r/eroticpenpals • • Oct 10 '24

Awareness Post NSFW

45 Upvotes

It has been a long time between Mod Announcements.

Although the subreddit may seem quiet we have been fending off spam posts and sellers. There has been a pattern of posts,that we wanted to alert users of the sub to.

It seems with the constant reporting and banning of spammers, that activity has died down. The new influx of sellers however, are harder to spot. Thankfully we have had users report posts that seem to be genuine, but when you investigate their profile it is clear they are all following the same script.

We are banning and removing any attempts at posting here, but please be aware on any other subreddits you may frequent.

The posts are usually F4M, age is usually 19 or 24. Accounts are 4 to 6 months old, there is usually a pinned profile picture, the pictures are around one month old. The posts all request respondents be males over the age of 25.

It is always a good idea to check the history of users before you interact with them. Have the types of posts changed? Do they change their age or location in post titles? Is an account a few years old but there are no posts? These are areas we look at when reviewing posts for EPP, and find it helpful for general Reddit use.


r/eroticpenpals • • 1d ago

[M4F] - Fleet Romance NSFW

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"General Quarters, General Quarters - all hands man your battle stations. Transit up and forward starboard side, down and aft port side. Potential pirate vessel sighted..."

The klaxon sounded over the 1MC as I stepped onto the bridge, a seaman sealing the hatch behind me. Compared to all the USN sailors in their digital blue-and-grey coveralls, I was positively drab: woodland MARPAT, elbow pads, knee pads, olive khaki body armour and helmet. But with my kitted-out carbine, pouches festooned across my front - full of magazine after magazine of 5.56mm, holster strapped low on my right leg with my .45 - I stood out in a different way. But even dressed as I was, I only got a sharp glance before the sailors got back to their tasks at getting the ship to battle status. The captain sat in his chair, speaking orders into his comm handset - his silver-hair made spotting him across the bridge a piece of cake.

Before moving over to him, I looked at the bronze plate embedded on the rear bulkhead of the bridge. USS Jason Dunham - Jason L. Dunham, Cpl, USMC. He was a squad leader in Iraq, when an insurgent dropped a grenade near his squad. Rather than try to take cover, Dunham threw himself on top of the grenade. The blast killed him, but his body shielded his squad. He died eight days later - he was 22. He was posthumously awarded the Medal of Honor. I hoped I could be a fraction of the marine he was, and I was proud to be serving aboard the ship bearing his name. A ship that, upon passing its shakedown cruise, had been immediately assigned to Combined Task Force 151 - a multinational effort to combat piracy in the Gulf of Aden. There were ships from the US, Canada, Denmark, Korea, even the Aussies contributed a ship.

The ships of CTF-151 patrolled the waters from the Gulf of Aden to the western parts of the Arabian sea, especially around the coasts of Somalia. In doing so, they protected the merchant ships responsible for a large fraction of the world's commerce from pirates who threatened to hijack ships, take their crews hostage, and then take control of the vessels and cargoes. As an armed warship, the Dunham was one of ships tasks with hunting down any suspected pirate vessels - like the one we were about to board.

As as one of the "Visit, Board, Search, and Seize" (VBSS) team members, it was my job to actually board the ship - something the crew of which may or may not like - and take control of it. Not only that, but today, I was more than just a a team member.

I stood at attention in front of the captain, "Skipper."

He turned and reached to clip the comm handset back into its holder, "Gunny. How's the team looking?"

"Like clockwork, Skipper. We'll be ready once the RHIBs are within range," I nodded. "Sir, is it true about the LT?"

The captain grimaced, but likewise nodded. "Afraid so, Gunny: Cirrhosis. Lieutenant Hoffman's not just off the boarding crew, he's out of the Navy. You up for taking the boarding party? Not just now, but until a new officer is assigned."

"Oorah, Skipper," I nodded again, this time with more certainty. I wasn't a Marine NCO if I wasn't ready to step up.

One of the look-outs called out to the captain, "Captain, the boat still isn't heaving to."

He turned, looking out the front windows. He grabbed his handset again, "Combat, Bridge. TAO: Send one last hail to the suspect vessel and slew the 5-inch of its bow. Then have one of the .50 cals ready to fire a warning burst."

