r/r4rfrum • • 1h ago

FWB 48 [M4F] #NYC - Tri-state area. Looking for someone trustworthy to keep things quiet and fun. NSFW

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I'm a 48 year old white guy, 5’11” 190lbs brown eyes and salt and pepper hair. I’m pretty easygoing, stable, and definitely still young at heart. I'm married, but untortunately the intimacy and connection have been gone for a while, and I really miss having that physical fun.
I'm looking to meet a woman who's warm, fun, affectionate, and enjoys a good laugh. I'm a man with a high libido, so physical chemistry is important to me, I'd like to actually enjoy talking, hanging out, getting to know each other, and having something consistent that we both look forward to.
If you're in a similar situation and miss having that kind of connection, I'd love to hear from you.
What is your favorite 80's or 90's comedy.


r/r4rfrum • • 12h ago

Friendship m18 just looking to chat and make friends! NSFW

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send a chat


r/r4rfrum • • 14h ago

She's avilable only in nights! NSFW

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I miss her, but I can't catch her during the day, she's online only during the nights, when I really really have to sleep....
what should I do with you sweetie....


r/r4rfrum • • 23h ago

28 m4a looking for modern orthodox people to chat with NSFW

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looking for modern orthodox people to chat with about our sex lives and the people in our lives


r/r4rfrum • • 1d ago

45 [M4F] Any Israelis here? NSFW

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Married Israeli here, looking for chat with frum ladies from Israel or anywhere else actually. Let's discuss the situation of the world and some other more adult-oriented stuff :)


r/r4rfrum • • 1d ago

Casual Encounter Walking past my house m4f NSFW

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I noticed you passing by my house recently while I was outside on the porch. And you kept looking at me and looking away.

If you'd ever like to say hello or get in touch, feel free to send me a message here.

Discretion is important to me, and I will keep everything between us entirely confidential


r/r4rfrum • • 1d ago

M24 NSFW

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M24, I'm married Monsey area, just looking to chat with anyone who's in the mood.


r/r4rfrum • • 2d ago

29 [M4F] #Brooklyn - 51% NSFW

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A good relationship is one where both members contribute 51%. That's what I was told, that's what I practiced, and that's what I was promised. After years of waiting, and never seeing that 51% from the other side, feelings of resentment started to grow. The resentment became difficult to cope with, leading me to deal with it in some unhealthy ways. I was never really one to step out of line, so I was pleasantly surprised when I learned how good it felt to rebel.

I'm sure plenty of people will relate. We're all a little biased toward ourselves, convinced we're the ones putting in the work, making the sacrifices, and holding things together. But I'm looking for someone who's been in it long enough to recognize the imbalance, who's spent enough time putting themselves second to know what they've been missing. Someone who doesn't just feel the temptation to step out of line, but feels they've earned the right to. Someone who can set aside the guilt, let go of the obligation to always be the good one, and finally allow themselves to enjoy something that's just for them.

Someone who knows what they've been missing, believes they've earned the right to find it, and is ready to enjoy the pleasure of rebelling.

If this sounds like you, I'd love for you to reach out

A little more about me - I'm 29, tallish athletic build, green eyes and dimples that both drive women crazy. I have a mild mannered temperament, with a drop of boyish innocence, maybe a little shy, yet very curious personality.


r/r4rfrum • • 2d ago

Frum M4W BDSM 40's NSFW

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I am a mid 40's married frum guys looking for a frum married woman 30+ who want to get to know one another sexually, experiment with toys, D/S dynamic...over time we will get to know each other and talk about other things...what this is what I am looking for, if you are interested...dm me...take care.


r/r4rfrum • • 2d ago

Locktober NSFW

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Any couples here practice locktober?


r/r4rfrum • • 2d ago

Friendship Missed connection Restaurant NSFW

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I was taking your order and we started shmoozing. I know that we definitely hit it off. I could see you giving me that look. Wish I said something... you don't live too far from me. I told you that look familiar.... we discussed neighborhoods ...

Hope you're on here and want to connect. Who knows


r/r4rfrum • • 2d ago

M4M rebbish or chanyukish only NSFW

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Chasidish guy in 30's , would love to play with a Rebbish or strong Chasidish or chanyukish guy


r/r4rfrum • • 2d ago

Friendship Success rate NSFW

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Just curious how many guys have been successful at picking up a frum chick/lady for a date from here ?


r/r4rfrum • • 2d ago

My chavrusa's wife part 3 NSFW

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The pictures kept coming.

Every few days, usually late—two in the morning, three-forty, once at 4:12 while the rest of the world was still asleep—my phone would light up with a single image and nothing else. No caption. No “delete this.” Just her.

Fully dressed, always. Long skirt brushing the tops of her shoes. High neckline. Sleeves that stopped at the wrist. Tznius down to the last button. But the lighting changed. Sometimes the soft yellow of their bedroom lamp, catching the way the fabric clung to the undersides of her breasts when she leaned forward to fix something on the dresser. Sometimes the cold bathroom mirror light, showing the clean line of her waist and the quiet, heavy curve of her ass under the skirt as she turned slightly, not knowing the camera was there. Once she was sitting on the edge of the bed, blonde hair down past her shoulders, one hand resting on her thigh, and the way the material pulled across her chest made it obvious how full she was. Five-eight. A hundred and thirty. Soft in every place the clothes were supposed to hide.

I never answered the pictures. I just looked. And looked again later. And again.

Moshe stopped pretending nothing was happening. He still learned with me. Still sat in the same seats. But the silences between us got heavier, and every time a new photo arrived he would glance at me across the table the next day like he was waiting to see if I’d say something.

I waited almost three weeks.

