r/r4rindia • • 4d ago

Sunday Soapbox šŸŽ¤ Sunday Soapbox - October 11, 2026 NSFW

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šŸŽ¤ Sunday Soapbox

This week's topic:

You've got the floor.

Make your case, tell your story, defend your opinion, or convince us we're all wrong.

Keep your entry around 100–300 words - although shorter or longer is fine if you've got something good to say.

How it works

  • Make your take a top-level comment.
  • Reply to other people's takes to agree, disagree, challenge them, or add your own perspective.
  • Keep things fun and debate the opinion, not the person.
  • No personal attacks, harassment, unsolicited DMs, or ragebait.

šŸ† This week's winners

Community Choice: Highest-voted qualifying entry.

Mod's Pick: Our favourite take of the week.

Winners will be announced in next week's Soapbox.

Now step onto the box. šŸŽ¤


r/r4rindia • • 5d ago

Weekly Open Thread Weekly Open Thread NSFW

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šŸŽ‰ THE WEEKLY OPEN THREAD IS HERE

Waiting for verification? Stuck in the queue? Not quite ready to make the full R4R leap?

We've got you.

Every week on Saturday night, we're opening up this dedicated thread where unverified users can drop a comment and see who bites. šŸ‘€

Think of it as the r4rindia lobby.

šŸ’¬ How it works

Drop a comment telling people a little about yourself - what you're looking for, where you're from, your interests, your vibe, or whatever you think might make someone go:

Then browse the thread and reply to people who catch your interest.

āš ļø One important rule

This thread is mainly intended for Male redditors.

Comments from women looking for Redditors are not permitted in this thread.

If you're a woman looking to participate in r4rindia, we strongly encourage you to verify with the mods via Modmail and post through the main subreddit instead. This helps us keep the gender ratio of the open thread balanced and, more importantly, keeps the space safer for everyone.

If you're currently waiting for verification, this is your chance to get involved instead of staring at the queue and waiting for answers.

Be respectful, don't spam people with unsolicited DMs, and remember that replying is optional.

Alright, who's here?


r/r4rindia • • 3h ago

M4F 35 [M4F] Shillong - Looking for kinky adventures and pure fun NSFW

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I am 35, based in Shillong, and looking to connect with a woman who has a high drive and actually wants to act on it.

I am pretty much always horny, and I know plenty of people feel the exact same way. Most just pretend otherwise. Let's explore kinks, try new things, push boundaries, and have a good time without overthinking everything.

A good match for me comes down to two simple things: kink compatibility and a solid sense of humor. Things can get messy and ridiculous, so being able to laugh together is a must.

No judgment about whatever you are into, zero drama, and complete discretion.

If you are around Shillong and want to explore this wild side together, drop me a message. Tell me what is on your mind or what you have been wanting to try out.


r/r4rindia • • 5h ago

M4F 28 [M4F] Bangalore - Looking for an FWB NSFW

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A little about me: I'm an engineer, around 6'4 tall, and usually out for late-night walks or bike rides when everything’s quiet. I love cooking, staying active, and unwinding with just the right tv show.

I’m looking for someone who’s fun to talk to, confident, and enjoys a strong connection, both in conversation and in energy. Love a good banter. I might just be horny rn, so if we click, maybe we turn this into something more fun for the both of us?

If you’re someone who knows what you want (or not) and likes a little tension mixed with fun, feel free to dm with an intro. Let me know something fun about yourself.

!lock


r/r4rindia • • 7h ago

M4F 38 [M4F] India/Online - Looking for something honest? Something kinky & Vulnerable? Read here! NSFW

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Hello! I have divided this post in various parts with suitable headlines inĀ bold dive in. I sincerely hope we make it past the exchange of pleasantries and develop a connection. Please be kind enough to take a leap of faith. This is a safe space.

Who I am : I'm 38, professionally gainfully employed , 5.10 of height and trying to live a very healthy lifestyle. I have been in the kink/bdsm lifestyle for over 18+ years now.

