r/nfl • Lions • 10h ago

Mike Tomlin's interpretation of players-only meetings: "I think you're dead"

https://www.nbcsports.com/nfl/profootballtalk/rumor-mill/news/mike-tomlins-interpretation-of-players-only-meetings-i-think-youre-dead
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u/ND7020 Seahawks 9h ago

If it did occur, I’d like to not hear about it,” Tomlin said. “The fact that you hear about it is what makes it BS.”

That makes sense!

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u/YinzerKermy Steelers 8h ago

It’s the label itself that is the killer. Players meet and taking with each other all the time and don’t label it that way. The reason to label it that way is you have agenda going beyond just average football talk.

Yeah you can talk to your girl all the time but getting hit with hey we need to talk is a lot more ominous. Why does the talk have to be announced and labeled? Because it ain’t gonna be good news.

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u/PhilosophizingPanda Patriots 6h ago

This is a perfect analogy. Even reading the “we need to talk” made my heart sink a little lol, puts it into perspective really well

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u/SevroAuShitTalker Broncos 8h ago

When's the last time you heard of a good team having a players only meeting

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u/Lubbafrommariogalaxy Ravens 8h ago

2012 ravens had a players meeting and we won the superbowl

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u/ferrumvir2 Patriots 8h ago

Didn’t heads roll right after that though and Caldwell became the OC?

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u/Zdx 8h ago

Shhhhh … places tarp back over guillotine

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u/Expert-Yam6577 Eagles 3h ago

Knicks had one this last season. Media clowned them for it.

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u/butidktho_ Ravens 2h ago

they had a near mutiny against Harbaugh led by Ed Reed and Bernard Pollard. So much so that it was both their last season in Baltimore.

The mutiny was sparked by the players being upset about having a full padded practice. Stop me if you’ve heard that before.

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u/Boosh_d 49ers 6h ago

This the meeting where they handed out all the deer antler spray? I KNEW IT!

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u/songssohiaa Dolphins 3h ago

Was that when the lights went out lol

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u/dat_hypocrite 49ers 7h ago

2007 chargers started 1-3, had a players only meeting and finished 11-5 losing in the afc championship to the undefeated pats

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u/ND7020 Seahawks 8h ago

I’m drinking right now, so in my currently addled mind, never!

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u/LBobRife Seahawks 5h ago

Seahawks had a players only meeting a week ago about penalties.

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u/SevroAuShitTalker Broncos 8h ago

Cheers! Me too mate

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u/CHNinniMug Bengals 8h ago

Prost!

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u/Hayabusa_Blacksmith 49ers 8h ago

Checkmate, atheists.

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u/wheatgivesmeshits Cowboys 6h ago

Salud, ya jerks! If nothing else we can all have a drink together!

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u/FlappyFoldyHold Steelers 7h ago

On a fucking Wednesday?

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u/PatientNet3793 7h ago

yeah man, brewers are playing, keep up

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u/boomgetouttheway Seahawks 8h ago

If Seahawks are a good team, the defense had one last week to address penalties

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u/xFalcade Patriots 8h ago

All the time!

Except it's usually in the "All the players are meeting over at Todds house for a few beers and cornhole to celebrate making playoffs.." sense

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u/here_now_be Seahawks 7h ago

Idk, we had one last week. think we still good.

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u/problematic_glasses Lions Patriots 6h ago

shiny lombardi trophy is still shiny

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u/mccainjames11 Rams Seahawks 8h ago

The Knicks had one this earlier this season before they won the championship

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u/PaddyMayonaise Eagles 7h ago

Eh, I know it’s not the same, but in 2024 the eagles OL and Barkley had a private meeting with the coaching staff that resulted in the team drastically reducing the amount of times we threw in games. That’s about the closest I can think of to an example of that.

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u/MadMonkeh Falcons 6h ago

That’s actually hilarious

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u/RvstandRvin1626 Eagles 2h ago

And all it cost us was Jurgens and Dickerson's longevity to lean into the run game that year.

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u/UnclePhilyLeonardo Eagles 12m ago

...And all we got in return was this lousy Lombardi trophy.

