r/ForeverAloneDating • • Jul 04 '25

Rules Announcement Comment karma requirement has been increased

184 Upvotes

As you may have noticed, we've had a sharp increase in bot activity the past few days. We've banned over 50 bots in the last couple of days alone. These bots are posting everywhere, not just here, and steal other users posts. Reddit eventually bans most of them, but not fast enough.

Therefore, we will be temporarily increasing the comment karma requirement to 100. We realise that people who create new accounts or struggle making karma will be affected by this, but this is important for the safety of the subreddit and it's users. We may lower this later or it may stay permanent.

We also appreciate those who submit reports as it helps us out a lot. If you spot any bots, or people trying to subtly advertise NSFW content, then be sure to report them, but this comment karma requirement increase should get rid of the majority of them.


r/ForeverAloneDating • • Apr 10 '25

Rules Announcement Chat is replacing DMs.

62 Upvotes

While the change doesn't officially take place until June, the change is already occurring, and has been since March. This means we had to change the comment automod leaves on every post. Now instead of linking to the DM system, which is being phased out, it will link to the author's profile. From there, simply hit "Start Chat" to send them a message. If the link doesn't work or you run into any problems, send us a report in modmail.

For more information: https://support.reddithelp.com/hc/en-us/articles/34720093903764-Enhancing-Messaging-on-Reddit-A-simpler-faster-and-easier-way-to-communicate


r/ForeverAloneDating • • 4h ago

M4F Giving it a shot M4F 26

5 Upvotes

Looking for something real, not just someone to pass the time with. ❤️

Hey! I’m a simple, hardworking guy from the Philippines. I’m easygoing, loyal, and I enjoy good conversations, laughing over random things, and making meaningful memories with someone special.

I’m not looking for perfection. I’m looking for someone who is genuine, emotionally mature, and willing to communicate and grow together.

I’m open to meeting someone from anywhere in the world. Distance doesn’t scare me if both people are serious about making it work.

If you’re also looking for something genuine, feel free to say hi. Maybe this post is where our story starts. 😊


r/ForeverAloneDating • • 10h ago

F4M 24 F4M Houston, TX Let’s Give This a Try

11 Upvotes

Hi! I’m 24 and located in Houston, TX. I’d prefer to connect with someone in Texas or elsewhere in the US.

Age range: 24–36. Please read before messaging!

A little about me:
I work in healthcare, and I’m starting nursing school next month!

As for hobbies, I enjoy going to the gym, thrifting, cooking and baking, painting, gaming, watching movies and TV, and anything that lets me get creative. I’m also a writer currently working on a book, part of a book club, and recently joined a women’s bowling league, which should be fun!i love fashion, and enjoy experimenting with my personal style. I’m also learning French, so if you speak French, I’d love some help practicing!

Physically, I’m Black/Creole, 5’2”, and curvy/plus-size. I’m Christian (not the judgmental kind lol), and I’m bi.

What I’m looking for: (No i do not have a racial preference)
Age range: 24–36.
I’m looking for someone who dates with intention and wants a long-term relationship. I’m ultimately dating with m*rriage in mind, but I also believe in taking our time, getting to know each other, and letting things develop naturally. Personality-wise, I’m drawn to someone fun, vibrant, communicative, and spontaneous. I appreciate people who have their own interests and passions and enjoy sharing them with others. I love the idea of sharing the things that i love as well. While romance is important, friendship is equally important to me.

Like, yes, tell me why youre so into this particular thing/topic i have no clue about. I love having deep conversations, bonding over music/movies, laughing, etc

I’m politically progressive and would prefer someone who shares similar values. I’m not looking to date someone conservative, so compatibility in that area matters to me.

If this resonates with you, feel free to message me and tell me a little about yourself! And to give us something fun to start with, recommend a song you think I should check out! It doesn’t have to be your favorite song of all time (though i am curious)

My recommendation is: Somebody to Love by Queen or No Ordinary Love by Sade

If you know both songs we’re officially good friends lol

Thanks for reading :)


r/ForeverAloneDating • • 5h ago

M4F 28 [M4F] #Houston, Texas - I Saved You a Spot...in my heart!

3 Upvotes

Hi,

About Me:

I am a fourth-year medical student pursuing a career in snake milking. Jk. Medicine, of course. Hence, life can be busy and unpredictable, but I make time for the people I care about. You will always have my time and attention.

I'm pretty straightforward person. I am a person of routine, but I like chaos. Sometimes, I dip my finger in a peanut butter jar and lick it. If I like you, you'll know. I don't do mixed signals, strategic texting, or pretending to be less interested than I am.

I'm reserved at first, but that shy exterior disappates once I'm comfortable with you. You'll get random updates about my day, invitations to go for a run, and enthusiastic explanations of whatever I've become interested/obsessed with that week. One day it might be a weird medical condition, the next it might be physics, astronomy, or why I think a particular movie is secretly a masterpiece. I love learning, and I love sharing what I learn even more. Sharing is caring and all that.

