I'm a 40 year old Caucasian guy in the St Marys area. I'm average build with short hair. I got great news recently and have no one to celebrate it with.

Always preferred chubby/BBW/curvy girls. Any age, nationality, etc., that's not what matters to me. I like curves. Everything from girls who are slightly chubby to girls who are barely mobile. Thicker than a bowl of oatmeal, as they say.

If this is interesting to anyone, send me a message. Hopefully we can organise something.

Lovely ladies of reddit - im looking for women into fisting, insertions, stretching etc. Somewhat experienced, though im not really a dom. Just enjoy stretching out ladies. If this has you curious, shoot me a message!

Been going on and off and need to finally get consistent. Would be good to have someone to train with, push each other and keep each other accountable.
Male or female welcome. Wouldn’t complain about a female gym buddy though, might magically find the strength for a few extra reps 😂
Don’t need to be a pro, just keen to show up. DM me if you’re interested and let’s compare schedules!

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❌️ NO solo men

We’re a married ENM couple in our 30s. We’d love to meet another couple where the chemistry feels natural and there’s actually some level of connection.

We’re both fit, tall, Caucasian, well-spoken and take care of ourselves. We enjoy interesting conversation, good humour and getting to know people inside and outside the bedroom. 🔥

Attraction and mental connection are essential — too superficial just doesn’t work.

Looking for people who are 25–40ish, fit, intelligent, and open to fwb with emphasis on friendship.

If this resonates say hi and tell us about you.

I’m 28, in training and very busy. Looking for someone outside of my very medicine heavy circle to chat about legit anything as a bit of a distraction. DMS are open to anyone

I’m a 50 year old European man near Campbelltown, looking for a discreet, casual connection with a woman who enjoys flirting, teasing, kissing and seeing where genuine chemistry leads.

I’m easy going, respectful, well groomed and open minded. I enjoy taking my time, building anticipation and letting things develop naturally. Good communication, mutual comfort and enthusiastic consent are important to me, and I think the best connections happen when both people feel relaxed, interested and completely at ease.

I’m drawn to a woman who knows what she likes, enjoys a good laugh and isn’t afraid to flirt. I’m looking for something low pressure, respectful and enjoyable, with no need to rush, force anything or make promises before we know whether we click.

Discretion matters to me, and I’m happy to arrange a hotel if we hit it off. I’d prefer to chat first, get a feel for whether we’re on the same wavelength and then meet if the chemistry feels right.

If you’re looking for a mature, attentive man who values communication and enjoys a sensual connection without pressure, send me a message. Tell me a little about yourself and what you enjoy. Let’s see if we can make each other smile. 😉

I'm not the loud, crowded-bar type. I'd much rather spend time somewhere we can actually talk, laugh at something ridiculous, and genuinely get to know each other. My life is quieter these days - a small circle of close friends over a big crowd, work in tech that I try not to let run the show, and plenty of room for the things that keep me grounded.

I'm recently single again after a long relationship, and I'm in no rush. I know myself well, I know what I enjoy, and right now I'm happy taking things slow and keeping it light - which is part of why I'm looking for something casual to start rather than diving straight into anything serious.

A bit about me: I'm 49, 180cm, slim/fit (not a gym junkie, but I hit it 2-3 times a week and love getting outdoors when I can). Dark hair with a little grey creeping in, glasses, usually clean-shaven but occasionally a bit scruffy - a touch bookish, if I'm honest. Recent and clean STI results. Easygoing, endlessly curious, a silly sense of humour, and genuinely caring. I'm also comfortable taking the lead.

That's where the age-gap part comes in, and it's a big part of the appeal for me. I have a natural father-figure, caregiving streak as well as a quiet dominant side - I love taking a guiding, supporting role, being the steady one, and looking after the person I'm with. If that dynamic is something that excites or intrigues you, we'll get along well.

What draws me isn't just the physical, though I won't pretend that doesn't matter - chemistry, touch, and closeness are important to me, and I'm direct about enjoying that side of things. But it's the full mix of emotional, mental, and physical connection that really does it for me. One without the others feels empty.

Outside of all that, I'm into music, cinema, cooking (I'll happily feed you), hiking, camping, scuba, and anything in the tech space. I'm flexible to host in the Parramatta area or travel, and can travel further afield for the right person.

While I'm looking for something casual/FWB to start, I'm open to it growing into more if the connection's there. Age-wise, mid-20s to 30s is my sweet spot, though I'm open to 18+ for the right person.

