Hello everyone. Im trying this again , hoping I can this time find someone for me. Last time I tried here sadly i mostly got kids messaging me asking for nudes. Just to make sure I am clear I am not looking for a child to be either or for some little fling or something like that. Im looking for someone I can spend the rest of my life with . Someone I can build a family with . Someone who can love me for me and I can love them for them . I really hope I can find that person . I hope you all find what you’re looking for and all have an amazing rest of your day

Hi, hello! It's me. (can't believe I have to say this. but please read post body. creepy message=blocked)

My name's Annie. I am mostly looking for someone to spend time with, share stuff with, and someone to play games with. I will preface saying I'm kind of nuts for Project Zomboid, and I'd love someone to play with.

As for the rest, here's a bit about me: I enjoy sci-fi, drawing, painting, and I do a lot of gaming too. (I have recently been very into Life is Strange). I also enjoy researching crime, psychology, and biology/neuropsychology at times. I have quite the fixation on the Chernobyl disaster, and radiation as a whole. All types of zombie media, too. I have an interest for "odd" movies, especially the apocalyptic and/or thriller kind. Terminator (1&2) is a personal favorite.

EDIT: Send me an actual message, not just "hi, hello, can we chat, we have similar interests"/introducing yourself like it's a job interview, where there's little i can go off on to start a conversation. throw an icebreaker, something! ask questions! (here's me suggesting an icebreaker, is a hotdog a sandwich? why, or why not?). Please, preferably no one over 24.

i absolutely detest this unceasing solitude and would love to meet someone pleasant, for long-term companionship.

preferably a musician.

i like 70s music (Rory Gallagher, Donovan, The K¡nks, Sparks, Peter Hammill), singing, colour green, 20+ km walks, kittens, collecting vintage objects and bitching about life to each other.

preferred age range 28-33.

feel free to message me if you're interested.

https://imgur.com/a/JXTjjOb

Hey there! 😊

I’m a 33-year-old single Black woman living in Illinois, in the Chicago area, and I’m here hoping to meet someone who’s genuinely interested in building a serious, meaningful relationship. I work full-time, and when I’m not working, I’m usually enjoying the comforts of home, catching up on my favorite shows, playing video games, building LEGO models, or listening to music. I’m a bit of a homebody, but I also enjoy getting out of the house for things that interest me, especially horror conventions, pop culture conventions, and other nerdy events.

If you’re into nerdy women, gaming, horror, wrestling, and all things geek culture, we might have a few things in common!

🎮 A Little About Me

I’m a gamer who enjoys relaxing with video games when I have some free time. I’ve played the usual popular games over the years, but I’m always open to discovering new titles and finding something different to get into. Gaming is one of my favorite ways to unwind after a long day, and I think it would be awesome to have someone I could play games with, share recommendations with, or even just hang out with while we each play our own games.

I’m also a big professional wrestling fan! Wrestling is probably one of the main things you’ll catch me watching on TV. Whether it’s keeping up with matches, following storylines, or talking about favorite wrestlers, it’s definitely one of my biggest interests. If you’re a wrestling fan yourself, that’s a definite plus because we could watch shows together, debate storylines, and have fun reacting to everything happening in the ring.

Horror is another big interest of mine. I enjoy horror-related events and love attending horror and pop culture conventions, both in Illinois and out of state when I get the opportunity. There’s something fun about being surrounded by people who share your interests, checking out vendors, meeting guests, and discovering new collectibles. I would absolutely love to find someone who would enjoy attending conventions with me and turning those trips into fun memories together.

I’m also into superheroes, Game of Thrones, and pretty much anything that falls under the nerdy or geeky category. Movies, shows, collectibles, games, and interesting fictional worlds are all things I can get excited about. Anime is one area I haven’t really ventured into yet, though, so you’ll have to forgive me if I don’t know much about it!

And, of course, I can’t forget my dog, Wade, named after Deadpool! 🐶❤️ He’s part of my life, so if we end up getting to know each other, you should probably be prepared to hear about him. Bonus points if you appreciate the name reference!

Overall, I’d describe myself as someone who enjoys having fun, appreciating the little things, and spending time doing what makes me happy. I enjoy being comfortable at home, but I’m also down for an adventure when it involves something I love. I’m looking for someone who can be my partner, my best friend, and my favorite person to share life's experiences with.

❤️** What I’m Looking Fo**r

I’m ultimately looking for a serious, monogamous relationship with a man who knows what he wants and is genuinely ready to build something with someone. I’m not here for anything casual, situationships, or something that only lasts until one person gets bored. I want to find someone I can grow with, build trust with, and eventually settle down with.

The qualities I value most are maturity, responsibility, honesty, faithfulness, communication, and consistency. I want someone who understands that relationships take effort from both people and who is willing to put in that effort. Someone who can communicate openly, talk through disagreements like an adult, and make me feel secure in the relationship rather than constantly wondering where I stand.

