I would like to know if venues can be visited prior to an event, to determine (concretely) where is the best place for me to sit. I wont know until I get there; then my mind would flood with an awareness of why I need to sit there…

I’m a stay at home mom with a weird life scenario. I live on a small island and take care of a child pretty much by myself, but all my financial needs are met. I have a lot of other challenges due to being on an island and I want to write out a bunch of details in a decent community and have people give me their ideas on what I might do to improve my life. A parenting sub might make sense, but parents are kind of nuts. I know that being one myself :-)