It was a Thursday afternoon, second seder, the beis midrash half-empty because a lot of the guys had gone home early for Shabbos. We were alone in the back corner. He’d just sent one the night before—her standing in the kitchen in a dark blue skirt and a cream blouse, sleeves buttoned, looking over her shoulder at something outside the frame. The blouse was tight enough across the chest that the shape of her was unmistakable.

I closed the gemara and kept my voice low.

“I jerked off thinking about her last night.”

Moshe’s hand froze on the page. He didn’t look up right away. Color started at his collar and climbed.

“What?”

“After you sent the picture. The kitchen one. I locked the bathroom door and jerked off looking at it. Came harder than I have in months.”

He swallowed. His knee started that nervous bounce under the table again. He pressed his palm flat against it.

“You’re not supposed to say that.”

“You keep sending them.”

Silence. The only sound was someone flipping pages two rows up and the distant hum of the air conditioner.

Moshe’s voice came out rough. “How many times?”

“Last night was the third. First one was the original picture. Second was the one where she’s standing by the closet. Last night made three.”

He dragged a hand over his mouth, then left it there for a second like he was trying to keep the next words in. When he finally spoke he was staring at the gemara like it might forgive him.

“Did you… think about her while you were with your own wife?”

I shook my head. “No. Just the pictures. Just her. Tall. Blonde. Those tits under the blouse. The way the skirt sits on her ass. I kept the phone in one hand and went slow so I could look at every part of her.”

Moshe’s breathing had gone shallow again. He shifted in the chair, and I saw the outline of his cock pressing against the front of his black pants before he adjusted the sefarim on his lap to hide it.

“I shouldn’t have sent any of them,” he muttered.

“But you did. And you’re going to keep doing it.”

He didn’t deny it. His ears were burning. He stared at the same line of gemara for a long time, then said, so quietly I almost didn’t hear it:

“I watched her get dressed this morning. The blue skirt again. I thought about you looking at the picture while you… did that. And I got hard. Right there in the bedroom while she was putting her shoes on.”

I waited.

Moshe finally looked at me. His eyes were darker, pupils wide.

“Send me the next one tonight,” I said. “And when you do, tell me if you jerked off after you took it.”

He held my gaze for three full seconds. Then he gave a single, tight nod, turned back to the page, and didn’t speak again for the rest of the seder.

That night at 2:51 my phone lit up.

A new picture.

And under it, three words:

I did. Sir.


r/r4rfrum • • 3d ago

47 M4A looking for fun in Jerusalem NSFW

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Open to anything. Hangout, chat, meetup. DM me


r/r4rfrum • • 3d ago

32 M4F Israel - Any Chareidis/Yeshivish Women Here? NSFW

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No commitments and no stress. I'm religious, married and I know what it's like when you think you should only want what you have in your marriage - but you crave that which lies outside.


r/r4rfrum • • 3d ago

m4a 32 NSFW

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any frum people wanna chat?


r/r4rfrum • • 3d ago

Sem/Yeshiva NSFW

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Did you hookup in sem or yeshiva in israel?

If yes how far did you go?

Do you regret it?


r/r4rfrum • • 3d ago

Girls night out NSFW

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I know this is a long shot but any girlies here down for some partying in NYC tomorrow night? :)


r/r4rfrum • • 4d ago

49 [M4F] Brooklyn Discreet Cup of coffee NSFW

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I'm 49, married, Jewish physician, and looking for someone who appreciates the beauty of a genuine connection, a little romance, and the excitement of discovering someone new.

There's something special about sitting across from someone over a cup of coffee, sharing a smile, exchanging stories, and feeling that unexpected spark that makes you wish the conversation didn't have to end. Sometimes the best connections begin with the simplest things — a warm cup of coffee, a little laughter, and two people who are curious about each other.

I'd love to meet someone who is on a similar wavelength, someone warm, genuine, and open-minded, who enjoys good conversation and believes that chemistry can't always be explained — sometimes you just feel it. Someone who appreciates the little things, the subtle glances, the playful banter, and those moments when time seems to stand still because the conversation is just that good.

I'm hoping to meet a Jewish woman in a similar situation who would enjoy meeting discreetly for coffee, getting to know each other naturally, and seeing where the connection takes us. I'm not looking to change anyone's situation at home or disrupt the lives we've built. I'm hoping to find a mutual understanding, with clear expectations, respect for each other's circumstances, and the freedom to enjoy a connection without pressure or demands.

No pressure, no expectations, and no need to force anything. Let's start with a simple hello and see if there's a spark worth exploring.

Maybe it'll be an enjoyable afternoon and a few smiles. Maybe we'll find ourselves looking forward to that next cup of coffee together. And maybe, if the chemistry is right, it could become something special — a connection that brings warmth, excitement, laughter, and a little romance into our lives.

If this speaks to you, I'd love to hear from you. Tell me a little about yourself, what you enjoy, and what you're hoping to find.

Let's start with coffee, a genuine conversation, and the possibility of a special connection — while respecting the lives and commitments we each have at home.


r/r4rfrum • • 4d ago

Fantasy NSFW

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What is your biggest fantasy?

Have you ever told anyone?


r/r4rfrum • • 4d ago

Anybody else feel like a cricket stuck on a cigarette butt raft in the middle of a great big pool NSFW

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Ps I saved the cricket


r/r4rfrum • • 4d ago

Mf 4 mf NSFW

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Chasidish couple here in monsey


r/r4rfrum • • 4d ago

M4M Or F Brooklyn 19 NSFW

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r/r4rfrum • • 4d ago

Any Ideas? NSFW

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Yerushalayim

23 mature discreet

white shirt, not the typical loud type of guy you see rolling down the streets.

not at ben Yehuda or the shuk...

looking for that curious Bais Yaakov girl trying to find herself like myself.