Men nowadays have completely switched off my libido for real-life men. The passivity is probably the biggest turn-off. All these so-called nice guys who do nothing thatâs actually kind or considerate, but apparently weâre supposed to applaud them for simply existing and essentially just fading into the background when women are around.
Then youâve got the male-centred women banging on about how lovely and amazing these men are. Lovely where? Because Iâm still waiting to see it.
And donât even get me started on the blatantly unhinged ones. The nice guys will tell you they donât condone their behaviour, but do they ever actually stand up to them? Of course not. Suddenly theyâve got absolutely nothing to say. Funny how their principles disappear the second standing up to another man requires a backbone.
And those stubble-free chins arenât exactly helping matters either. đ
At this point, even my biology has had enough. Itâs one thing for my mind to be turned off, but when my libido has also decided it wants absolutely nothing to do with real-life men, I think that says plenty. My bodyâs clearly as unimpressed as I am.
Meanwhile, in fantasy land, where men actually have the looks, backbone and personalities Iâm attracted to, everythingâs working perfectly fucking fine.
So no, Iâve not lost my libido. Itâs just developed a very strong aversion to whatâs on offer in real life. đđ