When the captain turned to give the orders, my eyes slid over to a Navy lieutenant (junior grade) who was acting as the Officer of the Deck. Wisps of her hair escaped her cap as she lowered her binoculars. Her bright eyes swiveled to me when she noticed me looking at her. Given the situation outside, no one on the bridge was aware that either of us noticed the other. But her eyes changed slightly and her lip crept into a delicate bite. In return I gave her a wink right before the captain turned back to me.

"Alright, looks like we're going to have to do this the hard way." He gave me a look and I snapped my attention back to him. "Gunnery Sergeant Jackson, take TAIPAN. Board that ship, turn it inside out, and then give the crew a stern talking to."

"Aye aye, Skipper." I set off to leave the bridge. I gave one last look to the Officer of the Deck just as the port-side .50cal let off a throaty six-round burst.


Looking for a long-term RP with some forbidden romance and covert coitus aboard a Navy vessel!

Kinks mainly are romance and hidden sex - other can be discussed. Limits are standard: Blood, Scat, Vore, and NJPs.


r/eroticpenpals • • 15d ago

[M4F] Best Friend's Husband NSFW

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You have known your best friend forever. Always been there for each other, knew about each and every kiss, and every other move you did with guys as went through life.

You made a speech at our wedding, talked about how you knew I was different from all the previous guys she had dated from the first date. The way she talked about me was different. She still shared every little thing we did, in and out of the bedroom, but now there was never talk of moving on, or even noticing other guys when you were out and together.

It has been years since that wedding night, you still share all your secrets together. You know things have slowed down in our bedroom though routine and life getting in the way.

You also know that sometimes my eyes linger a little too long. My eyes focused on your lips when you are talking, sometimes I don't catch myself and they wander down to your chest. I've noticed that lately when you visit you are wearing lower and lower cut blouses and dresses. Are my lingering eyes welcomed?

Sarah is gone for a week for a work conference. Before she leaves she tells you to come over and check on me, make sure I am doing okay without her - as if I couldn't live on my own? But whatever, come on over and I will make you a drink or two. We like the same movies so we could even put one on if you wanted.


r/eroticpenpals • • 29d ago

[M4F] The Last Night in Paris NSFW

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We meet at a bar in the 11th arrondissement. You're flying back to Chicago tomorrow morning. I'm on a train to Berlin at dawn. We have one night, one hotel room, and the understanding that this never existed.

I want to write the entire evening — the negotiation at the bar, the walk through the city at 2am, the hesitation at the door, the way we use each other like we're trying to memorize something. No names, or fake names. Complete honesty because we'll never see each other again.

Tone: *Before Sunrise* but they actually fuck, melancholy, intense, nostalgic before it's even over

Format: First person present, alternating POV or single POV, detailed and unhurried

Explicitness: High, but earned through emotional buildup

Send me which arrondissement you're staying in and what you're drinking.


r/eroticpenpals • • Sep 12 '26

[M4F] Seeking an Erotic Penpal NSFW

3 Upvotes

Disclaimer: The below is not a role-play prompt

Still available

Experience not required

Not your ordinary prompt

Your requirements

  • Over the age of 28, (preferably 28-48). My sincere apologies, just trying to find someone who I can connect with.
  • I will accept ladies who are senior. I don't mind how old you are, as long as it forms a connection.
  • You aren't a dominant or intend to dominate (unless asked) as this conflicts with me being dominant

Who am I?

  • I am a 32 year old straight male living in a Pacific Island country.
  • I am tall, slim to medium built, tanned
  • I am told that I am quite intelligent and also wise beyond my years
  • Dominant
  • Responds in several, short, well thought out responses
  • will not write lengthy paragraphs but it is intended that the exchange will be descriptive
  • the idea is: it is in the moment, spontaneous and catches you off guard

What I am looking for?

Looking for a woman who wants to do a written exchange in the present moment.

The idea is to be as spontaneous as possible.

It's assumed you're a woman, alone, seeking banter, excitement, a little romance, and/or more,...

I will flirt with you and ask you all sorts of cheeky and naughty questions.

You can choose to answer or skip.

The idea is to have some fun that provides us both excitement in the spur of the moment. I will write you actions that I'll perform, and I expect you to tell me how that would make you feel or how you would respond and react.