Who I am (but a little deeper) : I'm the kind of person who likes vulnerability. I like the intensity that comes with honesty. I believe in mutual respect. Even when I'm degrading you, we both know there's a mutual respect for each other in our minds. I've been a daddy dom for over ten years now and with pandemic, just like everyone, I focused on mental health first. I now think I'm ready to venture and train someone with all that I've got.

Kinks : My kinks include orgasm control, denial, edging, forced orgasm, sadism, cnc, rapeplay, free use, impact play, bladder control, primal, slave/slut training and many more.I don't force my kink on anyone and I respect consent. I just don't want to only be a dom but will prefer that you (my sub) and I talk beyond the dynamic as well. Mental stimulation is important or I believe things go stale. Aftercare is a default and I’ll never compromise on that.

What it means to me: I take my role as a daddy dom religiously and put all my heart into it. I am strict and at the same time, I'm also a human besides being a daddy dom. And I know exactly when to be caring and loving. It's a duality that I live with. This duality is a part of me and you'll see that this somehow helps me in being the best version of myself.

What I am looking for? (What you and I are looking for?: A dynamic. Some honesty. Some vulnerability. A lot of Intensity. An imaginative mind. Healthy libido. Rants. Sessions. Intellectual discourse. (As you can see I am not very demanding!!!)

How can you reach me? What do you need to write in your message?: You can Initiate a chat with me. You can either put in some effort (as most post here say it) in your reply or you can just say HELLO and we will go from there. I don't think Hellos are low effort though you’ll have to put in effort in your conversations once we start talking. You can share about what you think of my username. To reach out to someone takes courage and that is never a low effort to me.

Miscellaneous but important things: What I ask is that be ready to have a conversation and no I won’t roleplay, I’m looking for a sub and I think that’s plenty clear from my post. In the past I’ve connected with few people from here, some were duds, some got cold feet and some were insecured, which honestly we all are but if you don’t communicate your insecurities out loud then you can’t expect me to read your mind. I’ve also met people/connected with some on a level that’s intensely deep but they couldn’t go long term because of their own personal commitments and I respect them for that. I needed to say this because once you feel like you’re developing a connection and invest your precious mental wavelengths with that person and the next moment they think you’re too busy with work and decide to vanish. My point is be communicative. Be open. Yes I’m an adult. Yes some days I may get busy. Some days even you might get busy. What I don’t appreciate or want is unnecessary drama when there needs to be none. We may begin at Reddit but I’ll prefer moving to someplace convenient for both of us to talk. I may or may not ask you to verify, I reserve the right for the same. I also prefer connecting on voice and video calls after usual texting since it brings in a lot more personal touch to the connection and communication.

note: it takes a lot of my energy and wavelength to connect and develop a connection, kindly reach out only if you’re clear of your needs, have clarity, willing to put in effort, take a leap of faith and learn. And, PLEASE, for the love of everything that’s holy reach out only if you’re willing to communicate, and not going to ghost! I had connected with someone with whom I shared a great bond but their situation was complicated and it had to come to an abrupt end.

I think that will be all and I will wrap it up here. Adios!

!lock


r/r4rindia • • 8h ago

M4F 28 [M4F] Bangalore - Tere chumme mein Chavanprash hai.. NSFW

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The intention of the title was just to make you click on this post and give you a general chatpate vibes that I bring to the table.

Now, I'm gonna try and keep this as short as I can, because I've written r4rs several times and for some reason they almost always work. So this time, I'll leave a lot of your intrigue and curiosity to be calmed by my profile as you eventually and hopefully click on, once you're done reading.

I'm looking for something casual. Preferably long term and in person. A space where we can both rely on each other for our physical needs of intimacy.

I am in no rush to reach that space. Physical intimacy involves being extremely vulnerable in front of each other, so it makes complete sense that we do our due diligence where you make sure that I'm considerate, sensible, not a serial killer, or something even worse, and I make sure that you actually are a woman. It's also important that we feel a certain sense of emptional and intellectual connect that helps us feel safe and comfortable enough to go ahead with it.

Now, if you've read this far, you can go ahead, click on my profile and read and see through it all before you decide to send me a DM. Don't ignore the NSFW warning on my profile, the stuff that I've uploaded is bound to either intimidate you or arouse you. Or probably both together.