Still reading? Good sign. Message me and tell me what caught your attention - and don't be shy about what you're curious to explore. I'm easy to talk to, and I promise the conversation is half the fun.

Married, 32, 6’1, tattooed, average/fit, and curious to see what kind of trouble Reddit might bring. 😂

I miss that spark. The flirting that starts innocently and becomes anything but. The cheeky messages, the anticipation, the physical chemistry and that feeling of knowing someone wants you just as much as you want them.

The kind of connection where you catch yourself smiling at your phone, looking forward to seeing each other and wondering what might happen when you do. 😏

I’m looking for a woman who’s confident, affectionate, playful and knows what she wants. Someone who enjoys the teasing and build-up, but also wants to turn that chemistry into something real. The intimacy, the excitement, the exploring and, most importantly, having fun together.

I’m not looking to change either of our situations or complicate our lives. We have our own worlds, and I’m not looking to disrupt them. I’m simply looking to fill that missing piece with some desire, excitement and a connection we can both genuinely enjoy.

Ideally, I’d love something ongoing. Not a one-off or endless conversations that never lead anywhere. Just two people with genuine attraction, mutual effort and enough chemistry to keep wanting to come back for more.

I’m attentive, affectionate, easygoing and enjoy making someone feel wanted. I appreciate good conversation, a cheeky sense of humour and a woman who can give as good as she gets.

Discretion, respect and clear boundaries are important. No pressure, no unnecessary complications, just seeing where the chemistry takes us.

Sydney preferred, although I regularly travel interstate.

If you’re missing that feeling of being wanted, desired and having someone you genuinely can’t wait to see again, perhaps we’re looking for the same thing. 😉

So, tell me, are you more trouble in person or over messages?

I don't drink often, but there's something unbelievably alluring about an older woman that no fine wine in the world can match and yes, I think women age better than wine! But if I had to dig a little deeper, I suppose I still have that high school teacher fantasy and best friend's mom fantasy I never got to fulfill.. So I'd say several fantasies also play a role in wanting to realise my dream of finding a milf/cougar/older woman. Maybe I can find that woman on reddit of all places and maybe she's longing to find that life-changing boytoy to keep her company? 😏

I just have this insatiable desire to fulfill her needs and give as much pleasure as possible. The fantasy is unbelievably strong and the want to fulfill it is just as powerful. I wouldn't want anything more than to explore every inch of her body, taking my time going down from head to toe and all the way back up 😘 I'm someone who definitely focuses on the giving than receiving and I'd do that all night if I could. I'd obviously love something long-term, because who wouldn't want a sexy woman to cuddle or confide in when times get tough. I won't complain if you prefer a one-time situation, though, but hopefully I'll be able to convince you to come back for seconds 😉

I'm up for anything you wish/want to do. If you happen to be a lonely housewife just looking for some company and an ear to talk to, I'd be more than happy to be there for you. Speaking of which, I wouldn't mind if anyone wanted to connect via an online friendship kind of thing and that would also be great. If it isn't already obvious, I'm looking for someone to completely devote myself to. I'm talking instant text backs, hour long calls, coming over whenever you want me to, cuddling up and watching your favourite movies and the list goes on. You'll be my first and absolute only priority and I'd do anything to make you happy so that also means I'd love to be exclusive with one woman!

What about me you might ask? I'm a cute 30-year-old, the usual hobbies, etc. Having said that, I'd prefer if we got to know each other through conversation! If my crazy post has somehow convinced you to give me a shot, then send me a message via the chat and I'll get back to you ASAP.

Pretty much, the title.

Looking for anything from skin contact to fingering till orgasm to kissing passionately, to fucking. Preference is something casual and ongoing. Big on trust, hygiene and vulnerability. Kind at heart, kinky in mind. I also love hikes, so if you are a hiking person, why not extend the FWB, with an emphasis on friends as well! Open to just hiking friends with flirting as well. Clothes don’t have to come off.

I am in Schofields, but, distance isn’t a big deal. Also desi (punjabi) for anyone who cares. Tall (6’3”) . Love smelling good. Athletic. On the bigger side down there. Dominant. Strong. Lumberjack like body.

You: Anything from skinny to average/ a little soft works fine for me, as long as you are height/weight proportional. Aligned teeth are also subtly important for me.