If you have any requests, specific kinks, needs or limits, I will gladly accept it and incorporate it into our encounter.

You're most welcome to send me a chat message (or DM) and enquire if any of the above interests you.

If you've read this far, Thank you for reading I hope to hear from you

Yours Truly

Neil


r/eroticpenpals • • Sep 07 '26

[M4A] - Unusual Kink NSFW

6 Upvotes

[M4A]- Unusual Kink

32 M UK based- Dirty Friends/ Pen pals, and a very unusual kink, haven’t met a lot of people into this.

Hey All, I don’t usually do this or have ever done this. So I am looking for someone that actually wants to chat most days and not disappear after a few message but I do get this is Reddit…. So ya know, I feel a little alone with my Kink, I guess you could say it is Selfcest based. I’m incredibly attracted to myself as in I would want a completely identical clone, I mean no difference at all! We’d be completely identical even to the point where we dress the same always. Does anyone else have this fantasy of being with themselves and being the same? I’d love to make friends with people with the same kink as I feel very alone and kinda weird that I’ve never met anyone the same as me! My DMs are always open! I’m not holding out much hope for this, but I thought I’d try anyway! Ideally looking for people very close to my age or a little younger. Background, I’m kinda of a geeky gamer type of guy, and a pop culture lover. But I don’t online play! So hit me up if you think we could have a great chat! Forgot to say ideally people close to my age


r/eroticpenpals • • Aug 14 '26

[M4A]- Unusual Kink NSFW

4 Upvotes

32 M UK based- Dirty Friends/ Pen pals, and a very unusual kink

Hey All, I don’t usually do this or have ever done this. So I am looking for someone that actually wants to chat most days and not disappear after a few message but I do get this is Reddit…. So ya know, I feel a little alone with my Kink, I guess you could say it is Selfcest based. I’m incredibly attracted to myself as in I would want a completely identical clone, I mean no difference at all! We’d be completely identical even to the point where we dress the same always. Does anyone else have this fantasy of being with themselves and being the same? I’d love to make friends with people with the same kink as I feel very alone and kinda weird that I’ve never met anyone the same as me! My DMs are always open! I’m not holding out much hope for this, but I thought I’d try anyway! Ideally looking for people very close to my age or a little younger. Background, I’m kinda of a geeky gamer type of guy, and a pop culture lover. But I don’t online play! So hit me up if you think we could have a great chat!


r/eroticpenpals • • Jul 29 '26

[M4A] 25M long term roleplay NSFW

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Hey! Long time lurker, first time poster. 25M here, I am looking for a long term roleplay partner. Open to many things so I don't want to go into too much detail, we will discuss everything in private. Please be able to use punctuation and ok grammar. If you have a certain scenario in mind you would like to play out, let me know, otherwise we can start setting up our own situation.
I'll put a quick scene idea here, you can decide if we continue this one or a completely different one.

You approach me in a quiet pub as I’m sitting at the bar all by myself, drinking a scotch, having a discussion with the bartender. It’s 6 PM, and by the looks of the suit I’m wearing I’ve just got done at work, which is probably a very important position somewhere in a big corporation. Me drinking by myself at a bar is very unusual for someone that looks that important.

You sit down next to me, not trying to force anything, genuinely looking interested in the conversation I’m having. You order a drink, but you’re very careful not to interrupt. The bartender eventually excuses himself to help another customer, leaving a brief silence between us.

For a moment I simply stare ahead, seemingly lost in thought. Then, I let out a quiet sigh before glancing in your direction. There’s a tiredness behind my eyes that doesn’t quite match the confident appearance the tailored suit gives off, as though whatever happened at work today is still weighing heavily on my mind.
"Hey, sorry, I didn't notice you there. Do I know you?"

Like I said, we can continue from here or set up something new.


r/eroticpenpals • • Jul 09 '26

M4F Looking for connection NSFW

9 Upvotes

Hi there,

This is a bit outside my comfort zone, but I figured honesty is the best place to start.

I’m a 36-year-old guy who’s been in a long-term relationship that has slowly turned emotionally distant. I’m currently living with my now ex of 10 years, there hasn’t been emotional or physical closeness in years, and it’s left me feeling pretty lonely.

