r/r4rToronto_Clean • • 16h ago

Friendship 27F4A Looking for a stoner buddy in North York

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Hi I'm a south asian girl who recently moved to North York and desperately needs local friends I can do stuff with preferably this evening! I'm chill, queer, non-judgemental and have been described as a good listener. You are preferably similar, 420 friendly and close to my age. I like hiking and nature walks and I really would like to explore the trails around me before it gets too cold.

I love all sorts of music (mostly rock, indie and metal), like watching recent horror movies and cop noirs, open to new anime recommendations and a big foodie. Show me your favourite local cheap eats after a stoned hike and we will be best friends!

I do prefer women but if you're a guy who understands what a chill platonic connection looks like then hmu!


r/r4rToronto_Clean • • 12h ago

Cuddle Buddy 28 [M4F] #Downtown Looking for an actually genuine connection

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Hello /r4r! I don't know about you all, but last year has been a crazy ride for me. Heartbreak and happiness, letdowns and adventures, visiting loves ones and being alone. I ended up making a huge change of course in my life, got a new job, made new friends and lost many old ones. It's been a while since I've been this content with where I have ended up. Somehow, somewhere though, something feels a little amiss - I miss having someone to share everyday with. If that's you too, well maybe we can hit it off and see where it goes? 😊

Anyway, a little about me - I'm basically your friendly neighbourhood funny guy™ (mostly self proclaimed), that usually ends up in more funny situations than not. Like no seriously, the amount of stupid life stories I have is sometimes a little worrying (try me). I'm a little awkward around new people but once I warm up to you I'm mostly funny and witty, you just better hope you enjoy being assaulted with puns. If you like shitty jokes, you should message me your best (worst?) one!

I used to watch a ton of TV and movies, and I still try to keep up when I can - I watch pretty much anything and always looking for recommendations. Also, if you haven't seen the show Severance you should stop and go watch now. I'll wait. I always love talking / fangirling / discovering stupid fan theories about stuff, so if you want to talk about it, I'm all game! Book recommendations are also welcome - I reallly want to get back into reading as many books as I did as a kid. I love some science fiction, but I'll read anything interesting too!

Okay, let's see, hobbies? Oh god I have too many to list. I sometimes feel like I'm on an endless rotation between new and possibly pointless hobbies that I get into for a while and then completely abandon. Do I enjoy puzzles? You bet I do. Magic Tricks? Pick a card. Juggling? Actually no I hit my face with the ball and then stopped, but anyway. Photography? Been there snapped that. Am I particularly good at any of these? uhm... well, I'm fun at parties at least! Point is, I love learning new stuff, so if you've got a hobby you want to share with someone (or just want to learn something random together) you should most definitely count me in!


So what am I looking for? Mostly to meet cool people to do cool stuff with - road trips, travelling, 1am ice cream trips, or just making spontaneous plans - or just generally my person I guess. Maybe it'll lead to something more, or perhaps we'll just get a new friend out of it. I've got a group of friends I hang out with every so often, but honestly most of them tend to be flaky and it's just such a pain having to coordinate stuff with everyone all the time, sometimes I just want to grab someone and go do something in the moment, you know? Or jump on a discord call at the end of the day and rant about work or share a funny thing that happened that day. (Does anyone here still like talking on a call?!)

I work in tech and I'm very passionate about what I do, and love talking about it. I don't expect you to be in / familiar with any of it, but I would appreciate someone who doesn't mind me explaining and talking about stuff to them (and of course, be willing to share whatever they do / love with me in return). I feel like when something is such a big part of our lives, that's something you definitely need to be able to share with someone in some capacity.

I don't particularly care about where you're from / how tall you are / etc, all I care about is that we have some common interests and you're actually interested in meeting up and seeing where it goes! I'm honestly a little tired of the whole only talk online for a day or two and then get ghosted routine. I'm not the most physically attractive, so if that bothers you - well now you know.