I also love someone who has a sense of humor! I want us to be able to joke around, tease each other playfully, laugh at ridiculous things, and enjoy each other's company. At the same time, I want someone who knows when it's time to be serious and can have meaningful conversations about life, our future, and the things that matter. Ideally, we can be silly together one minute and have a deep conversation the next.

I want a relationship where we genuinely enjoy spending time together, whether that means going out on a date, attending a convention, watching wrestling, playing video games, exploring a new place, or simply staying home and relaxing. I don't need every day to be some grand adventure. Sometimes, just being around the right person makes an ordinary day feel special.

I'm also hoping to meet someone who respects me for who I am, including the fact that I'm a Black woman. I'm primarily attracted to white and Hispanic men, though I'm also open to getting to know Asian and Middle Eastern men. Ultimately, attraction and compatibility matter, and I'd like to meet someone who is interested in getting to know me as a whole person rather than making assumptions about me.

👨‍👩‍👧 The Future

One of my goals is to eventually settle down and have children of my own. I want to build a loving, stable home with someone who shares that vision and is excited about creating a future together.

I don't mind dating someone who already has children. I understand that being a parent comes with responsibilities, and I respect that your children will be an important part of your life. However, I do want to be upfront that I'm looking for someone whose co-parenting situation is reasonably stable and who can manage those responsibilities in a healthy, mature way. I'm not looking to get caught in ongoing drama or constant conflict with an ex-partner.

I'm hoping to find someone who has room in their life for a committed relationship and who is emotionally available to build something lasting. I don't expect anyone to have their entire life perfectly figured out, but I do value someone who takes responsibility for their circumstances and is actively working toward the future they want.

🎟️** Let's Be Nerdy Together**!

One of the things I'd really love is to find someone who shares at least some of my interests. You don't have to enjoy every single thing I do, and I'm happy for us to have our own hobbies, too. But it would be great to have someone who is willing to explore my interests with me, just as I'd be willing to learn about the things you're passionate about.

I'd love to have a convention buddy who would be excited to attend horror and pop culture conventions, browse collectibles, check out cool merchandise, and make a day or weekend out of it. Someone I could watch wrestling with, play games with, talk about shows with, or introduce to my favorite nerdy things would be wonderful.
And if we introduce each other to new hobbies along the way, even better! I think one of the best parts of a relationship is learning about each other, discovering shared interests, and creating little traditions that belong to the two of you.

🚨 A Few Important Things Before You Message Me

I want to be clear about what I'm looking for, so please respect these boundaries:

Single men only. If you're in a relationship, separated but still involved with someone, or looking for a third, I'm not interested.

Monogamy only. I'm looking for an exclusive relationship between two people.

Serious intentions only. I'm not looking for anything casual, a temporary fling, or someone who doesn't know what they want.

Please respect my race. I'm looking for someone who genuinely appreciates me for who I am and has no issue with me being a Black woman.

Please respect my boundaries. I'm happy to get to know someone here, but I'm not moving to another platform to chat with someone I just met. I'd prefer to take my time and get comfortable first.

Location Matters to Me. One thing that’s really important to me is finding someone who lives reasonably close to me, preferably in Chicago or the surrounding suburbs. I work full-time, and I want a relationship where we can realistically make time for each other and spend quality time together in person. While I understand that getting to know someone online is a great starting point, I don't want a relationship where we're constantly limited to texting, phone calls, or video chats because we live too far apart.

I'm not expecting perfection, and I know that no two people will have everything in common. What matters to me is mutual attraction, compatibility, respect, communication, and a genuine desire to make a relationship work.

💌 If You've Made It This Far...

If you're a single man who is mature, faithful, affectionate, funny, and genuinely interested in finding a long-term partner, I'd love to hear from you!

Tell me a little about yourself. How old are you? Where are you located? What are some of your hobbies and interests? Are you into gaming, wrestling, horror, superheroes, or anything else nerdy? And what are you ultimately hoping to find in a relationship?

You don't have to share every interest I have, and you certainly don't need to be a fellow nerd about absolutely everything. I'm more interested in finding someone whose personality clicks with mine and who wants to build something real.

I'm hoping to find my person: someone I can laugh with, trust, support, make memories with, and eventually build a family with. Someone who can be both my romantic partner and my best friend. Someone who wants the real thing and is willing to put in the effort to make it last.

If that sounds like you, don't be shy. Send me a message, introduce yourself, and let's see where things go! ❤️

Hi!

I want to wake up from hibernation and find a guy who would choose me first.

About me:

28F, based in the Philippines.

Working professional.

Pocketsized at 4'7", normal BMI, fair skin. Baby face to the point tht I would get asked for my ID in cinemas and when I buy alcohol. Usually get called cute but my older brothers call me ugly hehe

Single, no kids, no baggage.

I drink occasionally — one can only, mostly for socialization.

I have a driver's license but I'm honest enough to admit I don't drive much.

Personality:

Introvert. INFP-T.

I'm quite shy and awkward. I find it hard to open up to people but it's easy for me to empathize with people. My personality shifts a lot because I tend to adapt to the person I'm talking to. I can get quite talkative over time but my humor can get morbid.

