Hey gays,

How are we getting around splitting the bill?

Recently, I had a hangout with a couple of friends and their friends who I had a blast with. We ended up at a restaurant and everyone was ordering up the menu, I mean every appetizer, every side, and multiple drinks. I, however, had already eaten lunch and I don’t drink so I ordered a modest entree. Sure, I nibbled on a little this or that when prompted too but frankly I was only doing it to be nice. I genuinely only wanted my burger and water.

The bill came and everyone decided to split this humongous bill amongst ourselves bringing it to $77 bucks! I couldn’t help but feel pissed as my burger was only $25.

I’m not gonna have to get on the pole to make that $67 dollars back but I’m not one of those gays that spends money frivolously.

I now find myself a bit nervous about agreeing to attend dinners and hangouts out of fear of splitting an even bigger bill. I still very much so want community outside of clubs but I did not know I would be paying a portion of rent at dinner!

I drool at these guys at concierge mid day everyday… why they so hot?

Question for my fellow bears: where do you get your harnesses and other gear? I wear an XXL and all the places I have been looking online only carry up to an XL. Its so frustrating.

I mostly use Old Spice Pure Sport and Dove Fresh - the former works well but neither smell all that good. I thought the gay hive mind might have some good recommendations.

Simple enough, looking somewhere fun to go after work tonight and want some reccs. Preference for a fun even cruisy vibe. Im 28 if that helps.

Just flew into nyc today. i’m staying at a hostel in brooklyn and hoping someone can suggest where to go out - especially in manhattan.

i’m 27, love to party and rave, and hoping to find something that would be fun haha. would appreciate any recs

What would be the best gay bar to go to in Manhattan by myself? I’m bi and live in Staten Island and don’t have any gay friends 🤷🏻‍♂️

It’s a bit scary some people don’t know that. Nudism, naturalism casual nudity does not have anything to do with sex. A naked body does not mean sex!

I posted about a nude naked movie night and too many people thought Sex movie night.

WHY MUST WE BE LIKE THIS?!?!?

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Looking to expand my ~hobbies~ and I’ve always loved dancing and I am decently good at it but have never actually had any proper training.

Are there any studios my fellow gays could recommend that offer classes for beginners? Ideally hip-hop. Easy access from the L train would be preferred.

Hey! 25m I’m looking for some sort of team sports. Used to play a lot of sports in my youth so I know the rules but fell off in high school. I’d love any recommendations on where to find groups that are welcoming to people who are noobs but love some competition! Groups that are queer are ideal but non exclusive groups are also fine.

Hello! So I made a post I think 3 months ago? saying that I’ll be swearing off the apps, and I’ve been mostly successful ( unless I was dying for a drunken late night booty call lol). But now I’m definitely in the mood for some male attention, not strictly from places with alcohol or clubbing. I see that 3DB has speed dating events, anyone have a positive experience from that? Not necessarily finding Mr. Right, but did you find that it’s worth the 30 or so dollars? Or does anyone else have any single mixing events? Would be nice to have someone to do stuff with and have consistent sex again lol. Thanks!

Looking for any recs for photographers who are comfortable with nudity for a photoshoot.

Preferably in Manhattan or Brooklyn.

Willing to also work out a deal if you want to use some of the pics for your personal portfolio/website.

Feel free to DM for more info

I have been waiting to attend one of these parties forever. I think I’m finally getting up the nerve to try it out. I know I love giving and would be curious what it would be like to have a bunch of men like a candy store At my service.

Hey guys. 37 yo in brooklyn hosting a Gay nudist movie night in an attempt to meet other fellow nudist in NY who are also around my age.

Movie lovers and or potheads welcome to join. DM with info about yourself for invite.

My erectile dysfunction has gotten worse over the years, ugh. I take Viagra but it’s time to check in with a doc about it. Who’s got a good one? Ideally gay friendly/knowledgeable but I suppose it’s not a requirement.

I swore I saw an ad somewhere on socials to a party this weekend offering free admission to tops who measure over 8 inches in length. Any links to what I thought I remembered seeing?

been to Scum, Lodge, Eagle (on wed)....very unimpressed....bunch fo guys walkign around doing nothing....even went to east side club 2x...guys walking around in towels doing nothing

havent tried NYJacks yet.....but hearing its just guys jerking eachother off and if you try to do more you are asked to leave...FUN!

there has got be something better out there!

Just finished watching six and its too early to call it a night. What's a good thing to do next? Any recommendations?

Want to hit up the Black Under Gear party today on 38th. Anybody ever been? I’ve been to the 3rd floor location but not the fourth. Exciting to try out a new spot!

P.S. went to the Latin leche party last night and it was 🔥

What the title says! Has anyone here tried one of those services? It seems like a cool, interesting way to be introduced to some new restaurants and potentially some new people, so I'm interested. But would love to hear some other experiences.

I am visiting Times Square, where is the best place to hang out? Any good bars?

Someone who comes from out of town.

It’s strange how I can go to a sex party one week and get lots of attention (sometimes too much) and then go to the same one two weeks later and it’s like I’m invisible. Last time I went it was like the latter, but later on when I was about to give up one of hotter, more popular guys there who barely looked at me the entire night came up and made a move.

Anyone have the same experience? Is it about having consistent confidence? Or playing the game better? Body fat fluctuations? lol

Like the kinda place you wanna stay all night..

I (M24) have signed up for all sorts of dating apps, tinder, hinge, bumble, Facebook, and have gotten very few matches and very few conversations. I feel I just eventually get ghosted and left out to dry even though my intentions are clear that I want a long term relationship. Am I doing something wrong here? I just feel like shit, I pour my heart out to the next guy only to feel played for a fool and I don't know if I have the looks to find me relationships like others.