I’m a very affectionate person. When I care about someone, I like making them feel it all the time. I like having my partner close to me, pulling you into me when you’re next to me, kissing you whenever I can, holding your hand, and hearing about every part of your day just because I want to feel close to your life. I’m the type to slide closer on the couch, steal one more kiss before you leave, tuck myself into your side, and find little excuses to keep touching you throughout the day. I like the clingy, sweet parts of a relationship ... the constant closeness, the check-ins, the casual affection, the feeling of being wrapped up in each other. I like making my partner feel adored, wanted, and spoiled with affection. But not in a Hallmark, cheesy rom-com way...sometimes. I’ve never understood the appeal of pretending not to care when I could just love someone openly and make them feel it every day.

I spend an unreasonable amount of time thinking about what I'm going to eat next. Thai food, Mediterranean food, Ethiopian food, desserts... if there's a bakery or dessert place nearby, there's a good chance I'm stopping. Good food is one of my favorite excuses to leave the house.

I'm also learning violin. The violin and I currently have a complicated relationship. Imagine nails on a chalkboard with the vibrato of a try out contestant from America's Got Talent. I'm working on my French (un peu de français) and Spanish (un poquito de español), though both languages tend to fall apart shortly after introductions. No bueno.

I'm a huge homebody at heart. I enjoy going out, trying new things, and exploring, but if given the choice, I'm usually happiest at home with someone I care about. I like quiet companionship too. We don't always have to be doing the same thing or doing something. You can read, I can be studying, and somehow sitting together still feels better than sitting alone.

I'm Indian (South Asian). No, I am not secretly in an arranged situation. No, I will not hide you from my family.


Hobbies/Interests:

  • Staying active: I like running (usually early morning), lifting, and playing tennis. I'm not amazing, but I can hold a rally. I'm competitive enough to care. I'm working on the glutes, so my future girlfriend has something to grab haha.

  • Movies: Big fan of movie nights at home. Horror, sci-fi, and crime are my go-to. Stuff like The Thing, Donnie Darko, and Prisoners. I actually like watching movies, not half-paying attention while scrolling. Snacks are mandatory.

  • Going out/doing things: I like bowling, skating, board games, museums, and trying new things in general. A recent board game I played was Forbidden Desert, and it's so great when you get three sun beats down cards in a row (IYKYK as the kids say). I'd also like to get more into hiking and rock climbing.

  • Exploring: I like walking around new areas with no real plan. Finding random cafés, bookstores, parks, or restaurants never really gets old.

  • Cooking/Baking (occasionally): I don't cook much, but I can put together a decent dinner. I also bake from time to time. I have a thing for baked oats with peaches and cream right now. Super secret recipe.

  • Gaming: I play video games here and there when I have time. Nothing extreme, but it's a nice way to unwind. I do tinker around with my gaming laptop. Some of my favorite games include: GoW, Skyrim (modded), Infamous, Prototype, Horizon Zero Dawn, Dawn of Bloodwalker, and Onimusha.


What I'm Looking For:

We don't have to align on interests. I want someone who gets excited about things. Tell me why your favorite movie is a masterpiece, ramble about the topic you've been obsessing over lately, or tell me about your day from start to finish. I like people who get excited about things.

Show me something I would've never found on my own. Teach me about a topic you've fallen down a rabbit hole on, drag me to a place I would've never discovered, introduce me to a hobby you love, or convince me to try something outside my comfort zone. I'll happily return the favor.

I'd also love someone who values staying active and taking care of themselves. Not because I'm looking for a specific body type, but because I like people who decide they want to learn or improve at something and then actually go do it. Whether that's training for a race, learning to dance, trying a new sport, spending weekends outdoors, or simply making their health a priority. That mindset is attractive to me.

I want the kind of relationship where we're a moderately obsessed with each other in the healthiest possible way. Sharing every random thought, getting excited when the other's name pops up on our phone, finding reasons to spend time together, and never really outgrowing the desire to be close. I want the kind of relationship where affection is abundant and freely given. Tell me I'm handsome because you can't help yourself. Surprise me with flowers just because you thought of me. Pull me in for a kiss when we're standing next to each other. Reach for my hand because you want to hold it. Tell me I'm your favorite person to spend time with. Make me feel cherished, and I'll spend every day trying to make you feel the same. I am a flower just waiting for the love of a good partner to help me bloom into a blue bonnet. (Favorite flower) 😆 It's a little dramatic, but you get the point.

I can't pinpoint specific preferences for physical appearance. I like a wide variety of people of different sizes, shapes, and features. Physical attraction does matter to me.


Politics:

I don't strongly identify with one political party, and I generally dislike treating politics like a team sport. I try to think for myself, even when that means disagreeing with people I'm otherwise aligned with. The label matters less. It's more about your stances on various issues that I could write an essay on here, but the post would be too long.

