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u/Flimsy_Cranberry_201 20d ago
We do not have the same level of compliance as a society as Singapore though.
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u/A_extra 20d ago
As a Singaporean, we wouldn't need this stupid law if people weren't stubbornly blasting music despite years of PSAs advising against it. Even this law will be useless without active enforcement (As with other offences like littering, not flushing toilets, etc)
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u/motorised_rollingham 19d ago
As a Brit living in Singapore, genuine question: Will this actually stop Uncles and Aunties blasting Mandarin AI slop at full volume? What about the MRT? That seems worse than the busses.
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u/Shiranui42 19d ago
I wish 😅
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u/Accomplished_Pin218 19d ago
I don’t understand why the concept of earphones is so alien to these kinds of people. Like it’s not a matter of IQ or tech savvy , it’s super easy and cheap, what am I missing??
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u/Parking-Panda-8014 18d ago
A lot of antisocial behaviour has no root in poverty, or culture, or education. A lot of people are just pure shite and always will be
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u/testdasi 20d ago
No lah. Social Studies class said we very good leh. Ah Beng minority only.
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u/ChorzioPaella3 19d ago
Grew up in Singapore, lived there 20 years, this sentence took me back to my childhood, I miss hearing Singlish daily!
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u/Practical-Cup-4365 19d ago
Singapore is fine city! $500 fine for jaywalking, dropping a cigarette butt, hailing a taxi in the wrong place……
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u/ChorzioPaella3 19d ago
It’s not actually as strict as it’s made out to be, loads of people jaywalk smartly and don’t get fined, just done do it in front of a hawker like in recent cases and you should be ok
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u/kri5 20d ago
you guys don't flush toilets? tbf that's not something that's done in public so vastly more difficult to spot
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u/Logan_No_Fingers 20d ago
This is a FAR bigger issue than the police. Singapore - and a number of Asian societies, have a culture that just ignoring laws is not cool. And an understanding that laws are usually for broad public good.
The UK - and US have a culture that laws that inconvience you pesonally are bad & an example of you being oppresed or some bullshit
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u/liamnesss Hackney Wick 20d ago
I think in reality it's that ignoring laws in a noticeable way is not cool. People in these countries will still break / bend rules in ways that they feel they can get away with. It's as much about not stepping out of line and risking embarrassment than it is about civic sense.
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u/yepsothisismyname 20d ago
In my experience it's a mix of both - there's definitely a greater deference of authority, not quite like how it used to be in this country but more than there is now. But you're also right that there's also a stronger sense of "doing the right thing in public" - again, something which used to be far stronger here and has dissipated in the last 20-odd years.
I still remember the shock my Singaporean friend expressed at seeing someone a Liverpool Tesco in pyjamas at 2pm. That kind of thing just isn't "done" in Asian societies, due to the stigma I guess.
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u/isinned 19d ago
I live in a neighborhood where there's a bunch of rich young Chinese people and have seen them in their (expensive) pyjamas in the grocery shop.
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u/yepsothisismyname 20d ago
I think the COVID period and the outcry there was in the UK over the government taking away our human rights by asking everyone to wear masks and socially distance was a clear indicator of that.
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u/Glad-Lynx-5007 20d ago
A lot of which was a watered down copy of Singapore's policies by the way, even using the same naming "circuit breaker". Of course, it all worked far better in Singapore than the UK.
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u/Logan_No_Fingers 20d ago edited 20d ago
Yeah, people losing their shit over their "human right" to not wear a mask was insane. In what fucking world is that one of your core human rights? In what way did putting a mask on as you entered a shop so catastrophically harm people that they lost their shit over it.
Its a GREAT example of the very segment in the UK being just utterly unwilling so do fucking anything if it might cause them the tiniest bit of effort and a direct line to cycling down the footpath, listening to their phone out loud etc.
Covid compliance was like cunt-sonar
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u/schmaltzherring 20d ago
COVID damaged by faith in humanity and our collective ability to deal with the enormous challenges we need to navigate in the near future. c.90% of people are basically decent, considerate people who did their best to follow the rules, then there was another 10% who didn't give a fuck and wouldn't consider even minor personal inconvenience for the good of society. Those people are a real drag on progress.