🎵I like big butts, I can not lie 🎵

Shoot me a message

Bonus if asian! Someone comfortable with their sexyality, we are a judgement free zone and would love yo share that experience with you! M25 and M45 who's been so keen to make our girl feel so good. DDF and must be clean and have good hygiene, we'll do the same. Can host. Western Sydney area, can book a hotel too.

I want str8/curious guys 18-30ish with fit to muscular bodies to massage and edge/milk, suck, rim. Chill out, have a beer if you want, let me work your body and make you feel really good.

Discretion assured – if I ever see you in public, no I didn't, I've never seen you before.
I live alone. First timers welcome, we can go slow and leave it at just a massage if you want.
I’m handsome, white, 5’10, 90kg, not a creep or weirdo, and have pics if you do. (snap/tele/signal)

Please DM with:
Age, location, pic of your body, and whether you're looking for something right now or in the near future. Good-looking fit Asian guys to the front of the line.

Whenever I make one of these posts I get about 70 DMs in a 24hr period and I get the same questions over and over, so I decided to make a list of them and answer them in advance to save us both some time.
Very Frequently Asked Questions:

How much do you charge? - Nothing, I’m not a sex worker, your load is my payment
What type of massage do you give? - I'm not a trained masseur, I give a relaxing and sensual full body massage that guys seem to really enjoy
What do you get out of this? - I really like massaging fit bodies and sucking straight guy's dicks
How old are you? - 36, it’s in the post
Where do you live? - Summer Hill, it's in the post
Can I see your setup? - See the other posts on my profile
I’m outside your age range, is that okay? - A few years over is fine, but please just respect the range I've specified. I'm not gonna be mad if you message me and you're 36 and jacked with a huge cock though
I’m actually 17 is that okay? - No! 18+ only! Scram!
My body type is outside what you've specified, is that okay? - In my general hookups I hookup with guys of all different body types, but for these encounters I'm looking for what I've specified. (exceptions made for guys with massive cocks)
What happens when I come over? - You come in, you can either have a beer and sit down and chill for a bit if you want or get straight on the table and I'll start the massage. I like to start with your underwear on and then remove it at a certain point. And then depending on what you have specified you want to do during the massage, I would jerk and suck and edge you, and eat your ass. Eventually you would cum in my mouth or on my face
Can you top me? - That's not really what I'm looking for with these encounters but if you've got a great ass then maybe
Can I top you? - Again not really what I'm after with these but if you're really hot or really hung then 100%
Can I suck you while you massage me? - For sure
Can we talk about how this will work in great detail for an indefinite amount of time? - No, sorry

First of all, hi!

I’m gonna attempt to gently manoeuvre my way around this awkward bush, but I think you should know what kind of change I'm referring to lol. The elephant in the room is that I've always been shy. I was really shy in primary school and somehow evolved to being even MORE shy in high school. I'm a lot less shy now but all those years of shyness added up.

I’m in a place where I have the confidence to take that first step and see what's out there, whether that be finding friends or something more! I'd be lying if I said I didn't want to explore the latter more, though, because it's a constant reminder in mainstream media. Things as simple as holding hands to kissing to something more intimate - it's all so intriguing and most importantly, fun! That means I've never been on a date or you know, had a girlfriend. There, I said it. 🙈 I suppose in an ideal situation, I'm looking for something along the lines of a FWB.

I’d describe myself as chill, goofy and very sweet. To back up those claims, I liken this post to fishing, which might be slightly unusual at first glance lol. Essentially, I'm casting out my line and if I get any nibbles, then awesome! If not, that's okay, too, because I'll just release the fish that aren't interested and treat each one as a new learning experience that'll help me on this journey. No need to be upset if things don't pan out :) I'm also cute! Or might not be lol. I know everyone has their preferences. Speaking of preferences, I don't really have any myself, so I wouldn't be opposed if someone older reached out. Perhaps wanting someone chill or sweet, I guess, but I think most people possess those qualities. You definitely don't need to be in the same situation as me!

Anyway! I think a great way to establish a connection is to find a commonality in regards to interests. Hit me up with a game, song, movie, food, shoe, sport, socks, book, vacation or whatever it is that you're currently obsessed with and I'll be sure to return serve :) Or I can start instead by saying: I enjoy games and sports equally! And the Kpop demon hunters soundtrack still gets played on repeat several days a week 😅

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I am in cowra this weekend and can host.

Married man here whose life is nearly perfect if that's what they say when you look happy to everyone.

But the fact is I am in a dead bedroom situation. Both of us work hard, and put efforts towards our career, family life, social life but have reduced to being very good friends who care for eachother.