That said, there are some things that aren't negotiable for me. I believe in basic human rights, bodily autonomy, equal treatment under the law, and treating people with dignity regardless of who they are. This is not exhaustive. I'm not interested in politics that depend on fear, cruelty, or dehumanizing others. I don't agree nor like this administration.

I don't need someone to agree with me on everything. I just want someone who can disagree without turning it into a cage match. I care much more about whether someone can think critically, engage with nuance, and have a respectful conversation than whether they check every ideological box. One of my goals is to attend an active local rally, political meeting, and/or advocacy event. It's one thing to say, and it's another thing to do. I'd like someone who wants that or willing to try with me.


Religion:

I grew up around religion, but I don't actively practice and don't consider myself religious. The closest description is probably a non-resistant nonbeliever. I'm not particularly convinced, but I'm also not interested in arguing people out of their beliefs.

I enjoy talking about religion, philosophy, science, and the big questions in life. I don't need someone to agree with me, but I do appreciate curiosity and an open mind. That's an overarching theme here.


Kids:

I don't want children. I'd rather build a life focused on my partner, shared experiences, and personal growth.


Pets:

I'm not really a pet person and prefer a pet-free life. I don't dislike animals, but I've never had the strong emotional connection to pets that many people do.

For me, it's both a lifestyle preference and a genuine difference in interest. I'd rather spend my time, energy, and affection elsewhere, so I'm probably most compatible with someone who feels similarly.


Location:

I'm currently in Houston, Texas.

I'm open to long-distance if there's genuine effort and a realistic plan to eventually close the distance.

I won't be in Houston forever. My current plan is to pursue residency somewhere (preferably Chicago), but residency won't start until next year. I have some time to enjoy my freedom and to travel and meet. I would want to eventually be together.


Last Thing:

Physical intimacy is important to me. I enjoy affection in general (if it's not obvious by now), but I also want a relationship where sex is a frequent and valued part of our connection. I'm looking for a relationship with romance, passion, and genuine closeness...not one where those things fade into the background. I don't want to be negative, but for the love of God, please don't message me if you can't be consistent and sustain a conversation beyond your initial message. Christ Almighty. Genuine interest, please! Please!!! Bye.


r/ForeverAloneDating • • 15h ago

F4M 33 [F4M] Canada - it’s so lonely out here

16 Upvotes

Hi. Im currently looking for someone to talk to these days. I mostly work from home and feel like my mental health is declining rapidly fast because of isolation.

Anyways, I’ve been watching a bunch of series lately. I don’t mind taking shows or movie recommendations. As much as I’d like to enjoy the outdoors, it sucks to go out and wander alone. At least for me. I also like playing games, mostly cozy ones as I don’t like being stressed out in a game.

I’m an introvert, which means I recharge by being alone, but apparently too much of that isn’t great either. So here I am, outsourcing my social life to Reddit like a responsible adult.

Send me a message if you’re interested in chatting. Have a good day.


r/ForeverAloneDating • • 4h ago

M4F 39 [M4F] #Minnesota, blue collar guy still looking for my clingy other half

2 Upvotes

A bit about me, I run cnc saw for cutting granite and for the 4 days a week I do that it keeps me fairly active. Im on my feet moving around during my 13 hour shifts, not to mention all the stone I have to lift. Im doing fairly well after having to basically restart my life last year and just hit the 6 figure mark.

I'm 5'11'' at 250lbs (Dad bod) with more salt than pepper in my hair, im fairly laid back with a unique calm and clear mind in times of chaos. I have some nerdy hobbies that include 3d printing, robotics, and some dabbling in programming. I've also recently started playing D&D with an online guild and it's been a much needed distraction to some things I've had to deal with.

May 2025 ended a 15 year relationship and I have been single since then, like have not been on a date single. With that noted ive done some healing but not all healing can be done alone

Ideally I want to find someone my age or younger who will bring extra peace into my life, someone willing to go out of their way for me as I would do for them

I'm a fairly open person about a lot of things and will generally answer most questions that come up.

When you DM me please include a bit about yourself, like your age, where you're from, maybe some hobbies or interests, what you're looking for in a guy. You know the basics and not just hey.

Also if this post is up im still looking


r/ForeverAloneDating • • 4h ago

M4F 33[M4A] #Austria/Europe/Anywhere - My job scares people sometimes but I swear I'm a good guy

2 Upvotes

Hello you lovely people!

Let me start by saying that I really, really enjoy my life. I have awesome friends, a good job, go on vacation and whatnot. The only thing I'm missing is someone to share all of this with. Not someone to fix anything, please no. Someone who's satisfied with her own life and also looks for someone to make everything... complete, if that makes sense?

