r/retail • u/Glittering-Ad-1626 • 20h ago
Has anyone gotten fired because they couldnāt interact well with customers
Not like in the sense of arguing with customers but like just welcoming them and making sure that their shopping experience is good.
I work at a clothing store and one of my managers keeps pestering me to talk more when I welcome customers every time they walk through the door, but I always mess up one way or another.
Most customers that walk in,I can sense they donāt know what theyāre looking for specially and simple want to look around and not be bothered. So I tell them our promotions for the day and let them look.
My manager doesnāt like it. She said I shouldāve asked like 2-3 causal questions like āoh what are you looking for? Any special occasions? And fun plans this weekend? Going on a special trips you need an outfit for?ā I know thereās a time and place for those kind of questions while people look around but she wants me asking those right as they come in. And it just feels unnatural and forced. Somehow she does it well and they love chatting with her. But when I do it, theyāre like āoh Iām just browsingā. Like they look at me and they donāt want to talk. And itās making my job so hard because sheās breathing down my neck and pulling me aside saying āremember ask them what theyāre plans are so we can get them styled and theyāll feel the need to buy moreā
Idk I donāt think sheās right. People will buy from our store regardless if we have a small conversation or not. The products should speak for itself. We sell a lot of cute outfits. My manager wants me to get to know there styles but I donāt know exactly what we have in stock to be confident to suggest what we have. We have sweaters for the holidays and itās scattered everywhere. We have jeans of different styles and itās all over the shop. I just donāt know until you try it on. usually I talk more about styles once the customers find something they want to try on.
Overall I think my manager loves picking on me because I have an introvert personality. Iāve talked to customers, just not when sheās around. I wish nicer customers would walk in when sheās training me but they never are and it makes me look bad in front of her.
I feel like I might lose my job just because I donāt know how to engage with every customer in a way that feels natural and not totally fake.