Fair warning: I'm not great at selling myself, but I'll give it a shot. Northeast Louisiana, for now. I'm not planting roots here, so if you've got a good enough reason to lure me somewhere else, I'm all ears.

Let's get the important part out of the way: I'm obsessed with Expedition 33. The soundtrack is on repeat like it's my job, and I will happily talk about the game, the story, and the music until you tell me to stop. If you've played it, we're already halfway to friends. If you haven't, I'm prepared to be annoying about it.

Otherwise: certified geek, metal music, gaming, way too much PC tech talk. More goth/alt on the inside than it always shows on the outside. I'm a single-player gamer by habit, not conviction, so I'm down to get dragged into whatever multiplayer thing you're into if it means a partner in crime. Currently deep in an Ark: Ascended solo grind, mostly getting eaten by dinosaurs.

16 years in news production means I've got opinions and zero chill about sharing them. I'm liberal, and if you're MAGA, let's save us both the trouble.

Not religious, but part of The Satanic Temple. Look it up, the short version is "be excellent to each other," and I mean it.

Childfree and planning to stay that way. Not looking for a one-and-done chat either. If we click, I want to stick around and see where it goes.

My mom said she can pick us up if yours drops us off... lol.

Names Alex. 6'0, Caucasian. I enjoy fishing, kayaking/ paddleboarding, deathcore music and their subsequent live shows as well as other small things like legos, couch rotting, movies, etc. I like to thrift as well as collect and sell band merch on the side. Ask to see my Depop! :)

I'm employed, am a homeowner and educated. All the things. I'd prefer to find someone or some people that are around the same path of life in that respect. I'd like to find someone that's end game but have had more than my fair share of disappointments, so I'm just vibing really. But looking for that longing and yearning type of love like Morticia and Gomez. (Raul version)

Hit me up if any of this resonates with you! I'd prefer someone around my height or taller, has their stuff together like job, not living at home, etc. Prefer men of Caucasian, East Asian, Native, or Hispanic background. Someone who understands what makes a semi LDR work, and be willing to relocate if things got serious enough. Have the means to travel to me, (I do as well). Must be within CST time or generally in the USA/Canada areas. Constant communication and a healthy roast to flirt ratio is a must.
But please don't be gross:) I'll ignore you.

Fun fact I have sectoral heterochromia!

This is me:) Please be willing to share a photo a few messages in.

https://imgur.com/a/410Zjht

⚠️ FAIR WARNING: THIS IS A VERY LONG POST!

This is a detailed post because I know exactly what I am looking for in a partner. I am laying out my standards, values, non-negotiables, and future plans up front so we can immediately determine if we are aligned.

If you are genuinely interested in getting to know me, read through the entire post before reaching out. Establishing real compatibility early saves both of us time.

Here is the condensed summary:

📝 TL;DR — The Short Version

I am a 35-year-old man living in Connecticut, looking for an intelligent, independent, active, and grounded woman between 30 and 40 in Connecticut or New England.

I currently work at an Amazon warehouse while aggressively executing a career transition into cybersecurity as a security analyst. My long-term plan is to relocate to Arizona.

❤️ My Nonnegotiables:

• Childfree: No kids, never had them, never will (including stepchildren).
• Marriage-free: Seeking a serious, committed partnership without legal marriage.
• Pet-free: I do not have pets, and I live a strictly pet-free lifestyle.
• Monogamous: Strictly exclusive, one-on-one commitment.
• Atheist: Secular, rational, non-religious worldview.
• Center-left politically: Aligned on fundamental social and human values.
• Sober lifestyle: Zero alcohol, smoking, or recreational drugs.
• Financially responsible: Living within your means, avoiding consumer debt, saving, and investing.
• Living Apart Together (LAT): Deeply committed relationship while permanently maintaining separate homes.
• Location & Timeline: Ready to move out West down the road—or, if you are rooted in New England, clear on having a meaningful, high-quality relationship while I am here, with the understanding that it will end when I relocate.

🧠 What Attracts Me:

High intelligence, genuine kindness, ambition, curiosity, emotional honesty, and a drive for continuous self-improvement. Intellectual chemistry is mandatory. I read constantly, engage with complex ideas, and value deep, late-night conversations.

I require a partner who prioritizes physical health, loves travel, maintains a naturally high libido, enjoys frequent affection, and embraces her femininity.

🌎 My Goals:

Travel extensively, play world-class golf courses, compete in marathons and triathlons, achieve financial independence, and never stop learning. I want a partner who already leads a full, ambitious life of her own.

🪐 Relationship Philosophy:

I build interdependent relationships, not codependent ones. Neither of us needs to "save" or "complete" the other. You will be a major planet in my solar system, not my entire world—and I expect to be the same in yours.

My priority framework:

1. Physical & mental health
2. Career & personal ambitions
3. Our relationship

Taking care of ourselves first ensures we bring our best energy to each other. You will be my third priority on paper, and you will feel like my top choice every single day.

👇 If you meet these standards, read the full post below.

35 [M4F] Connecticut/New England | Childfree, Marriage-Free, Atheist | Looking for an Intelligent, Independent, Adventurous Woman

👋 A Little About Me

My name is Jeffrey. I am 35, live in Connecticut, and I am looking for a serious, committed relationship with a woman between 30 and 40 in CT or New England.

Right now, I work at an Amazon warehouse while aggressively building my skills to break into cybersecurity as a security analyst. I thrive on problem-solving and technology, and I am doing the work required to build a lucrative, challenging career.

Outside of work, I am constantly learning. I read non-fiction and fiction, play golf, watch sports, travel, and seek out deep conversations. Personal growth is a daily requirement for me—I optimize my habits and demand continuous self-improvement.

I respect women who are intelligent, independent, driven, financially disciplined, physically active, and intellectually curious.

I am a self-sufficient man. I value my personal space, my quiet time, and my independence. I am not posting out of loneliness or a need for validation. My life is structured, meaningful, and on an upward trajectory. I want an incredible woman who loves her own life and wants to share the journey.

I know my value, and I do not settle. I would rather stay single permanently than compromise on what matters to me. I do not expect perfection, but I require clarity, ambition, and alignment.

