I'm studying btech first year and would love to have a bf around my age. Am an introvert and have poor social skills. I love masc guys and someone who's loyal and caring. The relationship will mostly be ldr unless we are closer. I'm closeted and haven't met anyone offline. But I'm serious and would like long term commitment if we match.

Hey, I’m 22 and from Delhi. I’m into tech, chess, music, singing, and voice acting. I can be goofy one minute and have a deep conversation the next. I like people who can do both.

I’m into guys who are affectionate, emotionally mature, and have a masculine vibe. Good conversation and genuine chemistry matter a lot to me.

I’m open to long distance too. It would be nice to meet someone I can share music with, learn about their world, and see where things go without forcing anything.

Tell me where you’re from and what you could talk about for hours.

Hey there. I'm a 39yo Finnish guy who's into photography, movies and gaming which you will pretty quickly notice if you take a look at my profile :) I like to smile, laugh and have good conversations, both humorous but also more serious. The most important thing to me is emotional availability. I want to know how you feel without having to keep guessing. And the hottest thing you can do is to be thoughtful and kind. And well, to be a good kisser ;) But I'm getting a bit ahead of myself here. Anyway, sending some good energy your way and hopefully something good will come out of this.

I’m a 31 year old gay guy from the Philippines. with a medium build. I am not crossdresser or femme. I have a quite decent job and have been single for six years now and I feel it is the right time to get to know someone. I feel a bit lonely at times.

I consider myself as an Introvert. In my freetime, i truly enjoy biking, running, playing bamdinton and watching movies and documentaries (crime, suspense, thriller, horror)

I’m here hoping to meet a genuine guy who is kind, honest, caring, and loyal. I’m looking for something serious and long-term rather than a temporary connection. I definitely value good communication, effort, and respect.

I’m open to meeting someone from anywhere, regardless of distance. Long distance (at first) is not a deal breaker to me. I prefer foreigner as I find them straightforward and much more open. I believe that getting to know each other, being consistent, and building trust are what really matter.

If you think we might get along, feel free to send me a message! Tell me a little about yourself or your interests. Vielen Dank

-The Best things come to those who truly waits.

I don’t know what it is but it’s been really hard to find an actual connection these days, some last for a day or two but if you get lucky, might be a week and honestly it’s exhausting doing it. Meeting people irl is hard for me since I’m very introverted so I try my luck on the internet.

As I mentioned I’m introverted and like to spend my time usually alone but it’s getting harder to do it. With the potential of meeting new people, I usually ask questions like “how’s your day?” I know some would say it’s boring but to me it isn’t, because I wanna know how boring or exciting your day has been. Ngl I am a flirt **once** we started getting close and will tease here and there. I’m mostly interested in video games mainly PC, usually playing alone but it would be nice to have someone to play with.

I don’t see myself fit but I run 4 times a week. I am *feminine leaning* though not through clothes and some say I have a feminine voice but I don’t really hear it, I’m very nurturing in terms of being a partner and will always ask if something is bothering him.

Now for the person that I’m looking for, a **masculine** man that’s not afraid to be with me that likes to take care of his health and body, likes being **active** and has the same interests (video games) but if you have something new you wanna try I’m always down for it. Preferably **not older than 37** and **tall**.

If this resonates with you, my dms are always open for a short introduction and if you reach this point of my post please include **video game** you would like to play with me. I will **not** entertain a “hi” or if you just want a casual thing.

Hey, I'm 22, from Delhi, India, and studying IT. I'm into tech, chess, music, singing, and voice acting. I enjoy curious minds, good humour, and conversations that go from complete nonsense to something unexpectedly deep.

I'd love to meet a guy who's affectionate, emotionally mature, and comfortable being himself. I'm drawn to a masculine vibe, but personality, intelligence, and how we connect matter just as much.

I'm open to meeting someone from another country, exchanging music, learning about different cultures, and seeing where things go naturally.

Tell me where you're from and something you're genuinely passionate about. :)

Hey everyone!

I’m Lars, 30, from Germany, and I’m mainly hoping to meet someone who’s also based in Germany, or at least speaks German. Since this is an English-speaking subreddit, I’m writing this in English, but of course, feel free to message me in German as well!

A little about me:
I’m a pretty calm, empathetic and rather quiet person. I tend to be a good listener and really value emotional connection, honesty, and having things in common with my partner.

I’m also a big fan of gaming and nerdy stuff in general, so it would be great if you’re into those things too, or at least open to sharing some of that with me. :)

I’d love to meet someone who’s positive, open-minded and genuine. If you’re the kind of guy who enjoys a more relaxed and grounded partner and thinks we might complement each other well, I’d be happy to get to know you.

So if any of this sounds like it could be a good match, feel free to send me a message. I’d love to hear from you!

