It works really good actually, the hands and hair kinda come together for the pink stripes and the hands alone make the white stripe. It took the other commenter noticing that it wasn't the trans flag for me to notice.
Mhmm. I'm sure you'd think that. At least I don't interlock fingers with someone, you handholder!
Cuddling is just sitting close to someone with extra steps after all :3
Yeah me and some of my friends both slowly pushed the bar to see how far we could go with sharing. Took like a year to finally reach a point where I think we’ve shared almost everything we’re going to.
Ill never forget that post of "we mocked victorians because showing ankles was flirtatious but we've created an internet era in which people regularly censor their feet cause theyre seen as sexual"
it's power dynamics, it's always power dynamics.
Sometimes it looks like it isn't, and then you look deeper, and its more power dynamics.
It's like steam power. All power is water turning turbines...
Except solar energy.
The only exception to power dynamics, is sometimes it's a sensation pushing against your sex organs, or which the brain confuses for sexual stimulation. Like omorashi.
This is my argument for why omorashi is the Solar Energy of kink.
yes, in the totally theoretical scenerio that we you have a piss kink it would in fact be your moral duty to provide the world with free energy by pissing yourselves as soon as possible
also, lovely flair. I might need an Mtm flair.
As a man, i can do everything, including grow titties
Cause after "why" goes "how" - and we as a species are good at keeping knowledge. That person is just a kink librarian, ya know? Somebody should protect kink knowledge
The first two make me feel ill to think about, the next two are "maybe" for me and depend on a verity of factors and contexts and the last one I have no real feelings about, all that is to say, I see no issues with anyone having any of those kinks as long as the usual factors of safety and consent apply
I mean yeah I do that occasionally too but it's really not worth the headache. Just pay me a fucking set price for my services like any other business transaction, I fucking hate the cat and mouse bullshit
How is pro-domme the most effective one? I useually see rage about feral furry and ageplay, but that might be because im a furry and those ones constantly come up.
I've found most IRL kink spaces (I don't really engage in kink online) tend to be very judgy of Pro-Dommes. Idk which one would be most effective truth be told so I just picked the one I've personally gotten flak for.
In my local kink scene I'm in age play isn't too rare, and since it's irl there's really no way to engage in feral furry. Blood play will get you some weird looks if its anything more intense than needles but no ones ever had the courage to say anything to me. Scat is for obvious reasons not allowed at play parties and will get you a lot of revulsion and maybe a safety argument but not outright anger
But yeah online any of those are gonna get you some aggro (but let's be real, online people get angry at anything)
I kinda figured that everyone who wanted a subby experience had to meet a pro-domme, but this thread is making it pretty clear that isn't the case.
Now, I do understand that there are people rich enough to have 'dungeons', toys, racks, or even just the gumption to try at home at all.... but I haven't met them in real life, which is a bit sad frankly. I would love to be dommed but I would likely never pay for it. Gotta be someone I know for sure, just for the trust factor. I have some toys but even those quickly stopped being used. Partner was never into it, and that's kind of turning into a bigger deal to me as time goes on. Especially as a recently cracked egg.
As someone into blood, killings, zombies, I always got a lot of relief from WoW RP, because my cute little edgy Undead OC was always getting battered and messed up.
I believe kink shaming is bad unless you have a humiliation kink. Then you're a sick pervert who enjoys being called names by hot women. (/j all link shaming is bad, all kinks have healthy ways to be acted on)
I was like this with ryona for a while. I assumed it was sadism turned up to 11. But no. No, it's the masochists that own that one. I don't dislike it anymore, now I'm just concerned. Y'all ok?
my cnc kink is the direct result of a situation involving me on the receiving end and no consent when I was younger. After loads of therapy this is how I deal with it.
Virgin couple between 22 and 29 consummating their marriage. Lights off. Clothes off. Under sheets. The man thinks of baseball while the woman lies back and thinks of England. No noise. No kissing. Hotel room during their 24 hour honey-moon during a banking holiday. After that night they never occupy the same bed again.