❤️ My Nonnegotiables

There is no reason to waste time if our fundamentals do not match. These lifestyle choices and values are absolute nonnegotiables for me:

Childfree: I do not have children, and I will never have children. Period. I require a partner who is 100% childfree and permanently committed to that choice. This excludes single mothers, women with adult children, and anyone undecided about the future. I will not adopt, foster, or become a stepfather.

Marriage-free: I will not get legally married or hold a wedding ceremony. I want a serious, lifelong, exclusive commitment, but I do not require legal contracts or religious rituals to prove loyalty.

Pet-free: I do not have pets, and I will not have pets in the future. I require the clean environment, financial efficiency, and total freedom to travel that comes with a pet-free lifestyle.

Monogamous: I am exclusively interested in a traditional, strictly monogamous setup. One man, one woman, committed solely to each other. No open setups, polyamory, or casual side dating.

Atheist: I am an atheist. I navigate life through reason, evidence, and a secular worldview. I require a partner who shares this perspective.

Politically center-left: I am center-left politically. Our core social ethics and human values must align.

No alcohol or drugs: I live a completely sober life. No alcohol, no smoking, and no recreational drugs. I expect my partner to live the same way.

Financially responsible: You do not need a massive salary, but you must be disciplined with your money. You must live within your means, manage debt responsibly, save consistently, and plan for long-term financial independence.

Living Apart Together (LAT): I require a committed relationship where we permanently maintain our own separate residences.

These are my standards. I will not change them, and I do not expect you to change for me. I am looking for a woman who already lives by these choices.

🌵 My Future Plans: Moving to Arizona

I am not staying in New England long-term.

Once I complete my transition into cybersecurity and establish myself as a security analyst, I am relocating to Arizona.

I thrive in warm weather, sunshine, desert landscapes, and mountains. As a golfer, playing year-round in the sun is a primary lifestyle goal.

If you are open to relocating out West in the future, we will maintain separate homes near each other in Arizona.

If you are deeply rooted in New England and will not leave, I am clear on what that means: our relationship will be a high-value, meaningful connection while I am here, with a clear understanding that it will end when I move.

🧠 Intelligence Is Required

Intellectual attraction is a nonnegotiable prerequisite for physical attraction. A woman could look like a supermodel, but if she cannot hold a deep conversation or lacks intellectual curiosity, I will lose interest immediately.

I demand a partner who reads, holds sharp opinions, articulates her reasoning clearly, and confidently challenges my perspective.

I expect to have long, unfiltered conversations about:

• Political theory and current affairs
• Artificial intelligence and technological shifts
• History and societal dynamics
• Psychology and human behavior
• Secular philosophy and ethics
• Sports strategy and analytics
• Science and economics

I Do Not Do Small Talk

Polite, surface-level small talk is a waste of time. I want direct, meaningful dialogue:

• Tell me about the key experiences that forged your character.
• Tell me what you genuinely fear and how you overcome it.
• Tell me your biggest ambitions before you die.
• Tell me about a core belief you abandoned after discovering new facts.

I practice radical authenticity and emotional vulnerability, as framed by Brené Brown. I expect a relationship where we drop the armor, speak the truth, and trust each other completely.

💕 My Framework for Love

Love is defined by two principles:

1. Love is giving someone the power to destroy you, and trusting them completely not to use it.

Emotional intimacy requires absolute trust. When I open up to you, it is because I know you have the character to protect that vulnerability.

2. Love is genuinely liking someone’s character, respecting their values, and actively driving them to achieve their goals.

Real love is active partnership. I want to be your biggest advocate, support your career moves, and celebrate your victories—and I expect that same drive and encouragement returned to me.

🪐 Interdependence, Not Codependency

I want a woman who wants me, but does not need me.

I am not an escape plan from boredom, loneliness, or financial stress. You must already have a life you love, a career you take pride in, solid friendships, and personal hobbies.

You must know your worth, hold firm boundaries, and expect high standards. I want you to desire me for who I am—not for what I can provide financially.

🪐 The Solar System Standard

You will be a primary planet in my solar system, not my entire universe.

My life already includes nonnegotiable priorities:

• Physical and mental health
• Career growth and technical study
• Personal friendships and family
• Hobbies (golf, reading, sports)
• Personal travel and financial goals

Getting into a relationship does not mean destroying our individual identities. You keep your solar system intact—your career, your friends, your passions—and I will keep mine. We build two strong, parallel lives that intersect by choice.

❤️ Why You Will Be My Third Priority

My priorities are explicitly ordered:

🥇 1st Priority: Your Physical & Mental Health

🥈 2nd Priority: Your Career & Personal Goals

🥉 3rd Priority: Our Relationship

This is practical logic: If I neglect my health or my career, I become stressed, exhausted, and bitter. I cannot bring high energy, patience, and affection to a relationship if my own foundation is failing.

By taking absolute ownership of our health first and our ambitions second, we bring our absolute best selves to the relationship. You get a strong, thriving, energetic partner every single day.

💰 Financial Discipline Is Mandatory

Financial compatibility is essential. I require a partner who manages her money with discipline and long-term vision.

Your income level does not define your worth. What matters is your discipline. A woman earning an average salary who lives below her means, saves consistently, and invests for retirement is far more attractive than a high earner living paycheck to paycheck on luxury debt.

My financial standards:

• Living below your means: Understanding actual affordability over credit limits. Avoiding lifestyle inflation.
• Saving & Investing: Maintaining an emergency fund, budgeting, maximizing retirement accounts (401k/IRA), and investing consistently.
• Debt Management: Aggressively managing or avoiding consumer debt.
• Total Independence: Under the Living Apart Together model, we each cover 100% of our own housing, bills, and financial needs.

Money should create freedom, security, and options. I spend money on real-world experiences, travel, and self-improvement—not on status symbols to impress people.

🏠 Living Apart Together: Separate Homes Permanently

I practice Living Apart Together (LAT). We will maintain a committed, exclusive, long-term relationship while permanently keeping our own separate residences.

I want a dedicated, lifelong girlfriend—not a wife, and not a roommate.

LAT delivers the best of both worlds:

• You own your space completely.
• I own my space completely.
• We date, travel, spend nights together, and build intimacy.
• When we need quiet time to study, work, or recharge, we return to our own homes without guilt or friction.