Hey everyone!

I’m 29, originally from China, and currently doing my PhD in Learning Sciences at the University of Utah, focusing on AI and education. Thought I’d give Reddit a try and see if I can meet someone interesting here!

A little about me: I’m a pretty curious and talkative person. I love learning new things, exploring different places, and sharing random thoughts about life. I really enjoy long conversations, whether we’re talking about something meaningful or just something silly that happened during the day.

Outside of research, I enjoy traveling, photography, singing (not always on key lol), cooking Chinese food, and occasionally playing video games. I’ve lived in China, the UK, and now the US, and I love meeting people from different backgrounds and hearing their stories.

As for what I’m looking for, I’d love to meet someone who’s kind, emotionally mature, curious, and enjoys communicating. Someone who has his own interests and passions but also likes sharing little moments of everyday life. Physically, I tend to be attracted to slim or toned guys, especially the twink/twunk type. But personality and chemistry matter a lot to me too.

I’m monogamous and ultimately looking for a long-term relationship. Not interested in hookups, but I’m also not in a rush. I’d rather get to know someone naturally and see where things go. I’m based in Salt Lake City, Utah. Ideally, I’d love to meet someone nearby so we can actually spend time together, but I’m also open to guys elsewhere in the US if we really click.

Bonus points if you enjoy long phone calls, spontaneous adventures, or cooking together! If you think we might get along, feel free to send me a message. Tell me a little about yourself!

My name is Juvenal Lombera, I’m 22 years old and I live in East Palo Alto California. I spend my free time reading, listening to music and going on a walk. As for right now, I’m currently unemployed but I plan to go back to school and study literature. I look for someone that’s my age or close to my age. Long distance relationships are fine as long as you’re open to living with me here. I hope to meet someone nice and special.

A little about me:

I'm a 26-year-old black male. I'm a college graduate earning my bachelor's degree in Business Administration, majoring in Business Information System with honors cum laude. Very proud in my achievements so far. I'm hoping to pursue a career in IT and furthering my education.
I plan to go for my masters soon.

As for my appearance, I stand at 5'8" and weigh around
128 Ibs. I have light brown skin and a slim/athletic build.

I am introverted and shy at times, but I do open up when talked to. I'm learning to slowly put myself out there to be more social. I greatly enjoy playing video games and have started breaking into po gaming as well. Some of my favorite franchises being Sonic, Pokemon, Bayonetta, Kirby, Spyro, and many more. I also enjoy fighting games and learning about them too, with my current game being Guilty Gear Strive. Also trying out Marvel Tokon as well. I enjoy going for walks, light exercises, anime, learning to cook more, art, tennis, badminton, and technology-related things.

I'm not completely set on what I want. But I want to put myself out there and genuinely connect with someone likeminded, and of my interests too. Regarding my preference and what I'm personally attracted by, I am into men with a beefy muscled type build and age ranging from 26-35.

Thank you for taking the time to read my post.
If you're interested in getting to know me better, please feel free to message me. I kindly request that you write some form of introduction about yourself

I believe in laughter, love, and creating a home filled with warmth. At the end of the day, I want someone whose presence feels like peace.
What I’m Looking For: Someone Around my age • Monogamous only — no couples, no open relationships • No smokers, no drugs • Not into hookups or dating app flings .I’m searching for a partner who values commitment and monogamous.

Here goes some informations ->

Im a computer science student, work with IT and love horror movies

Im only a bottom, 6ft (1,80cm)

Im RLY bad at describing myself, but Im a cool person lol

I love black guys and older men

I want to build something true and genuine with someone, DM me if you wanna chat =)

Hey so this is kind of my last hope for now. I am a university student and I grew up with western culture so when it comes to dating in my country, its hard to find people who understand the reference to "You're wearing sweatpants, and its Monday". And most of the time, a lot of guys don't want to date to marry. They want to pass time.

But I have come out to my parents as a gay man and they are supportive of me.

I am 172cm tall. I am currently in University. I am a fan of words, so much so that it has become my part time job. I consider myself as a chatterbox. I like to write poetry. I adore Disney music. I have this dream where me and my boyfriend driving down the road in our car, singing "Love is an open door". I want someone to grow old with. Even after 50 years of being together, I wanna look at him and think "Man, I really nailed it". I value monogamy. I think I can be a little territorial when it comes to my partner. I want to take care of my man. Dance with him in the kitchen. Stargaze while being in the warmth of his chest. Be on my tip toes and kiss his forehead. Tease him, Joke with him, Argue with him, Kiss and make up, Cook for him and be so deeply in love with him to the point where our kids might complain "Dads are making out again"

I am an old school romantic. So you can expect love letters and bouquets of flowers. Maybe a shared playlist or two. Definitely "This song reminded me of you". I might annoy you with messages but I would be an absolute listening ear when you are speaking. I want something forever.