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u/Sad-Regular-1389 20d ago
Yeah we had neighbours having people over for hot tub gatherings in Covid. Kind of lost for words. Just do what you’re asked you know?
Our neighbours the other side were better but also awarded themselves an extended “bubble” so they could meet with friends.
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u/Mnemosense 20d ago
In Japan school trips consist of going around the neighbourhood and picking up litter. Kids also have to clean the classroom at the end of the day, like proper mopping and everything. This obviously instills discipline that stays with most of them their entire lives.
Such a simple thing, but could the UK ever implement it? Never mind the kids, maybe their parents would object to it.
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u/ne6c 20d ago
We had the same in Slovenia that I grew up in. Picking up rubbish around the school on a weekly rota throughout the year.
It instills very good practices and in general the environment is very clear of rubbish. It's quite shocking how dirty and full of rubbish everywhere the UK actually is compared to it.
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u/CedarClove 20d ago
100% this. A number of East and Southeast Asian societies in general view laws as for the good of all, for the betterment of society and communities, and there's also a sense of personal pride and responsibility to play a role in ensuring this. We just dont have that here.
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u/Aronnaxes 20d ago
Its a bit of column A, a but of column B, rules and laws are respected for the public benefit they bring, but also enforcement, stigma and a healthy fear of the law brings compliance to near 100%.
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u/Chemical_Pressure717 20d ago
I was told the opposite of this by a Chinese bloke. He said laws and norms are strict because the Chinese are actually quite rebellious people. People bend and break them all the time. Whether that's accurate or not, I can't say obviously. And he only spoke of China. But he maintained 'civic mindedness' etc that Westerners come out with is nonsense.
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u/Mikeymcmoose 19d ago
China is definitely different to countries surrounding them
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u/pr0newbie 19d ago
In china, yes. That's why they went for a communist gov to rein in the oligarchs, feudal lords and hyper capitalists. Pros and cons.
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u/MechanicFit2686 17d ago
I remember seeing an interview with Lee Kuan Yew (first PM of Singapore) and he was explaining that to become a first world country they had to stop people behaving like third world people. He then explained the means by which they stamped out habits like peeing in lifts and spitting in the street. It's quite authoritarian but I think we'd all rather live in a place where people respected each other and their shared spaces.
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u/ne6c 20d ago
Mostly it's because we don't enforce most laws. See shoplifting as an example or burglaries.
Singapore and Korea as 2 examples actually looked up to the UK, as a high trust society, but they knew that the only way they can get to the UK level is to enforce compliance through law. It's funny how the last 80 years the UK and Singapore basically went the opposite directions. The UK went from a high trust to bordering on a low trust society these days (and due to the Broken windows theory it's getting worse), whether Singapore went from a very low trust society to top 5 high trust ones, globally. We have another example of this happening in real time in El Salvador today.
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u/Meng_Fei 20d ago
Depends on the law. Loud music on the metro in Thailand will definitely draw criticism, but obeying laws? Try driving there and see how law abiding Thai drivers are.
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u/Logan_No_Fingers 20d ago
To be fair I would not have roled Thailand into that grouping.
I was thinking more Singapore, Japan, Korea
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u/liamnesss Hackney Wick 20d ago
Singapore also has laws that we don't want. e.g. having to cross roads at designated points, and zero tolerance of recreational drug use. We have a far more light touch approach to rules and responsibilities placed on ordinary citizens, there are both advantages and drawbacks to that.
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u/deathbycakes 20d ago
The justice system in Singapore is also famously brutal and not really conducive with Western civilisation but people seem to sort of forget that. Huge fines for minor mistakes, death penalty for drugs, a friend of mine was caught doing graffiti and amongst the traditional punishments was publicly caned (lashes) - he was quite young at the time, maybe 17 or 18.
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u/youcanreachmenow 19d ago
The difference is that these get enforced. My home country (Ireland) has stricter laws in some cases (e.g. pet droppings) but no one cares because if there is a law that is never enforced, its not a law.
Im delighted this has come in, now I dont need to listen to a stupid phone call or online game or song on in full blast in the bus or MRT.
Smartphones have turned us into rude assholes. Checking phones at the dinner table, playing music/vidoes loudly, videoing everything, etc.