Cohabitation frequently introduces domestic friction over chores, schedules, and space that erodes romantic chemistry. LAT preserves that spark permanently. My stance on remaining childfree, marriage-free, and living separately is permanent.

🔥 High Libido & Physical Intimacy

Physical intimacy and sexual chemistry are mandatory for a healthy relationship.

I require a partner with a naturally high libido. My baseline expectation is intimacy 4 to 5+ times a week, ideally daily. I want direct, enthusiastic desire—not intimacy that feels like a chore or an obligation.

I am also deeply attracted to feminine warmth—tenderness, affection, emotional openness, and confidence in expressing femininity. I demand mental, emotional, and physical chemistry simultaneously.

🌎 Adventure, Travel, and Fitness

I refuse to live a passive, repetitive life. I want to see the world, experience new cultures, and build incredible memories.

⛳ Golf & International Travel

Golf is a major passion of mine. One of my bucket-list goals is to travel globally and play world-renowned golf courses. Whether you play golf or not, you must love traveling, exploring new countries, and prioritizing experiences over material items.

🏃 Athletic Discipline

Physical fitness is a nonnegotiable daily requirement. I lift weights and run, with clear goals to compete in full marathons and triathlons.

I want an athletic partner who values her physical capability, trains regularly, and wants to conquer fitness goals together.

✨ The Eight Traits I Demand

1. Kindness: Genuine warmth and respect toward everyone, especially service workers.
2. Ambition: Setting concrete targets and doing the work required to achieve them.
3. Financial Literacy: Living below your means, saving, investing, and building security.
4. Conscientiousness: Total reliability and follow-through on your word.
5. Internal Locus of Control: Owning your choices and outcomes instead of making excuses.
6. Authenticity: Total comfort in your own skin without performing for social approval.
7. Curiosity: Voracious reading, deep questioning, and continuous learning.
8. Growth Mindset: Demanding continuous self-improvement in every area of life.

📚 Media & Interests

• Hobbies: Reading, golf, sports analytics, cybersecurity, travel, deep conversation.
• Soccer: Passionate fan of FC Barcelona, Chelsea FC, and Bayern Munich.
• Movies: There Will Be Blood, Interstellar, The Dark Knight, Everything Everywhere All at Once, The Wolf of Wall Street, Step Brothers, Tropic Thunder.
• TV Shows: Breaking Bad, Better Call Saul, The Leftovers, Succession, Curb Your Enthusiasm, Fargo, Chernobyl, Barry.
• Music: Eminem, The Weeknd, Adele, Logic, J. Cole, Kanye, Taylor Swift, Ed Sheeran, Michael Jackson.

📱 Technology & Social Impact

I will talk for hours about how smartphones, social media, and AI are degrading human cognition, real-world social skills, and mental health.

We have unlimited access to human knowledge, yet reading rates are declining. We have endless digital connectivity, yet loneliness is at an all-time high. Algorithms drive outrage, and AI encourages cognitive laziness.

I value real-world presence, direct eye contact, and focused human connection over screen addiction.

🌱 Zero Excuses, Zero Regrets

Denzel Washington shared a story originating from Les Brown that defines my approach to life:

Imagine lying on your deathbed at the end of your life.

Standing around your bed are the ghosts of your unfulfilled potential—the ideas you never acted on, the talents you neglected, the ambitions you abandoned out of fear or laziness.

They look at you and say, "We came to you because you had the power to bring us to life. But now, we must die with you."

How many ghosts will be standing around your bed when your time comes?

I refuse to reach old age filled with regret and excuses. I live with urgency. I am executing my cybersecurity career transition, training for endurance races, relocating to Arizona, building wealth, and exploring the world. I expect a partner who operates with that same inner drive.

💌 Final Requirements & How to Reach Out

Moving to Arizona is a definite goal once my cybersecurity transition is complete. I am open to a partner who wants to relocate West down the road. If you are rooted in New England, I am clear that our relationship will be a high-value, meaningful connection while I am here, with a clear understanding that it will end when I move.

If you meet these standards and want to build a connection, send me a direct message.

Include a detailed introduction: your name, age, location, career field, and your answers to these 7 mandatory questions:

1. Dinner with 3 living people: Which three living public figures would you choose for a three-hour dinner, and why?
2. Best compliment: What is the most meaningful compliment you have received about your mind or character?
3. Your hottest take: What is a strongly held opinion you possess that most people disagree with?
4. 3-hour topic: What subject could you present on for three hours without preparation?
5. Major ambitions: What is one major goal you are actively executing right now?
6. Favorite quality: What is your favorite trait about yourself, and why?
7. Lottery scenario: If you received $100M tax-free tomorrow, what would your daily life, career, and housing structure look like?

Include recent photos of yourself. Physical attraction is required for both of us, and establishing mutual attraction up front is mandatory. I will respond with photos of myself.

If you match these standards, please reach out!

Hey everyone! I’m on the looking for a partner in crime to walk the beach soak in the breathtaking scenery.

I’m looking for a serious relationship anywhere. A bit about me: I’m an outdoor enthusiast who loves hiking and taking boat rides in the river. I travel frequently for work, which has given me the opportunity to experience different cultures and meet wonderful people. I’m also a big movie buff, particularly a fan of the Planet of the Apes series and anything with a compelling story. Currently, I’m learning Japanese, and I’ve mastered the basics. I also know English, Spanish and French

In my free time, I usually spend time at home with my family or traveling to new places

I’m searching for a female companion who can be my center of the universe.

I’m open to anyone between the ages of 18 and 28, regardless of their location.

Hello internet! I'm a 23-year-old nerdy comp sci student from Central Florida looking for someone special to be my partner!

About me:

I'm 23 years old, clean shaven, brown eyes, white, with thick brown hair (I might get it cut soon, let me know if you think I should). I'm 6'1 and average to a bit above-average weight.

I am currently going for my master's degree in computer science in my final year, and hoping to graduate next semester. I'm still trying to figure out what I'm going to do exactly after.