So if you think you are my Mr. Right, then please don't hesitate to leave a msg.

Hey everyone! 😊

I’m Tobias, 24, from Germany. And honestly? I think I’m at a point in my life where I’d really like to have someone by my side.

Not necessarily someone I have to immediately label as “the one”, but someone where we can genuinely get to know each other, become close, support each other and eventually see if it works out. I’m much more interested in something real than in collecting matches or having endless conversations that never go anywhere.

I’m also quite open when it comes to distance. Germany isn’t exactly huge, and I could see myself moving to Berlin or another larger city or suburban area in the future anyway, so I’m not looking for someone who happens to live three countries away. 😅

A little about me:

🚗 I love driving.
Ever since getting my licence, I’ve really enjoyed just getting into the car and driving. Long drives, spontaneous trips, picking someone up and going somewhere together — I’m very much into that. Give me a good playlist or album and I’m happy.

🎂 I like baking.
I’m definitely someone with a sweet tooth, and I enjoy baking every now and then. Especially when there’s an occasion to make something for someone. Birthdays, holidays, anniversaries… I like those little things where you can show someone that you care.

💻 I’m a bit of a tech nerd.
I like keeping up with consumer technology, new gadgets and where things are heading. I’m not the guy who will explain the technical specifications of every component of a new phone to you for three hours… probably. 😂

🗳️ I follow politics quite a lot.
I’ve also started becoming more politically active recently and I’m a member of the Green Party.💚🌻 It’s something I care about and could become a bigger part of my life in the future. But I promise I don’t spend every waking hour talking about politics. 😄 If you’re interested in what’s happening in the world, though, we’ll probably have plenty to talk about.

Outside of that, I’m honestly someone who values closeness, loyalty and being able to be yourself around another person.

I’m not looking for someone perfect. I don’t expect you to have your entire life figured out either. I just think it’s important to have some idea of where you want to go eventually and to be willing to build something together. If your idea of Dating is closer to short term sexual stuff, kindly don’t message me.

And yes, I’m dating with something long-term in mind. Marriage 💍 is something I could absolutely see for myself, and I’d also like to keep the possibility of having a family open someday. I’m not trying to rush any of that — I just don’t want to pretend I’m looking for something casual when I’m really not.

As for attraction and compatibility: I’m a bottom and open to top. Beyond that, I’m much more interested in the person than in some perfect checklist.

What matters to me is that you’re kind, hygienic, honest and actually interested in getting to know each other. I really don’t like superficiality. You don’t need to change yourself to fit some image of what I think you should be.

Just be yourself. ❤️

So if you’re somewhere in Germany and speak German🇩🇪 (for family reasons) and think we might get along, feel free to message me!

And please don’t feel like you need to come up with the perfect opening message. Tell me where you’re from, what you’re currently doing, what you’re into, or even just what you’ve been listening to lately. 😊

Maybe we’ll find out that a random Reddit post was actually where we met. Also I don’t live directly in Berlin but it’s a small village nobody heard about in the neighboring Brandenburg so I went with Berlin.

Hey! 25M Asian, looking for a genuine long term relationship. I love having good conversations whether late night talks, about your day, or just humorous conversations. I talk a lot and I am always here to listen if you need someone to talk to. I have more photos of myself in my profile if that matters.

A bit about me:

I'm 161cm/5'3" (yes I'm short 🥹). I play video games on both mobile and PC. I love food and cooking. Huge fan of fantasy, horror, and sci-fi (anime, movies, series). I listen to all kinds of music but mostly listen to pop lately. Also enjoy going out for walks and watching the sunset or sunrise.

Hmu and please introduce yourself ☺️

hello !! let’s chat, talk about our interests, our lives, and just get to know each other in general !! 😊 I’m kinda bad at conversations but if it’s right, I could go on for awhile lol

i’m 18, from cambodia, looking for relationship (distance or not)

i like to read, listen to music, watch youtube videos with varying topics, sometimes play games, and i like to go out when i can 🙃

i’m on the chubby side (hope that’s okay with you lol), and i’m fine with any ages (that’s older than me)

In the compatibility route, I’m a bottom 🙃

and please be sure you are looking for a relationship. i don’t want someone who just wants “casual friendship”.

i’m currently working and studying university right now but I’ll still make time for you if we clicked 🥺

it would be really nice to have someone interested and put me out of my misery🫶

DM me if you are !!

