I general like having slow sex but my girlfriend likes to ride me and I love it but the problem is I cum faster that way. Is there any way to control it.

im only gna buy under $30

Im 25 male and I am so horny all the time I have only ever had sex once in my life when I lost my virginity and never had it since and it was a good experience and really enjoyable but now I want it again and again but im scared I will watch a disease like even if I meet a girl who what a relationship with i dont want to put her off by being scared of catching something, how can I stop feeling like this ?

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Hi all, I'm recently married and struggling to do doggystyle. We tried 8,10 times till now. Only 2 times it went okayish not great.

The thing is my wife has a very big ass(45"), on top of that we are having angle issue and we are not going for anal, so is that possible to enter the vagina via doggystyle.

I was always fond of doing it doggystyle.

And before some of u might tease me, i don't say i have big size , i have an avg dick size, 6" length

I guess you'd call me an incel, but I don't blame women for me being weird and not wanting me. I'm just horrid at connecting with people. And can't talk about sex. I simply have nothing to say about something I have no experience with.

I was on date recently (I froze up and bombed horribly) and she was talking about her friend who had a list of all the guys she wants to sleep with. One of my friends used to have regular hook ups with her friends. She explicitly said before saying this she didn't want to have sex with me, not that I was trying to.

It just makes me feel like even more of an outsider and a failure. I wish I was normal like most everyone else.

1. What’s the hottest thing a woman or man has ever said to you while having sex. (I need some help in that area)
2. I really enjoy calling him a good boy/sweet boy during sex, he will say through text “I want mommy to have her…” ect. How can I incorporate that more without being weird?
3. Thanks!

Edit *Sorry I didn’t think 2 would come off as such a weird a question. I only ask to incorporate the verbiage not the fantasy role play stuff.*\*

My best friend says no; but it’s not like the other person would know.

I (20m) enjoy fantasizing my partner (21f) with other people during sex . I definitely do not want it to happen irl but I like thinking about it. I even ask her vague questions about what she's done in the past etc , nothing specific that would make either of us uncomfortable. The thing is , I've always struggled in my relationships with anxiety about the other person's past and general insecurities concerning all that . So when we're done having sex and the feeling wears off , the fantasies start to make me anxious and the stuff i asked starts to feel like information i shouldn't have and don't want to have. What do I do?

I’m a 22-year-old guy, and I’m still a virgin. I’m about to have sex for the first time with a girl who has more experience than me.. I’m excited, but honestly. will u please guide and train me , i am willing to learn. most probably we will have sex on the next day. guide me like how should i start and end in details.i want to make her night unforgotble

So we are pretty much at the beginning stages of trying anal i don’t really have to much experience with I’ve seen porn and try and replicate it but just doesn’t work
Looking for advice on how to start any toys or what kind of lube I should use
How can I have her have to best time of her life doing anal with it hurting her and her enjoying the time
We talk about it a lot about we are having sex or having a a talk and she gets sexually around I feel in her pussy just the thought of it really turns her on so looking for some pointers out would be appreciated

hey so like the title says, i just discovered something really annoying about myself.

i’m pretty sure i can only hookup with guys that i’m emotionally attracted to. i’ve had a string of hookups and notice that i’m only able to cum or honestly even stay hard if i’m emotionally into them.

i just got back from a hookup with this smoking hot twunk with a bubble butt that i was definitely very physically attracted to. the caveat is, like most hookups, i showed up to his place and knew nothing about him. as soon as i walked in we barely spoke, started to undress and he got on the bed on all fours. i started to top him but my dick was literally up and down the whole time.

at the risk of sharing too much, i knew this was a possibility so i wore a cock ring and popped a tadalafil that i got from one of those online ed med providers before i got there and i still couldn’t stay hard which pretty much confirmed for me that it’s a mental block and not a physical one.

i’ve had other hookups in similar situations where i’ll show up to a guys place, know nothing about him, but instead of getting right to it, we spend time talking, making out, and getting to know each other a bit and end up having a great time.

i also pretty much completely stopped watching porn awhile ago because i was curious if that was having an effect on me, but the issue is still here.

i’m not attaching shame to it because at the end of the day, feeling shame is a choice that i don’t have to choose, but more than anything i’m just annoyed and confused and want to know if any of you bros have been through anything similar or have any advice? i feel like i need a sex therapist or something lol.

i’m all ears for whatever you guys wanna share.

thanks!

I’ve been experiencing some issues in the bedroom with my partner lately, and I’ve been thinking about bringing toys into the picture. I want to be able to orgasm without it feeling unsatisfactory or ruined. I miss the contractions and the whole body sensation. I’m not huge on penetrative stuff, by itself it doesn’t do much of anything. But I love clitoral stimulation. I’ve been looking into some clitoral toys, but most of the ones I’ve seen are air pulse based and don’t say much about the suction aspect of it. I’m not a sensitive person down there, I need the stimulation to be direct. Pressure and consistency are the most important, without those things it’s not going anywhere. Does anyone have any recommendations? Anything helps! Thanks for reading

My boyfriend (32M) wants to try anal with me (27F) I’m open to trying it. I’ve never done it before. How do I clean properly and what’s the do’s and Don’ts for Anal? Any advice would be great appreciated

My (36F) and husband (41M) are ENM and have a slew of lovers/comets we enjoy throughout the year. Lately we've been enjoying more 3somes with my husband's play partners (all ciswomen). Problem is that they are not used to femme bodies and, to be frank, and really bad at pleasuring someone without a penis. It doesn't help that we are deep into the BDSM scene, and as a sub, I don't enjoy receiving oral because it usually feels too dominant for me to enjoy.