As for my personality, I'd consider myself empathetic and take people's feelings very seriously. I want to have a relationship where we both won't judge each other and will help each other work through our life problems and be there for each other whenever we need it. I'm also neurodivergent (I might give more details once we start talking) so I'd like someone who can be a bit understanding in that aspect. I'm also admittedly not the best at picking up on social cues and reading the room, so I'm looking for someone who can be very direct and understanding of me. Once we get more comfortable with each other, you can expect someone who enjoys deep conversations and wants to do their absolute best to be there for you.

As for my interests and hobbies, I have quite a few. The most important one is video games. I love video games, and I'm really hoping to find someone I can share this with and play video games a lot with. Even if you don't currently play them, as long as you're willing to play them with me and have a lot of gaming nights together, I'm fine even if you're really bad at them XD. My favorites are really anything Nintendo like Luigi's Mansion, Paper Mario, The Legend of Zelda, Pokemon, Kirby, etc. (I just REALLY love Nintendo).

I also really like watching sports games, I'm mainly huge on hockey and baseball (go Rays and Lightning!) but I occasionally enjoy some basketball and football. I like attending Lightning games fairly frequently, and I often have an extra ticket for someone I can take with me, so I'd love if you would be willing to come with me. I also have a Disney World and Busch Gardens pass, and since I usually am within about 45-50 minutes of both of those places, I like to go often, so if you have one of those then that's a huge plus. I also enjoy going out for walks, although I've been a bit lazy lately because of how hot it's been, maybe having someone else to walk with could help me get out more?

I also really like the anime Detective Conan, which is what my PFP and username are based off of. I would like to find someone to enjoy watching it with, so if you also like anime that's a huge plus (really, I just hope you're a huge nerd, but even if you aren't we can still enjoy nerdy hobbies together). I do also like a bit of some oldhead music, with 80s/90s classic rock being my favorite (if you know who Styx is, I'll probably love you). Hopefully you can introduce me to some of your hobbies and interests too!

The only other thing I'll mention is that I don't have any past dating experience, so I'm still a bit new to all this. I hope you can be understanding that I'm still learning how this all works and be a bit patient with me!

Here's what I want from you:

First things first, I do think looks matter a little bit, so I'd like to make sure we're compatible there early on. I don't need you to send a picture of yourself immediately, but I would appreciate a physical description of yourself and would like to exchange pictures or video call pretty early after we start talking (I'll show myself too, don't worry!).

As for age range, I'm not too picky, but I don't think I want you to be much older. If you're 18-25, I'll definitely be fine with that, and I might be willing to make an exception if you're a bit older and particularly compatible.

One thing that is very important to me is meeting in person. I'm really hoping to find someone local who is willing to go on dates and spend time together regularly. I'm not expecting us to meet immediately after talking to each other, but I'd love for us to meet pretty early on! I'm very happy here in central Florida, so unless we're willing to wait until we're able to live close or frequently meetup, I'm probably not very interested in a long distance, committed relationship right now. I currently go to school in Lakeland, and live in Spring Hill, so I would prefer if you lived close to either of those places!

Another really important thing is time and attention together. I don't want all your time 24/7, we're both adults who have our own lives and responsibilities, but I would like to have each other be a very important part of each other's day. I'm a very big communicator and would like texts, phone calls, and meetups (I'm available most weekends!).

I'm also pretty shy and introverted around groups of people. I heavily prefer spending time one-on-one, like playing games, watching movies, going to a sports game, or just going on dates together! I'm not a partygoer, so I'd love to find a homebody like me.

Anyway, if you got all the way down here and are interested in reaching out, please do so! I'm still looking right now and would love to get to know you! To show you've made it this far, include your age/gender/location, and then something we have in common (or something we don't, as they say, opposites attract!)

Hello! I’m on the search for a long-term monogamous relationship with a childfree woman! I am currently in college studying engineering, for which I’ll be graduating in an about a year. I've been living on my own and self-sustaining for the past few years while in school also. I'm currently located about 20 mins away from DC.

I am and will continue to be childfree because I have never had a desire to have children or be a parent! I also feel that it is unfair/unethical to bring a human into the world, since you have no choice/consent over being born or not.

About Me:

- Cisgender, Heterosexual Man
- Physically: 5'8" ~155 pounds. l'd describe my body type as athletic/toned. I enjoy being active and eating healthy.
- Personality: Open-minded, caring, organized, authentic, driven, down-to-earth, and humorous. INTJ if that matters.
- Hobbies/Interests: I love basketball, Transformers, gaming, Legos, (American) Football, animals, nature, hanging with friends, listening to music, watching YT/ shows/movies, and things that get my brain going! Ive recently really enjoyed thrifting/discount shopping and trying new food!
- I do not use social media. I have nothing against those who do, but it's just not my thing.
- Sterilization: Not snipped yet, but extremely willing to get it done. Given that I'm not into casual stuff, It doesn't affect me as of now, but ultimately will depend on if it is necessary/desired with my future partner.
- Politics: Im not entirely sure what’s the best way to accurately describe my overall political views, but I am definitely left-leaning! If any issues/views are important to you, feel free to ask my stance!
- Beliefs: Agnostic Atheist
- Relationship Values: Quality time, effort, honesty, transparency, physical touch, thoughtful gestures, good communication, loyalty, and mutual growth
- Substance Use: I do not drink, smoke, or do any drugs.

About You:

- Age: 18-26
- Firmly childfree!
- Desire for a DINK lifestyle
- Location: In the same or neighboring state, preferably within an hour of my general location or willing to relocate if things advance.
- Beliefs: Little-to-no religious role in life
- Substance Use: Social drinking/smoking/drugs or less. No cigarettes.

If I happened to catch your eye send me a message with your age and location. Mutual attraction is important to me, so please share a few photos after I accept your message!

If anyone has any questions or wants me to elaborate on anything, feel free to ask!

Heyy, I’m 29 and from the UK. I’m white, 5’10”, average build, with brown hair and green eyes. I do look younger than I am, love making people laugh, and have ADHD, so conversations can go from one topic to five completely unrelated ones in about ten minutes.

I’m outdoorsy, love travelling and exploring new places, spontaneous adventures, cooking, and generally not taking life too seriously. I also have a ridiculously good memory, so be careful what random facts you tell me at 2am. I will casually mention them six months down the line.