I’m just hoping to find someone who enjoys conversation, flirting, and getting to know another person as a human being. I miss feeling wanted, interesting, and connected.

I’d love to chat with someone who enjoys talking about life, interests, daily things, and building a genuine rapport. No pressure, no expectations — just two people keeping each other company and seeing where conversation goes.

If this resonates with you, feel free to reach out. Thanks for reading.


r/eroticpenpals • • Jul 05 '26

[M4F] Alone with the LT NSFW

3 Upvotes

"Viajera, this is Victor-One, we've cleared the docking bay to a safe distance. Ready to commence our de-orbital burn."

"Victor-One, Viajera - Roger that," I watched the landing shuttle on the external cameras from the landing bay control room, tapping at the controls to close the doors of Landing Bay 1, "Enjoy the planet - we'll see you in three weeks, Captain."

"Oh, and get the Second Officer to check out the course for the next planet - I don't want any trouble with the departure burn."

"Aye ma'am. Safe travels. Out" I watch the shuttle's engines light up, slowing its velocity to take it out of orbit and send it dropping towards the new planet. I set the ship's computer to track the shuttle's descent and keep an eye on the engineering systems, and headed for the hatch out of the control room.

I certainly wasn't new to the Viajera, a deep-space survey vessel. I'd served aboard her for longer than anyone else on the crew - even Captain Lewis. We were a month into a 12-month journey to survey newly discovered planets, ranging out into the stars. As the Main Propulsion Assistant ("MPA"), I was in charge of the vessel's propulsion and also remained aboard the Viajera while the other eight members of the crew were planet-side.

However, while I was the most experienced, I was not the most senior. The Second Officer - third-in-command of the whole mission (after the Captain and First Officer) - also remained aboard the Viajera while the other eight members of the crew were away. She was in charge of navigation and helming the ship, but had only joined the ship's company two months ago. Though out of everyone else, she seemed to keep her distance from me the most.

Leaving the landing bay control room, I walked the length of the ship - through the Hanger and Science sections, then Habitation, and then finally to the bridge. The lights were kept low - all the better to allow the bridge crew to focus on the controls - though the big open windows gave a beautiful, sparkling view of the stars. As I entered, I started to hear moaning and I slowed my pace. I looked around, closing in on the noise at the Ops Station.

The Second Officer was slouched in the thick control chair, but she wasn't hurt or unconscious: Her boots were up on the console and legs spread wide apart. Her trousers were pushed down her thighs (as much as her spread legs would allow her). Her hands were reached down between her thighs, rapidly pushing a thick dildo in and out of her pussy.

"Oh yes..." She moaned in a way I'd never heard her speak before, "Pound me...Pound me, Storm...."

That shocked me even more, 'Storm' was my name....


Hello!

Alright, so a bit of a reversal on my "Alone with the Engineer" prompt: this time a bit of a sex-in-space RP between my character (one of the ship's engineers, the MPA) and your character (a ship's officer) - a relationship that's clearly against the rules. But they're alone, and the Second Officer - though clearly higher ranking - clearly has a thing for being dominated by the MPA.

There's plenty of room for some sex and kink, but I would also like for there to be a storyline as well in this Long-Term RP. I have plenty of kinks that I'd be willing to discuss and include; limits are relatively standard: Blood, Scat, Vore, and Xenomorph Death.

In space a low-manned space vessel, no-one can hear you scream (and moan). So if you're up for it, send me a chats and we can discuss details! If we mesh, we'll move to other communications mediums.

Kind Regards,

BlueTowelWithHoles


r/eroticpenpals • • Jun 25 '26

[M4A] Hyper size kinks NSFW

3 Upvotes

I’m looking to find and chat with other redditor(s) who share (or are curious about) the fantasy of excessively large body parts and the complications that come with them. I’m not just talking about things like L cup breasts, but something even less realistic. Multiple foot-long shafts, busts that threaten to rest on the ground, balls with a diameter larger than a car tire, and so forth.

Most other hyper-related subreddits I’ve found focus on rp, but I’d much rather just talk about these kinks, exploring our preferences, likes, dislikes, and other aspects of the kink that we might come up with. I’m open to discuss other kinks as well (related or unrelated to hyper sizes) including expansion, increased sensitivity, and more.