If you still wanna know more and take this ahead, or just strike up a conversation with or without any reason, you can send me a DM and I'll happily respond.

Thanks for reading so far! And I hope you find what you're looking for, if not here then somewhere else....


r/r4rindia • • 16h ago

M4F 25 [M4F] Mumbai - ATP I just need someone to crush on NSFW

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Heyy! How’s it going? NEVER SCROLL REELS AT 8 in the morning. I repeat NEVER. Because wdym I am craving having a crush on someone now? 😭
Well yeah that’s the post. Super spontaneous but much needed. I for sure know I have shitty stuff going on but still ab toh ye thought aa gaya na.

A bit about me: 25, lean guy, love working out, gaming, reading, into music and movies, and max yapping. Also add F1 and football. Bas that’s all. I feel I am cute? Maybe? I mean that’s for you to find out.

Now if you feel we could vibe then let’s do bak bak and see where it goesss!!


r/r4rindia • • 1d ago

M4F 25 [M4F] Online - If you want to moan louder than ever, ping me. NSFW

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25 [M4F] Online - Up for phone sex? If you want to moan louder than ever, ping me.

If you are in the mood for some real hot sesh, you are at the right place. With a fair amount of experiences, I'm saying this with confidence that I can make you moan louder.

I'm good with my fingers and tongue, I mean I can type and talk well ;)

If you are someone who's good at this game, slide into my DMs and I'll slide into you.


r/r4rindia • • 19h ago

M4F 25 [M4F] Online/Mumbai - The dirtier, the better: hardcore submission NSFW

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There's something fascinating about watching someone willingly surrender control, explore their limits, and discover sides of themselves they hadn't fully acknowledged before.

I'm a Dom, she's my sub (we met on reddit), and I know exactly how much she enjoys the dynamic we've built together.

We're curious about meeting a woman who finds that kind of psychological intensity appealing. Someone who enjoys the darker side of power exchange, understands the appeal of consensual humiliation, and might find herself intrigued by watching our dynamic unfold. We dabble in variety of kinky things so I'm sure we've got yours covered or you could introduce us to newer, filthier kinks!

No expectations, no pressure, and no need to pretend to be someone you're not. Just an open-minded woman who's curious enough to start a conversation.

Sometimes, curiosity is all it takes to discover an entirely different perspective.

Please note: We are looking for women only. We will ask you to verify.

Looking forward to spreading filth together ;)


r/r4rindia • • 1d ago

M4F 31 [M4F] Bangalore - would you like to be respectfully railed? NSFW

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Let’s be real - calling myself a Dom feels a little too much like a guy who just watched Fifty Shades and bought a fake leather harness off Amazon.

I’m not here to give orders. I just happen to enjoy sex that’s a little intense, a little messy, and always ridiculously fun.

So, what does that mean? Think firm hands, teasing restraint, the occasional hair pull that makes you gasp in all the right ways (maybe with a few finger-shaped souvenirs on your hips).

We can get to know more about each other through chat.

Discretion is guaranteed and I will not announce myself as your overlord

Drop me a message if you’re intrigued.


r/r4rindia • • 1d ago

M4F 31 [M4F] Bengaluru - Looking for a long term FWB NSFW

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Hello everyone! I am finally back to Bengaluru after almost 3 years working in another city. I used to work in Bangalore before, but my career took me to a different city. In the meantime, I have missed being in Bengaluru. I think I have a special connection with this city for some reason.

But yeah now that I am finally, I am looking for some casual fun in the city. But what I am looking for us a casual stuff that lasts. Like I do want to go around hooking up with several people. It could be like a friends with benefits after we vibe well too.After several relationships, heart breaks and things that didn't work. I feel I do not want to get into any serious relationship for a long time. But at the same time, it would be fun to have some nice company and a lot of fun in the city. Because the City itself is so seductive.

About me: I am 31 year old who works in IT like a million other people, nothing interesting there. But the interesting part about me is about how open minded, I am about trying new things. I love being active, I run sometimes, I play badminton, I workout. - but I am not consistent with these things. This where I will be seeking yourself to accompany me in any of these things i mentioned, or something that you want to, who h again, i would definitely be interested to do.