I currently work for the NHS, but I’m hoping to move into professional sport eventually. In the meantime, I’m planning a months-long backpacking trip around Europe in the new year.

Ideally, I’d love to meet someone in the UK, but elsewhere in Europe is fine too. I’m not expecting anyone to drop everything and travel with me, but it’d be lovely to meet someone who shares that sense of adventure and is open to seeing where things go.

A little thing about distance: I’m sure you’re lovely, but if you’re on the other side of the world with no realistic plans to move closer anytime soon, we’re probably not a match. I’m open to distance if there’s a realistic plan to close it. If you’re in America but moving to the UK in a few months, for example, that’s absolutely fine! But if you’re only maybe thinking about moving here in a couple of years, or it’s just a vague possibility someday, we probably wouldn’t be compatible.

I’m strictly monogamous and looking for a genuine, long-term relationship. Someone kind, playful and emotionally mature, who enjoys good banter, stupid humour, and can switch from being completely ridiculous to talking about life at 2am.

Bonus points if you can keep up with my random tangents, tolerate the occasional spontaneous plan, and remind me why I walked into a room.

Ill write all of the short details first so yall dont gota search long if ya ain't interested. But please stay for the rant at the end for more of me.

Me:

Physical characteristics; 5 foot 9, white like a vampire (can't keep a tan), 140 pounds, blue eyes, long brown hair, average looks. Willing to share pics if you reciprocate.

My every day; work, go home, play on pc, sleep. Boring right? Trying to fix that here

Interests are, any sort of magic and power grind game, fantasizing about good food, anime, cards games, board games, puzzles. I really aint got much.

What im looking for:

Gonna probably sound like a duche here, I dont know how else to word what im physically attracted to.

Around the ages of 19 to 25, Healthy body, someone to play games with, asian (preferred not needed), some to help me go out more, dont smoke, dont do drugs, no recreational, alcohol is fine.

Alright time for the rant

I feel like there is a difference between lust and love. I have had alot of lust to push down (being a teenage dude before), but never looked for a relationship. Relationships, i feel, are for love. And i have not felt ready for love so far in my life. I still dont know if i am ready for love, if there is love at all. But im at a point where i want to try. So now I'm trying to find someone I click with. Not on dating apps, those just sap my money.

As I have said before, my life is pretty boring just working and playing games. But I'll tell ya more details about it.

For work, I do a semi physical job that keep me in decent shape. Not a good lookin shape by all means, but some muscle and little fat. After work, I either take a nap which is what I have been doing recently, or just play some games on my computer. I'm currently on my fix of modded Minecraft. The pack is called mideval mc forge 1.20.1 if interest peeks ya. I tend to play range, spellcaster, support rolls in the games I play. There are certain niche games where I'll tank. But after games, I just go to bed and start the cycle all over again.

I like being at home but my go to excuses are; I'm tired, going out is expensive, and dont got the money. I honestly would not mind going out with someone as long as it does not cost me to much money every time. Oh, and id prefer a 50/50 split if possible. I dont quite have the financial freedom yet to pay for absolutely everything this early in my life.

And about my preferences. How do yall say what you like in a person without feeling like a arrogant duce. I dont want to sound mean, but I also want to say what I like in a person. Physical characteristics are especially hard, because I want to say what im attracted to, but it always sounds so mean when I write it out. Anyway, forgo the shame and I'll explain it im more detail here.

Id like to be with someone who takes care of their body. Not under weight, not overweight. Just realized the goldilocks thought. anyway, I dont expect perfection. Nobody will ever be perfect, and that's fine. Just try to be healthy sometimes.

As for why I prefer asian. I dont really know, I probably watched to much anime growing up or somthin. I mainly notice the eyes. Both the girls and dudes. its hard to say why, but man, some people's eyes.. gorgeous.

As for a style I am attracted to. It does not matter to me as much as being healthy, but I'll say it here as well. I like alt/goth, but not heavy makeup full chains and spikes things. Just dark accents, clothes with a bit of other colors. Like staring into a galaxy. Its mostly black, but its got some pretty colors in it.

Feel free to be harsh or say hateful things if ya wana. I dont know how bad this post will be. But if you stayed to read all of this, thank you. Chat me up if I seem mildly interesting. say chimpkin nugget if ya wana text or game. Id prefer games tbh, so far texts feel like interviews and not good interactions.

I'm a service sub who does best with rules, not vague vibes. I want a dynamic with real structure tasks, expectations, consequences not just a title. Chores and errands, handled without being asked twice once I know how you like things done.

Occasional shopping trips — picking up whatever you need, running things over, covering the cost when appropriate.

Occasional Gifts beyond that too, because generosity is part of how I show respect. Genuine effort to be useful, attentive, and low-maintenance day to day.

Fair warning: I have a brattish streak. I might push back, test limits, or "forget" something on purpose just to see what happens. I don't do this to be difficult — I do it because I want someone who'll actually follow through on correction instead of letting it slide.

**What I'm looking for:**

Banter Bonus if you can handle a Brat :3

Discipline that matches the crime :3

Hi all. I'm 36NB Male, looking for F or NB, located in Toronto.

Ideally looking for someone in Toronto or Canada, but open to talking to folks long distance if there sounds like a match 🙂

I am non binary leaning and not into traditional gender roles.

I'm currently looking to find something more serious dating and relationship wise. Ideally looking for an eventual nesting partner, or anchor partner in whatever dynamic that might be. (monog, poly, enm, etc)

I'm a big fan of nights out as well as a cozy cuddly night in. I love horror movies, video games and role-playing games, as well as museums, drag shows, art, karaoke and the like. I really enjoy EDM shows, raves, and dancing. I love being creative, and often bounce around different art projects, and new crafts.

I usually describe myself as an Ambivert. I get a lot of energy from my friends but sometimes I just need a night in to relax and unwind, which I enjoy even more with another person.

I'm currently actively taking improv classes and recently had my first ever burlesque debut, and also separately a drag debut too.

Hope to get to talk to and meet some of you all soon!

**Looking for**: Someone who really loves touch and physical contact, especially cuddling, hand holding, affection, etc

I love having a partner who enjoys doing stuff together (shows, art, raves, movie nights) but where we also have our own hobbies and friends too.