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u/superplex100 20d ago
Was going to post something similar, but this is it basically. There needs to be a basic standard of manners across society but it's gone wrong somewhere down the line. People are leading busier lives than ever so an issue like this is "not that deep" as the kids say.
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u/Glad-Lynx-5007 20d ago
There is a famous speech given by Lee Kuan Yew, basically the creator of modern Singapore, talking about the London he knew after the war that was full of manners and respect that he wanted to replicate in Singapore. Now both countries have gone in opposite directions to each other
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u/ne6c 20d ago
Well our own cultural norms have heavily deteriorated over time. And immigration from cultures, where there's no such thing as a high trust society also didn't help.
We've really gone the opposite way compared to Singapore.
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u/mando_number5 20d ago
The society isn’t just compliant by chance. Singapore police will cane you until you pass out with a 1.2m stick. They’ll have to drag you out the cell when they’re done with you and recovery can take weeks.
Not suggesting this but obviously you’re going to have a more compliant society when the stakes of offending are higher
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u/yepsothisismyname 20d ago
Is that a bad thing though? You're basically saying there's a punishment for crimes, and that punishment is known and accepted by the population, which leads to a lower crime rate that benefits society at large.
We can debate the merits of the actual punishment in question; but the principle at least of a functioning justice system appears quite sound.
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u/throwawayrighthere12 Brent 20d ago
Mostly used for abuse and sexual assault cases
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u/ArcticAkita 20d ago
Well couldn’t we force compliance if there was a huge fine? People will think twice about their behaviour if it costs them
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u/jenn4u2luv 20d ago
Lived there for 5 years.
Singapore has been able to do this because they monetarily incentivise their people to report the violators.
While it’s good for compliance, I found that it also causes a lot of creativity block because it’s so much easier to follow the mold. It’s one of the reasons I left.
There’s pros and cons to having an overly snitching society.
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u/nearcapacity 19d ago
Paris has a similar law for their metro. I wouldn't imagine Parisians to be far more law-abiding than Londoners. And yet the fine there, seems to have had the desired effect.
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u/HolyFreakingXmasCake 20d ago
This is backwards. The reason Singapore has high compliance is because their government punishes stuff like this. Here everyone knows they can get away with it so why even bother.
Start punishing people and compliance will become a habit.
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u/Triptycho 20d ago
We could if we wanted to. We'd also have to implement police that actually enforce the law on public transport.
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u/pixpixs 20d ago
We couldn’t even get everyone wearing masks during an epidemic.
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u/m205 20d ago
Can't get people to cover their mouths when they cough.
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u/ProfessionalPlant330 20d ago
can't even get people to wear earphones on public transport!
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u/Feet-Licker-69 19d ago
This disgusts me, I work in retail and the amount of people who just cough ONTO me is shocking
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u/Marklar_RR Orpington 20d ago
During the London Blitz, some people ignored blackout regulations. Thinking everyone will follow the rules is a bit naive. There will always be some idiot who knows better or does not care.
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u/tripsafe 20d ago
Tbh not playing music is a lot easier for most people than wearing masks. To be clear I think it’s very easy to wear a mask and there’s no excuse, but generally it’s easier to make people not do something than to actively do something.
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u/carquestionno34565 20d ago
Also banning it would help a little because a lot of people think it’s ok. For example parents who let their children play games on their ipads with sound all the way up.
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u/karnasaurus 20d ago
I agree it would be hard to enforce, but I think that just promoting the fact that it's an offence will reduce the problem by a lot. It will also encourage other commuters to report it. The idea is to create a more hostile environment for the clueless people who do it :)
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u/Oli_Picard 20d ago
And competent CCTV that actually works. I should know as a victim of abuse on transport when the train company has said “sorry no cctv” twice! When the police fill out the paperwork incorrectly and let the evidence slip.
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u/mando_number5 20d ago
You can rely on public reporting and CCTV cameras, they don’t have to be on the spot fines, London has more CCTV cameras than anywhere in the world
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u/Radiant-Playful 20d ago
If the police intervened, they would have a load of expense and court cases and everything that comes with it. There would be violent confrontations.