I love going to a lot of movies in the theatre. So that's something we can do as far as you are also interested in it. Bike rides, getting drenched in rain, go to a pottery class where I am definitely gonna suck, etc. like I said, absolutely open to doing lot of things.

I am into sports, i play and watch a lot of sports. Love going to screenings of matches, etc.

Oh when I say, causal, I would love for us to be friends, because i think physical stuff without intimacy is not really that exciting. I am very sex positive and a little kinky. And again, very open minded to do different stuff in the bed too, as long as both the parties are interested and comfortable with it.

So if any of these appeal to you, do text me back, let's discuss about each other, find common ground, become friends and have a lot of fun 🤭


r/r4rindia • • 1d ago

M4F 32 [M4F] Gurgaon - Seeking a 'Manager' to handle my weekend KPIs (Kisses, Playfulness, Intimacy) NSFW

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Looking for a low-drama, high-chemistry FWB dynamic to escape the Gurgaon hustle. I need someone to trade sarcastic banter with and build an stress-free, mutually beneficial weekend routine.

If you're ready to authorize this B2C (Boy-to-Couch) merger, feel free to drop in the DMs.

Let’s schedule an alignment meeting over drinks and see if our vibes synergize


r/r4rindia • • 2d ago

F4R 37 [F4R] Online - Looking to answer any kink-related questions you might have NSFW

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Hey there r4r! This time around, I'm not looking for my partner-in-crime! Iykyk...

I've been kinky since I was little, I didn't know the words back then. Later, I'd tie up my various boyfriends' hands using their belts. For the past several years, I've been active with my kink and have experienced a lot and learnt a lot.

I am a 37 year old dominant and I'm opening up my DMs to any question you might have related to learning more about kink.

AMA!


r/r4rindia • • 1d ago

M4R 32 [M4R] Bangalore - Looking for open minded folks for conversations leading to more NSFW

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Hi R4RIndia,

Hope you are having a good start to the week. I am your friendly neighbourhood pansexual dude, looking to find some folks with whom i can indulge in all sorts of conversation (especially NSFW ones), and eventually take things further if we hit it off. Gender, sexuality etc are no issue as long as you are 18+. Bonus if you are dominant and non-straight.

So if this interests you, please slide into my DMs with your ASL and a short intro about yourself. And to see if you've read this far, mention the word "cream" in your message. Hoping to hear from some nice folks soon!


r/r4rindia • • 1d ago

M4F 28 [M4F] Bangalore - I blame older women for ruining my type NSFW

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I've always had a thing for women older than me. Not really sure when that became a pattern... But at this point it very clearly is one ig.

And I don't mean this in the whole "older women are so mature and confident" generic way. I mean, sure, that can be part of it... But I also just like the age gap? The dynamic of it. Someone who's a little further along in life than I am, has her own stuff going on, knows what she likes. It's attractive to me.

Anyway.

I'm mostly looking for something ongoing. FWB is probably the easiest label for it. I'm not looking for something where we meet once, have sex and barely know anything about each other either.

There should at least be some familiarity, some comfort, some chemistry outside of just "we're both horny and available right now." Beyond that I don't really feel the need to overdefine it.

I'm not amazing at describing myself like this, which I'm now realising is slightly inconvenient for an r4r post.

I'm also in a long-term relationship. it's long distance and she does not know about this. Mentioning this upfront because I'm very transparent about it and not hiding it. If you're partnered too, that's fine with me depending on your situation. I just don't want unnecessary drama around it.

Sexually, I lean dominant. I like things on the rougher side once I'm comfortable with someone, and I'm very into giving as well.

I can host.

Age-wise I don't have some weird checklist where 32 qualifies and 31 doesn't. Just older than me, broadly speaking. If you're quite a bit older, even better, but chemistry matters more than me hitting some arbitrary number. I think what I'm looking for is basically something regular, comfortable and very physically driven, without it feeling completely impersonal.

If that sounds vaguely like what you're looking for too, message me. Age + a little bit about yourself would be nice.

