Gonna soft launch being a femboy, im gonna be a femboy for Halloween, its gonna be the best idea ever, ill be so comfortable, ill be able to dress how i want and blame it on Halloween.🥹
And mayyybe if it goes well on Halloween, ill just tell me friends i really am a femboy, and start dressing that way more.

Edit: such an evil plan muahahaha

We both follow each other on Instagram so we can see each other's likes. He has a habit of liking posts without really looking at them but I saw him like a post that was completely obvious femboy hate. It was a femboy drawn ugly, with "average femboy" above it and a bunch of negative traits (and traits the OP thought was negative) around it

My bf knows I'm a femboy. I mostly identify as genderqueer now, but femboy is my second biggest gender self-identifier behind that and was my #1 for a long time. We literally live together and he sees me dressing up fem every time we go out and he calls me his bf. I'm wondering if he was just being dumb and not looking at all still before liking or if he doesn't see me as a guy or as fem which both make me feel dysphoric as hell

Edit: didn't mention since I typed in a rush during my work break, I messaged him about it

Edit 2: we messaged about it, he apologized and said he hadn't read the full post but he thought it was a criticism post, not a hate post. I warned him about, while there are genuine criticisms that can be and have been made, most femboy "criticisms" are just homophobia, transphobia, misogyny, victim blaming, classism, puritanism and accusing femboys of being groomers and Nazis because a few are

I just shave my legs and painted my toes

I have a crush on this one boy at my school. I am not openly a femboy, but they are trans, and I think they know I like them. I really think they are cool and want to talk to them, but am too nervous. I have English with them; what should I do/say?

I’m 27m and recently realized I’m attracted to femboys. I met one at college and it kind of confirmed everything for me. russia

I really don’t want to come off as a creep or a chaser. I just want to understand how most of you prefer to be approached and treated.

A few things I’m curious about:

• What kind of approach feels respectful to you?
• Preferences in fashion or style
• Body type preferences (for example, is a more muscular guy attractive?)
• How you generally like to be treated

Would really appreciate any honest thoughts or experiences. Thanks a lot.

i think it looks like a pink fish or snake

So confuse rn

Hello, I hope you can help me..💗

I found out a while ago—actually by accident—that my best friend is a femboy; he was showing me some photos and I caught a glimpse of his femboy pics, and he looks fucking sexy. I’d love to be a femboy alongside him, and I think I’m falling for him, but I don’t know how to approach the subject or make that moment happen.

soooo my mom is like homophobic and transphobic and basically just hates expressing yourself in general soo getting stuff like thigh highs or anything is just kind of not an option is there anyway i can somehow make regular basic clothing fem looking in anyway

(dont rlly know how to explain this hopefully u understand)

I like going on places like emerald chat and I pose as the femme version of myself but for months I’ve been in man mode but recently I just really felt the urge to be seen as a girl or femboy so im using pics from a few months ago. It feels like kinda wrong because i dont look like the pics at the current moment but i wish that was the case ive just been struggling a lot and kinda just let myself go and forget about the fem part of me. This happens like periodically i get like super hypersexual or something over myself or my identity i guess. I think my question just is i want to know if this is wrong even though i really identify with the fem version in pics but its hard to stay that way with living situation and family stuff and ill like give up going girl mode or my brain will tell me to stop and then I’ll have moments like these seeking a ton of attention as a girl/femboy.

Escribo esto antes de irme a dormir, así que perdon por los errores en la escritura.

Se aproxima Halloween y no se me ocurre nada para hacer cosplay, a ustedes que se les ha ocurrido?

Hi, so I'm a 19 year old boy and I've never been super masculine and recently I have been thinking of becoming a Femboy. My main concern tho is that I'm not a Femboy but just a creep who likes femboys. Idk man. Anyone got any perspective on this cause my head might explode from overthinking this.

Heyyy everyone! I’m almost 18 and around 6'3"–6'4" (194 cm). A lot of the femboys I see online seem to be around average height or shorter (no offense), which got me wondering: can tall guys be femboys and still be seen as attractive and taken seriously as femboys?

My shoulders aren’t particularly broad, and my waist and the rest of my body are fairly slim. My face doesn’t look very masculine either, so I guess that might work in my favor.

I’m just wondering how people generally perceive taller femboys. If someone found out that a femboy they were attracted to was around 6'4", would that change how they saw him? Can tall guys really become femboys, or does being tall ruin the aesthetic of it?

I am bi and I only want to do mushy stuff/form relationships with women. And the thought of doing these things with men gross me out.

I only want sex with men, but nothing more than that.