My social battery needs recharging often. I may disappear for weeks. I just need space and quiet — but I understand this can be a red flag or a dealbreaker for other people so you can stop reading.

The honest part (please read this one):

I have a stress response where I sometimes disappear without warning. I can't always give a heads-up in the moment — it happens fast, and my instinct is to go quiet and recharge. I always come back. It's not about you. I'm saying this upfront so you know what you're signing up for. If you need constant contact or someone who can always warn you when they need space, I'm probably not your person. If you get it — or you're the same way — we'll probably understand each other very well.

If you've made it to this part, congratulations. You're an angel hehe

Hobbies:

I love watching anime, series, and kdramas.

I love reading a lot! Normally spend my time just reading while listening to music.

I enjoy playing escape rooms and travelling with my family. Staying in my room is still the best tho.

I like to cook but I don't really enjoy washing the dishes after.

I write poems and short stories. I also draw pero di ako magaling.

My love language: Physical touch and words of affirmation.

What I'm looking for:

Someone kind, patient, and emotionally grounded

Ideally also introverted, or at least someone who understands introversion

Someone I can have good and deep conversations with but also someone I can just sit with in silence.

Someone serious and won't treat this as a game. No games, no pressure, no rush

Not looking for anyone who'll take my quiet moments personally.

If any of this sounds like you, message me and tell me one thing you're currently obsessed with — a show, a rabbit hole, a hobby, anything. Anything is better than a simple "hi." 🙂

Hello. I’m a 37-year-old guy from New England, and like a lot of people here, I’ve never been in a relationship. It wasn’t for lack of trying — shyness, bad timing, and life just kept getting in the way. But I’ve been working on myself, opening up more socially, and I’m genuinely ready to connect with someone.

A bit about me:

Firstly I have some sort of fame, if thats what you call it. I made a dating site promoting my singleness which caught news in Boston and Matt Sheer a reporter social media. I’m a huge nerd who loves conventions, gaming, and cosplay. It’s been an amazing community for me, and I’ve met some great friends through it. I cosplay characters like Eddie Munson from Stranger Things and Leon from Resident Evil. I stay active, take care of myself, and oddly enough, I’m freakishly lucky with raffles and giveaways (no clue why, but I’ll take it).

I’m looking for someone kind, patient, and down-to-earth. You don’t need to cosplay — just be someone who enjoys nerdy stuff or at least doesn’t mind it. I’m not expecting perfection; I just want a genuine connection with someone who understands what it’s like to navigate dating later than most.

If you’re local, maybe we could start with something simple like coffee. No pressure — just two people seeing if there’s a spark.

Cosplay pics:

https://imgur.com/Y5ECn4T

https://imgur.com/a/Cn9Prn2

If this resonates, feel free to message me. I’d really like to meet someone real.

• I'd like to find someone who captivates me. Someone who I can talk with effortlessly. I want to meet a person who I can include in my daily tasks, and talk with throughout the day. I just want to find someone I can be open with. Platonic conversation or romance. Whatever you are looking for, don't hesitate to message me. I hope to hear from you.
• I'm fairly open to trying new things, but some of the things I enjoy are as follows. I love the outdoors. I've never been camping, but I would like to try it with someone someday. I also love to fish. I mostly fish salt water. I do occasionally fish freshwater though.
• PC games are also an enjoyable pastime for me on occasions. I have a variety of games, most of which are on Steam. I have other games on various other stores/services. I enjoy a wide variety of different kind of games, so I'm sure we can find something to play together if you game.
• One hobby I discovered later on in life is Magic the Gathering. I play both online on MtG Arena, and with physical cards. Magic has become something I am particularly fond of.
• Music has always been a part of my life. My tastes are varied, ranging from country, death and black metal, electronic, classic rock, folk, pop punk, and more.
• I enjoy doing things outside, as well as spending time indoors. I can veg out all day under the covers curled up in my bed, or I can take a trip somewhere and experience something new. I think my personality is a mix of the best of both worlds.
• As far as my personality is concerned, I would say I am fairly relaxed and laid back. I feel like I am mostly shy and quiet, with an introverted personality. Around people I don't know, I tend to be fairly quiet and to myself. In the company of someone who I am close with, I am more open and freer.
• All I hope for is a connection. It could be platonic, or it could blossom into romance, and commitment. I'm not putting a limit on what I am looking for.
• With the prior being said, I am single. I may be interested in changing that with the right person. The idea of commitment excites me. Monogamy is appealing to me.

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Hello! I'm looking to get to know someone on this sub and form a genuine romantic connection and relationship that starts out as friendship :D

Here's some basic bacts about me to decide whether or not you'd like to chat and get to know each other :3

Age: 22

Gender: Male

Nickname: Kimchi

Ethnicity: 75% white, 25% Korean

MBTI Type: ENFJ

Location: USA

Appearance: 6'2", brown hair, green eyes, athletic build, broad shoulders, strong hands, like to where dress shirts with jeans and classic Vans/Addidas, suit and tie, or my collection of hoodies (which are yours to steal ofc) 🤭

Hobbies/Interests: cooking (Korean food mostly, but some Italian and Mexican too, and I love spicy food 😋), hiking, daily exercise (cardio and running), going to new places and trying new stuff, learning about history, kdrama, kpop, anime, various movies and TV shows, and....

