i got new pacis and decided to deco them myself!! i feel like the purple one is missing something but im not sure what

My little one and I have a "very complicated relationship" as we have tokened our bond with one another as mommy and little. We both realize we have something incredible and still find ourselves in moments of awe when we look back over the time we have shared together and not a day goes by we dont look forward to what our futures together will bring.

The very milk my body worked tirelessly to produced has nourished and comforted her, I have changed her more times than I can remember, I have held her close when she just needed to be small and far away from the real big world that surrounds us. I have reassured her when she was too unsure and always try to be the best mommy I can and I know she has always tried her best to be my sweet baby girl while also being herself in the big world.

We both have busy lives, and while most nights are spent cuddling, nursing little one to sleep and telling eachother our love for one another, the moments when we find time in our busy day to day lives for a deeper little space are sporadic, sometimes days, sometimes weeks and occasionally a month between those moments where we delve deep into ourselves, mommy gets deep into caregiver head space and little one slips deep into her little space.

The time we share with her deep in little space are some of the most memorable moments in our lives, right up there with the moment we said "I do" to each other in front of our families and friends and the moment I took her for a hike up a BIG mountain to ask her to marry me.

These are incredible moments... some of the most incredible. These are the moments I find myself most closely bonded to her, not only as my incredible partner in life, but as my little one.

But with these incredible moments come some of the more emotionally difficult moments we share. We both have busy lives, both have jobs, have friends, family and obligations, so while our bond as mommy and little is ever present, the deepness of this spaces comes and goes like seasons... or perhaps the tides? Either way, we both have our "come downs" from these times, those moments where our heads want all the good feelings, warth and comfort from those deeper dives in our relationship.

Today is no exception for this mommy. As we sit next to another, talking about the week ahead, my head just wants to put her back in a comfy and cute diaper, wrap her up tight in a comfy blanket and nurse her back into baby space. My mind thinks about the warmth in my heart as she suckles, those moments of pure joy when I wake her from her crib, change her, nurse her and take her to the kitchen and make her "mommy breakfast" as she calls it. Those moments of drawing her a warm bubble bath, helping her out, drying her off and immediately putting her into a fresh diaper and a cute onesie.

I know that we cant live this dynamic all day, every day... I know that we are both incredible, independent, strong women. I know that we together we can tackle anything we set our minds to... but it still doesnt make moments like this any less hard... All I can do is look forward to the future and see what it brings.

Hi all! Thanks for taking the time to read this post and offer feedback, advice or suggestions, positive feedback is always appreciated:)

I’m here today as my caregiver (exclusively online) decided that it would be best to end things secondary to incompatibility in regard to communication styles and needs, not super relevant to why I’m here but I thought context would be helpful. I’ve always viewed myself as somewhat needy, clingy and as someone who needs to be shown lots of love to feel secure.

I’m here in hopes of maintaining the love I have for being little, in the past I’ve given up on this when the dynamic ended and I don’t want to resort back to despising it because I’m alone again. Does anyone have any ideas or advice on things they’ve done while navigating this alone?

Long time listener, first time caller. I’ve known about DDLG/CGL for nearly a decade. In fact, I used to have a littlespace (and was popular on Instagram back in the day with my text posts).

However, as I started to get older and into my late twenties, I just stopped. I had a lot on my plate and I was just embarrassed about being a little. But it was a huge part of my life.

Well, flash forward and now I have a boyfriend! We’ve known each other for over a year and have been dating for a few months. I never really thought about it until lately that our relationship is somewhat DDLG/CGL coded? He says he is not very much into kink though.

Examples:
When we were at Disney and the loud speaker said to “take small children by the hand” he took my hand.
He said if I don’t behave (consent from both of us has already been given lol) that he would lightly “spank me”.
He sent me a reel that said on the reel “to the eldest burnt out daughters…let daddy take care of it”.
I sent him a reel back that said “I’m a healthy does of ‘yes daddy’ and ‘don’t tell me what to do’” and he reacted with the “😍” emoji.

Well, recently on a phone call he called me his “little princess” which made my jaw hit the floor. He had called me a princess before but never his little princess. Also, it was not a fluke he has said it again.

He also said that a life with him (we were talking about the future) would include lots of Disney trips and cruises, me sitting on his lap while watching the fireworks, and never having to lift a finger.

So, like this is all “daddy” coded right?? I don’t want to bring it up to him to make him uncomfortable since he already said he’s not big into kink. We also can’t talk face to face because he’s military and gone for the next year. So, this is all LDR right now 🫠

Am I overthinking this or could there be something there? Even if not, this is the man of my dreams and I have no intention of leaving him. For me, this would just be the cherry on top!

Thanks for reading my overthinking post 😆

How do you littles without a cg get into little space on your own? I personally like to watch superhero shows lately and read less mature comics than i usually read. I also have a paci but sometimes it just kinda feels embarrassing for me to use it alone. It’s hard to be present in little space by yourself bc it’s so easy to just go deal with adult life that’s more pressing yk? What do you guys do, and how do you stay present in it to really maximize comfort?

Got to go to the beach today! I took lagoona and mermaid Frankie (: I had so much fun

Is officially the best little car ever!

I took a trip recently and the Haneda airport is my favorite. They always have the best and most yummy food and snack options!

I’ve realized in this community there’s so many names outside of Daddy you can call someone. I talked to this guy and he asked me to call him Papa. At first I thought it was different but now I absolutely adore that name. I know some of my others friends call their partner Dada but I was wondering if there’s any other cute names like that! I may have to still it if I ever get a daddy hehehe.

So a little back story. I've been looking for a little to call my own for awhile now after being in prison for a stint. Let's just say it's been a trip. Anyways along comes my little bean sliding into my Dm's randomly. For real it was so random. I hadn't posted or anything for a couple months. We started talking and hit it off. Like I swear she was made for me.

Anyways we've been texting for a little while now and I hadn't called her because I didn't want to invest if I was going to get ghosted again.

Long story short. She's perfect. She has the cutest little southern accent and the cute little noises she makes. Not even sexual just reactions to things. I'm sad we're so far away from each other but I look forward to when I can kiss her sweet little face.

Sorry for the rant but I just had to gush over her.

It makes me feel so little. Plus its my two favorite colors 😍