r/penissize • u/nakedguy32 • 9h ago
Question Is 1.5” soft to 3.5” hard still considered a grower?
I know it’s quite small, but I’m curious to hear what you guys think.
r/penissize • u/Reasonable_Panic_849 • 20d ago
Hello everyone, it's me again; I have updated the website to be about penis size, ejaculation, and sex.
https://sexincontext.netlify.app
You will see there is six pages now:
Feedback has been taken on board. Please let me know what can be changed or added.
Thanks.
r/penissize • u/kostis12345 • Feb 20 '26
A person visiting the r/penissize subreddit will easily notice the subreddit’s banner, located at the top of the page in both the Reddit mobile app and the desktop webpage: “A place to discuss penis size. You may post here no matter what penis size you have. There is no penis discrimination. Note: All healthy sizes have advantages and disadvantages.” This banner makes it obvious to all potential posters and commentators that the discussion about penises and their sizes here can be about any human penis of any size (of cisgender men/of transgender men/of transgender women/small/medium/big/thin/thick/white/black etc. etc.) and that there shouldn’t be any discrimination. The last part has not been going very well in the last period though, so we decided to update our ruleset, in order to counter some recent but also some older problems.
Starting from the first new addition to rule 4, “No larping” (for those unfamiliar with gaming/online sociolects, it means pretending to be something that you are not), obviously a worthwile discussion about any matter, not only about penis size, should involve truthfulness, unless all participants in the communication agree that they are roleplaying (but this is not a roleplaying subreddit anyway). We have been removing content from larpers like 13 year olds with 7” long penises, men who have horse cocks of 8” girth etc. etc. for years now, but we think that the time has come to make this a specific rule for all to be seeing. In this rule extension we don’t expect a lot of negative reactions (even larpers don’t admit they are such, because this would cancel their larping :-) ). That having been said, some size claims are not self-evidently phony (for example adult 9” long erect penises are very, very rare statistically, but they do exist) and even if a moderator plays the dick detective and visits the profile of an account with an improbable but still realistic size claim, NSFW content is not always available, so sometimes we need to just take whatever improbable we read in good faith and approve the content.
Nevertheless, there can be an extra restrain to improbable claims, which leads us to our second rule extension of “No bragging”. There are subreddits meant for big dick owners to share real or fantastic achievements and receive admiration from big dick fans – this is not such a subreddit. If you claim an extraordinarily big size and want for all the world to know how successful your sex life is or how much you are admired in locker rooms, a) you are probably larping, and b) anyway there are subreddits other than this for your success story. There is another aspect in this discussion though, big dick owners with actual issues that they want to share and ask questions about them (from finding comfortable underwear/condoms to feeling objectified). Having actual issues is not bragging, and these posts are legitimate to get posted here, which leads us to our third rule extension.
“No gatekeeping” (again for those unfamiliar with the term, it means prohibiting others from participating in discussions/expressing their opinions, and in the specific context of Reddit from sharing their views in a subreddit) when the subject is specifically penis size can have the strong version of “you do not belong here because of your size”, but as I have noted in the beginning, this is a subreddit for the discussion of all sizes, so this type of gatekeeping can’t work here, but it also has the weak version of “your big size is privileged, so you can’t have problems/you can’t speak about smaller sizes’ issues”. We acknowledge that sizeism is a real social issue both online and irl creating lower and higher “body statuses”, and that a person with privilege can easier be pedantic/insensitive/arrogant/unfair towards people without that privilege, but that does not apply to everybody everywhere. If it did, all men would be sexist, all white people racist, all cis straight people homophobic/transphobic etc. etc. So to wrap it up, you can criticize someone for being pedantic/insensitive/arrogant/unfair etc. etc. whatever their size is, but you can’t criticize them for having the audacity to share an opinion or have a problem, “even though” they have a big penis. Also, although we encounter this type of gatekeeping much less in comparison to the previous type, it should be explicitly stated as well that this is a subreddit welcoming all kinds of penis owners (cisgender men, transgender men, transgender women, intersex persons etc. etc.) and not only cinsgender men.