I'd love to find someone who is comfortable being the big spoon and who enjoys taking the lead in certain situations. Someone kink friendly. (I'm happy to talk about this more, I try to be an open book so I am happy to answer any questions 🙂)

Happy to share pics or more information! (DMs open!)

Hi! I’m a childfree woman based in the NY area, open to long-distance if the connection is actually good. I’m looking for something serious and intentional—not a situationship, not “let’s see where this goes” forever.

I work in marketing/publishing, so books are very much my thing—especially romance, fantasy, and mythology. I’m creative, a big reader, and I love good conversation, stories, and people who get excited about their interests. I’m also a gamer but i do actually get outside and have a life beyond that lol

What I’m looking for:

• Childfree, obviously—firmly, not “maybe someday”

• Also looking for a serious, monogamous relationship

• Employed and driven, with goals and some direction in life

• Creative or at least creatively curious: writing, gaming, film, music, books, art, whatever your nerdy outlet is

• A genuine book lover is a huge plus

• Kind, emotionally mature, funny, and able to hold an actual conversation

• Attractive to me—put-together, has his own style, takes care of himself, and is someone I’d genuinely be excited to go on a date with

I’m not looking for perfection or a checklist; I just want someone compatible, intentional, and fun to build something real with. If you’re childfree, have your life reasonably together, and can recommend me a book or rant about your current hyperfixation, say hi!

Tell me a little about yourself, where you’re based, and your current favorite read/game/show.

edit: I’m kinda realizing it might not be fair to ask people to connect blindly so I’ll just attach a pic of me so no one wastes their time.

Hi! I'm Noxx, and I'm looking for more people to hang out with/talk about creative hobbies with, and possibly game with. Mostly looking to get to know someone, but also open to seeing where things go!

Open to a relationship, but I am extremely demisexual and need time to get to know someone in order to determine if I'm interested.

I'm a singer-songwriter and amateur game dev (does RPG Maker count?) that enjoys writing poetry, short stories, and doing digital art.

Right now I'm playing Yakuza: Like a Dragon! It's my first Yakuza game and I'm loving it, I just met Nancy.

Other games I'm into include (but are not limited to) Elder Scrolls Online, Borderlands, Warframe, My Time at Sandrock, literally any otome game, Dragon Quest Monsters, Monster Hunter Stories, Digimon, Shin Megami Tensei, Pokemon, the Atelier series, Monster Rancher, Rune Factory, Harvestella, Fire Emblem, and Story of Seasons! I also recently decided to try the Persona series, and I'm still forming an opinion on that.

I really enjoy musical composition, and I post my stuff on SoundCloud (not that anyone's seen it lol). I mostly do piano waltzes, but I do the occasional orchestral piece - I also recently got into dabbling in alt pop.

I'm also into alternative fashion/music! If that's worth anything lol.

Right now I'm working on my first serious game project, and I've been really excited about it! I would love to talk about our projects together if we have this in common, or if you like visual novels/JRPGs/dating sims (it's an otome jrpg!) I could really use some feedback/someone to bounce ideas off of.

Looking for someone ages 23-32 with similar hobbies.

As for appearances, I'm not comfortable posting pics of myself due to privacy reasons but I'm willing to exchange pics privately once a rapport has been established!

I am southeast Asian, 5'6", and plus sized, but not morbidly obese.

Other fun facts about me:

-I collect stuffies!

-I game on PC, Switch, and 3DS

-I can't actually sing, I just do my own vocals for convenience's sake

-I am anti-genAI

-I am leftist

If you're still reading and want to chat, ask me about my "apple bottom jeans Ben Shapiro impression" to let me know you read everything!

Hellooooo ~ ^^
M29 here, I’m looking for something real and lovely.
Since I healed from my heartbreak I’d like to put my self out there to find the one for life 🤍

I’m a nerdy softie who loves playing video games in his free time, I am quite kind since I value respect a lot, very loyal and consistent, because I find it lovely to be in touch 24/7 and letting each other know about our life’s and share it together. 🤍
Also a very emotional and expressive Person overall :3
I can enjoy the quiet but also loud sides of life, be it getting lost in games, sharing laughs over silly things or Brainrot memes or having those deep conversations that actually mean something, or complaining about society xD
Even if we just sit together silently in a room, I value the presence together and I hope that you do as well 🤍

Since gaming is a big part of my life, I would love to find a Cis Woman who also shares that hobby.
I play games like Overwatch, Valorant, League of Legends, Hunt Showdown, the Division 2, Dead by daylight, and I’m a huge fan of the resident evil series O.O
Also not to forget my love for horror games, and some indie games casual people might not be aware of :D
I have manny other uninstalled games and am always interested to try something new :)

But more then that, I’m looking for something Mutual and genuine, an connection where we feel seen and valued, and also comfortable being our selfs.
I’m naturally attentive and gentle, once I start developing some interest I also become quite affectionate.
I appreciate a woman who carries herself with a bit of maturity, someone who knows how to care and also have ways to show affection, and also enjoys the lighter/ playful side of things, I also value a woman who knows how to put efforts into communication and keep conversations alive, I’m very easy to talk to and can talk about even the silliest things ~
My preference goes towards white woman :3
There is also a intimate side to what I’m looking for as well, but for me that always starts with trust and emotional connection first since I’m demisexual.
21+ please
I would also appreciate a more attracting and creative start for a conversation like things about you and your interest and thoughts rather then carrying the conversation replying to a simple „hi“

If you are someone who wants both a gaming partner and something that could grow into more, feel free to reach out.
I’m also there to listen if you need to vent and want someone who can be there for you 🤍
I Hope you have a wonderful day~

Hi all!

I’ve been having really bad luck with dating apps so I thought I’d try here. So here goes!

5ft 9 medium build, I recently lost 25kg and now trying to maintain general fitness and health. I’m certainly no gym buff.

I’m an introverted nerd, but I have a lot of time and attention to give to people. I’m naturally quite curious and like to really get to know someone. I’d say I’m generally the strong and silent type. I feel like I’ve got lots of love and attention to give, but no one to give to.

