ignore the mess, just SHINE, STAR, SHINE!!!

Putting on this exact white slip again was honestly one of the hardest things I’ve done recently. This is the dress I wore the night of the party the night I got slapped on the hip, touched by strangers, and had to leave with my wife completely shaken up. For day after, just looking at it brought back that raw fear and made me scared of men. My wife’s words on the ride home "Welcome to being a woman, this is the reality so many girls deal with" were such a heavy, bitter pill to swallow.

When I brought up how hesitant I felt to ever wear it again, my therapist gave me very direct advice: wear it anyway. He reminded me that pushing through the fear and initial awkwardness, especially on the days I feel resistance, is how my inner girl fully steps out into the open.

And honestly? He was completely right.

Slipping back into this dress today and settling into a pose, all that overthinking slowly started to melt away. Even behind the mask, you can see the genuine softness and relief in my eyes. It’s still wild trying to process how far things have come from living as a man to facing the scary realities of womanhood but standing here in this dress genuinely makes me feel like a girl through and through. I’m not letting fear ruin this for me. 🤍

Every couple months I realize I haven’t posted, so heyyyyy 👋

Felt cute tonight after getting my brand new Angel Bite Piercings

Looking for Friendship and community, chat with me !

I’m newly out MtF socially transitioned. and seeking community, advice, guidance, friendship.

I live downtown Chicago!

Would love to chat!

Sometimes we all need a tad bit of reflection. Love y’all

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No big deep thoughts today just me, my favorite slip, and the sweet relief of finally feeling like myself at home. 🌸✨