On a similar vein, I’d also love to find someone who has stuffed their clothes to imitate having a hyper sized part(s). It’s not something I find many people doing and always love to find others who do

Feel free to send a chat my way, even if it’s just to ask questions.

Looking forward to your responses!


r/eroticpenpals • • Jun 24 '26

[M4F] - Domestic bliss… NSFW

4 Upvotes

It's 8:30 PM on Friday, and I slink back in my chair at the dining room table, taking a glance down at a few morsels remaining on my plate. Chicken piccata: one of my favorites. A nice breeze rolls through the cracked windows, as the summer sun is only just starting to fall in the sky.

I let out a small tired sigh, the product of a full work week, and notice a palpable silence ringing in the house. I can't remember the last time it was this quiet and this calm. It's been some time since we've managed to pawn both of the kids off for overnights with friends or grandparents.

Rolling the sleeves of my button down to the forearm and leaning forward to finish, the sound of running water draw my attention to the kitchen where I find you starting the dishes. An admiring smirk spreads across my face. Seven years and two kids later and you still find ways to get me staring. Your white tank top, jean shorts and messy ponytail ensemble is no exception. Taken for a moment I realize how little it seems we've talked much less spent quality time together for two people who sleep in the same bed each night.

I get up and shuffle into the kitchen, scraping what little is left into the garbage before approaching from behind you. I curl my arm around you to lower my plate into the steaming sink, proceeding to pull you softly into me.

"Thanks for dinner," I whisper, kissing the back of your head gently. "It was delicious."

—

I realize this one won't do it for a lot of you, but here's hoping there is someone out there that enjoys realism as much as I do. In favor of a lot more far fetched scenarios I think we forget the sex lives of married couples, and some of them may have great ones! Here I'd love to play a married couple who, due to life's many demands, have been too busy to enjoy each other in just a little while. So a summer night with an empty house and clear schedule presents an amazing opportunity. How we take advantage is up to us!

Now obviously as spouses we love one another, but that doesn't mean the more carnal side of us never rears its head. My tastes are relatively vanilla but reach both ends of the spectrum: the sweet, steamy and sensual as well as the rough, urgent and animalistic. Would love to mix in barebacking and creampies and even conception if you’re at all interested. We can discuss kinks and the like in more detail in PM.

I'm not set in stone on the specific details of the narrative above although I like them, I just wanted to set the stage.I think that covers about everything.

I'm looking forward to hearing from you!


r/eroticpenpals • • Jun 05 '26

[M4F] Looking for a good girl NSFW

5 Upvotes

You're considered by most to be the girl-next-door type: a reliable, intelligent woman, with a good sense of humor, who is always ready to help out a friend in need. Maybe you're employed as a librarian or elementary school teacher, your natural beauty hidden beneath a conservative layer that makes men feel guilty thinking about you in less than wholesome situations. You have a smile that lights up your face, but sometimes there’s a hint of something else in your eyes. I want to find out what that is.

I'm hoping to find someone to chat with and be distracted by. Prefer if you're 35+, but really, it's how well we connect. Tell me your kinks or let me guess or try to draw them out of you. Ideally, you're in North America, because time zones. I’m on the west coast (PST) if that matters. If you’re hiding a wilder side, send me a chat or DM, and let's get to know one another.


r/eroticpenpals • • May 28 '26

[m4f] married, yet crushing on NSFW

2 Upvotes

Despite being a married man, I've been crushing hard on you ever since we first crossed paths a couple of years ago. We both work remotely, and our only interactions have been through Zoom, but despite that I've felt a very intense connection each time we've talked. We have a similar sense of humour, similar outlook on work (and to the extent we've talked about it, life) and often end of finishing each others' sentences.

Because we're thousands of kilometres apart and work on different teams it's been pretty easy to relegate this to the realm of fantasy. Both of these things may be changing though. There's now the distinct possibility that you may end on my team, and even a possibility that you may be my manager. If either of these things come to pass we'll be talking multiple times a week. Additionally, our company has planned a week long meeting at a fancy hotel in September so we'll definitely be meeting face to face soon...and in a place where I'm away from wife.