I'm a car and racing enthusiast! I love the history, science, mechanics, stories behind them, and I love going to races, car meets, karting events, and ofc sim racing. Not a douchebag "car guy" by any means btw, I just have a genuine passion for cars of all kinds :))

Occupation: 4th year ICET engineering major, going back for masters in electrical engineering, wants to work as an avionics engineer for the Air Force 😎

.....while competing in a motorsport on the side 👀

Relationship Goals: So.....I've never dated before 😅

But I've always had a clear idea of what I wanted in a relationship. My mom raised me to be gentleman, and to always put my partners needs before myself, and be a giving person. I always wanted an equal, caring, mutual relationship built on understanding, trust, honesty, and genuine care for one another. But I also want to take more of the lead and be a giver to my partner, to support her, take care of her, make her feel loved everyday. Not because she can't be independent, no I definitely want her to be. It's more like I feel the need to let her know how much she means to me everyday. Because when you find that special someone, you love them fully, not halfway, or just a little. Ive just never had anyone to give my love to 🥺

If any any this interests you, please feel free to message me! 😊

P.S. looking for women 18 to 25 from anywhere!

I'm 23 and I work as a programmer and I enjoy what I do.

I hit the gym, I'm around 5'8" with an athletic build. I'm as happy spending a quiet Sunday at home with a good book as I am hitting the road to see somewhere new.

Quick rundown:

\* I play a bit of everything, but Minecraft is still my main.

\* I have a 15-year-old chihuahua. A true veteran.

\* Next goal: learning guitar.

What I'm looking for: a girl between 20 and 26 with good conversation, a sense of humor and who knows what she wants. I want something serious, but I'm in no rush. Friends first is fine. Distance isn't a problem.

First step: a call while we play some Minecraft, and we see if the conversation flows.

If you're interested, message me with more than a "hi". Tell me what you're watching or playing right now.

23M from Maharashtra, looking for a little plot twist ❤️😂

Hey! I'm 23, working in IT, a bit playful, and always up for good conversations, random talks, and exploring new places.

Looking for a girl aged 23–26 with whom I can be myself, tease a little, laugh a lot, and hopefully build something genuine.

Maybe we start with a DM and end up being each other's favourite person? 👀❤️

Im a pretty introverted person who enjoys being in my own little world, looking for someone to build a connection with that grows into a long term monogamous relationship. Im a big fan of manwha , light novels , sports (football and basketball ) and board games. while I mostly play single-player video games, I’m always down to watch someone else play. I have my degree in accounting.

Once I’m comfortable I’m passionate, loyal, and genuinely enjoy deep conversations more than small talk. I like people who are open-minded, patient, nerdy in their own way, and able to appreciate someone who sees the world a little differently.Outside mythology stuff, I’m into music, late-night conversations, and learning random facts that absolutely nobody asked for.

6’7 chubby and african american. Heres a recent photo of me https://imgur.com/a/Y9lXiUK

If any of this sounds interesting,feel free to  send me a message

37yo dude near Elk Grove. I love anything comedy related (stand up, podcasts, movies), sweets, animals and coffee. But also, music (rap, rock & pop), Batman, live music, hitting up random events.

Dating apps suck, as I'm sure we'd agree, but reddit allows more in depth information and conversation. So might as well post here as well, on the off chance I can meet a sweet gal who shares some interests.

Fielding all relationship types, whatever feels natural

Let's chat!

https://imgur.com/a/m8VIqam

Hey 29M here living in Munich for a few years now. 172cm tall, long dark hair, calm by default and loud and funny once I’m comfortable. Still finding the right balance between the two.

I grew up in a boarding school, which meant I came to relationships later than most but I’ve done a lot of quiet work on myself, and arrived at a point where life genuinely feels good. Felt like the right time to actually try to find someone. Being an introvert I don’t have a thriving social life that’s why trying my luck at finding a relationship online, it worked for me well in the past so let’s how it goes now.

I’ve been vegetarian for years, not the preaching kind, just someone who genuinely cares about animals. I’m spiritual rather than religious, drawn to non-duality and philosophy. I work fully remote, which I used to love and now have complicated feelings about. Office small talk sounds weirdly appealing at this point, which says a lot xD

I play chess, probably more than I should. I solve nonogram puzzles and can crack a mirror cube in under 2 minutes. I watch stand-up comedy online and the last in person show was Max Amini in Munich, right after I submitted my thesis. Needed that more than I can explain. I also paint although I’m not so consistent with it. I hike when I can, nothing hardcore, just enough to feel alive. Last big one was a 30km birthday climb in the Tatras in Slovakia. One of the better days of my life. I’m also into yoga, meditation, cooking, science, financial markets and educational podcasts. Basically someone who likes learning things and moving slow enough to actually absorb them. I also love the StarTalk show on YT since I like physics, so space and universe talk, you get the idea.