Also, I am very masculine with women, and completely feminine with men lol

I am just wondering if anyone else is on the same boat.

Just something I've thought about many times, but I feel like finding a woman who would actually be into a boy who acts very girly and all that stuff would be nearly impossible. Even out of all the women I've talked to and interacted with none of them have expressed interest in a guy who acts in a feminine way :c. Many people think I'm automatically gay because of how I act feminine, but I very much still like and exclusively find women attractive!

I guess this is just a short lil rant . . I hope there's at least a couple women out there that like soft and feminine boys 😣! I guess it just sucks being a double minority, being a femboy but not being a gay femboy like most femboys >.>

Hello ive been a fem for while and always got my socks/thigh highs from places like amazon there good but anytime i wash them they get holes the size of a golf ball

I was wondering if some of you have a preferred brand that last longer then one wash😅

Id enjoy the help

(I know some of my posts have been about looks and I’m sorry if that’s superficial)

But I just don’t know what to do anymore I don’t want to quit being a femboy it’s the only thing that makes me feel comfortable in my body

But I can’t stand being in my body anymore looking at myself or seeing myself in photos make me feel disgusted sometimes sick I hate my face I hate how I look and no matter how hard I try nothing ever gets better and many of the issues are genetic and i just can’t stand it anymore

My looks matter to me alot I want to be pretty I want to be beautiful but I just can’t not with my face and not with how I look and it’s so inconsistent too but most of the time I’m ugly and I just can’t stand it

I don’t know what to do anymore and I just can’t stand it

Lol

Ask me anything on clothes, appearance, coming out, staying closeted, etc. I’m just trying to be as helpful as possible

(I am 19 btw) Been considering more and more recently that I want to shave parts most of my body, like my arms and legs especially, and I just want to ask what would be a good razor to get, preferably electric but a manual can work too. I just want to avoid having super prickly arms or legs when I do go through with shaving. I'm also curious if there are any products that help with shaving and make the process easier or safer. Any sort of assistance is appreciated!

I don’t know what femboys usually wear and I want to have some ideas of what underwear to buy for myself

So I've been trying to shave my face to shorten the hairs. However, whenever I shave my mustache, there seems to be a dark line present still.

Can anyone help me get rid of it?

Any help is appreciated.

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Hey cuties

I know the IKEA Blåhaj shark holds a special place in internet lore, but let’s be honest: the trans community has already claimed the shark as their iconic figurehead. We love and support our trans siblings, but I think the femboy community deserves a symbol that specifically captures our unique blend of expression, social structure, and fluid identity.

My proposal? The Orca .

Here is why orcas represent the femboy identity—and bisexual/fluid culture in general—better than any other animal in the sea:

1. Widespread Bisexuality and Fluidity

Science shows that orcas display extensive same-sex social and sexual bonding, regardless of gender. They do not form rigid, exclusive pairings based on traditional binaries. Instead, physical affection, tactile intimacy, and affection are expressed based on emotional closeness, proximity, and playfulness. Since a significant portion of the femboy community—myself included!—identifies as bisexual or sexually fluid, the casual, non-judgmental fluidity of orcas fits us.

1. Unique Gender Role Flexibility and Matriarchal Subversion

In human society, traditional masculinity demands dominance, stoicism, and rigid social roles. Orca societies completely subvert these expectations:

Some males like old tom are leaders but most live in matriarchal societies.

Culture Over Biology: Orca pods operate on shared subcultures, communication dialects, and learned behaviors rather than rigid biological imperatives. They show us that being physically male or masculine-bodied doesn't mean you have to conform to traditional patriarchy—you can lead with emotional connection, gentleness, and community care.

1. Distinct Cultures & Universal Inclusivity

Every orca pod has its own distinct vocal dialect, feeding style, and social aesthetic (from Resident pods to Transient/Bigg's pods). Yet despite these differences, superpods regularly meet up to socialize, play, and coexist harmoniously. They are, quite literally, the most LGBT-friendly, non-conforming marine mammals on the planet!

Now that I got your attention I need some help

I’m currently attending a high school that is generally open-minded, and I’m fortunate to have a wonderful group of LGBT friends. However, as much as I'd love to go full skirt-and-thigh-highs every day, high schools can still be unpredictable. I want to dress in a way that feels authentically feminine and cute without making myself an easy target for hostile comments from strangers or casual passersby in the hallways.

I’m looking for casual, subtle, and androgynous feminine outfits. What are your favorite stealth/low-key fem pieces that pass comfortably in high school while still giving off that soft femboy vibe?