r/learndota2 • u/MrLukeTownsend • 15m ago
(unsure how to flair) Ways to find party queue? - Need help enjoying this game again
I’m not looking for super regular pro teammates, but maybe a way to find others just for odd games here and there. I used to play dota exclusively with friends for years, but since i’m the last soldier playing i’m stuck in solo queue and i don’t want to stop enjoying this game just because of the other people playing it.
I just want a normal game of Dota that doesn’t involve people acting like children. Giving up and choosing to be 1000% more toxic and detrimental to the game just because of a tiny mistake, or just anything that affects their ego.
It genuinely feels like more than 50% of my losses come from games where at least 2-3 players have lost their minds by minute 3 and proceed to grief the rest of the game. I’m not saying that I’m playing perfectly by any stretch (3.5k long time casual), but when people behave like this it just makes matches so much harder, and more importantly much less enjoyable.
I think i’m actually getting depressed because this game which is normally an enjoyable escape from normal life feels too much like a struggle to enjoy. I know some people will say skill issue but, while I’m competitive and want to win every game my frustration doesn’t come from missed spells, or bad jumps etc.. It comes from the people who make the deliberate decisions to grief the game.
Maybe coaching is an option? But it’s not really something I can justifiably afford right now. But if anyone knows anywhere that could lead to me finding new Dota friends, i’d much appreciate it.
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TLDR: Anyone know how to find new Dota friends for party queue? Solo queue is destroying my soul