PS: PLEASE give me something more to work with than "hey" though. I am not talented enough to build a conversation out of that.


r/r4rindia • • 1d ago

M4F 30 [M4F] Bangalore - looking for a long term FWB NSFW

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I'm not looking for just a hookup. I'd prefer something a little long term. It takes some time to get to know one another and be familiar with each other. I want to know the exact thing which turn you on. How to get you to the edge. How to get you over it. Basically, I'm looking for someone who's willing to put in some effort.

I'm fun to hang out with. Well read and super ambitious. Can take it as slow as you'd prefer. I'm super clean. Live alone and can host. I'm hygienic and I've been told I smell very good.

It might be a personality trait or something of that sort but I get pleasure by giving pleasure. So, I'm not really expecting much from you in the first meeting. And anything more than that only if we vibe and decide to continue.

Please note that while we can chat a bit on reddit, I would require a voice call before I share any personally identifiable information about myself.

If you liked what you read so far, feel free to slide into my DMs.


r/r4rindia • • 1d ago

M4F 28 [M4F] Anywhere/Online - Would you want to sext with a guy who just got his heart broken ? NSFW

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Hi,

Usually I am not the kind of guy who is looking for a short term fling or who seeks only superficial things.

But having given my all to a relationship for the past few years, accomodating everything that I could for her, only to get my heart broken because she wanted to choose a better prospect has left me sad and hollow.

Today I am looking for something which is superficial and just sensory. Something which soothes the parts that are aching inside my heart. Maybe this will give me some closure and heal me. Maybe not. But I do want to give it a try.

This however does not mean that I will treat you as disposable. I am always open for friendship and having a lasting connection if we vibe together.

I am 28 and have been told that I am good company. I like trekking and moving to the hills whenever time permits me. I have a part of my soul left in the hills which echo the melancholy I am feeling. A few weeks earlier, the echoes were of a happy traveller.

I hope we can connect and talk about life, our experiences in general and explore intimacy if we both feel comfortable with it. Its always nice to talk to people who are bold and uninhibited, or confident enough to let their desires take over.

I hope we can have a memorable time together. :)


r/r4rindia • • 2d ago

M4F 28 [M4F] Hyderabad - I’m tired of acting like a fuckboi, I want that lover boy era back! Hi!! NSFW

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Heyyy! You having fun?

(Context)

I’ve dated my fair share of women but over the years I realised that the ā€œlover boyā€ me was always cheated on or dumped. Somehow things ended up with me having a truck load of feelings and her not being sure.

(Phase)

I went through my ā€œadhd problem solving modeā€ and made a whole ā€œtoxic fuckboiā€ persona who doesn’t give a fuck to just keep women hooked.

It’s very sad to admit that women actually were attracted to me when I treated them poorly. Not all, but most. I could see them putting effort to just get some breadcrumbs back. While this should have solved my all problems, I realised that even if she likes me now - I find this whole ordeal fake. All this fake nonchalance and I’m an alpha ordeal is draining.

I do not want a fake relationship, I want a shot at real one.

(Now)

I am neither nonchalant nor an alpha. I’m me and I don’t want to fake something to find someone worthwhile. I am cringey, childish and a little emotional. I do not want to underplay my feelings. I give a huge fuck about everything that matters to me.

Now that I’ve given you whole context and stuff, a little about me.

I’m 28M from Hyderabad, India.

I used to work in tech consulting (Wahi, online majdoori but pays well wali job). I love to ride bikes with music on (meditative for me!). I am working towards increasing my running distance and my strength in gym currently. I read once in a while but I read articles and posts if that counts, haha. I love Anime, manga, mahnwa(started this recently). I love music. I genuinely do. I like Rap music (will probably bore about this atleast once day. You get 3 skip passes) Maybe I’m much more than this. Let’s find out?

See ya in my DMs. If you read everything, DM with your favourite music or your fav street food!


r/r4rindia • • 2d ago

M4F 29[M4F] Surat/India - Someone funny and unfiltered in the best way possible. NSFW

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First thing's first, I've had my fair share of amazing platonic friendships so it's not exactly what I'm looking for nowadays. Just wanted to throw it out there.