Anyway, that's all from me, if any of this tickles your fancy, DM me with your best/favorite pun and perhaps a little introduction about you? I'm happy to share pictures / other social media / discord if you prefer talking there (I know I do). Either ways, if you've made it here I hope you have a great day :)


r/r4rToronto_Clean • • 13h ago

Friendship 34 [M4F] #Downtown/GTA Looking for 420 company

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I know the title makes it sound like I'm a junkie, I swear I'm not (and hopefully your are not either 😄)!

Lately I've been experimenting with THC and exploring its effects, but doing it solo is a bit limited, so I'm trying to find some company for this highly productive activity. Ideally looking for something chill and relaxed.

I'm open to meet beforehand in a public space for a coffee or a walk.

About me, I'm 34, white, from France (moved here in 2021) and live downtown. I'm a regular gym-goer, so in pretty good shape, and I enjoy anything from art to going on a bike ride. My pic is in my bio.

Feel free to send me a DM if you want more info!


r/r4rToronto_Clean • • 11h ago

Relationship 23 [M4F] #Toronto - Any single lady down for a spontaneous road trip this weekend?

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Hey! I’m a 23M from Scarborough looking to meet a girl who’s free this weekend and would be down to go on a little adventure together.

I drive, so I’m happy to go somewhere around an hour or two away. I was thinking somewhere like Muskoka, a cute little town, a scenic lookout, or somewhere about 3 hrs drive from Toronto where you wanna go (we can discuss). We could explore, grab lunch together, take a few pictures, listen to music, and just enjoy getting out of the city for a bit. Basically being a romantic company to one another.

A little about me: I’m 5’6”, have shoulder-length hair, and consider myself a pretty chill and cute guy. I enjoy late-night drives, good conversations, trying new places, and spending time with someone I genuinely vibe with. I’m also a gentleman and appreciate someone who can laugh, joke around, and be herself.

Not looking to make this some overly planned or awkward meetup. Just two people getting to know each other, enjoying a drive, and seeing how we click. If we get along, maybe this could turn into more adventures together. :)

I’m open to different ages, and I tend to get along well with older women too. Ideally, you’re free this weekend and actually interested in going somewhere together, rather than just chatting endlessly. We can figure out the destination based on what we both feel like doing, maybe plan adventure like hiking, riding jetski together?

Happy to exchange SFW pics and chat a little beforehand so we know who we’re meeting.
If a spontaneous little road trip sounds like your kind of weekend or potentially look for a relationship then hit me up:)


r/r4rToronto_Clean • • 14h ago

Cuddle Buddy 38 M4F - If you host for cuddles, I'll pay for takeout #NorthYork #Toronto

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Looking for a woman cuddle buddy to make life a little more bearable. I'm not equipped to date right now, and I'm not a fan of random hook-up culture. Unfortunately, one of my top love languages is physical touch and I'm feeling the lack of it wearing my soul out.

We can just be like homies that cuddle up on the couch and talk, or watch a movie/series together, or read... whatever. I can't host for a while so it would have to be your place, but I'm a respectful guest and insist I pay for our meals/activity for the time we're together (if we decide to include those).

I'm Arab and South American mixed, light brown skinned, 5'10, have a short neat beard, buzzed head ... anything else can be talked about in DMs. :) I'm open to any race and any legal age... but please be prepared to exchange pictures beforehand so we're both comfortable.

Message me your ASL and a bit about yourself if you're interested!


r/r4rToronto_Clean • • 13h ago

Relationship 28[M4F] #Toronto - Seeking a Genuine Connection

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Hi there!

First of all, thank you for taking the time to read my post.
As the title suggests, I am open to both short and long term relationships, but ideally a longer term one.

I’m Suli, a 28-year-old, 6’0” creative guy living downtown who enjoys drawing, photography, and working out on a regular basis.

Recently, I decided to try my luck here after not having much success with dating apps. I was hesitant about taking this step at first, but eventually figured, what do I have to lose?

I’d describe myself as a kind, easygoing, and loyal man. As for my background, I’m Egyptian/Circassian, which has definitely played a role in shaping the man I am today.