A few facts about me:

\\\\- I have three cats, you better like them :)

\\\\- Book nerd (Lord of the Rings!!!!!)

\\\\- Outdoor lover and homebody at the same time

\\\\- I'm a professional at loosing my keys and wallet somewhere

\\\\- Dedicated amateur at finding them

\\\\- At this point, my blood consists to about 47% percent of coffee

\\\\- Love travelling - city trips for sightseeing and loooong beach holidays! my favourite destinations are rome, where there's a lot to discover and the canary islands

\\\\- I'm a clinical psychologist and have my own practice

\\\\- Single dad of a sassy 9 year old daughter

That's most of the key facts, I guess? Come say hi!


r/ForeverAloneDating • • 7h ago

M4F 32 [M4F] #Online looking for that spark

4 Upvotes

Dating apps have never been my thing, which feels weird to type because here I am, but yea. Not my thing. So I'm taking my chance here in the hopes that maybe the person I'm ment to be with might not be here but even over seas and what not.

So a little about me. My name is Josh, I'm 6'1, love to cook (I cook for you, I dont mind, and I'm pretty good) love movies of all kinds but prefer horror and comedy, love music though not current rap and country, big into games of all kinds though I have no issue putting that in the backseat to make time for you, love nature, theme parks, the beach, big into mythology and history of all kinds. I use dad jokes illegally because I'm not a dad, and I used to work out a ton but took a break. Would be nice to have a partner.

I'm looking for butterflies. Odd thing to say, but I miss having someone to stay up late with, get lost in time with said person, have someone to look forward to hearing from. Romance you know. Feels kind of dead these days but I'm old school on the way that I love showing affection and showing someone they mean a ton to me. I know I play video games but I'm not looking to play games with someone's heart if that makes sense.


r/ForeverAloneDating • • 4h ago

M4M 27 [M4M] US/California/Online - Looking to be your affectionate and nerdy boyfriend

2 Upvotes

Hey there everybody! 27 year old gay male here from southern California, hoping to find that special someone I will fall head over heels for. I’m looking for somebody within the US and close to my age. I am 5'6" and 165lbs with long black hair and glasses. I would best describe myself as a fun-loving nerd who is very affectionate.

I'm someone who enjoys the little things in life as opposed to grand adventures. I’m very much one to "stop and smell the roses” as the saying goes. While I may be a bit more introverted overall, once I get comfortable around someone, you’d never be able to tell. There's nothing I enjoy more than spending quality time with the people I deeply care about. I love hearing them talk about their interests, hobbies, and experiences. I also love giving physical affection; I'm all about cuddles, kisses, and holding hands. It’s my main love language and the way I will always let you know just how much you mean to me, and that I will always be there for you.

Music is easily the most important thing in my life. I’m a singer, and have been performing in one way or another ever since elementary school. It's a talent I am very proud of, so expect me to sing some songs just for you!

I enjoy getting out of the house to go on long walks, either just through the neighborhoods, at a nearby mall, or hiking out on a trail. I also love listening to music in my free time. I mostly enjoy rock, some metal, and lots of alternative. Ghost is my favorite band. As for other hobbies I play PC games on Steam, my favorite being ARPGs like the Diablo series or Last Epoch, as well as collecting some LEGO sets and Yugioh cards. I love watching older horror movies from the 70's and 80's. I'm a bit of a writer as well, creating my own characters, stories, and even fanfiction from time to time.

There are only a few deal-breakers I have. I am deathly allergic to cats, and get bad allergies to most indoor animals. Pets could only be outdoors with me around, and absolutely no cats. No drugs or smoking either. Yes, this includes weed and vapes. I have asthma and any kind of smoke will make it flare up. I'm a leftist politically, and not interested in anyone right of center.

Thank you so much for taking the time to read all this! I hope to hear from you soon if you’re at all interested. Let's make this the start of something wonderful!


r/ForeverAloneDating • • 54m ago

M4F 42 M 🏴󠁧󠁢󠁳󠁣󠁴󠁿 (m4f)

• Upvotes

No idea where to start if im honest.

Single for 3 years now and spend most of my time alone or working so just looking to find someone to chat to and see where things lead I suppose.

I enjoy walking and nature in general but also enjoy trying random new things if I can.

Not much to go on but im an open book if you want to know more just ask


r/ForeverAloneDating • • 5h ago

M4F 21 [M4F] #portland Oregon USA - looking for super open minded girls that are wanting a long term relationship.

2 Upvotes

I would love to find an amazing an amazing very open minded girl to share a life and have a great relationship with and eventually build a super open family with. I'm super loving and compassionate and care a lot. I'm pretty sexually inexperienced though and have never been in a relationship.

I would describe my personality as pretty shy but sometimes assertive and kinda nerdy, but very athletic. I'm a very loving person and making sure the people I love matters a lot to me. Making sure you are cared for matters to me, and I'd be looking for someone that appreciates that all the time.