What I’m looking for is someone curious, kind and genuinely interested in the world and in the person in front of her. I want the kind of relationship where we actually ask each other questions and showing up is mutual. I want someone I can count on and we can be each other’s support system. Eventually I want a family. Not a pressure thing, just honesty about where I’m headed. Looking for someone that has similar relationship experience as me, is not gaming all the time and has something going for her in life.

If this sounds like your kind of person, say hi. Tell me something about yourself, what did you like about my post and what do you look like and we’ll figure out the rest. I’m also adding my pics and a voice so you have an idea what you’re getting yourself into. I know finding your person online/reddit sounds kinda embarrassing in today’s time but we can always stage it and tell people we met through friends, jk :’)

https://imgur.com/a/AVqvRHV
https://voca.ro/1ksmfCN6oG4z

Hi, I'm Marco from Italy working in IT.

I do not like socials that much, in fact I use them just for memes honestly. (I use memes a lot to communicate so be ready)

I am the nerdy guy who likes to do sports but at the same time is capable to sit gaming all day long.
I do practice martial arts, Krav Maga and Brazilian Jiu Jitsu.

I am around 1.75m and a bit bulky on the muscular side.

I like playing videogames, MOBAs like Dota2 and LoL are an evergreen, but there are times when I want to immerse myself in a story and play games like The Last of Us or Cyberpunk.

Anime, movies, TV series and books are on the list too. To give one title I like for each media I'd say Hunter x Hunter 2011, movies for the moment I'd say the first Dune, TV Series Breaking Bad (even if can be quite slow in some moments), books The count of Monte Cristo.

For music I'm quite strange as I like a lot of things as long they are pretty much melodic, like heavy metal is most of the times a no go for me, while rock is one of my favourite genres.

I'd love to have some of these activities in common, as it is easier to start knowing each other if there's a common ground.

To share dream of mine, is to make a proper novel or videogame, as at the moment I have only achieved little projects like short stories or proof of concept.

Let's start to get a bit serious.

I am the type of guy who prefer to stay at home, but do not displease to meet up with friends at a pub and schedule outdoor activities like hiking.

I'd define myself pragmatic and cynic on philosophical matters.

If you don't like animals that is a deal breaker for me, I have a dog and a cat and I plan to always have a pet at home.

Starting long distance is not a problem for me, we can still do a lot of things together and meet up during vacations. If things go well, in the long run I want us to plan to get together somewhere, I'd prefer in Europe honestly.

I'd like to start building a relationship with friendship at base, getting to know each other better with daily interactions like discord calls and messages.

For what I know, a good relationship is based on two things: communication and perseverance.
I am willing to do my best and I'd like the same from you.

Honestly I'd like to keep everything else in our private discussions, and if you are down here probably we'll have one, I hope so at least (◕‿◕).

Hi. I really have no expectations of a reply as demands are high with age requirements being low. But still, hope springs eternal.

I'm a 58yo & separated since 2023. Together for taxation & other minor issues. I live out of a motel as it's cheaper than paying rent and still have privacy.

I'm an Indian. Also, a sailor (main reason for the motel). So, unfortunately, there are time zones involved. And separation when I'm away. Usually for 3 months at a stretch. And, for most, this will be a deal breaker. I'm sorry. But yet, cautiously optimistic, that somewhere, hopefully, someone exists for me. And, I'll get lucky and find her.

If the time zones and the above schedule are acceptable, I'm 5'9", 158lbs, slim to medium (height proportionate, I think it's called). I'm a textbook Scorpio. A full head of what used to be black hair is now mixed with white/gray hair. And have started to bald. Which means that I'm getting older, stupider & senile by the day :)

I’m on the lookout for a lady who's in the same boat as me. Alone, who needs and wants that butterfly feelings, the anticipation of a much awaited text or message or even a phone call. Waking up to the good mornings texts and the good night texts before we close our eyes, a smile on our faces. The thrill of meeting each other. Someone who'll check in and make sure you’re having a good one, talk about the bad ones, and just be there for each other.

I’d like to meet a woman who can hold a conversation, has a weird sense of humor and won't get offended at small things, but will talk it out as things can come across differently over the internet. One who is happy texting, calling and messaging to get to know each other. Who is open with filling that existing void in life with what we want and eager to be the partner-in-crime.

Please be okay with slow burn as I'm, admittedly, a slow starter. I'm ok if you're clingy, 'coz to be honest, there'll be times when I can be clingy too (especially when it nearing time that I've to leave you for my ship).

Hobbies - I'm an introvert (an extrovert in good company) but prefer being a homebody. Being a sailor, always traveling, when I'm home - I prefer keeping to myself, reading and listening to music, with a glass of beer on hand or watching movies. Just being lazy. I'd be happy if you can share your hobbies with me. Do things together, if possible (Hiking or visiting musuems sounds wonderful).