My preferences are pretty simple. I’d love to meet someone who is emotionally available, enjoys communicating, and is open to building a genuine connection. I believe good communication, mutual effort, and consistency go a long way.

As for ethnicity, I appreciate people from all backgrounds, though I tend to be drawn to White, Middle Eastern, and Latina women. Of course, personality and chemistry also play an important role in attraction, and I believe the best connections develop naturally.

I’ve attached a picture of myself through an Imgur link (https://imgur.com/a/NFHQoCF) so we can skip the whole picture exchange part.
If you don’t feel there’s any physical attraction, that’s completely fine. No hard feelings, and no need to waste each other’s time.

Consider me a bit old-school, but I genuinely prefer getting to know someone over coffee or something similar. I find real-life conversations much more enjoyable than being stuck behind a keyboard or a screen.

If all of this sounds good to you and you feel we might click, please feel free to message me :)

Have a great day!


r/r4rToronto_Clean • • 13h ago

Meta 40 [F4M] #Toronto, Canada — I’ll bring the banter. You bring the plot ✨

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Hello there!
I’m an introvert who enjoys playing extrovert, open, talkative, socially confident, and always up for texting, chatting, or voice calls. I’m currently in an ethically non-monogamous relationship. My friends describe me as kind, caring, compassionate, and funny.
I work in healthcare and genuinely love what I do. I’m curious by nature and passionate about learning, with hopes of going back to school someday. I also strongly support mental health causes and women’s education and empowerment.
I love reading, cooking, hiking, people-watching, and traveling. Prague, Paris, and Grindelwald have been my favourites so far; Portugal and Italy are next! I can happily talk for hours about history, science, art, mythology, culture, astronomy, psychology, and spirituality. I’m also learning breathwork and meditation.
\*\*What I’m looking for:\*\* someone \*\*30–45\*\*, local to Toronto or close enough to meet semi-frequently, for a deep and meaningful connection that could potentially become romantic. I’m demisexual and \*\*not looking for anything sexual or physical right now mental\*\* and emotional connection comes first.
I’d love someone to talk to regularly about our days, interests, wishes, desires, books, music, travel, and the occasional looming existential crisis lol. If we click, I’m open to meeting. ☺️
I’m a feminist, pro-choice, LGBTQIA+ ally, and BLM supporter, so shared values matter.
If this resonates, send me a message and tell me a little about yourself please, more than just “Hi/Hello.” ✨


r/r4rToronto_Clean • • 12h ago

Relationship 28[F4M] GTA - looking for someone to be sweater weather cozy with

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Hi there! I'm looking to meet someone who enjoys good conversation and genuine connection. Looking for causal dates that could naturally grow into more. Ideally, I'd love to meet someone who is single, emotionally available, affectionate, has time and genuinely interested in getting to know each other in all ways. 

A little about me: I work in the medical field, and try to make the most of my time outside of work. I enjoy staying active and spending as much time outdoors as I can even in Winter! Whether it's playing sports, going for a run, bird watching, being out on the water, spending weekends at the cottage, or exploring a new town, I'm happiest when I'm sharing experiences with good company.

I also enjoy slower days. I love reading, especially mysteries and nonfiction, watching true crime documentaries, playing board games, working a puzzle, cooking and baking (volunteer taste testers are always welcome), spending time with my dog, and playing piano. Music is a big part of my life, and my playlists are all over the place. I'm always happy to trade recommendations!

I'd describe myself as easygoing, caring, and curious. I appreciate kindness, a good sense of humor, playfulness and passionate guys who aren't afraid to ask questions.

I'm hoping to meet someone who has a life they enjoy, passions of their own, and share a similarly active lifestyle. We don't need to share every hobby, but some similarities can help!

If I sound like someone you'd like to get to know, send me a message with a bit about you! I'd love to hear the song you've had on repeat, your favorite place to escape for a weekend, something you're passionate about or a random fact you've learned recently!