There's so much more going on in my mind that I feel like writing but don't want to waste anyone's time. Or I am not that comfortable to open up to strangers.

I am just craving a hug. A long hug from a stranger who won't ask me anything. I just want to feel being healed. My heart cries for affection but my eyes and brain are conditioned not to.

I cannot get separated because I'd be a fool to throw away a perfect home that millions would do anything to have.

I just want to feel someone's heart beating a few inches away from mine. No expectations, no obligations, just someone who would be keen to meet over coffee and if they feel comfortable to chat, and want to hug in silence.

Ideally someone in similar situation.

I am not asking for anything more than that in this post.

❤️

Hey, 30-year-old male in a wheelchair, new to Sydney, looking to make friends with like-minded people. Was involved in a car accident a couple years back, now slowly trying to put myself out there

Hey, I’m 23F looking for a gym buddy at Snap Fitness Meadowbank!

I’m trying to get more consistent with the gym and thought it would be nice to have someone to keep each other accountable and make actually showing up a little easier 😂

I’m mainly into strength training, especially legs/glutes and back. I’m also a firm believer that every gym day MUST end with 3x15 cable crunches because I need to have a 6 pack by December (bonus points if you get the reference 🤣). However, we don’t have to do the same workouts! I’m more looking for someone where we can be like “gym at \[insert time\]?” and actually hold each other to it, even if we get there and go off to do our own thing.

I’m also getting into running, so if you’re keen, it’d be nice to have someone to go for runs with around the Meadowbank area every now and then too, either during the week or on weekends. (Or if you’re mainly a runner and saw this, hit me up as well)

Don’t care if you’re a guy or girl, and you definitely don’t have to be super experienced. Ideally just someone who’s chill, respectful, wants to be more consistent too, and maybe make a new friend in the process!

If that sounds like you, feel free to DM me 😊

Looking to have some fun and a nice little hotel stay tonight or sometime this week/weekend.

Clean, fit, discreet and reliable.

DDF / non smoker.

175cm Aussie/Caucasian, 78kg, 7”.

Happy to verify on snap/tele.

Love to please (read pleasure dom).

Also into Cnc, rough, feet, massaging.

DM if interested xx

25M sub looking for a woman or MF couple who’d enjoy making me jealous and having me as their cuck 😏

Happy to lean into the submissive side too — teasing, rules, service and being put in my place. Looking for the right dynamic and chemistry, not just a random hookup.

I just moved here in Sydney from Brisbane.
Looking for ongoing companionship and potentially relationship with white/ asian female, we can chat/ swap pics, hang out first, see if we click. No pressure, state your boundaries, I’ll respect it.

M27, Chinese-Indonesian, regularly workout (i was a personal trainer before), fit build (well you can judge it later), good hygiene, clean and ddf. I am also into games.

I live in Mascot so would be nice if you are nearby but distance isn’t really a problem. Can’t host but ill get us a place.

Bonus if you understand Japanese because my japanese course starts next week. And would be nice if you are into workout (or at least not against the idea) so we can do it together.

Send me a dm and ill get to you.

Hey! So I'm a guy that is enbracing my more femanine nature, and it's a really isolating experience. I'm looking for accepting friends, who would love to meet for a shop, a drink or two or a dinner date 😌☺️
I'll be travelling to Sydney in about a month from another Australian city!

I'm a really easy going and fun person, would prefer it to be genuine so would love to chat to someone in advance to make sure we click and I feel safe!

Send me an intro and let's go from there 💕

I’m a happily married 50F who’s recently started exploring my attraction to women, and after a first date, I’m keen to see where things might lead.
I’d love to meet a genuine, confident woman around my age for flirting, chemistry, fun and hopefully more. Sydney or the Western Suburbs would be ideal.
I’m still relatively new to this, so someone open-minded, respectful and discreet would be wonderful. My husband is supportive, but this is something I want to explore in my own right.
If you’re curious too, I’d love to hear from you.

26M (for F only!) near parra. It's still raining, it smells amazing, and I don't think anything would be better than having someone to eat out and make out with while it's still raining. Cannot host, car fun/backseat fun or your place only. Can drive to you. DM me if you're awake and keen

19M, fit, open to anything. Looking for someone around my age (18-21) and preferably Asian but open to others. Bonus if you’re petite too. I’m Asian, I can host cbd area. Interested in fwbs or long term relationships too if it goes well. Willing to try different things that you might like. Can do meet up as well to see if we vibe too.