Then a lot of the people doing it would be on benefits or otherwise very low income, or would be under eighteen. Or would have extenuating circumstances.
They would say all that in court and they wouldn't have to pay the fines.
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u/ibuprophane 20d ago
There could be trouble the first few months or even year when strict enforcement is actually implemented. But then people also adapt when they feel like it’s not worth it.
But I also think this says a lot about how the legal system needs adjustment.
Checks and balances are good, but disruptive loud music on transport,- and most anti-social behaviour, really isn’t an ambiguous case in 2026, let’s face it.
- Is there recorded evidence of the person performing the act they’re accused of?
- were they “caught in the act” by law enforcement?
- are there witnesses?
- did they persist on the behaviour?
- are they a curring offender?
Once certain criteria like this is met, I can’t really think all will have extenuating circumstances.
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u/Radiant-Playful 20d ago edited 20d ago
That's unfortunately not how the law works. They aren't going to completely redesign the justice system over this.
If someone is judged to have insufficient income to pay fines, witnesses or not is irrelevant
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u/Creative_Star_1248 20d ago
Our problem isn’t that we don’t have any rules. The problem is that we don’t enforce the rules we do have.
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u/catgod888 19d ago
We don’t enforce and when we do, enforcement will be challenged on the usual grounds.
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u/guiscardv 20d ago
Singapore also has a $500 (roughly £250) for eating and drinking on public transport. It’s not normally the police who will stop you, you will be reported by the other travellers and then fined. They will also take your picture and the keyboard warriors will track you down.
You also have to bear in mind that crime is so low in Singapore that the police can operate a zero tolerance on many things that the UK police don’t worry about. For example they did a full CSI on a stolen bike
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u/Glad-Lynx-5007 20d ago
The police in Singapore have to run advertising campaigns entitled "low crime doesn't mean no crime" just to remind people it still exists!
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u/Questjon 20d ago
We already have the rules and fines for it, what we lack is enforcement. Not just police to monitor and issue fines, but staff to process the fines, chase up non payment and handle appeals. And all to get blood from a stone because the people who break the rules just ignore the correspondence because they know going after them will cost more than the fines and they don't have much to take to begin with.
All of that is to say someone has done the math and enforcing the rules costs money and passengers don't want to pay more money.
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u/Designer_Lie_6677 20d ago
As a Londoner who has lived in Singapore- trust me, they have their own bus issues. People pick their toenails on public transport, loudly burp and gargle, I saw one guy flossing… like flossing his teeth. They need this law just as much as we do
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u/wayanonforthis 20d ago
Amateur psychology but I guess it's similar with people riding deliberately loud motorbikes and cars - the friction with society is part of the motivation.
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u/fun_anxiety146 19d ago
Also known as when you have lost all other control in your life, what you can do is just to be an asshole
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u/Barraco_Barmer 20d ago
That's true. One would hope the fines would pay for the enforcement.
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u/True-Competition-27 20d ago
We already have an enforcement officers in London streets for throwing rubbish, why not have someone similar?
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u/yepsothisismyname 20d ago
Lol the number of people who throw rubbish on the ground in London and get away with it suggests we have nowhere near enough enforcement officers. And let's not get started on the numerous fare Dodgers who barge through the tube barriers...
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u/windfujin 20d ago
UK and large parts of the western world has a complicated relationship with personal liberty vs social order or even collective security.
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u/PersevereSwifterSkat 20d ago
And it really is a versus situation. Certain liberties are not conducive to others' rights, believing so is kumbaya. If people really believe so much in civil liberties then stop complaining about people blasting their phones, celebrate their freedom of expression!
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u/Eastern-Move549 19d ago
There are literal thefts in the street that go unpunished, who is going to police knobheads on the bus?
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u/bradpitt3 20d ago edited 20d ago
Singapore is a well run country with an effective government and civil service. It's people are brought up to be conscious of their responsibility to their community and to behave with respect towards others. (I am British and lived in Singapore for several years). The population is very law abiding so once they have been asked to do something they will do it.
Not sure there are many similarities with the UK.
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u/Stupid_Fuck55 20d ago
Only similarities are most buses, what side of the road they drive on, and both host a Formula One Grand Prix that has been won by Carlos Sainz Jr
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u/berejser 20d ago
123rd out of 180 countries for press freedom. It's pretty clear that what they have has come at a cost that we should not be prepared to pay.