I can't figure out if these things are giving me panic or frantic anticipation...but I do know that I won't be able to ignore my feelings and fantasies about you for much longer.

If it matters to you, this is a real thing that I'm going through, and looking for an outlet for it. Nevertheless, I'm open to tweaks or changes to suit the preferences of a good partner. If you're interested in this specific scenario, or the general idea, please get in touch!

A bit about me: I'm Ben, 41yo, 5'11", muscular 160lbs, medium length dirty blonde hair, blue eyes, well trimmed beard. Below the belt I'm average length but girthy. Kinks include: flirting, kissing/making out, foreplay, romance, oral (giving and receiving), anal (light giving and receiving), light dom/bdsm/control play, risky sex, public sex. I like many more things, and am open to most things that don't involve bodily fluids, animals, etc.!


r/eroticpenpals • • May 16 '26

53 [M4F] Intimate Interview NSFW

7 Upvotes

Much like peeling back the curtain I get great enjoyment out of peering into the sexy depths of a woman's mind. Learning things that I shouldn't know, pressing her to reveal her innermost sexual desires and fears are like a drug to me. Now don't get me wrong, I respect anonymity (I won't ask for details that could make you discoverable) and consent, but within those broad horizons I will push and dig. So, if the thought of having your deepest sexual thoughts poked and prodded gets your panties dampening (and especially if that also makes you nervous), then I can't wait to hear from you :)


r/eroticpenpals • • May 16 '26

29 [M4F] Making you cum NSFW

2 Upvotes

I know what I'm capable of. I don't want to sound cocky, but I've done this before and it's worked very well. I want to coach you through MULTIPLE orgasms. Whether you're accustomed to having them, or you've never had them before, I will give them to you today.

I want you to know what real pleasure is. What so much pleasure feels like. What, almost, *too* much pleasure feels like. I want to overwhelm you in the best way possible. And I want nothing in return. I need to make you cum over and over and over again.

I want you to cry tears of joy. I want to flood you with ecstasy until nothing else remains in your brain. Till the only impulse you have left to ground you to this earth, is the absolute *need* to have another orgasm.

Please. Let me do this for you. Let me make you ache. Let me give you so much pleasure that you can't think straight. So much that you babble. So much that you lose touch with reality, instead entering a new realm full of pleasure.

Send me a message, and let me get started. 😄


r/eroticpenpals • • May 05 '26

[M4F] Discovery on the Journey NSFW

2 Upvotes

The fuel nozzle clicked as I put it back in the bowser. I took stock of my vehicle's state: fully fuelled, fully charged, fully stocked. The refuel would be expensive with the amount of diesel I'd dispensed, but it was worth it - I didn't know when I'd be seeing the next fuel stop.

But I should start from the beginning. My name is Derrick Storm, I am in my mid-30's....and I'm completely burned out. I did the standard corporate path: private school, university arts-commerce degree, into the corporate world with a good position in Melbourne. It was good, and it was lucrative - very much so. I was good enough to make a lot of money. But by my mid-30's, I was mentally and emotionally fried. I quit my job and holed up for a while in my apartment. I didn't any family, and I didn't have any friends - I turned into a hermit. Until one day I looked out a window and saw beyond the edges of the city, and saw the landscape in the far distance. It made me realise just how much I hadn't seen of my own country.

The very next day I started looking for a vehicle big enough to take me on a trip around the country. I settled on a 4x4 expedition truck - a combination heavy outback-capable vehicle that also had everything I needed to live on a long-distance journey. I got even luckier that this truck was ready with all the trimmings due to another order falling through for the manufacturer - I even had an e-bike in the small "garage" compartment on the back!

So today was Day 1 of my journey. I'd done a bit of driving to small towns a couple of hours out of Melbourne to test everything out, and today was the day I would drive west to leave civilisation and start my journey. The truck was fairly big for just me - it was designed for up to six people (there was even a tent extension on the roof), but I figured that there would be a sort of freedom in taking this trip by myself.

I headed into the station - the kind that was both a convenience store and a diner-style café - I glanced through the windows. The first thing to catch my attention was a lady - older, with long-ish hair - sitting alone in one of the booth seats. A distraught expression was clear on her face. Something about her pulled me over, "Excuse me - are you okay?"


