r/sicily • u/Distinct_Emphasis_66 • 20h ago
Turismo 🧳 Palermo: great to visit, impossible to live in.
I moved to Palermo to study, and I have to say it was a HUGE mistake. And this isn’t coming from ignorance or a lack of experience with other places.
I hear people saying that the problem with Sicily is the Sicilians, and that couldn’t be more true. People try to scam you and steal everything, all the time, and like to make a small deal out of it by saying, “It’s cultural.” ... NO. Scamming and stealing are not culture; they are crimes.
Plus, there is an absolute hatred and disdain for foreigners. It is just insane.
Today, I’m a bit extra bitter because I went to the gym with a backpack, as I needed to shower there. Attached to my backpack was this silly Labubu stuffed keychain. It was silly and nothing fancy, but I liked it, and it reminded me of home.
I had to leave my backpack in the room before going to the showers (which is just how poorly organized the changing room is, too: the showers are all open, with no doors or anything, and there is no way to leave your things within sight). And guess what? When I came out of the shower, someone had stolen the keychain.
Is it silly and petty? Yes. But it is like living somewhere where you need to be on alert 24/7 and are constantly, nonstop, being stolen from. From toilet paper in the bathroom to not even being able to leave shampoo and soap in the bathroom without your Sicilian roommate moving the contents around and leaving them empty when you come back. And when your roommate leaves the shower carrying “his” toiletries, you notice they smell just like your products that were just emptied...
And multiply that by everything you need to do involving Sicilian people, every day, all day.
Lots of foreigners, mainly digital nomads who are here for just a couple of months, take it as a “jungle experience” and laugh about it. This disturbs me even more, because now it is seen not only as “cultural” but also as a fun experience, where expats meet up and laugh about how they got scammed, the scams they dodged, and the things Sicilians have stolen from them since they last saw each other.
It is insane. Absolutely insane.
And the reason I’m ranting here is not just to vent, but also because I see so many people hearing all the great things about the “Palermo experience,” coming here, and then getting completely overwhelmed by the craziness that nobody talks about. Some even buy houses before living here, and by the time they realize what they’ve gotten themselves into, they are completely screwed.
It is a beautiful city, with amazing beaches and great summer vibes, but the idea of staying here for more than a couple of days is insane and impossible. .