For context, both of us are bisexual, but I tend to play with queer folx seperately.

Any recommendations on suggestions i can give them? I'm autistic and as much as I try, my suggestions can really come across as rude and off putting

Please me and him are at a loss of names

we are meeting after a long time (feels like a long time atleast). We have been having sex frequently with like a few weeks in between some sessions. The first time was just bad, perhaps because she did not have much experience and I could tell that she was very nervous. Then on it kept getting better for sure as we did more and got to the point were I frequently blindfold her and tease her for a really long time before we actually get to the main act.

So now that we are meeting again. First I really want her to feel like she's my everything and that I really love her with my actions. I don't know why but I do struggle a little with this. So please give me some ideas of acts I can do to really make her feel like i truly care for her. I was thinking of a few things like having her sit down as I give her heartful kisses everywhere I want and stuff like that. This is part one.

Part 2 is that she's really kinky. She loves being submissive and really wants to surprised and done things to. I have done so many things and to my own bane while dirty talking over ldr I tell her a lot. So I really want some ideas from everyone on things that I can do that I might not have done? Give her some real butterflies and make her feel so damn submissive. I'm really good at making her lose control but its not something new that I can surprise her with.

I know some advice might be along the lines of do what you can and don't change yourself. I just love this damn woman so much and I love dominating her. So hit me everything youve got and I want to make her feel the world.

really hoping she doesnt see this.

Question.. I’m 33m but have never cum from a bj.. Is it a me thing?

My girlfriend (22F) and I (23M) have been together for almost 3 years, and lately I’ve been feeling a bit insecure about our sex life.
I’ve never been entirely sure whether she’s actually had an orgasm during sex. I’ve asked her about it a few times, and she eventually told me that she’s never had one in her life, not even when masturbating on her own.

We’ve experimented with different things, including toys, but she doesn’t enjoy them. She also doesn’t seem to like clitoral stimulation in general. Whenever I go down on her, she usually asks me to stop after a minute or two and just penetrate her instead.

She tells me that penetration feels the best for her and that she’s completely satisfied with our sex life. I genuinely believe her. We have good sex, she’s enthusiastic about it, and I usually last quite a while (20+ minutes), so I don’t think it’s necessarily a matter of not having enough time.

Still, the fact that she’s never had an orgasm makes me feel like I might be doing something wrong or that there’s something I’m missing. She’s reassured me multiple times that this isn’t the case and that she’s happy with how things are, but I can’t help feeling a little insecure about it.

I also don’t want to turn sex into some kind of mission to make her orgasm, especially if she’s already enjoying herself. I don’t want her to feel pressured or like there’s something wrong with her.

Has anyone been in a similar situation, either personally or with a partner? Is it common for some women to have never experienced an orgasm, even on their own? (Btw, since our relationship she has never masturbated again)

So i never really had visitors down there but i met this guy who is a top and said he would rather im shaved. Ive never been thought how to shave before so im hesitant to use a razor since i dont think cuts on my hole would be hot for either of us. Would a body hair removal gel work? Or are there any other options? If not, how do i shave if ive never used a razor anywhere on my body before?

Edit: Okay, probably a stupid question, but im trying to find some hair removal creams on the internet and most of them suggest not using them in that area. Does everyone ignore that warning or do none of the stores around me have what im looking for?

I can make it last pretty well until she gets on top then it’s over. I get so turned on that bam it’s over. Especially if she’s aggressively fucking me. It feels so fucking good I want it to last but I have no control and I explode. Wtf do I do to fix that?

So my question is what it says on the tin. For context I’m an AMAB non-binary individual and I’ve been trying to achieve an anal prostate orgasm but I can’t seem to achieve it.
I’ve been working hard on being able to receive a pretty decent sized dildo, to train my hole to receive it without pain while the dildo is thrusting (that’s been an issue of mine for a long time). But now that I’ve achieved that I can’t seem to reach anal orgasm.

I’m looking for advice or tricks/techniques people have used to help themselves achieve prostate orgasm.
I know to stimulate the prostate itself gently, but whenever I do this I don’t really feel any pleasure coming from it even though I find the act erotic and I want to experience pleasure.

If you have any advice please share. I want to know what it feels like 😅
If you need more context to properly answer the question, let me know, I’ll give everything I can I just wanna see if I can figure it out.

So I can cum from penetration when my partner fingers or uses a dildo on me. But I don’t squirt. I’m curious what others experience with squirting is. It is like one or the other but not both? It would be cool to be able do it at least once in a while 🤷‍♀️

I want to make my wife cum, but she can be a little prudish when it comes to anything that’s not intercourse or hand stimulation.

We have great sex, but she’s not reaching orgasm.

She’s never masturbated during our marriage to my knowledge or if she does she certainly wouldn’t admit to it.

She doesn’t want to use toys and is not so interested in oral sex which I don’t get. I can’t imagine a man refusing a blow job but it’s like I have to talk her into letting me eat her out.

I’m not sure what that leaves me since penetration isn’t usually going to get there.

Any advice on other ideas or ways to convince her to try toys or oral more?

I’m a 22-year-old guy, and I’m still a virgin. I’m about to have sex for the first time with a girl who has more experience than me.. I’m excited, but honestly. experienced men and women of Reddit, what actually makes someone unforgettable in bed?