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u/Impossible-Meet1724 20d ago
Lmao you talk as if we're North Koreans. As a Singaporean we know that our local press is government controlled and we have access to as much information we want as any other first world nation. No idea what cost you are referring to
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u/berejser 20d ago
I certainly don't think Singapore is North Korea (but it's worth pointing out that Orban's Hungary was 68th). I do, however, think it is not the utopia it is made out to be. And I don't think it's system of government is compatible with our national values.
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u/BlitzAceSamy 20d ago
It's people are brought up to be conscious of their responsibility to their community and to behave with respect towards others.
Singaporean here. If what you said was true, we would have no need for this law to be implemented at all. Selfish and entitled people exist everywhere regardless of culture lol
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u/Three_Trees 20d ago
It's great as long as you are fine with authoritarian one party rule, restrictions on freedom of assembly and freedom of expression, detention without trial and capital punishment. Basically be a good little economic unit and you will materially benefit.
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u/darkdoorway 20d ago
I used to genuinely believe all this, until having to go there quite regularly. Now I realise we just suck compared to them. I don't know why, just everyday life choices, facilities, your freedom to be out and about as a family at all hours of the night in complete safety, all the facilities, a government which genuinely cares that people are actively engaged in and often pushing where they aren't good enough
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u/bradpitt3 20d ago edited 20d ago
It's less authoritarian one party rule and more a managed democracy.
There are restriction on marches and demonstrations in the UK as well as in Singapore.
Material benefits have accrued to the vast majority of the population regardless of them being good or not. It's the product of a successful country.
114 people were executed from January 2007 to 9 September 2026. So over the last 20 years on average about 6 people p.a. are executed. About 80% of those are for drug offences related to "trafficking serious quantities likely to cause serious harm or death". The remainder were mostly for murder "with the intention to kill". Not sure who you want my heart to bleed for?
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u/Three_Trees 20d ago
Managed democracy made me giggle. In a free society one party doesn't win every election for seventy years. It's authoritarian, but I guess you j won't see that if you think it's legitimate for a state to execute people for drug offences.
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u/blob8543 20d ago
Are you actually defending the death penalty and restrictions on fundamental rights like right of assembly?
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u/bradpitt3 20d ago
The right of assembly is regulated in the UK and has become more restrictive in recent years.
In general in east and south east Asia countries expect a higher level of respect for their society from citizens. It's a common value. If people don't show appropriate respect by committing murder ("with the intent to kill") or drugs offences where "trafficking substantial quantities creates serious harm and a risk of deaths" then they see a death sentence as appropriate.
That's is the situation in China, Singapore, Vietnam, Indonesia, Laos, Malaysia, Thailand, Brunei, Myanmar, South Korea and Taiwan as well as India, Bangladesh, Sri Lanka and The Maldives.
You are free to have whatever view you want but should recognise other cultures have different values to yours.
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u/geeky_kilo 19d ago
hey from Singapore. this is not going to be implemented because the enforcers are the bus conductors and there are not a lot of them and you see them once in a blue moon. It's just optics.
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u/Active-Republic3104 20d ago
There are certain cultural and societal values that Singapore teach (in and outside school) that influence the behaviour of the society and community, which is different than the UK’s.
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u/lalabadmans 20d ago
We can’t even stop and fine people who openly barge past the barriers.
Singapore is at the turning point and clamping down before the behaviour is normalised.
We are well past the turning point and it’s Wild West now - feet on seats, loud music, vaping, bumping past the barriers, large rucksacks on back during rush hour, it’s all normalised now.
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u/PlanktonDefiant2600 20d ago
I'd happily see this brought in here. Playing music out loud on a bus is just obnoxious.
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u/StephenHunterUK 20d ago
The regulations are already there:
https://www.legislation.gov.uk/uksi/1990/1020/regulation/6
I think they've been there in some form or the other for decades.
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u/Proud-Reading3316 19d ago
Sure but this requires a driver or conductor to ask them to leave first. This behaviour isn’t caught by this regulation without it.