I can travel. Within USA or outside USA. For the right partner.

Please don't ghost. If you think the spark is not there, let's part on amicable terms instead of ghosting. I promise to return the favor.

I'm open to sharing my pic immediately as I know chemistry counts too.

I don't know what else to write :)

Hi, I will start off by saying I am a huge cat person and do not see myself having kids, been pretty ambitious my whole life and worked very hard to get where I am now. Born and bred in Leeds. Also 5"11', and have been told I have a calming voice and naturally long curly eyelashes.. Been an engineer for over 6 years so you could say I am good with computers but also terrible with spiders.

Now living in Canada, I used to travel alot to the states for work and been around to places like Iceland and Greece but I got tired of travelling alone and I am more of a homebody now.

Always generally had a smaller group of friends. I have quite a nerdy side, enjoy board games and the odd OSRS content. I love older 80s/90s movies. I also enjoy reading about ancient history or cosmology relate topics and maybe get into astrophotography sometime. Currently being reading through a book called The Short Story of the Universe. I would love to be with someone who loves cats as well and I will say I do find it attractive when someone is either really ambitious or well educated or both. I do enjoy being supportive and putting in the effort to learn things to be able to have a proper conversation about something related to your work as an example. I do also enjoy making someone laugh too and from my experience I am very good at that :)

pictures of me: https://imgur.com/a/jmGnSJm

Scottish/Irish guy living in the North of England, looking for a genuine connection and hopefully something that can turn into a relationship rather than just something casual.

I'm a big WWE and football fan, and I absolutely love travelling. I'm always looking for my next adventure or planning another trip. Houston is next on the list, and I'm already thinking about where I'll end up after that 😂

I enjoy going to football matches, watching WWE, exploring new places and making the most of life whenever I can.

I'd say I'm pretty laid-back, easy to talk to and always up for a good conversation. Dating apps haven't exactly been working their magic for me, so I thought I'd try something different and see who I might meet on here.

I'm open to long distance, too. If there's a genuine connection and we get along well, distance isn't automatically going to put me off.

I'm happy to move over to Instagram or another platform once we've got to know each other a little, but I'm not looking to become another number on someone's follower list 😂

One thing I will say, though: if you message me, please be willing to put a little effort into the conversation. I'm not expecting instant replies or someone to be available 24/7, but if you're only going to exchange a couple of messages before disappearing, what's the point? 😂

If you're into travelling, football, WWE, good conversations or you're simply looking for something genuine yourself, feel free to drop me a message. You never know where a conversation might lead!

I'm not sure if she's really out there, and I've posted things like this a couple times, but I think it's worth being persistent for the right woman.

Professionally, I work as art teacher, and I'm currently living in Florida (but very open to relocate). I genuinely enjoy what I do; I enjoy helping kids improve at something they're interested in while they learn something more about themselves. I recently completed a mural with a small group of students, for instance, and I found that really rewarding. As for my personal work, my "home medium" is painting, and I'm currently working in figure painting and portraiture, after a long while of creating abstract paintings. I recently earned my master's degree in art education this past May.

I'm very introverted, quiet, and independent (I'm an INFJ 5w4, for whatever it's worth). I enjoy museums, hiking, running, gaming, and travelling and exploring new places. One of my most recent adventures was in the Twin Cities metro, and I especially enjoyed visiting the MIA and hiking in the snowy trails! I have a particularly soft spot for the Pokémon games, as I grew up with the franchise (bonus points if you can tell me what your favorite Pokémon is).

What I value most in a relationship is effort and communication; I believe these are crucial to making a relationship work. That said, I'm looking for a woman who is curious, kind, and willing to put in the effort to make things work. What I am not looking for is perfection, however. If you're still figuring things out in your life, I think that is more than fine, as long as you're not afraid to talk about things when something is wrong.

One important disclaimer: If you have a dog, I am sorry, but I am not for you.

If any of this resonates with you, feel free to send me a message! Introduce yourself, maybe point out something we have in common, and let's have a conversation from there.

Hope to hear from you soon!

I‘m looking for love like most of you and I‘m truly hoping that it‘ll work out.

About you:
You should be from Germany or maybe the Netherlands (if you are potentially open to move in the future), even Denmark is okay (because it’s close) and you should be somewhere between 20 and 26 years old. I mainly just want the chance of us meeting up in the future to be realistic and manageable \^\^

If you’re wondering who I am:
I am part German, part Dutch (not the best at it).
I’m a bit of a geek/nerd, especially when it comes to Marvel/DC and gaming. I play a wide mix of PC games regularly, like Marvel Rivals, Dead by Daylight, Minecraft, Slay the Spire 2, Resident Evil, Coral Island and more.
Currently I really like Control Resonant, Aion 2, Deadlock and League of Legends :)

Outside of gaming, I enjoy watching shows and movies, drawing from time to time, playing Magic: The Gathering and listening to music (mostly Rock, but honestly I enjoy a little bit of everything from the 60s to today).