And last but not least, our “No Shaming rule” still applies in almost its original wording, as we had to cut out a few words here and there for the link to this mod post to get added (Reddit rules' text has a 500 character limit). I give here the previous, a little fuller version: “Shaming is defined as intentionally causing others to feel embarrassed, ashamed, or inadequate. This includes shaming genital size, genital shape, sexual preferences, sexual orientation, gender identity, relationship preferences, body type and size, physical and emotional handicaps, and/or sexual history (excessive self-shaming and self-pitying for the above reasons can also lead to post removals). Implying that average or any penis size is inadequate is unacceptable and is not allowed.” As a matter of fact, we decided to extend rule 4 and not add a new rule 12 of “No larping/bragging/gatekeeping” because we see all of these as related more or less directly to shaming: you are larping or bragging to look superior implying shame for those “inferior” to you, and you are gatekeeping because you are good enough and the other person isn’t, implying again shame.
(Please have also in mind though that this rule extension will not have retroactive power: we acknowledge that some past posts of this subreddit can be now reported as rule-violating, but it would be unfair and irrational to be asking from past OPs to first see in the future how the rules of this subreddit would be expanded and then post based on that prediction. In other words the extended rule 4 applies to all posts after this mod post, but not to those before it).
The last thing that I would like to note in this rather lengthy moderator post is a bit personal for a moderator post, but I think it is important. Occasionally some of the people who gatekeep see the mod team as a group of undiferentiatedly privileged people, firstly because of their moderator status (which is actually a privilege that we do all share in this specific subreddit), but also because we all supposedly have big dicks, are able-bodied etc. etc. I don’t think that it is appropriate to share personal info about each specific moderator, but I need to stress that we are not all big-dicked/cisgender/straight/able-bodied etc. Treating us as privileged by default is not only false, but also implies that we can’t have empathy for issues that are not ours. All of us in the mod team try to be better people than that.
r/penissize • u/nakedguy32 • 9h ago
I know it’s quite small, but I’m curious to hear what you guys think.
r/penissize • u/TechnicianTiny2355 • 47m ago
Its about 4-4.5 inches or shorter when hard which isnt very long lolol>0<
r/penissize • u/Such_Sell1624 • 2h ago
i might be the guy number 1000 saying the same thing feeling self anxious about his size, but truthfully, it’s been a rough time feeling small for almost two years that i can’t help myself staring online into people’s penises,measuring my penis every day non stop, sometimes crying over a stupid penis because i thought i’m cursed,although on paper i should thank god but in appearance compared to all these people claiming that they have the same size as me, they look atleast 2 times bigger,and when i look in the mirror i see two giant legs with a small penis in between.
i don’t wanna play the same damn record about this but please, any help or tips ???
r/penissize • u/Money_Mouse3568 • 8h ago
I am about 4-5 inches long depending on position and my fat pad, and my girth goes from around 5.25 to 5.75 too to bottom. Just curious if it would still be enjoyable since I am not super long. Thx
If any similar guys are out there let me know, feels like I am in a minority.
r/penissize • u/New_Discount_1073 • 5h ago
just wondering if 3.0 is considered micro, im about 340lbs so it looks really small in comparison to my size. 20nb
r/penissize • u/UpJohn383 • 5h ago
About 1.3% of the population has a true 8" penis. That's roughly 3,500 guys in the US. Could a lot of them be in porn and showing off their stuff online making it seem like there's more of them than there really are? Probably, they know what they've got and how rare it is. They would be in high demand for that industry just like exceptionally tall people are scouted for basketball.
Anything bigger than 8" and the numbers start to decline drastically, like 1 out of every 1 million with a 9" penis (350 guys) and 1 out of every 3 million with a 10", meaning there may be just 115 guys out of 350 million who have a true 10" penis and the real numbers may be even smaller as there has never been one actually measured in a controlled scientific study as far as I know. You might have as good a chance of winning the Powerball jackpot as being born with a true 10" penis.
r/penissize • u/AdMassive8870 • 14h ago
I AM SK FUCKING HAPPY I THOUGHT IT WAS SMALL 😭😭
r/penissize • u/Chemical-Flight6530 • 14h ago
Holy shit, never thought about it, but volume seems like a core number for understanding different sizes.