I'm basically looking for someone who doesn't think twice before saying what she's thinking about. Be it flirting, or making jokes or anything at all. Someone who just says things as they come and somehow makes it fun!

I like conversations that have personality. Teasing, playful roasting, questionable jokes, flirting that's bold but still fun. The kind where you're not sitting there wondering what to say next, it just flows and occasionally goes off the rails. Clever fucking banter!

Would be nice to find someone I can talk to late nights, switching between dumb jokes, random thoughts, and venting sessions. Someone I can flirt with, laugh with, and just be comfortable around without feeling like I need to filter everything.

tiny bit about me: I watch at least one movie almost every night and have been doing that for years, so I will probably make you watch something with me at some point. I like singing, video games, and just generally keeping things fun, I'm a fun loving person.

If you can handle a bit of chaos, don't get awkward around flirting, and aren't afraid of jokes that make you judge yourself, we'll get along just fine.

PS: I'm in the US for now

!lock


r/r4rindia • • 2d ago

M4F 28 [m4f] Bangalore - looking for a sub NSFW

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I’m 28M, working in strategy. Avg fair, 5’9 and lean built.

Let’s be real - calling myself a Dom feels a little too much like a guy who just watched Fifty Shades and bought a fake leather harness off Amazon.

I don’t want to give you orders. I just happen to enjoy sex that’s a little intense, a little messy, and always ridiculously fun. So, what does that mean? Think firm hands, teasing restraint, the occasional hair pull that makes you gasp in all the right ways (maybe with a few finger-shaped souvenirs on your hips).

I stay in ecity and can host.

!lock


r/r4rindia • • 2d ago

M4F 32 [M4F] Anywhere/Online - Are you looking for a Dominant ? NSFW

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I know what you are thinking, its another freak looking to use BDSM as an excuse to inflict verbally abusive and traumatic behaviour, with high handedness and a holier than thou attitude, however I am none of those things.

What I am looking for ?

Someone who has an idea about what being submissive in a D/S dynamic means, or is willing to learn and get herself educated about it. Someone who has an open mind about a dynamic or a relation of this sort and understands that online relations take more work than offline in-person relationships. Someone who wishes to explore what being a submissive means and how deep submission can run in one's day to day life.

What I offer?

Utmost care and sophistication in handling things on my end. I will strive the utmost in making sure you feel comfortable and cared for in this dynamic. You would have my full attention and I will make sure that it is fulfilling and wholesome, and not just sexual. I intend on knowing you as a person and invest the time and efforts in building something solid, and I hope you too have the patience while we cover the basics about each other.

What you can expect ?

Respect, care and emotional fulfillment. Like I said, I am looking to invest the time in getting to know you so that I can make sure you feel fulfilled by engaging in this dynamic. I would make sure you feel good about yourself, and feel more confident and comforted. I would like to see you get better and excel in your personal and professional life too. Achieving goals you have been wanting to achieve, and doing things you have been wanting to achieve.

Some FAQs-

Why not offline or an IRL dynamic ?

I am not opposed to having something offline, but the chances of you being in my city are oddly slim. Plus my age also diminishes many prospects.

Am I an asshole?

Probably No, although I would prefer you judge me by your own experience.

Am I going to call you names, or like use language that degrades you?

Again No. Not unless you ask specifically for it, or if it is the kind of thing which turns you on.

Am I going to send you a dick pic?

Again, sorry to disappoint you, but No. I believe there is a time and a place for everything, including dick pics, and your inbox is probably already full of them so whats the point of adding one more to the inventory. There is going to be a lot of conversation and discussion before we get to dick pics.

Am I going to ask you for pictures/videos/calls?

Well, not right away, and not even later. As long as there is a credible way to verify that you are a woman, I don't think I would want to push for pictures/videos or calls. Yes, they are more intimate, but I would rather work around your comfort zone. A one time short verification call or audio notes is alright. But some sort of verification is expected.

Am I into extreme kinks?