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u/Shaq_Bolton Ravens 7h ago

The Ravens had one or two their last Super Bowl win

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u/TheLowlyPheasant Bears 7h ago

I prefer player haters balls

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u/ShopCartRicky Jaguars 4h ago

The Knicks had one last season. Thougg they were playing like absolute dogshit when it happened.

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u/UT49-0U Cowboys 1h ago

They lost to a terrible Mavs team right before that IIRC

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u/cimmanonrolls Patriots 6h ago

i think you’d be surprised. these happen in multiple sports all the time with multiple different levels of teams.

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u/Outrageous-Machine-5 49ers 7h ago

Niners have them all the time and they seem happy. KS says his job is made a lot easier by the players taking up the responsibility

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u/broadwayallday Commanders 8h ago

seemed like every other year for a good stretch round these parts

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u/BuildingSlowly93 Cowboys 5h ago

Eagles last year I think? Maybe year before?

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u/Virtual_Fun_7188 Packers 4h ago

‘09 Packers had a players only meeting after a meltdown loss against a trash Bucs teams.

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u/Supergamingpotato Texans 3h ago

Texans had one last year

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u/Fresh_Boysenberry576 Eagles 4m ago

That's kinda like argueing that taking medicine is bad because only sick people take medicine no? No shit good teams don't have player only meetings, there isn't much to discuss. When things are not going well, that's when you need to have honest and hard conversations

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u/MankuyRLaffy Patriots 8h ago

The Lions in 2022 had one iirc 

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u/Inside_Dimension2319 Lions 6h ago

And then Anthony Lynn was relieved of play calling duties and we ended up going 8-2 to finish the season and played  in the NFCCG the following season.

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u/MankuyRLaffy Patriots 5h ago

That was 2021 with Lynn, iirc 2022 they fired Aubrey Pleasant as DB coach, the secondary played much better post firing as their play got him canned. 

Then they turned the season around because Dan doesn't play that shit. 

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u/Pocatanic Bills 8h ago

This is in response to the Cowboys having a players only meeting by the way, he's calling Shotty dead

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u/hartsbreastmilkstash Steelers 8h ago

Worked for the Knicks this year. Idk if it works in footballs though

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u/Pizzaplan3tman Steelers 5h ago

I think it’s different in basketball because you only have 12-16 guys on a roster really. Football is 53 guys not counting practice squad. Thats a LOT more voices going off. Football it’s a death sentence because if vibes are that bad it’s unlikely you’re gonna get that many people with that many agendas on the same page. Especially in the NFL that’s so sink or swim. A lot of dudes probably quickly going into I’m worrying about my next contract fuck these guys. Plus the NFL is a lot less games. Not much time to turn things around.

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u/Liimbo Eagles 1h ago

The Knicks are also kind of famously close even off the court. Makes more sense for them to be able to have a meeting like that and stay level.

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u/Megatron_McLargeHuge NFL 2h ago

Also offense and defense are basically different teams and could be blaming each other.

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u/violynce Packers 6h ago

they hit a rough patch around february(?) had that meeting, things looked dreary, but they hit it off and never looked back. crazy to witness.

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u/CthulhuBathwater Packers 7h ago

If it works, let's hope it works AFTER this week's game. 

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u/LeoFireGod Cowboys Colts 5h ago

The mega cope I have is that the Shadow Dc we just brought in was our current Dc’s mentor and we will actually have a competitive pass rush against yalls tragic line

The reality is that our Defense is Swiss cheese and love gonna hit atleast 3 40 yard bombs lol.

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u/Cynapse Seahawks 3h ago

Seahawks just had one after the Commanders loss.

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u/dathomasusmc 2h ago

The Jaguars players used to do this pretty regularly. They still sucked ass for a decade.