Hello,

My first brand new prompt for a good long while. In this, a man is starting a round-the-country trip to regain some zest for life. But before he begins, he notices a woman in distress. Who is this woman - that is up to you! Some options:

  • Someone who's running from a bad relationship?

  • Someone who gambled it all to chase a big dream...and failed (with nothing left to get home from across the country)?

  • Someone who is also a little lost in life and feels like she's out of time and resources to make something with what's left?

  • Or something else?

There a few things that could also change:

  • Changing countries (I've written this for my home country of Australia - but this could be changed for the US)

  • Changing the age of your character (This prompt was written with an older woman in mind, but we could make her a more peer age, or even younger than my character).

There's plenty of room for some sex and kink, but I would also like for there to be a storyline as well in this Long-Term RP. Ideally, I'd love for there to be some initial sex-for-comfort/lust, which leads to something more romantic.

If this catches your fancy, send me a message and we can start discussing more!

BlueTowelWithHoles


r/eroticpenpals • • Apr 20 '26

[M4F] Looking for sub Pen-pal~ NSFW

2 Upvotes

Hiya!

I'm a 31 year old straight male, outside my kink life I like to go to the gym, read philosophy and weird books, play videogames and play bass/guitar, on my kink side I describe myself as a soft Dom.

I'm looking for a chubby sub (is my personal taste hehe) who is into pee fetish, general BDSM such spanking, edging, roleplay and praise kink. I know that this subreddit is about just pure kink and fetishes, but I like to connect first before jumping into the kink side, as I Soft Dom I pay attention to what other people like and dislikes and encourage communication, as I always say, communication is the key. Even if you don't want to talk about the kink side, I'm always open to more casual chatting, my dms are always open just conduct with respect.

My usual audience is from 20-40+ years old, even that I like chubby girls as I put on this post are bodies are welcome.

If you've read this far, Thank you for reading I hope to hear from you~

(ENG/SPA)


r/eroticpenpals • • Apr 13 '26

[M4F] Seeking an Erotic Penpal NSFW

3 Upvotes

Disclaimer: The below is not a role-play prompt

Still available

Experience not required

Not your ordinary prompt

Your requirements

  • Over the age of 28, (preferably 28-48). My sincere apologies, just trying to find someone who I can connect with.
  • I will accept ladies who are senior. I don't mind how old you are, as long as it forms a connection.
  • You aren't a dominant or intend to dominate (unless asked) as this conflicts with me being dominant

Who am I?

  • I am a 32 year old straight male living in a Pacific Island country.
  • I am tall, slim to medium built, tanned
  • I am told that I am quite intelligent and also wise beyond my years
  • Dominant
  • Responds in several, short, well thought out responses
  • will not write lengthy paragraphs but it is intended that the exchange will be descriptive
  • the idea is: it is in the moment, spontaneous and catches you off guard

What I am looking for?

Looking for a woman who wants to do a written exchange in the present moment perhaps with a bit of aided imagination.

The idea is to be as spontaneous as possible.

It's assumed you're a woman, alone, seeking banter, excitement, a little romance, and/or more,...

I will flirt with you and ask you all sorts of cheeky and naughty questions.

You can choose to answer or skip.

The idea is to have some fun that provides us both excitement in the spur of the moment. I will write you actions that I'll perform, and I expect you to tell me how that would make you feel or how you would respond and react.

If you have any requests, specific kinks, needs or limits, I will gladly accept it and incorporate it into our encounter.

You're most welcome to send me a chat message (or DM) and enquire if any of the above interests you.

If you've read this far, Thank you for reading I hope to hear from you

Yours Truly

Neil


r/eroticpenpals • • Apr 07 '26

[M4F] Genuine sexts/roleplays NSFW

3 Upvotes

Hey yall! I’m looking for a woman who can actually sext (not basic yes daddy or I suck your cock), someone who has character behind their texts. I’m into roleplay, breeding, sub/dom, and various other kinks. Preferably id like a continuous conversation and not just a one off. Either a long term sext partner or continuous roleplay with each other! Serious inquiries only and would like to keep it here for the time being!


r/eroticpenpals • • Feb 24 '26

39 [M4F] Fertility Nurse NSFW

3 Upvotes

I arrive at the fertility doctor's office and I'm greeted by the hottest nurse I've ever seen. Nurses seem to all still wear masks, so I'm not yet treated to your full beauty, but I can tell. I silently wonder whether having hot nurses is part of the fertility clinic's strategy.