I do have social anxiety and struggle with meeting people. I am also partially sighted, having sight in only one eye, and get easily overwhelmed in busy or loud places. I thrive on 1-1 conversations.

I love music! It’s gotten me through some difficult times in life and can be so incredibly powerful. I’m also a gamer, tend to get lost in story driven games. Anything to do with tech, or fixing something, I’m your guy. Free IT support!

I’m always looking for an excuse to go out for a drive or walk too, trying to get back into photography and nature. Massive foodie!

Ideally I’m looking for someone who also prefers a calm lifestyle, likes to explore new places but generally prefers a quiet night in over a busy bar. Preferably UK too!

Not going to put too much here as I don’t want to start rambling 😆

📍 26, South West UK
🐴 Biiiig animal lover
✈️ Starting to host group travel, would love a +1 to join me around the globe
💕 Value effort and intention, I am not nonchalant nor do I want that in a partner
📏 5ft4”, curvier build
📖 Full time employed and external student

What I fancy:

📍 Somewhat nearby (I don’t have the time for all the driving due to family commitments keeping me local) - NO OVERSEAS PLEASE
🏝️ Valid passport/willing to renew so you can join me on adventures
👨🏻 Full heads of hair, bonus for modern mullets and/or a moustache
✨ Taller than me, average/fit/larger builds
🙅‍♂️ Not afraid of a woman with a big personality

Please message me telling me about yourself!! Unfortunately a “hey” is repetitive , disengaging and will not be replied to 💔 like I said - no nonchalance in this town 🙇🏻‍♀️

Hey, thanks for clicking on my post, I’m 29 and from England UK, I’m looking for something long term, consistent, and someone who’s willing to put in the effort to keep a spark ignited!

A bit about myself? I’d say I’m quite the nerdy/easy-going guy, like most men I enjoy gaming (nothing serious) just a way to socialise and chat with friends! I love anything horror related and with Halloween coming its my favourite time of year, for work I’m in telecommunications as a senior store manager so I like to think I have a stead head on my shoulders but I mean hey.. you be the judge? When I’m not working I tend to just chill honestly, whether that be attending to my incredibly unhealthy addiction to Lego (it’s bad haha) or maybe meeting up with some friends and grabbing some food or seeing a movie, I’m really not the partying type of man, actually I’m quite introverted and shy at start, but get to know me and I’m sure you’ll see the goofball side of me haha, I’m only childfree by choice, and not looking to change that

Honestly, I’m not too sure what to expect from this, just throwing myself out there and seeing what comes of it, distance isn’t too much of a big deal for me given I’d like to get out and about from the UK, older or younger also fine, I just want to meet someone who’s genuine, kind, open and honest, and who isn’t going to just ghost after a few days 😅😅

I’ve rambled a lot here and don’t wanna give too much away, if any of this interests you then ping me a message and I look forwards to hearing from you 😊😊

Thanks for reading my posts.

As you read, I kinda love to drink and found listening to music little flat and plain now. I would love to have someone whom I can talk with during my drinking session. But, don't worry, I do talk nice also even on normal days.

I have been single for 2 years and over that period, I see myself ready for something special again.

In terms of age, I prefer someone at least 25 years old. I am 27 now. I prefer also someone who is good to talk and knows how to initiate conversation. Please no NSFW, I would love to know people and maybe someone here beyond physical.

Again, I am 27. Stand 5'2. Normal weight and little active in life. I exercise thru biking, jogging and sometimes hiking or mountain climbing.

Just message if you think you're good and good to talk to. Waiting for you.

✨

Hey there! I’m Jae, 31M, South Asian, and based in Manchester however you can be from anywhere in Europe.

Appearance-wise, I’m a bit on the bigger side, and personality-wise, I’m naturally an introvert and on the quiet side at first. But once we click and the vibe feels right, I completely come out of my shell, warm right up, and can happily chat for hours on end about anything and everything!

A bit about my lifestyle and hobbies:

Gaming: Big fan of settling in for a good gaming session.

The Outdoors & Walks: Love getting outside, going for long walks, and exploring new places through travel.

Shows & Anime: Always down to get lost in a great show, anime, or movie.

Music & Family: Listening to good music is a daily must, and family holds a really important place in my life.

I hold no grudges with anyone, keep things low-drama, and live life with a positive, open mind.

What I’m looking for:

I’m genuinely here to find my person and build a real, meaningful connection. I’d love to meet someone who relates to this lifestyle, someone who appreciates quiet cozy moments as much as great conversations, values family, and is interested in taking the time to see if we naturally click.

If any of this resonates with you, feel free to drop into my DMs! Tell me: what’s a show, game, or song you’ve been loving lately? 😊

Hi everyone! 👋

I’m a 40-year-old guy from Turkey with a background in accounting. I’m currently taking a break from work, which has given me more time to do what I love most: exploring.

About me:

I love nature: hiking, quiet landscapes, and getting away from the city

I’m passionate about cultural trips: historical places, local food, and learning how people live in different parts of the world

My favorite cities so far: Ohrid (North Macedonia) for the lake and old-town charm, Belgrade (Serbia) for its energy and nightlife, Veliko Tarnovo (Bulgaria) for its stunning medieval hillside views, and Istanbul, my home country’s endlessly fascinating city

I’m open-minded, honest, and a good listener

Love and passion matter a lot to me. I believe a relationship should be built on genuine feelings, emotional depth, and a real meaningful bond

I see spiritual and physical fulfillment as equally important in a relationship. For me, a deep emotional connection and real chemistry go hand in hand

What I’m looking for:

A woman 18+ from anywhere in the world, of any culture or faith. I respect every background and belief, and I have no upper age limit

A meaningful, lasting connection rather than something superficial

Someone who values both emotional closeness and physical intimacy, and is open to building both over time

Someone who enjoys deep conversations as well as light, fun chats

Shared curiosity about travel, nature, and different cultures

Mutual respect, honesty, and consistent communication

I’d like to start with friendship and conversation and see where it naturally grows, whether that’s a long-distance relationship or something more. If this sounds like you, send me a DM or comment below with a little about yourself, your favorite place you’ve traveled to (or dream of visiting), and what you’re looking for. I’ll reply to everyone who shares a bit about themselves. 😊

Muslim woman living in Canada. A lot of my life revolves around research, so I’d love to meet someone who can give me a reason to close my computer sometimes. 🤪

A little about me:

I grew up in the Middle East (Saudi/Qatar) before moving to Canada, and I’m curious by nature and a bit introspective. I appreciate a good sense of humour, intellectual curiosity, affection, and the kind of connection where you can talk about something meaningful one minute and be completely unserious the next.