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u/FreyaStarfall Buccaneers 7h ago

The Bucs had a players only meeting before the Cowboys game. Personally still not convinced anything will change because Bowles is still the coach but maybe the players carry him to more wins than I thought a week ago

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u/sluggerrr Cowboys 6h ago

Depends on when baker gets back, feels like your defense is pretty good, but yeah those decisions like not taking the field goal gave me ptsd of the Ravens game, Schotty and Bowles trying to outdo each other

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u/RepresentativeYam390 Cowboys 7h ago

Schotty will die when his contract runs out, no way Jerry’s going to pay a buyout

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u/SevroAuShitTalker Broncos 9h ago

I fuckin love non-coach Tomlin

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u/Cheese0089 Steelers 8h ago

He's so much happier

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u/CheezyBeanBurrito Eagles 8h ago

Can you blame him? Now he’s only getting stressed from his own mistakes instead of dealing with an entire NFL Franchise level of stress.

It’s gotta be like going from ER doctor to working for a boner pill company

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u/Outrageous-Machine-5 49ers 7h ago

Bro just gets to spout Tomlinisms all day without dealing with all the personalities in the locker room and pressure in the front office

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u/SRSgoblin Steelers 5h ago

I wish your comment ended with "and things of that nature." I chose to read it at the end anyway.

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u/IhamAmerican Steelers 4h ago

Sean McVay once said that after he became a HC, Tomlin asked him is he was ready for the tube of shit that was going to pour on him. In the same podcast where this quote came from, Tomlin said that's the thing he doesn't miss at all. He actually seems to be very happy away from coaching and I love that for him

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u/RoundTiberius Packers 8h ago

working for a boner pill company

Well you could probably say playing all that Minecraft has got him bricked up

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u/unimpressed822 Cowboys 7h ago

"i used to try and extend the lives of my patients, now i just extend penis."

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u/Mr_Goldilocks Ravens 7h ago

Tomlin? Is that you in disguise

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u/smsrmdlol Chargers Eagles 8h ago

The way he smiled when they called him Minecraft Mike 😆

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u/basics Falcons 8h ago

Even if you are really passionate about it, being an NFL coach does seem like a really stressful and often thankless job.

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u/herton Bengals 7h ago

Stressful sure, thankless? Nah, every single head coach is in the top .1 percent of the country. They get thanked pretty well.

Position coaches? Definitely.

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u/bimp_lizkit_1 Vikings 4h ago

Kevin O’Connell had a recent quote about the stress as a head coach, and how the happiness from a win is a 3/10 and the affect of a loss is like thousands/10 lol. Which tracks of you look at the teams subreddit for the past two seasons.

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u/Shot_Revolution8828 2h ago

Pretty sure the thanks came in his giant paycheck.

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u/WTFisThaInternet Texans 7h ago

The whole Minecraft thing put him over the top for me.

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u/Amonamission Lions 8h ago

Dude speaks his mind, and sometimes his mind is thinking the same shit we’re all thinking.

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u/Impossibills Bills 8h ago

I think he's awesome, but at the same time I wish we saw this version as a coach. And a little happier Tomlin I think would be an incredible coach

He may have been this behind the scenes a bit, but he always seemed so straight serious when talking to media

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u/TheRemonst3r Ravens 8h ago

Gotta be hard to be happy when you know in a couple hours some diva WR is gonna shit on your day. Man deserves some kind of award for some of the characters he had to deal with during his tenure.

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u/FuckingHippies Eagles 1h ago

It’s called the Hall of Fame. He’ll get it in a few years.

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u/Advanced_Claim4116 Steelers 7h ago

His job as head coach isn’t to be entertaining or give his unfiltered opinions in public. It’s to avoid distractions, lead his team, and win games…

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u/KeepGoing655 49ers 3h ago

Especially with the Steelers of all teams. Being only the third coach in 40 years right behind Noll and Cowher comes with insane expectations that few if any other teams have at all.