Things I enjoy:

- Reading: favorite genres being fantasy and sci fi

- Board games: I like most all games especially ones that are more complex and make your brain work though

- Sports: I love sports. Whether that be participating and play or just watching. My favorite being football, but still enjoy watching or playing others too.

- Outdoors: I love being outside either playing sports or just hanging out or going on a hike. I think it’s fantastic especially if the weather is good. I’d love to get out and hike and camp more often and would love someone interested in doing that.

I also love to travel and experience new cultures and see new places
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I don't really have a type I'm into but I very much prefer fit and in shape. Other than that I'm very open to looks, but picky about personality.

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I'm very open minded and would hope for the same in others. I'm super open about the family I'd want in the future as well. if you have any questions feel free to reach out. Please be either from near Oregon or open to relocating here as I will be starting school here so will not be able to date elsewhere currently. Include this emoji in your first message please😊


r/ForeverAloneDating • • 2h ago

M4F 27 M4F #Online, anywhere! I'm looking to build something that lasts :)

1 Upvotes

Hi there! I'm Jay, from California, USA! I'm 27, and I'm looking for something online that will eventually become in person! I bet you wanna know a bit about me though, so let me tell ya:

I'm a white, 6', 220lb dad bod totin', blonde, guy who is CHILD FREE, ATHEIST, AND LEFTIST/LIBERAL. please, if you are a religious sycophant, I'm not for you. I respect people's beliefs, until their beliefs attack my friends and family.

I'm a pretty funny person, I promise! I just start out shy and over time I get funnier, it's like an investment. I'm autistic and ADHD, with OCD tendencies. I'm not insane, just a bit aloof.

I'm a former chef. I left my career field to find other work so I can pay for culinary school :').

I love music! mostly metal, jazz, 90s rap, and some bluegrass. I'm open to other stuff but pop just ISNT for me, I tried it, I just can't. I read a lot, I like fantasy, romance, horror, and uh..spicier things. language learning is a hobby, I speak a few languages, like Russian, English, Spanish, and Indonesian! I also play a lot of video games, mostly Xbox.

if ya wanna know more, please hit me up! I'm friendly, and I won't bite. unless you ask me to, which I will, but that's because I'm too shy to say no


r/ForeverAloneDating • • 3h ago

M4A 42 [M4A] NJ/Online oddball shut in seeking similar online, or someone local to pull me out of my shell a little.

1 Upvotes

Seeking odd ones, strange strangers, and even open minded normal folk. Not only does it make for more interesting conversation, I find people with quirks and eccentricities more compatible and likely to forgive me for my own.

Feminine men, transfem, and females are my target audience.

I love psychology. I've worked in the field for half my life and apply it to every day conversations whenever possible. I love knowing what motivates people and finding the good, or at very least, neutral in everyone.

I love writing. Making characters, worlds, and universes is a passion of mine. Doing it alongside someone else is even better.

I love gaming. Mostly I'm single player these days, but I'm ready to become player two to the right person if we find a game we can agree on.

If any of these seems even the least bit interesting, please save me from my boredom.


r/ForeverAloneDating • • 14h ago

F4M 19 [F4M] Europe/Online - Looking for something genuine and lasting

7 Upvotes

Hi! I’m a 19-year-old girl originally from Ukraine, currently living in Poland, where I’m studying logistics.

I’m not entirely sure how to start this, but I thought I’d give it a try :) I’d really love to find someone special. Not just someone to occasionally exchange messages with, but someone I can slowly build a genuine, loving relationship with. Someone who might eventually become my favourite person (and I, hopefully, theirs too).

A little about me:

I’m quite introverted and can be a little shy at first, but once I feel comfortable with someone, that tends to change quite dramatically :) I become much more talkative, affectionate, and sometimes a little silly. I love sharing random thoughts, getting excited over tiny things, and remembering little details about someone I care about.

I enjoy quiet walks, museums, cosy little cafés, and conversations that go from something completely silly to something surprisingly deep. I also love reading, drawing, watching films and series, and making little things with my hands, especially gifts for people I love. I think there’s something lovely about finding happiness in the smallest, most ordinary things.
I suppose I’m a bit of a hopeless romantic, too. I love little gestures of affection, thoughtful surprises, and finding ways to make someone smile. I’m definitely the kind of person who would see something that reminds me of you and immediately want to tell you about it :)

As for my appearance, I’m 165 cm tall, with a fairly average build and light brown hair. My style leans towards darker colours, although I really love blue clothes. I’m happy to exchange pictures once we get to know each other a little!

What am I looking for?

I have a particularly soft spot for gentle, affectionate, emotionally open guys who aren’t afraid to express their feelings, be vulnerable, or get excited over the smallest things. I find kindness, sensitivity, and a little bit of shyness incredibly endearing. I also find guys with a softer, slightly feminine side especially attractive, although it’s certainly not a requirement :)

I’ve never really been drawn to the whole tough-guy image. I’d much rather be with someone who’s comfortable being himself, isn’t afraid to show affection or take initiative, and genuinely enjoys both giving and receiving love.

