r/prenursing • u/OpportunityFit2909 • 4h ago
Rejected from nursing school.
Hi, this might be a little long but i’m pretty emotional about this and on my period. so it might be word vomit so stay with me.
I’m 20F, a first-generation college student, and I recently found out that I was rejected from my university’s nursing program. For some background, the minimum requirements were a 3.0 prerequisite GPA and a 58.7% on the TEAS. I applied with around a 3.0 GPA and a 64% TEAS score. I knew the program was competitive, but getting that rejection email still hurt more than I expected.
Looking back, I realize there were things I could have done differently. I’ve learned that some students took anatomy at community colleges or completed statistics online, which may have helped them earn higher grades. I didn’t really know about those options at the time, and I can’t help but feel frustrated with myself for not exploring them sooner.
This past year has also been incredibly difficult for me personally. My mom was diagnosed with cancer for the second time in her life and has undergone multiple surgeries. I’ve spent a lot of time helping her through her recovery while trying to balance school and everything else in my life. Watching someone you love go through cancer is emotionally exhausting, and I genuinely believe it affected my mental health and academic performance more than I realized at the time.
I’m not sharing that as an excuse for my grades, but rather to explain that there’s been a lot happening behind the scenes.
What hurts the most is watching other students move forward into nursing school while I feel like I’m standing still. I’m genuinely happy for everyone who got accepted, but it’s hard not to compare myself or wonder where I went wrong.
I still want to become a nurse more than anything. I’m planning to retake my TEAS, work on improving my GPA, and reapply for the fall cohort. I’m determined to give myself another chance, but right now I’m struggling with the disappointment and the fear of getting rejected again. I think being a first-generation student makes this even harder sometimes because I feel like I’m figuring everything out as I go, and I don’t always know what resources or opportunities are available to me until it’s too late.
For anyone who has been rejected from nursing school before, how did you cope with it? Did you eventually get accepted? What did you do differently the second time around?
I could really use some encouragement or advice right now. I know one rejection doesn’t define my future, but it’s hard to remember that when you’re in the middle of it.
Thank you to anyone who took the time to read this. ❤️