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u/PrepYourselves 20d ago
I'm still in a council noise complaint after 8 years and nothing has been done, you think they're going to fix bus noises?
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u/Glad-Lynx-5007 20d ago
I mean to be fair, that's a common complaint in Singapore too
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u/produit1 20d ago
Those community assistants or coordinators that aren’t the real police are perfectly suited for this work.
Real police patroling the streets and these coordinators on public transport. Sorted.
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u/Suitable_River_9836 20d ago
In Japan you can’t make calls in public transport let alone playing anything.
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u/Big-Accident9701 20d ago
Who will enforce the law? We couldn't even crackdown on unpaid train tickets
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u/Bright-Ad9305 20d ago
Cos the kind of clown that does this doesn’t have £100 and you can’t nip at their benefits
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u/FinnMoliko 19d ago
I also want people to stop thinking it's reasonable to have phonecalls on loudspeaker and talk like it's a walkie talkie. When did that start being a thing? It makes you look a fucking prat and is wildly inappropriate.
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u/Proper_Patience8639 19d ago
No enforcement, no consequences, no respect for others, no self respect.
In that order
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u/jasthf 19d ago
we can’t even enforce properly the no vaping/no opened alcohol rule in the tube smh. No one’s going to even bother with this if it’s ever a thing. Mind you I’m all for stricter enforcement but at this point I’ve lost all hope, because civic sense/family education is not common anymore.
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u/FantasticVast01 19d ago edited 19d ago
Because the average singaporean youth is about 5' 4 and 8 stone. They are also far more respectful of authority
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u/Hot_Size9630 18d ago
Also people with their phone on speaker shouting into it in public. That should be fined too.
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u/dxg999 18d ago
Because it would require someone to enforce it - either formally (as an authority) or informally (as a collective).
But the social contract is completely broken. People don't respect authority and no one wants to put their head above the parapet.
If people are not even bothering with a ticket, they're not going to be bothered by anyone trying to fine them.
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u/Secret-Pressure-6032 18d ago
I was in a&e. I’ve been quite alot. I have arthritis. (I’m 55). I was feeling unwell & in pain. Some selfish sod was playing his music with no earphones. I asked if he had some. He said yes. Well i said use them then! He looked shocked that i had confronted him. (He looked in his 30’s). I’m not his mother. He should have been taught don’t be so bloody selfish).
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u/triduece 20d ago edited 20d ago
the social contract has broken down, we live in a society, we all have a responsibly to make it better. if there are 10 people on a bus and one person annoying everyone, no matter how much of a hard person they are 10 v 1 will always win. but people duck there heads down and bare it and then complain online. everyone needs to put spoon of cement in their breakfast and harden the fuck up, what’s the worst that can happen.
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u/MeechyyDarko 20d ago
Simply put; society has become more selfish and the there is a vastly higher rate of individual “I don’t give a shit” attitude. Those same people are also more comfortable and likely than ever to use violence if challenged. The looming threat of weapons is apparently, too.
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u/lovely-pickle 20d ago
idk peer pressure is more effective and takes less enforcement. If everyone had the guts to say "hey, do you have some headphones?" this would barely be an issue. Instead people silently seeth and the people who do it continue to be oblivious
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u/True-Competition-27 20d ago
How many times have you called someone out? I have done maybe 3-4 times but never seen anyone else do it. People just keep their mouths shut always.
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u/Alarmed-Fig2489 20d ago
I did it for the first time a couple of months ago on the Southeastern back from London Bridge. It was a group of spotty, broccoli-haired teenagers, so I felt pretty sure they weren't going to confront me. But even then, I probably only had the courage to do it because I'd had a few drinks!
The kid playing music immediately went quiet and switched it off, but then I could hear the rest of his group muttering curses at me under their breath. Didn't bother me though! I was talking about it to my fiancee as we got off at Hither Green and an older couple in front of me shook my hand and said, "Thank you". Honestly felt like a hero haha.
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u/lovely-pickle 20d ago
Frequently. In literally all cases people have looked momentarily shocked at being spoken to, and then turned the sound off.