Has anyone checked their size vs avg based on volume?
8.25x6.5, about 13.83 fl ounces or about 3x avg. That is drastically more intense than I ever thought. Probably why girth is so important vs just size.
r/penissize • u/ShowOffScholar • 23h ago
Key findings:
- There is a direct correlation between porn consumption and the desire for a bigger penis among British men and women.
- Findings showed that 50% of men and 40% of women who watch porn daily would like to have a bigger penis or wished their partner’s was larger.
- Of those that do not watch porn, only 30% of men and 10% of women reported concerns over penis size.
r/penissize • u/Extension-Scene-7901 • 1d ago
I’m 6.5 inches and have pretty big hands and I can fit two hands on my penis but there’s not much room left, if your around this size could you fit two hands on your penis
r/penissize • u/SneakyEzekiels • 12h ago
Let’s say 4.75-6” long and 4.4-4.8” girth… that range roughly.
How have your experiences been with women (or men)? Do you get compliments on your penis? Advantages and disadvantages?
r/penissize • u/justyouraverage15yr • 10h ago
do i claim 7.5” BP or 7” NBP
which one should i claim!???
r/penissize • u/Nathancollins69 • 18h ago
I’m about to do some nude modeling here and I won’t lie I’m a little embarrassed about my size. I’m definitely a grower not a shower. I would love another inch but what guy wouldn’t 🤷♂️. I’m more curious is there a way I can have a bigger flaccid guy? Or at least prep a little?
r/penissize • u/Tell_me_when_ • 15h ago
Idk if it’s just me, but I feel like a lot of the time the girls I’m with have way more of a “flaunt the dick” mentally than even us guys do. I’m not gonna pretend like I’ve never shown off before, but I don’t do it regularly and never to make other guys feel smaller or insecure. HOWEVER, an unusual amount of girls I’ve been with have the bizarre interest in comparing my dick with other guys explicitly to put them down or take a shot at their masculinity.
Whether it’s them joking about the heft I’m packing with their guy friends, or worse… (my guy friends??), it seems like a lot of girls get a sadistic thrill from outsizing another guy, regardless of who they’re using to outsize. I know this a minority of girls out there but I feel like people online always talk about boastful guys without taking in to account the other sex.
Maybe it could be something exclusive to sizequeens? Or maybe it’s just a way for some chicks to flaunt what they get to go home to? Regardless, I always feel weird being thrown into indirect dick measuring contests with other guys. Thankfully I’m not with someone like this at the moment, but my last fwb was very obsessed with this and other size kinks, and made me recognize the pattern for the first time.
I guess it could be seen as flattering a guy in a weird sense? Either way it still feels gross putting other guys down for something neither of us chose or can control. Am I crazy or has anyone else dealt with this? Do girls actually get a thrill comparing cock sizes vicariously? Should I just not say anything if this happens again in the future? Is this as weird as I think it is? Thanks!
