r/stupidpol • u/Big-Bench575 • 12h ago
Analysis The youth aren't ''taking longer to grow" because they want to partake in extended adolescence, but actually because our institutions and social systems are changing faster than the average person keep track off.
Everybody's assuming that the youth, the coming-of-age youth, the people in the 18 to 25 age range, that these people are taking longer to launch into adulthood and the moral panic about how they're taking longer to just become self-sufficient, functioning citizens of society. But, in all seriousness, how about let's stop being pessimistic about that for a second and let's assume the other way around. What if our systems and institutions are just changing too fast for us to adapt to? And you're probably wondering, what do I mean by that? Because it's kind of hard to compress the general idea without being too wordy and lengthy. I want you to take a minute to process a very complex term you probably barely hear about in your daily life. Don't worry, I don't use it like that either, but I have a vague idea of what it means: bureaucratic red tape
In this particular context, because this may not be the universal way of applying it, but I'm using kind of like a more alternative context of bureaucratic red tape. In this context, it means that the very logistical processes that made it easier to grow into proper functioning adulthood generations ago used to be more digestible and straightforward. Let me think of a quick example. A great example would be going to college.
College used to be way much more straightforward and simple: Besides it being cheaper in the 20th century, the qualification of entry used to be more lenient and lax compared to today's more competitive qualification-grading system environment. The transcripts are also more piled up than ever.
Another example: Driving and owning a car.
It used to be a simpler process: 50 years ago all you needed to pass a driver's test was demonstrate capability and competence, especially with a manual, write a paper check to the dealer and you got all set, then on top on that cars were simply much easier and simpler to work on.
Example #3: Dating: Dating today is the equivalent of being in a marketplace
30-50 years ago dating was still focused more on dating to marry rather than the "dating for fun" module. Today dating may possess more social freedom and the constraints on what one can do may be more loose than what they were 50 years ago, but with that freedom comes also greater dread of decision making responsibility and paralysis for the individual, compared to the more family-centered courtship culture of previous centuries.
Another great example: Buying a house
Buying a house used to be also ridiculously easy: No background check, no credit bureau of statistics, no driver's license or state ID required, just hand the cash over to the real estate agent, settle in and call it a day.
So what's the TL:DR summary of this? Our systems and institutions are evolving and changing faster than we can get ahold of, is causing serious cognitive overload, hence the natural delay many people are giving themselves, but instead of society approaching this with proper understanding, we resort to a moral panic and assume bad intentions out of them
This is not to say past generations had it easier: War, racism, dangerous workplaces and shorter lifespans were serious concerns. But it was more digestible and readable is my point than today's bureaucratic overload
Edit-This is supposed to offer a secondary perspective the conversation, adding to the main "cost of living" narrative that's already everywhere