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u/Jamity647 20d ago
To be honest sometimes it's just not worth it. I read a story once about a mum who asked someone to turn it down and they just then assaulted her. Some of these people are genuinely deranged and if the police aren't going to do anything about it anyway I don't blame people for not wanting to take a risk
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u/TheHellequinKid 20d ago
A lot of them do it because they want someone to say something. They want the opportunity to assert themselves over someone else. Not just the deranged, also people who for whatever reason feel slighted and want to take it out on others
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u/New-Opportunity5338 20d ago
Better to die on your feet than live on your knees. People who don't say anything are the cowardly twats who enable this behaviour.
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u/Gatrigonometri 19d ago
well, sure if they are an able-bodies, sane person, but the person in the story is a mum, presumably with a child. Bearing a mild inconvenience is not worth risking getting shanked by some deranged playing travis scott on full blast in front of of your kid.
Also “die on your feet”? Lil bro we’re talking about people playing music loudly here
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u/Genghis_Khan68 19d ago
I did it the once, a few years ago on a train, before it became widespread and I was really shocked that this guy thought it was OK to make everyone else listen to his music and TV programmes for the journey. He initially tried to argue with me, and even told me at one point that I was a racist (which I just laughed at). But then when I made it clear I wasn’t going to let it drop, he did turn it off.
I do look like the sort of person that can’t be fucked with (even though, in reality, I can be fucked with), which probably helped.
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u/Exotic-Intention-596 16d ago
Name checks out I probably wouldn't fuck with Genghis khan too
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u/Past-Obligation1930 20d ago
I told a woman having a phone call through speaker in the quiet coach off yesterday. Pig ignorant.
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u/ruffianrevolution 20d ago
It's more fun if you join in.
"Oh I'm sorry, i assumed it was a public conversation"...
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u/no_income_tax_no-vat 20d ago
I'm increasingly seeing older retired people having calls on speaker phone, they seem to be utterly oblivious of how annoying it is.
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u/Noah-Ale 20d ago
I confronted an older guy at my GP surgery who was watching TV show with sound on on his phone. The waiting room was dead quiet besides his phone. He told me that, nobody else is bothered and that I'm mad. Then proceeded to ask me if I speak to my grandparents that way. So no, peer pressure is not enough. There should be an enforcement
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u/Salty_Plantain_6220 20d ago
I did that once i was coming home late on the bus from a long double shift. This lady was watching something on her phone really loudly and it was making my headache worse. I asked nicely although slightly irritated but i was polite I did get a “is this your bus? I can do what I want” as a response. Mind you this is a 30-40 something year old supposed lady. It took a while of back and forth but she did eventually at least lower her volume. I don’t know wht happened to the signs on the bus in london at least, that say do not eat smelly food and be mindful of your noise levels on the bus and offer a seat to the elderly. All that gone along with it everyone’s manners 🤷♀️🫠
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u/lovely-pickle 20d ago
The more people do what you did, the more these offenders realise "I can do what I want" isn't true. It's not your bus, or her bus, it's everyone's bus and therefore you've got to behave accordingly.
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u/BitterFootball4874 20d ago
Because I don’t want to get clocked in the face by someone who is clearly an antisocial asshole by virtue of the fact they play their shitty music on blast
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u/Bingowing12 20d ago
It would predominantly target certain demographics and subsequently be deemed racist. That’s why it’s not implemented.
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20d ago
We aren't an authoritarian dictatorship, thats why.
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u/Speedbird1A 20d ago
Yeah we’re a society where scum is free to commit scummery and no one can do anything about it. Lovely.
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u/michaeltheobnoxious Gentrified Suburbian 20d ago
We can't have it all.
Society cannot raid the coffers of social security services and still expect the benefits of those services (i.e. judiciary, social care, education).
Additionally, the individual cannot expect the sit back and allow their world to crumble, unwilling to take action to stop it, and still expect the ruins to meet their expectations of society.
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u/S3ndNud3s 20d ago
Found the dude who blasts music on the bus
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I absolutely loathe people who blast music. But Singapore can afford to be this strict because it's actually an extremely strict and uncompromising regime.... Sorry you can't recognise that.
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u/ProBlade97 20d ago
as a person who lives in Singapore and is critical of its government, you are talking a load of nonsense.