I really value mutual effort and emotional closeness. I’d love a relationship where we both make each other feel wanted, look after one another, and find little ways to brighten each other’s days. Where we can share our thoughts, support each other when things get difficult, and enjoy spending time together even when we’re doing absolutely nothing special.

I’m looking for something serious and monogamous, preferably with someone around my age (19–24) who lives in Europe. I’m happy to start long-distance, but I’d love for us to eventually meet and build something together in person :)

If you’ve made it all the way to the end, thank you for reading my little essay! I didn’t mean for it to get quite this long, but I suppose I had a lot to say :)

If anything I’ve written resonates with you and you feel like we might get along, I’d really love to hear from you. And if you’re a little shy or unsure how to start, please don’t let that stop you! You don’t need a perfect introduction. Just tell me a little about yourself, where you’re from, and perhaps something small that made you smile recently.

Anyway, I hope to hear from you! :)


r/ForeverAloneDating • • 3h ago

M4F 22 [M4F] Live in the PNW. Only looking for girls in WA

1 Upvotes

Hey all, my post is likely to get buried in the hundred or so similar posts but thought I'd try! Im 22 I work in the tech field and travel up and down the PNW. I frequently go in the Seattle area.

Now that we have some of the geography out of the way, let me talk about my self a bit. I'm 5"7, dark hair browen eyes. Avg but that's what I was blessed with lol. Im a very approachable person and open to many things! I spent alot of my life closed off and shy and I'm breaking out of that! I have picked up traveling and frequent Canada a lot to try food there. Discovered some great spots! I also go to the gym when I'm not at work or hanging out with friends and family. Would like to think I'm making progress!

In terms of what I'm looking for I dont have a "type" in the conventional sense. I'd just like to get to know a person who's also a bit reserved but is wanting to expand there horizons with me! I dont like to go to party's or drink or any of that. Im boring that way. I'd rather play bored games or watch a movie together or play card games go on a small date and get to know one another. I maybe being a bit generic or not giving the info people may need, but I'm new to this so feel free to ask anything! I would prefer to talk to someone around my age but older is okay! Also id like to text on reddit for a bit to see if we match and we can exchnage numbers and pictures from there if you feel comfortable! I'd really like to take this slow I'm not looking to hook up or anything I'm really just wanting to find someone I connect with and play it by ear!


r/ForeverAloneDating • • 4h ago

M4F 29 M4F

1 Upvotes

29M | Philosophy nerd, gamer, and bookworm looking for something real. Open to long distance as well!

Heyooo,

I'm a 29 year old fella, 6'1", biracial (black and white but definitely look asian lmao). I recently came out of a long-term relationship, and while I'm not rushing anything, I'm ready to start meeting people again.

I'm monogamous and looking for a genuine long-term partner, but open to casual if we connect!

I'm the type who gets lost in philosophy. Some of my favorite philosophers are Friedrich Nietzsche and Hegel! So if you know anything about them please leave a long winded dissertation on them ;)

Also! I'd love to find someone who enjoys deep in political conversations even if we disagree. I'm a Liberal with a capital L (if you know you know)

I also love classic literature, fantasy, history and video games are a huge part of my downtime, whether it's a co-op session or a story-heavy game I can't put down.

I'm open to long distance!

Good conversation and real connection matter more to me than anything honestly.

I'm looking for someone kind, curious, and patient, who's okay with taking things slow and building something one conversation at a time. Age, background, and gender don't matter as much as compatibility, so if any of this resonates, feel free to message me.

Say hi, tell me what you're playing or reading, or just tell me your thoughts on wgat you'reenjoying at the moment. I'm all ears!


r/ForeverAloneDating • • 12h ago

F4M 32 [F4M] looks like my soulmate is a ghost

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Hi I'm Trish based in Mumbai. Im 32 and raised Catholic although I'm not religious. I just like celebrating festivals.

Ive been single for 6 yrs and not gone on a date in 3 yrs lol. Life was hectic and Im finally in a good headspace.

Im a researcher working remote and doing my 3rd masters degree.

Here to meet someone around my age 32-33 anywhere in the world.

Things I do for fun: home selfcare, visiting trade shows, books fests, home decor, listening to audiobooks.

My personality: I laugh and smile alot. I like to be happy. Earlier I was the emo broody gal who liked dark colors but now I like really bright colors. I can listen to someone for hours.

I long to meet someone who is cheerful and likes to crack jokes. Who likes hugs, who likes to travel, who is self positive, who is a good listener and tries to understand my perspectives.


r/ForeverAloneDating • • 4h ago

M4F 22 [M4F] #Georgia/US/Anywhere - Looking for my fellow metalhead to watch horror movies together

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Hey! I’ll try to keep this post short, just as the title says, if you're into metal you’re my friend. But I do want a serious relationship with a special one, so no rush, let’s be friends first and see if there’s something else.