Some of my favorite shows include:
Supernatural, Lucifer, The Walking Dead, Legends of Tomorrow and many more!

What I’m really hoping for is someone who enjoys talking throughout the day, sharing little things that happen, sending random memes, gaming together and generally becoming part of each other’s daily lives. I’m definitely more of a one-on-one person and tend to prefer deeper connections over lots of casual ones. I like when people can just yap about anything and everything and I am a very curious person.

I’d like to get to know someone first, see if we click and let things develop naturally. Hopefully it leads to a beautiful long-lasting relationship :)

If you are interested, feel free to message me and tell me a little about yourself. I won’t answer any low effort responses.

Oh and I promise low latency messaging! :)

I’m masculine, romantic, and looking for something real with someone skinny/lean, kind, emotionally available, and interested in building a close relationship over time.

I enjoy talking every day, sharing random updates, and slowly becoming part of each other’s routine instead of disappearing randomly.

I connect better with people around 18–28, especially people who genuinely like closeness, consistency, and staying in touch.

I love music, reading, movie nights, and games like Minecraft and Crusader Kings II.

Not into ghosting, mixed signals, temporary conversations, emotionally unavailable people, or NSFW topics.

If emotional closeness sounds good to you instead of overwhelming, drop me a message.

Hello! 👋 I'm 31F, 5'3", fair-skinned (so I don't look like a typical Filipina 😅) with a full-time job as an engineer living in the Philippines (I live in the city, not in the province 😁 just saying this if it matters 😅), and I'm posting here looking for a long-term, serious relationship.

I would describe myself as a cheerful person, especially when I'm surrounded by my closest friends. However, I tend to be withdrawn in most social situations. I remember one of my professors describing me as "quiet" 😅 I would also describe myself as straightforward, which is unusual for someone who is Asian 😅 I value honesty, so I'd rather people know the harsh reality. In real life, I'm actually more of a listener than a talker with my closest friends 😅 It may not seem like it in chats though, because I type a lot 😂

I'm also very indoorsy, meaning I'd rather have a staycation or binge-watch a new anime or TV series than go hiking, swimming at the beach, or attend concerts 🥲 But I don't mind traveling! I'm not much of a traveler, but I don't mind going to different places as long as I'm with my favorite person! 😁 In my free time, I usually just doomscroll, which I know is very bad 🤣 But if I'm not doomscrolling, I'm watching something on Netflix. I'm currently enrolled in a postgraduate diploma program too, so most of my free time actually goes into studying and doing my homeworks. But there are times when I feel like I'm going crazy already, and that's where Netflix and doomscrolling come in 😂

As a partner, I would describe myself as kind, patient, gentle, loving, and veryyyyyy affectionate. I tend to be clingy and attentive to my partner's needs. I actually haven't been in a relationship before, but I've fallen in love a few times already, so I know exactly what I'm capable of when I do like someone 😁

I would actually prefer someone I can be close friends with at first, since I believe that the strongest relationships are the ones built on friendship. Ideally, I want someone I can tease and be playful with, and someone who can make me smile and laugh, because humor is very important to me. I also like talking to someone with a great sense of humor — someone I can playfully banter with, and most especially, someone I can make fun of 😈 So if you're the type who easily gets pissed off when teased or made fun of, I don't think we'll get along 😂

I'm always drawn to someone who is calm, gentle, believes or practices being a provider in a relationship, emotionally mature, curious, and capable of leading a family. I'm also attracted to intelligent guys so it would be plus points if you work in STEM 🤓 (but this is just a preference so don't let this bother you 😁). Oh, and of course, physical attraction matters to me too, so I'm more than happy to swap photos first before we get to know each other on a deeper level.

And since this isn't actually my first time posting, I'm looking for someone who is genuinely curious about me. Not to point fingers or anything, but most of the time I feel like I'm the one asking questions and keeping the conversation going, and honestly, that gets a little tiring 😆

Before I end this post, here's some more information you should know before you send me a message:

Dealbreakers:

- Smoker (including vape and weed)
- Heavy drinker (occasional drinking is fine)
- Drug user/dealer
- Short (5'6" or less)
- Unemployed (sorry, but I want someone who's financially stable, since I'm hoping to start a family — not right now, but soon 😅)
- Anger management issues
- Doesn't want children (I'd like to have children someday 😅)
- History of cheating
- Less than 26 years old and more than 37 years old (sorry, I just prefer someone closer to my age as I think I get along well with those people 😅)

That's all! Hit me up if you were able to read my post all the way through.

Please note that I won't be replying to one-line messages. I put a lot of effort into writing this post, so I expect the same effort from you too 😁

Hi! I'm a 20 year old guy from the UK (North East England specifically). I'm 5'6, skinny, blue eyes, and have short dark brown hair.

I'm a university student, a self employed game developer, and I'm autistic.

I'm looking for a Woman preferably 18-24 (with some wiggle room), from anywhere in the UK, but I'm open to considering outside of the uk if we really match up well. I'd like someone where we can talk about anything with each other, serious, goofy, deep, whatever.