You tell me that before we can proceed, you need to collect a "semen sample."

"Not to worry," you say, "we have very discreet and private rooms where you can feel comfortable."

As you take me to the back you tell me that "we have masturbatory aids and lubricant to make providing a sample easier."

I hope to myself that maybe this goddess will do more for me than provide me with porn. "I'm a little nervous," I admit quietly. "I've never jerked... uh... masturbated outside of my house before." I catch myself using the vulgar term and try to correct, trying to maintain professionalism, even though I'm extremely turned on by you.

"It's okay," you say comfortingly. "I can make sure you're able to provide the sample, if necessary."

And you follow me into the room where I'm expected to now cum in a cup.

______________

Looking for some dancing around sexual contact and sexy conversation as you try to convince me to jerk off for you and cum in the cup you've given me. Eventually you get frustrated and take matters into your own hands. We can progress from there and eventually start fucking.

We can start from the beginning and you can play the nurse as you see fit. Maybe you're more demanding and dominant, or maybe I have to convince you to jerk me off because you're shy.


r/eroticpenpals • • Feb 21 '26

[M4F] Seeking erotic pen-pal NSFW

6 Upvotes

I'm a 23 year old BI man from the US looking for an erotic pen-pal.

I am looking for someone who is open about and willing to talk about sexual fantasies, and general erotic chats mainly based on said fantasies; without shame or judgement on a regular basis.

The main point is having someone to talk with about sexual fantasies, the erotic chats would only really be based off of the fantasies.

This is NOT meant to be a role-play. I have no experience but I guess I'm open to try one on the side.

My requirements when it comes to who I'm looking for are the following:

- you're an adult woman.

-you can speak English.


r/eroticpenpals • • Feb 18 '26

[M4F] [TF] NSFW

1 Upvotes

I'm a mixed race, CIS-HET male, 50, interested in chatting with a trans woman. I'd like someone to masturbate with. I'm trying to expand my imagination and want to avoid pictures and video. I just want to write some messages to each other to get each other aroused and hopefully make ourselves cum. I'm not experienced with erotic correspondence but I'm looking forward to learning. I have some BDSM experience. I am intrigued by trans women and have fantasized about it but never acted on it. If you're interested please let me know.


r/eroticpenpals • • Feb 16 '26

[M4F] - Dom Looking for Sub NSFW

2 Upvotes

I’m looking to build a new online/chat-based dom/sub connection. I’m articulate, educated, and respectful, and I value emotional intelligence just as much as chemistry. What I’m seeking is a consensual dynamic centered around trust, praise, structure, and controlled submission.

I’m open to exploring a wide range of kinks within clearly discussed limits. Hard stops and boundaries should always be respected, and I believe they’re best established through honest conversation. A strong dom/sub relationship is built gradually, trust first, so I’m not looking to rush into anything without mutual comfort.

My style can range from gentle guidance to more degrading play, depending entirely on what my partner enjoys and consents to. I’m adaptable, attentive, and interested in creating a dynamic that feels safe, exciting, and fulfilling for both of us.

If you’re a female sub curious about exploring your submissive side or looking for a dom who values communication and patience, I’d be happy to talk and see where things


r/eroticpenpals • • Feb 15 '26

M4F flirty connection NSFW

3 Upvotes

Hi there,

This is a bit outside my comfort zone, but I figured honesty is the best place to start.

I’m a 36-year-old guy who’s been in a long-term relationship that has slowly turned emotionally distant. I’m currently living with my partner of 10 years, but there’s no longer emotional or physical closeness, and it’s left me feeling pretty lonely.

I’m just hoping to find someone who enjoys conversation, flirting, and getting to know another person as a human being. I miss feeling wanted, interesting, and connected.

I’d love to chat with someone who enjoys talking about life, interests, daily things, and building a genuine rapport. No pressure, no expectations — just two people keeping each other company and seeing where conversation goes.

If this resonates with you, feel free to reach out. Thanks for reading.