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u/Open-Shopping-2339 20d ago
Oh give me a break with this horseshit. Singapore is one of the best run countries in the world. I’ve visited numerous times, have friends there and I can assure you they are ‘free.’ Stop making excuses for awful behaviour and our societies weak, soft touch approach to antisocial behaviour
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u/Intrepid-Vacation316 20d ago
I was in cologne the last few days, they have stickers on the windows if the trams for where wheelchairs spaces and buggy spaces are so you can see more easily where to get on. Imagine taking all these little ideas and implementing them in one place (like this from Singapore, it would be amazing)
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u/OddTeacher4497 20d ago
because a certain few demographics would be sent into communal bankruptcy. yes i have lived in these mixed areas
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u/Glad-Lynx-5007 20d ago
You've never been on a bus with old aunties and uncles booming dramas from their phones in Singapore then! Sometimes with feet on the seats too
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u/GiganticCrow 20d ago
Stop glazing Singapore, its a corporate controlled dictatorship hellhole
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u/True-Competition-27 20d ago
I didn’t say we should adopt their death penalty smh
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u/seltruTekiLI 20d ago
People who’d play music out loud are not the ones who will be compliant and pay a fine voluntarily
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u/mrayner9 20d ago
Its a different society. Every warning signs in Singapore comes with a $ amount... and they are not low
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u/Wooden_Intention_100 20d ago
They can’t even make everyone pay for the tickets, let alone this lol, even if they implement the law, no one is there to enforce it
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u/Loftybook 20d ago
Fining people is genuinely really hard though. We can't fine kids because they don't have any source of income and it's really hard to fine adults without much money either.
The kinds of societies that have good compliance with rules have it because there's a strong culture of rule-following, enforced by social pressures. The actual legal penalties tend to be symbolic and rarely needed.
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u/Low_Style_7578 20d ago
I am thinking of getting some stickers made that look like tfl saying do not play stuff out of your phone speakers. It seriously impacts my MH. I've had enough. People need to show basic respect to others
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u/Makemeup-beforeUgogo 20d ago
Because we don’t have the resources or probably rights to enforce the rule or fine. Barely can deal with ticket dodgers
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u/queasycockles 20d ago
We just need to bring back some gentle public shaming for that sort of behaviour. No draconian laws needed
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u/Silvagadron 20d ago
We have two problems: lack of incentive to comply and lack of resource to enforce.
To fix the lack of incentive to comply, we should definitely increase the fine from a measly £100. $5000SGD is about £3000. A few more people (but of course not everyone) would think twice about doing some of the stuff they may or may not know is unlawful. To really ensure compliance you still need the ever-presence of enforcement.
Last time I saw an enforcement person on the tube (not DLR) for example was maybe 2003. c2c I'll see a team of enforcers maybe twice a year. Buses about the same. And they won't do anything but check for valid tickets; there's no rule enforcement beyond that. And vaping or feet on seats is not something the general public is really going to text 61016 about.
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u/lamachejo 20d ago
Can we implement that too for loud card and motorbikes? They explicitly spend money to make noise, wankers
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u/SpeechWeird5267 Harrow 20d ago
I would be intrigued how that is implemented. There's meant to be punishments for fare-dodging but it seems that many people squeeze through the gates. So who would fine that person who plays loud music?
If camera and surveillance society is being suggested, I would be concerned.
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u/travistravis 20d ago
As we saw from masks and covid, laws don't matter if no one enforces them at all
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u/drhavehope 20d ago
Do you know messed up it is to be playing loud music through your crap speakers on your phone? Music that we don’t like
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u/SwimmingScar2954 20d ago
You need that exact mix of social/communal living and individuality. We are certainly not there in the UK at the moment, but I personally don't think new laws limiting liberties in any way are the way forward. I think we need a change in mindset, we need to appreciate each other without being 'forced' to do so.
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u/drewsnx 20d ago
It's fair to say TfL does take a rather different approach. That probably avoids a lot of assaults and unpleasant scenes for other passengers.
FOI request detail - Transport for London https://tfl.gov.uk/corporate/transparency/freedom-of-information/foi-request-detail?referenceId=FOI-3766-2425
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u/Designer_Painting_65 20d ago
They can’t even stop people boarding the underground without a ticket so don’t think they’re going to bother enforcing something like this
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