Not a big fan of describing myself, in short I consider myself easygoing and open minded, always wanna learn new things, and yeah let’s just talk more then you can find out the rest by yourself.

Interests include:

Metal, well anything about metal, songs I listen to recently are more heavier, but all subgenres are great. Recommendations are always welcomed. I also listen to anything else except country. I’d like to go to more concerts in the future if possible.

Anything about horrors, movies, novels, true crime YouTube videos and podcasts…

Video games, some favorites are Minecraft, Animal Crossing: New Horizons, and Pixel Gun 3D. Haven't had as much time with gaming lately, but I'd like to get back to it.

Physical-wise, medium black hair and brown eyes, 5’7", 144 lbs. Work out sometimes.

And I’m looking for someone who may share some interests in common, but that’s not necessary as long as you don’t mind Metal and horrors, they’re my comfort zone. I’m also open to new stuff.

I want a relationship which we could share caring and understanding, vent about life, and support each other through tough times. Life sucks, I don’t want anymore toxic, positive stuff to tell us to be stronger, it’s alright to be weak.

Don’t mind LDR, don’t mind which time zone.

I’d like to swap some pics first tbh, but not in this post, just DM or PM me something about yourself first if you’re interested.

I don’t know what else to add, but let’s just talk first.


r/ForeverAloneDating • • 6h ago

M4F 30 [M4F] #Colorado - Lonely rock nerd looking for someone special to talk to

1 Upvotes

Hello everyone, my name is Jason, I live in Northern Colorado and I am looking for someone who would love to talk everyday and build something special.

A little about me:

  • I recently graduated with my bachelors in Geology and also serve in the U.S. Navy Reserves.
  • I love to hike and camp as often as I can. Will disappear into the mountains for a night away or wake up early and get some steps in.
  • Have recently gotten into the gym quite a bit, really trying to better myself!
  • Am a bit of a nerd, I watch anime, spend hours on strategy games or RPG's, and DM dnd with my house mates.
  • I miss having someone to talk about my day with, make jokes in the hopes of laughing together, or just calling to hear their voice to help with a stressful time.
  • Am definitely a physical touch person. I love to hold hands, cuddle, forehead kisses, you name it.

I am open to a LDR, but would have the hopes of meeting in person eventually.

I really hope that you liked my post and reach out soon! Look forward to talking!


r/ForeverAloneDating • • 10h ago

M4F 28M [M4F] Southern Ontario (GTA) - Looking for a rave partner.

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Heya, I'm from the Greater Toronto Area of Southern Ontario and looking for someone to go / take to raves.

About me? Oh sure. I'm 28M, i love going out to raves in Toronto, I make kandi and keychains for people at shows, and i do embroidery at home when I'm relaxing. Huge fan of techno (shout-out Format), house, disco, and weird bass music. I usually go open till close for most of my events (i paid for the whole damn ticket I'm gonna use the whole damn ticket). Outside of shows i enjoy spending time at home either watching YouTube, playing video games, or crafting in some shape or form.

Some data on me, I'm 6ft flat, 220lbs, Irish-Canadian, with brown hair and glasses. I usually lean towards the sk8r boi aesthetic or i look professional because of work.

What am i looking for? Id like to find someone who at least has some interest in electronic music or raves. Big plus if you are an open till close person like me. Someone who is also employed and stable in their life. I would also appreciate if you prioritize communication, we are adults we can use our words. Otherwise I'm not picky.

Hopefully this resonates with at least someone local-ish. Feel free to send me a chat and we can get to know each other better, maybe go to a rave as a first date.