I've had a few online relationships but never an in person one, I've still yet to have any of my 'firsts' even as much as a hug or holding hands which is why I would really prefer someone who is also from the UK.

To be completely open and honest, I do get 'in the mood' quite often, but I am on here looking for something long-term, for my person, for 'the one'.

I am a big games fan, whether it be video, card, or board games. I mostly play nintendo and minecraft, but I play other stuff too. I also watch a lot of anime as well. I enjoy baking bread, biscuits, and similar stuff, I really enjoy playing tennis, and going for drives both as the driver and the passenger. I'm not very good at these but happy to let you know whatever you want if you just ask.

Also, as a final note, I have an eating disorder (ARFID) which would affect any partner I end up getting which I'm happy to explain, but in sure I can make up for any inconvenience with my genuine interest and affection.

I love talking to new people with different worldviews, i think everybody has something to teach and something to say. and i think its totally worth hearing them out. I have ADHD, so unfortunately my social skills are piss poor, but it doesn't stop me from trying to improve myself everyday.

• Obsessed with Language Learning ( German, Japanese), Self improvement, Other Cultures and History.
• Work in IT, designing websites and part time at Starbucks serving cappuccinos
• I have the usual hobbies everyone has now, such as gaming and anime, so if you have something you wana recommend me, i am up for it.
• I like cosplaying

what exactly am i looking for? i really want to find a relationship, but im not expecting anything. lets's start by getting to know each other, and if it fizzles out its all good--no expectations. i want to find someone curious,kind,weird, open-minded.

some starter questions:

what's your favorite songs?

are you multilingual? teach me some words in a another language.

do you have a dream job? some images
https://imgur.com/a/wx9FPYK https://imgur.com/a/THJYXQO 

Giving this another try, it's worked before so here's hoping it works again.

I'm 29 years old, originally from New York (and very culturally from New York) but living in Maryland these days. The things you do for employment. I'm a software engineer by trade, and the love child of a greaser and a metalhead in my appearance. Long brown hair that's quickly going gray, big beard that I've been growing for most of this calendar year, and you'll usually catch me with aviator sunglasses and leather jackets.

My hobbies are all over the place, but generally congregate to the computer. Listen to a lot of music, work on a lot of genealogy (pretty much entirely my own), watch some baseball, play some video games, watch some improv comedy, and a partridge in a pear tree. Recently got turned on to D&D and I've been Eldritch Blast'ing my way to success there (entirely because of my party), so that's my Wednesday nights covered these days.

Personality wise, I think the biggest word I can use for myself is loyalty. You're on my good side? I'll move heaven and earth to do stuff for you. But I'm definitely very selective with that these days. I'm also a chronic overthinker, so I admittedly get on better with people who have strong communication skills and don't "hold stuff in" or "push through things". I'm a class clown type and try to crack jokes regularly, especially about myself because nobody can get to me if I get to me first. I'm also very introspective, and try to think things through very logically. Probably why I'm a problem solver at my job, and also in my personal life as well. All of this is to say that I'm weird, but hopefully endearing weird and not just weird like I was as a kid lol. Also very much a supporter of the rule of law and people being free to live their lives without harassment, just to make that clear as day.

That's a lot about me, let's talk about you, shall we?

Ideally, you're within my age range and within the United States. Closer to Maryland the better, although I do spend a lot of time in New York so that's also an option. And if you're someone who wants to travel, even better. I'm not opposed to doing it myself, but it'd take some time and trust before that. Aside from that, hopefully you're someone who clicks with a lot of what I said. Good communicator, finds the funny side of life, and generally is ready to stop looking through posts like this and build something meaningful. Might be slightly sappy, but c'est la vie.

Feel free to shoot me a message if you're interested. I don't respond to all messages since it's hard to build something out of "hey I'm xyz". It's much easier to talk (and I'm more likely to respond) if you take the time to tell me about yourself and the things that make you you. Hopefully understandable.

I can't wait to hear from you. But if I don't, I wish you the best of luck in your search.

I’ll tell mine in the end. By then, take a guess.

Hey youu, I’m a 39 year old guy who’s downright terrible at describing himself. I’m looking for someone who loves talking, is kind, enjoys taking part in new experiences, and is always up for an ice cream. I don’t mind long distance, as long as we vibe.

I love taking pictures, playing guitar, checking out random podcasts, eating at new places, exploring vintage points of different areas, and idk many other things that I’m forgetting right now lol. I’m fairly into reading as well. Love to read mystery and drama novels. Career wise, I have a comfortable work life balance with a few perks here and there, earn decently, and love my job.

I make sure I’m fairly active and consistently play one kind of sport or another. Over the weekends, I often hike or play board games. When it comes to religion, I’m an atheist, however, I do believe in spirituality. If you’ve any other questions, ask away!

Aaaand, the most important bit. What was your guess? My fave is Italian.

Have a great day ahead (if you choose to message me :p), and feel free to feel awesome!