Life’s too short to keep myself waiting for the right person to cross paths with me. Though I wish it were that simple, in this day and age it seems impossible to let “fate” guide me to whoever is right for me. So let me start by introducing myself, I’m 23 years old Mexican-American, that was born and raised in the US. I’ve never been outside of the US, though hopefully one day I’ll change that. I love to read, I do have a long TBR list, but I’m slowly getting through it. I’m currently reading Perfume, and so far I’m enjoying it even though it’s somewhat terrifying at times. I also really enjoy writing about my life experiences and how I view the world after learning such lessons. I have other hobbies of course, such as gaming even though I don’t game as much as I used to. I tend to put my energy into different things that can help improve myself, like the gym, or just socializing whenever I can. I was also recently diagnosed with ADHD, and I’m medicated so that might also just be the meds talking lol. It’s honestly been a long journey, a process that led me to believe in myself more, so there is that. I love music as well, it’s a big part of my life I’d say. I listen to music almost every day, and I also just love to sing. Another fun thing about me is that I like to collect random things, I have a candle collection, a fragrance collection, a book collection, an album collection, and just random knickknacks here and there. I do also love spending a lot of time with my friends, and socializing with them is one of my favorite things to do. I’m 5’7”, kind of short but I genuinely like it. I also lean more towards the average/skinny side of things if you were wondering what I might look like.

This is the section I sort of dread typing out if I’m being honest. Looks matter, but they don’t matter as much as personality. Especially since I’m looking for a long-term relationship. So this is what I truly look for in a person: Personality wise, I prefer a hopeless romantic, someone who won’t shut down when things get tough. Someone who is gentle, yet willing. Someone who is kind, caring, and empathetic. Someone who is consistent, and confident in the things they do. Someone who is authentic and isn’t afraid of being themselves. Someone who is playful, yet also funny. I do tend to prefer if they’re more masculine, I won’t lie I tend to lean more feminine than I do masculine. I also prefer if they’re taller than me (5’11” or more.) I also prefer more light tan/dark complexions. I also would prefer if they were 20-28 years old. And last but not least I prefer them to be on the average/skinny side as well. I’ll also include this, I don’t mind long distance, as long as it’s in the US/UK. I can’t really do big timezone gaps. Hopefully this piqued someone’s curiosity, and if you read all of this, please include your most favorite fun fact that you know. Thank you!

Hi everyone! I am 23 from Vancouver Canada and I’m looking for something long term with someone. I love spending time with friends and family and on my free time I play a lot of video games. I love playing valorant, league of legends, minecraft and many other games. I am looking for someone who truly wants to spend time together and get to know one another. Please message me a picture of yourself as well so we can both see each other :) I look forward to getting to know you!

Hey there, like the title says, looking for someone preferably in the USA that a connection can develop and go from there. Open to long distance within the US.

Some of the stuff I’m into are pickleball, going to concerts, music, podcasts, traveling, bowling, mini golf, cats, road trips, and the occasional video game if I’m in the mood.

Ideally im looking for someone around my age with similar or even different interests, love to learn about other people’s hobbies and interests! Please be able to hold a two sided conversation! That’s probably my biggest pet peeve in this dating world lol.

Hello everyone! Single guy here just looking for his weirdo. I love Marvel, DND, going to EDM shows, love cooking, stargazing and so much more. I mesh well with guys that are low maintenance and just like to have a good time. I look forward to connecting with all of you!

I’m looking for a real relationship with a kind, emotionally available guy who genuinely likes closeness, consistency, and staying in touch. I’m looking for lean/skinny guys (18-28) and masculine energy.

I like connections where you naturally talk every day, randomly update each other, call for hours without noticing, and slowly become part of each other’s life instead of just “talking.”

I think there are bonds that survive even time itself. I want the kind of connection people write novels about. I want the kind of love that makes ordinary days feel extraordinary.

I’m not really into ghosting, mixed signals, or people who treat online dating like temporary entertainment.

I read a lot, love music, write love letters, and can somehow go from being extremely romantic to sending you twelve messages about something completely unimportant because I got excited.

If you want something affectionate, loyal, and genuinely meaningful, message me.

Hello my name is Kali, it’s not my birth name but who cares. I have so many interests and hobbies I can loose track of time or forget what I actually want to with my life

I’m looking for my knight in shining armor, preferably with blue eyes and taller than me (180cm/5”11)

My heart burns and yearns for music, it’s what I live and breathe for. I sing and have done a few performances both on television and school concerts.

My messages should be open for all, if they’re not I don’t mind messaging you.

35M looking for my better half. I’m a shy and simple person but quite naughty otherwise. DM open for more details.
Been living for years in the UK and Western Europe now back to hometown Mumbai, India.

I enjoy long walks, nature and lakes. Art galleries and museums interest me. Otherwise enjoy reading or cycling.

Looking to make long lasting relationship. It’s too tiring to be single anymore.