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u/Impossibills Bills 7h ago

That's not what I'm saying. I think he would have be a better coach if he loosened up a bit, and if we saw this version of him

Don't get me wrong, he's very good. But younger players don't respond well to the "hard ass" attitude anymore

NHL coaches are dealing with this. It's a different era of players now. You don't need to be their friend but you don't need to stomp on them either 

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u/Advanced_Claim4116 Steelers 6h ago

He received an A rating each year the NFLPA released their player grades on each team. The locker room was devastated when he announced his resignation, dudes in tears (including Aaron Rodgers). There are literally dozens of testimonials from players about how much he meant to them and times he helped or looked out for them (Ryan Clark in Denver is a particularly dramatic example). You’re just wrong, as any sane Steelers fan could tell you. He was a players coach, great teacher, and an extraordinary leader of men who chose shit coordinators, had no coaching tree to speak of, and a rigid and outdated defensive scheme.

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u/jfudge Packers 5h ago

You don't need to be a Steelers fan to identify that take as crazy. Two super bowl appearances (and winning one), and to never have a losing season, is like top of the top level coaching in the history of the NFL.

Claiming that he would have been a better coach "if he was more fun" is straight up lunacy.

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u/Advanced_Claim4116 Steelers 5h ago

I’m just saying there’s a not insignificant amount of the fan base that thought he could do nothing right and we’d have won a bunch more SB’s over the last two decades if not for him. Source: I live here.

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u/The_TexasRattlesnake 5h ago

Hey big Mikes only had 4 losing seasons in 18 years

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u/SwissyVictory Bears 6h ago

How do you know he wasn't this version of himself behind closed doors?

Also whatever he was doing was clearly working, and he succeeded with a lot of players nobody else could manage.

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u/Impossibills Bills 6h ago

Did you read what I said, I said he may have been this behind the scenes...

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u/Drakengard Steelers 8h ago

Enjoy this version of Coach T while you can, but I worry they're going to try to clamp down on him making comments like this in the years ahead.

Love it.

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u/casually_furious Dolphins 8h ago

Not if it makes them a lot of money.

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u/Pocatanic Bills 8h ago

Networks are like Sean McVay, they play scared and end up losing even when the win is handed to them

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u/casually_furious Dolphins 8h ago

It seems like the biggest reason they still have an audience is inertia.

Fuckers.

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u/Martian_Buddy Raiders Eagles 7h ago

That and just buying out any competition once it gets big enough.

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u/Trumpets22 Vikings Vikings 3h ago

I genuinely have no idea why they have any audience outside of the window of the game.

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u/casually_furious Dolphins 1h ago

Old people who may or may not have fallen down and can't get up, or have forgotten what a remote is for, or who have thrown their remote away because some bot in Irkutsk or somewhere equally godforsaken told them that Bill Gates will use wireless 5G technology to implant chips in their brains, or something even more absurd, I dunno.

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u/Shot_Revolution8828 2h ago

I thought that was the commies.

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u/JustAReubenSandwich Eagles 9h ago

The players are very much alive, Mike

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u/Total-Round4803 8h ago

Not after he heard about the players only meeting.

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u/casually_furious Dolphins 8h ago

Alive in our hearts

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u/whatsinthesocks Colts 8h ago

Have we asked Kyle Shanahan?

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u/lnconspicuous16x9 Bengals 8h ago

Hanging on by a partially torn thread

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u/The1mp Giants 6h ago

But will they get out of the stadium alive?

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u/WhiteBoyFlipz Cowboys 6h ago

not if they’re in McKinney

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u/klitchell Giants 8h ago

I think he’s talking about Scott, no?

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u/ExcellentPassenger49 7h ago

What about matt eberflus' leadership council? Were we double-tap dead

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u/EnterTheCabbage Bears 7h ago

Even the leadership council wasn't as bad as when the Boylan Bulls engaged in some light mutiny.

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u/ExcellentPassenger49 7h ago

Dam you. I honestly forgot about Boylan's existence.

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u/HertzWhenEyeP 7h ago

You know you've done something very, very wrong when the sight of Fred Hoiberg brings shouts of joy

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u/Nyte_Knyght33 Texans 7h ago

100% correct.

Every time I hear about my team having a "players only meeting" it's a huge red flag. 

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u/songssohiaa Dolphins 3h ago

Ya just like when my girlfriend was constantly having staff only meetings with Chad that I wasn't allowed to attend. Jokes on them though, their company was so cheap they would always send them to Motel 6's and shit rather than a reputable meeting spot.