I won’t shame them, I’ll shame the people who convinced them that having fun is bad (unless they’re like that guy in BG3 who gets excited by boring, shitty sex).
why do people always feel the need to clarify this? no one tells horror writers "well, as long as you aren't ACTUALLY chainsaw-murdering people, then you can write about whatever you want." like, yeah, no duh. kink without consent isn't kink, it's assault.
even more insane how prevelant this has become in what should be accepting spaces, like what happened to your kink isnt my kink and thats okay and were not a product and dont have to be palatable for companies lol
I’m not into babyfur stuff but “people who dress like babies want to fuck kids” is the exact same thing as “people who dress like dogs want to fuck animals”
Which coincidentally is the same mentality as "videogamers want to murder people", which hopefully can illustrate how ridiculous the train of thought is even for sex-repulsed individuals.
Every single community that started on the fringe and has gained popularity over the internet is having the problems. A bunch of normies who want to feel like part of the community while shaming everyone who's already there for being weird... in spaces all about being weird.
It is! And there's nothing wrong with being a tourist; the problem arises when a tourist wanders in and starts asserting that the people already invested are evil and they should be catered to instead
I had someone try and "kink" shame me for being in trans subs like Firstly bruh and secondly if ur gonna kink shame about anything have it be my piss kink cuz im on plenty of those subs too leave my gender alone
Does the idea of BDSM make me incredibly nauseous? Yes. Is it any of my business if you and your consenting partner want to do it? No. Thank you for coming to my TED talk.
I'm not an NTR fan myself but it is weird how vocally and viscerally anti-NTR some people are. Like something will be tagged as NTR and there are people in the reviews saying "stay away from this heinous NTR shit!". Like, bro. There's a blacklist system for this website so no one is forcing you to see NTR stuff.
Kept getting kinkshamed by a former friend. Turns out they were into the stuff they shamed me about and a lot else that I wasn't into (which wouldn't matter, but they constantly accused me of "being into anything"/"being constantly horny" etc.).
....yep. that's why people stalk and harass me and my girlfriend.
they often stop being so progressive and "they/them" us (because trans girls who are icky aren't girls), or talk about what we do with our genitals. (Which is sexual harassment)
like really if you like one of the "bad" kinks people think they have carte blanche to dehumanize you and harass you and make disgusting accusations at you and invade your life and dox you and tell your irl friends/coworkers what you're into online... and get you and your gf banned from every online community via slander and false accusations so they can justify banning the "freaks" that hurt their "image"...
or at least play armchair psychologist even when you have an actual therapist with a degree who regularly reassures you you're fine... oh but then they say "GeT a BeTtEr ThErApIsT YoUre nOt NoRMAl
Kink-asking-why is how I got into the flattening kink. It's not particularly sexy to me, but I like the idea of being balled up into an orb of silly putty and then squished around.
I just imagine the cartoony aspect doing wonders for your back/muscle pains. Stretch all out then snap back to normal feeling great.
When I was first asking about this kink, my friend was very guarded and wouldn't even share any art with me. But, eventually I just kept being receptive, and now I have some.... weird.... squishy fanart of my OCs! I love fanart. It's also pretty funny to technically be getting lewd fanart of my character in someone else's kink. It's flattering.
It would be secual harassment since someone having a kink isnt them wanting to interface with it 24/7 and with strangers who they havent agreed with can b3 in on it
I think people just need to remember that you can just judge people in your head.
Like, if someone has a kink that I find outstandingly disgusting/disturbing, I don't shame the person, I don't even change how I act around them. I just keep my thoughts to myself and judge them in my head.
That way, nobody is shamed and everyone can move on with their lives.
For fun, I got permabanned from r/pornismisogyny for informing people that BDSM isn't always a dominant man + submissive woman, that women can be dominant too and that it's not only for straight people.
( On a post about how BDSM is actually just an excuse for men to abuse women. I'm proud of that permaban. )
I think a lot of you internally say "well if I think it's bad then it just isn't a kink and therefore i'm not kinkshaming when I say it's bad. I'm morally superior to those meanie kinkshamers"
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