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u/Saraneth1127 1d ago edited 1d ago

Some of it is. Some of it isn't. However, talking about bots, as if the mentality in question didn't exist before bots, is a convenient excuse and I don't like to give them an inch. They're expert gaslighters. You give them any way to deflect and they're going to run with it.

Edit: That’s also why I don't bother arguing with them or acknowledging their comments. Gaslighter Mode is immediately activated as soon as you call the behavior out.

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u/OkayCoward 20h ago

However, talking about bots, as if the mentality in question didn't exist before bots, is a convenient excuse and I don't like to give them an inch.

Acknowledging the reality that other governments purposely try to use social media to stir up racial hatred in america and online broadly (and I guess you could argue the current US government is also cool with this because Musk loves imthat type of stuff) isn't an excuse for anything and i am not really sure why you'd frame it like that. Especially considering I highlighted that those attitudes absolutely exist.

Edit: That’s also why I don't bother arguing with them or acknowledging their comments. Gaslighter Mode is immediately activated as soon as you call the behavior out.

Yeah, I usually don't respond but im having too much fun making fun of these clowns and I got nothing better to do

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u/Saraneth1127 16h ago edited 16h ago

Because they use it as an excuse to say that it's mostly bots and this isn't a real problem. Or that it isn't many people when, yes, it is. I don't believe in giving them plausible deniability at all because we would still see the same types of comments if bots never existed. There would just be less comments. I'm old enough to remember, that's all.

Lol well I hope you're having fun. I already know that people are getting mad. I haven't read any of the comments, but I’m sure they include a few variations of the Gaslighter Mode greatest hit “Nobody is talking about race except for you”. As if that isn't the point.

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u/OkayCoward 14h ago

I apologize, I thought you were indicating that I was trying to excuse their racism. Misunderstood what you were communicating

Its getting a little boring now because they just repeat the same arguments over and over again. As soon as you catch them in a trap, they pretend it didnt happen or stop responding completely. I figure at a minimum, its wasting their time so they are harrassing me rather than other people

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u/Saraneth1127 14h ago

Let me guess, they’re saying it isn’t about race or that you’re bringing up a hypothetical. As if we don’t see it everyday. Then, if you post a screenshot or a link to other posts and the comments there, they come up with some excuse. Whether that be saying it’s just one comment, knowing that you’re not going to waste your time posting every single similar comment, or blaming bots. When they run out of excuses, they stop responding and probably go find someone else to gaslight, right?

Yeah, that’s why I don’t acknowledge them lol.

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u/OkayCoward 13h ago

Haha, you're talking like you've been in this spot before !

I think you got it basically right. The only thing you missed is they ask for an example, you provide the example and then they say because it didnt include a racial insult or specifically mention a race, theres no way it could be racist.

These guys are unserious clowns for sure

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u/Saraneth1127 13h ago

Lmao professional gaslighters