Again, sorry to disappoint you, I am into moderate level dominance and extreme kinks don't work for me. I do love dominance, discipline and mental conditioning, and I like the sound of telling someone they are a Good Girl, but I am not into extreme things at all. I prefer sensual, romantic with a hint of discipline and control.

What is my kinklist ?

I am flexible and I like to start with the basics- a little bit of control, tasks, rewards and punishments, and then slowly build over it with time. A bit of control play would be nice, like controlling your daily schedules, or outfits for a bit, but that would definitely come along with the discussion. What is more important is I would like to work with the things you wish to explore or you think you would enjoy.

Do I start right away?

Probably not. A bit of getting to know each other should be done if we are looking to build something which lasts.

What about your privacy?

I am here to do this in the safest way possible for you. But then again, I am just an internet stranger on reddit and my word doesn't mean shit. So, I hope you do your due diligence. But yes, I am privacy conscious and I don't intend on making life any harder than it already is for either of us.

Is it going to be just about sex?

Hopefully no. I would rather hope it would be more wholesome and we can talk about a range of topics from religion to politics, and from food to travelling. We can throw a little bit of our hobbies, tv shows, and pets in between too.

I have tried to make a compelling case for myself, the decision to take forward depends solely on you. I hope you send a message, and we have a conversation. Let's talk, and get to know each other, and then see if there is a common ground between us where we can make this work.

I hope you decide to take a leap of faith and send me a message. :)


r/r4rindia • • 2d ago

M4F 25[M4F]Delhi/India/Online- Cuddle, Vibe and Makeout NSFW

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You want to text but just overthinking it? I can hold conversations and make sure neither of us get bored.

Hey Girl, i am a 25 year old guy living in Delhi looking for a 20 and above girl to vibe and potentially have some good time (casual and no strings attached) with. Age and religion doesn't matter to me as i am really open minded and just the maturity and the like mindedness is what I want. If you are from Mumbai we can keep it on text and meet up when both are comfortable but if outside Mumbai we can continue online and then maybe plan a trip or something? I hope you haven't judged me on my username, ik it's too NSFW but i love to do it, and do it really really well.

I really don't judge so text me being yourself and i am sure if not something NSFW we can keep it SFW (yes i am not thirsty for sexual things), and when i say i don't have a type i mean it so just text, what can go wrong?

Yes ik i have a blank profile but it's my throwaway, so again i hope that's not a reason you don't text me

I am 6ft tall, broad shoulders, lean i would say. Being really honest i am a very decent guy who does have a lot of friends but just looking for someone to explore and have fun with. I am really emotionally sorted with no baggage at all and understand the meaning of limits and space so you don't have to worry about that but i am here if you have some baggage and unsorted shit and want to get through it. I can actually be a person who gives a lot of attention and also be the one who won't give a lot of fucks but just focus on how we enjoy? Depends on what we both want, hence communication is the key and i am really good at it, so hope you put in efforts too!

I am looking for something like: we talk (text/call), we vibe, we decide meet, we like each other, we decide to flirt and give each other some honest validation, we talk slow and makeout the same way.

This is me trying something new.

This would be something more of a Friend's With Benifits/ONS than anything else. Yes ik Bumble, Hinge and Tinder are places to get this but i don't want to put myself out on those platforms and prefer to keep it this way.

# If you are the clingy/needy type i really really like that.

I have got replies in the past which have been underwhelming or something what i wasn't looking for, so i really respect your time. Please don't text if you wanna just ghost or not put in efforts.

So if you do decide to text we start of anonymous and check the vibe, if we get comfortable we meet and see where it leads us. I like to keep my life to myself so whatever happens between us will stay between us and you don't have to worry about anyone else knowing about it.

We can keep it the way we both agree on and are comfortable with, i can be the guy who can take time to know you and bond and gel, or just the the one who takes you out the same day.

If you are seeing this post late and wonder if i am already talking to someone, just text me and I will let you know if i am, better late than never!

Thank you for the read!