r/ForeverAloneDating • • 10h ago

M4F 25 [M4F] #Ontario/Anywhere-looking for my future

2 Upvotes

Hey! Im ryland I’m 25, from Ontario, Canada, and I’m looking for a long-term relationship. I’m completely open to long distance and honestly don’t care where you’re from if we click.
I’m pretty quiet and shy at first, especially in person, but I’m much better over text. Once I’m comfortable, I’m a mix of sarcastic, goofy, affectionate, flirty, talkative, and occasionally way too deep about completely random things.
I’m definitely more of a homebody. Most of my free time is spent playing video games, listening to music, watching sports, movies, TV, or YouTube, and falling down random rabbit holes about history, geography, weather, or whatever else catches my attention that day. I also like photography, memes, walks, learning useless/random facts, and I absolutely love animals.
Physically, I’m around 6’1”–6’2”, average build, with brown hair and green/hazel eyes. I’m totally comfortable swapping pictures once we start talking.
I’m in school right now and still figuring out exactly what I want to do career-wise.
Relationship-wise, I’m looking for someone who actually wants to build something. I like talking throughout the day when possible, or at least having a few real conversations if life/work is busy. I reply pretty fast, I like good morning/good night texts, sending random memes and thoughts, watching things together, gaming together, and just slowly becoming part of each other’s everyday life.
If it’s long distance, I’m completely okay with starting through text and letting things grow naturally from there.
The biggest things I’m attracted to personality-wise are kindness, patience, affection, good communication, and honestly, being a little clingy. I like feeling wanted and I like making the other person feel wanted too.
Biggest turnoffs are one-word replies, emotional unavailability, and people who are only looking for something casual. I’m not expecting instant chemistry or constant attention, but I do want effort and genuine interest from both sides.
My sense of humor is sarcastic, dry, chaotic, and sometimes pretty dark, so fair warning there.
If any of this sounds like your kind of person, send me a message. Tell me a little about yourself, send me a random fact, tell me what you’ve been obsessed with lately, or just say hi and we’ll figure it out from there.


r/ForeverAloneDating • • 6h ago

M4F 22 [M4F] #Online #Anywhere

1 Upvotes

Hello everyone I hope you’re having a good day/night! :) I’m a 22 year old African-American male in the USA looking for something genuine and my hobbies are gaming, working out, reading, cooking, and watching anime! I play on PC and I play modded minecraft, and MHUR mostly. I’ve just started Cyberpunk 2077, but I’m open to new games! My favorite anime is Attack On Titan or Hyouka, but a close second is Scissor Seven! I don’t really have any preferences on height, weight, race, or age (obviously 18+). If you message me, please say your age and some fun facts about yourself! I’ll share a picture of myself if we talk! I’m kinda awkward at first, but once I warm up to you I’m a lot more talkative!


r/ForeverAloneDating • • 7h ago

F4M 34 [F4M] Online -- Looking for Long-term Romance. Could You Be My Person? NSFW

1 Upvotes

Hello fellow Redditors! 👋

I'm Jess, a tech marketer based in the PNW, USA. Though don't let that fool you. I'm originally from New England and honestly will likely move back within the next few years. I've had my fair share of Reddit chats, connections, experiences, but figured I'd try again to see if something more long-term is out there.

I'm ultimately looking for a long-term, monogamous, romantic connection. Location doesn't really matter to me at the moment but it's not something I'd want to do forever. Ultimately looking for someone that adds to my life and makes it even more fun than it already is.

So, what about me?

I'm an eldest daughter, have a cat, enjoy a pretty robust social life, and a decent chunk of hobbies. I will also add I am an ambivert, but can skew more social, and am the general organizer of my friend groups. My friends would say I'm loyal, witty, caring, kind, and definitely a nerd. Some of my interests include:

Reading (recently finished The Berry Pickers and starting Demon Copperhead), though the TBR is never-ending and See You Next Tuesday is vying for some time to be read this weekend. I pretty much read most genres but enjoy contemporary fiction, historical fiction, romance, and sci-fi/fantasy.

Travel, which I still don't have my next trip planned outside the US but there's plenty I want to explore! Next non-work trip is with a friend to NYC to see a bunch of Broadway shows. Which I'm very excited for. My last international trip was to the UK in October last year and I can't wait to go back.

Miscellaneous events, but not limited to pub trivia, working out (getting back into running and strength training so that's a big focus right now), hiking, exploring restaurants, being by the water, movies, gaming, 60s-80s TV, dancing, and probably some other things I can't think of right now.

But that seems like enough. What am I looking for? Someone who:

Is between the ages of 30-40.

Prefers to live in a city (sorry I am a visit the country person)

Doesn't want or already have kids (this is a dealbreaker)

Is not racist/sexist/homophobic/a general asshole

Enjoys chatting over voice notes or video calls

Is okay with a partner that socially drinks or consumes edibles

I'd also want to swap pictures fairly early on (I generally don't include them here for safety and also like, Reddit links can be weird sometimes). If you've gotten this far I hope to hear from you :)


r/ForeverAloneDating • • 7h ago

NB4M 21 [NB4M] #Online Looking for a man to sweep me off my feet!

1 Upvotes

Hi!!!! I’m Airyn, nice to meet you guys! I hope you all are well! I’m so over being single, it’s high time I have a man to call my own. A good way to get the gist of me is a femboy! I’m amab but femme presenting, as well as use they/them pronouns! I’m a big gamer, Pokemon has and always will be a huge part of my life. If that franchise ever ends I’ll genuinely feel lost lol. I’m a big genshin fan I log in literally daily to get my rewards, I’ve really invented in my account and am proud of all the progress I’ve made! I’m usually attracted to white guys I’m not sure why but it is what it is. I like taller men I’m down for fit or dad bod I’m not picky. I really hope to hear from some cool guys! If you read this far tell me your go lounge wear in your message lol! ❤️