dignity and respect' again in this update to their rules too, which feels like a jerk in and of itself

Need to sign a piece of paper? BIOLOGICAL FATHER
Need to fill out a birth certificate? BIOLOGICAL FATHER
Need to do literally anything involving documents? BIOLOGICAL FATHER!
When a nurse comes in to ask a question about who the other parent is? HEY YOU BIOLOGICAL FATHER
The mere existence of you having a baby? MUST MEAN BIOLOGICAL FATHER

/uj I fucking hate this. I am so happy to be a parent and the staff here except a couple have all called me the other mother but holy shit this paperwork makes me want to drink some bleach and eat glass.

Gender neutrally of course. I call all my friends sis, it's just inclusive gay speech.

What?? You're accusing me of not calling my cis men friends this?? Well- of course, cuz I don't have cis male friends!!!

Men are all evil and stuff, kill all men, etc. etc. But you're the exception because, you know...

I'm a feminist. So stop complaining about my logic, or complaining in general, otherwise I'll start thinking you're really a man (/neg), sigh

[ Insert more malgendering and words encouraging trans men to shut up and take less space because they're men, completely ignoring that shutting up is the only thing they've been doing since before they transitioned ]

Like seriously I'm just a femboy like sure I may be happy when thinking of myself as a girl and suuure I may want to wake up as one but its in a boy way ofc.

Like don't get me wrong If I could I would be in a girls body but yknow just to be more feminine idk why people keep acting like thats an odd thing when its normal to want like oml.......