!lock


r/r4rindia • • 2d ago

M4F 37 [M4F] Bangalore - Emotional Sadomasochism as Misogyny NSFW

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To start with, CNC is not a misogyny kink mostly. For a lot of women CNC is a hot validation kink. For some it is reliving a past trauma, but mostly a woman asking for CNC just loves the feeling of being desired so much he takes you against your will. It makes her feel hot. It makes her feel like a primal object of sex, and she likes it. Good for her.

I’m just saying if you are texting me about wanting to try out misogyny, know that you getting roughed up is not necessarily misogyny. It could be done with some disrespect, I agree. But it is much better done as a CNC kink where you inform your partner ahead that you’re looking to be roughed in a certain way.

I, madam, am a misogyny fetishist. I'm not here to validate you and make you feel like a goddess that got violated by filth. I'm here to invalidate you and make you feel like filth serving an abusive man like he’s god.

I'm here to affirm to you that you are not desirable. To confirm your gnawing suspicion that you, with all your success, attractiveness, and intellect, are ultimately worthless. I love this bit. To look into your face and announce to it that you are ugly, stupid, and a fucking failure like you were always afraid you were.

This kind of emotional sadism begets a complementary emotional masochism. The women who have done it with me, at least the ones who didn’t safeword and fly away, did it for two reasons. One, they needed the hate, the degradation, and the feeling of being punished. Two, they get off to it.

If that speaks to you, you should message me. And when you message me tell me which of these degenerate masochistic cunts you identify with.

The just out of college techie who took my big toe into her smooth cleanshaven cunt to get kicked and fucked at the same time. The well paid consultant who booked a plush room to lick my boots and offer herself with an open mouth to be pissed upon and into. The trauma slut that got fucked missionary listening to how she deserved everything that happened to her.

If you know the flavour of fucked up you are, I will be able to use you better. In return for all the considerable abuse I mete out to you, I expect you to keep me amused and pleased. It’s only fair.

!lock


r/r4rindia • • 2d ago

M4F 30 [M4F] Bangalore - Is there a side of you only the right person gets to see? NSFW

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You might come across innocent (not your fault, maybe you wear it well) but I’m just curious how accurate that impression really is and whether there’s a version of you that only shows up when the company’s right. The kind that ends up in unexpected Reddit conversations just to see what happens.

If this made you smirk even a little, feel free to reach out

About me: I am a well disguised introvert (you won't know in a one on one conversation). Calm, curious and open-minded person.

I have a slightly morbid interest in human psychology and true crime. I'm 5'11, average build and slightly muscular.

About you: You could be a regular corporate/college woman, polished and put together, but somewhere in there is a side of you that’s just waiting for the right moment to make an appearance.

I like conversations where there’s that subtle spark. You’re just waiting for the right moment. No pressure, no labels. Just two adults who know exactly what they’re doing and enjoy the build up as much as what follows.


r/r4rindia • • 2d ago

M4F 30[M4F] HYD - looking for a dirty lil slut who is into CNC, freeuse and humiliation NSFW

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ABOUT ME:
I seek nothing other than pleasure between us, no drama, no stings. Im just a horny guy with high sex drive and dark fantasies.
Seeking a submissive lil slut. 6ft talk, huge built. Fairly new yet fairly experienced into BDSM and CNC.

Will stop as soon as you say the SAFEWORDS

WHAT AM I LOOKING FOR

I'm looking for someone who acts all shy at first but deep down is a huge slut who slowly loves to lose control over her body. Someone who doesn't mind to be abused, tied up, blindfolded, gagged chocked, slapped, spanked, bruised and wants to try something hardcore Into consensual Non consensual play and loves to be a submissive slave.

(Doesnt mind what I'll think but is ready to say the SAFEWORD the min you are uncomfortable)

Preferably long term but i don't mind a one time thing as well.

HMU if you wanna try any these:
CNC, ANAL, handcuffs, blindfolds, facials, orgasm control/denial, cunnilingus, cum dump, humiliation, impact play, gags, bondage, rape fantasy, rimming, golden shower, degrading, switching sometimes and many more i am very comfortable doing.

(Baby will be treated with cuddles and good lovely care at sleep after the session)

LIMITS: your limits are my limits
Lets talk and see if you are comfortable and see how we can hit it off.

Ice breaker: do you spit or swallow?