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u/bcbill Browns 3h ago

Ohio State had a players only meeting after they lost to Michigan in 2024. It certainly worked in that instance. Different level, same sport

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u/Megatron_McLargeHuge NFL 2h ago

They would have been dead if Urban Meyer was still there.

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u/Gold_ACR 2h ago

"I'm the head ball coach, I'll kick you whenever the f**k i want!"

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u/PliableG0AT 49ers 2h ago

Only one I can remember and it sorta fighting the ship was the Edmonton Oilers a few years ago. think they made it to the Stanley cup finals, or the western conference finals after a real bad early season.

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u/Acasts Commanders 7h ago

Eagles did it when they won the Super Bowl

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u/Beauyakasha 5h ago

I think it really depends on the roster and the coaching staff. It makes complete sense that a player's coach like Tomlin who reportedly has always been well liked by his rosters doesn't believe in player's only meetings. It's doubtful that his players ever felt a disconnect (or even professional distance) from the coaching staff. I think it can be useful for some rosters, especially coaches that rely more on their captains to police the locker room. 

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u/EtchAGetch Patriots 7h ago

We can’t recall ever hearing about a players-only meeting during Tomlin’s 19 years with the Steelers. Which may be one of the reasons why the Steelers never had a losing season in nearly two decades with Tomlin at the helm

No, jackass. The reason why they havent had a players-only meeting is because the Steelers never had a losing record on two decades. Causation vs correlation.

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u/runningblack 49ers 6h ago

The standard is the standard

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u/malibubleezy Cowboys 6h ago

Jeff Fischer also went 8-8 all the time..And the clapper.

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u/Hot-Software-9396 Cowboys 5h ago

Jeff Fischer was the 7-9 guy. Garrett was 8-8.

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u/Mr-R--California Rams 5h ago

It’s Fisher. Why does everyone try to add a damn C to his name. The man loves fly fishing in Montana

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u/malibubleezy Cowboys 5h ago

Probably because it's been 15 years since the original dead spin was posting about him and I haven't seen it spelled out since then.

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u/problematic_glasses Lions Patriots 6h ago

but what if the players-only meeting is to plan a surprise party for the coach???

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u/WinstonChurchill74 Giants 1h ago

Like surprise, we want you to start vacation early this year!

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u/EctoRiddler Dolphins 8h ago

What would that meeting look like in Minecraft?

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u/Shot_Revolution8828 2h ago

Probably a check with a bunch of zeros.

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u/silliputti0907 Cowboys 6h ago

The players wouldn't hold the meeting if they didn't think it was necessary. This team has lots of new faces and has rookies and backups playing big roles because of injuries. Fingers crossed, it light a fire and allows them to hold each other accountable.

Cowboys are also adding a veteran assistant coach, and Shotty stated they are going to shake up the depth chart. We also haven't seen Porter play a full game; half the secondary is hurt.

I'm not delusional to think this defense is going to be good. However, there is optimism for it to become a more competent unit.

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u/myserg07 Cowboys 5h ago

That last paragraph would pretty much fit every one except maybe 3 of the last 20 years I’ve been a fan of this franchise. Rooting for this team is just hell honestly.

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u/silliputti0907 Cowboys 5h ago

It's a bit entitled imo. We have been mediocre at worst. Not bottom dwellers and a poverty franchise like others. It's frustrating, but other fans have it worst.

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u/myserg07 Cowboys 5h ago

Completely disagree entitled is this team’s leadership being ok with mediocre year after year. Jerry got his bowls and is alr in the HOF and is content to rake and the cash while pretending to want another chip.

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u/AyKayAllDay47 NFL 2h ago

America's team (as in being the "best mediocre team" since winning their last Superbowl!)

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u/mcmnky 5h ago

WOW! TFA is pretty extreme.

"Really, why would the players, students, workers feel compelled to come together in the absence of those who are supposed to be directing them?"

As if a player's, student's, worker's only function was to follow directions. How would they know what to discuss without someone directing them?