r/penissize • u/Busy_Ice3358 • 9h ago
To give my size to a girl who asks, I should give her the Bp medical measure or rather the side measure or the longest measure I have. Since measuring in bp on the pubis bone only serves to create a standard for statistics or comparisons. The girl gets an idea of a size based on a general visual estimate, not the distance pubian bone/top of the glans. And the girl will also estimate the size according to the size of her former partner, so unless she has already measured a penis herself, she will rely on the word of her exes who are explicitly lying about their biggest measure. So is it more useful to tell a woman the size medically bp or my best measure?( When I talk about better measurement I'm not talking about cheating of course, my penis is curved upwards so if I measure from behind by placing the zero where there would be a ring for erection and that I measure with the ribbon I have a good 2cm more). Would be more representative for the girl, right? Assuming that the vast majority of men say their best measure and most do not know the real medical measure, and that another part of these men easily adds 1 cm more and that women see only fire. I don't know if I'm understandable, but in the context where the majority of girls have the famous problem of the "girl's thumb" and that the majority of their partner lie or outbid their size a little, what is the use for you to give your medical bp length, it can make the girl believe that you are smaller than you really are. If the girl is mainly looking for 18cm penises for example, and you measure 18 of the best of measures but in medical bp you have 16, what would you say to the girl? Because once again the medical measurement does not really serve to get an idea of the size of the penis in visual estimation, the medical measurement only serves to create a generalized measure to obtain a reliable difference between 2 sizes to establish averages and compare them. I translate everything to Google translation forgive me if it's hard to read
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r/penissize • u/Distinct-Syllabub-60 • 14h ago
Looking for real person to explain about their experience with women with this size. Anything is accepted but I prefer people who date more.
Feel free to dm
r/penissize • u/SneakyEzekiels • 1d ago
r/penissize • u/Ill-Bar9408 • 11h ago
I use to think I was small until I started posting and now I take it that men and women just like to look at me and that’s enough for them. I find it hard to find someone who like to take my 8. Anyone else have this experience? Should look in a certain place?
r/penissize • u/8iggerthanyou • 12h ago
All my friends say it’s big but only bc i’ve told them the measurements and maybe a picture here and there, it’s about 8“ long and like 6“in circumference which is obviously big but like im 6’4 and wide with quite large features like my hands are quite big so it never seems that large and i feel like that has an effect on my confidence, how do i help this?
r/penissize • u/Middle_Pollution_884 • 1d ago
I’m Japanese, and the average penis size for Japanese men is around 13 cm. I’ve always been jealous of how some Black men have really large penises. One day, I started wondering why Japanese men don’t have a particularly large average size, while Black men supposedly have a larger average.
The hypothesis I came up with was inspired by seeing Black women with big butts. I thought to myself, “My penis would probably only go in a little bit.” My theory is that penises evolved to be larger because it was easier for men to pleasure women 「with bigger butts that way.
What do you think of this theory? Japanese women generally don’t have very big butts.
By the way, my penis is only 14 cm long.
I’m using AI to translate, and I’m sorry if anything I said was offensive.
r/penissize • u/Muted_History_3032 • 1d ago
I measured in my early teens and was around 5 inches, so I always just assumed that’s what I was and thought I was slightly below average. Never had confidence issues because of it but that’s just what I thought. I’ve gotten lots of compliments on it over the years but I always focused more on the compliments about how it looks, how the head is shaped etc more so than the compliments about it being big, almost like I was trying to convince myself those women were just trying to be nice or something?
Now at 30 I finally measured it again and come to find out it’s actually 6.5 inches, even a little more if I really flex it and am totally rock hard. (haven’t measured girth yet). Maybe it’s because I’m 6’4” tall that my perspective on it is sort of skewed? I’m also very much a grower, like it’s actually insane to me how my dick can possibly grow as much as it does 😆. So seeing how small it can get when soft also probably lent to me thinking it was smaller than it was.
I’m just curious if anyone else has had that experience of finding out you’re bigger than you thought you were? It definitely gives me a new peace of mind and confidence that I didn’t have before, even though nothing physically changed.
r/penissize • u/Secs_Samadhaan • 1d ago
Penis having White patches, itching, or tight foreskin are the signs of fungal infection, but not always.
Sometimes it may be something different like Penile Lichen Sclerosus.
You may observe white or pale patches, itching, soreness, cracks in the skin, painful erections, and difficulty in pulling back the foreskin.
If the case becomes severe, scar tissue may develop which can make foreskin so so tight that you wont be able to pulling it back or sometimes urine passage too becomes narrower.
It may be due to immune system problems, genetic factors. Some thought it is STD but no, it’s not!
This is not that common as usual.
Some cases needs surgery or sometimes steroidal creams help.
Ever observed that and just trying to treat it by antifungal cream ?