I love travelling and experiencing different places and cultures, and I’d love to meet someone who shares that interest. I’m also starting to get into gaming, so recommendations are very welcome! Consider this your opportunity to introduce me to your favourite games. Just be prepared to explain things to a beginner. Bonus points if you’re patient enough to teach me. 🎮

What I’m looking for:

Ideally, something long-term with someone gentle, emotionally mature, kind, consistent, humble, down to earth, and intentional about relationships. Someone who communicates openly and understands that reassurance and mutual effort are part of building something healthy.

Someone who wants to know me as a person rather than making assumptions about who I am.
My faith is also important to me, and I’m looking for someone whose values and long-term vision are compatible with mine.

Dealbreakers:

Addictions or regular substance use, including smoking, vaping, drinking, and drugs. Racism, colourism, or a family that holds those views. Lack of initiative, dishonesty, misogyny, controlling behaviour, poor communication, lack of curiosity and drive.

I’m also someone who needs and appreciates their alone time, so having your own interests and passions is attractive. Being able to talk through disagreements without turning them into a competition is even more attractive.

If you message me, tell me a little about yourself beyond your age and location. What are you passionate about? What are you currently working on? What game would you recommend to someone just getting started? Or what’s something you could talk about for hours?

I’m open-minded when it comes to age, and also open to closing the distance if we click.

Let’s see if we get along :)

Hello my names Chris, A little bit about myself I’m 6’0 165-170 pounds lean. I’m more of an introvert/homebody but I do enjoy going out on a good day. I’m more of a listener than a talker unless it’s something I’m passionate about than I’ll yap lol. I do my best to be kind 24/7 and try to look at things in a positive way as I try not to take life too serious and avoid stress.

A few of my interest are

-I enjoy Cooking 90% of what I eat I usually cook I don’t eat out a lot. Note I usually follow a gluten and dairy free diet 99% of the time but if I’m on vacation or its a special occasion I’ll eat it.

-I enjoy movies and Anime some of my personal favs are eighty 86, Frieren beyond journeys end and My hero academia. I also love Star Wars and Hunger games.

-I enjoy Video games, but in moderation not an addict. some of my favourites are JRPGs, Halo and black desert online.

-I love classical music/instruments currently learning piano use to play violin and guitar is on the bucket list someday

-I’m also really into the Gym I go 5-6 days a week just to stay fit and keep the body healthy. Health over wealth Is a motto I live by.

-I also enjoy museums/art gallery’s and the symphony, things of those nature but I’m always down to try new things besides sky diving I’m good 😂

-I grew up a Christian but religion doesn’t matter to me and I’m not heavy into politics but last election I voted liberal

-I am already snipped, so I’m 110% child free no changing my mind

-I also own a toy poodle so you have to like animals especially dogs.

What I’m looking for-

I don’t have a checklist so I’m not picky obviously mutual attraction is important and long distance can work if the connection is there. Ideally id like for us to have a few things in common because i believe sharing hobbies or interest are key to a healthy relationship.

I personally want someone that easy to communicate with, kind and doesn’t take life too serious. I’m not aiming to become a millionaire so I don’t really care what your career is money comes and goes. Whats important to me is can we work together and enjoy life, especially the little things. Id also wanna travel the world with my partner lots of places on my bucket list.

I think this is a long enough, if you wanna chat leave a message or shoot me a DM🙂.

Hey everyone! 21F from IL. I figured I’d put myself out there and see if I could meet some like minded people around my age, whether that’s making friends or potentially finding someone I click with.

A little about me: I’m finishing up my bachelor’s in cybersecurity this December. I’m hoping to start a career in law enforcement early next year.

I’m a pretty active person. I love going to the gym, running, swimming, doing Brazilian jiu-jitsu, and going shooting whenever I get the chance. Fitness is a big part of my life, and I really enjoy staying active and challenging myself. Music-wise, I listen to pretty much everything, but some of my favorites are Deftones, Staind, and Linkin Park. My music taste is all over the place though.

Personality-wise, I’d say I’m pretty laid-back, independent, and somewhat introverted. In groups, I’m usually more of a listener and observer, but I can definitely talk when my social battery allows it. I love having deep conversations about pretty much anything and hearing different perspectives. I also have a dark sense of humor, so you’d have to be a certain type of person to appreciate it lol. I love joking around and don’t take everything too seriously.

I enjoy my alone time and having my own space. I’m not someone who needs to constantly be around people or talking to someone 24/7, but I do enjoy good company and spending time with people I actually connect with.

Lifestyle-wise, I don’t drink, smoke, or party. It’s never been my thing. I’d much rather go to the gym, grab food, go for a walk, try something new, or just hang out. I believe in God, but I don’t practice an organized religion anymore. Politically, I don’t really identify with any party or keep up with politics much. I just believe in human rights for everyone and treating people with respect.

I’m 100% childfree and have absolutely no desire to ever have kids. Marriage is a maybe with the right person.

What I’m looking for:

I’m hoping to make friends, but I’m also open to meeting a guy if we happen to click. As far as dating goes, I’d prefer a man between ages 21–25.

As for guys, I definitely have a type lol. I prefer taller guys (5’10”+), who are fit and take care of themselves. Healthy habits are honestly one of the biggest things I look for. I want someone who works out, eats fairly healthy, prioritizes sleep, and has a good routine overall. You don’t have to live in the gym or eat perfectly, but I want someone who genuinely cares about his health.

I’m not interested in guys who spend all day playing video games, or just sit around doing nothing. Nothing wrong with gaming occasionally or staying up late here and there, but I don’t think I’d be compatible with someone whose lifestyle revolves around those things.

I’d also want someone who doesn’t drink, smoke, or party. Religion-wise, I’d want someone who believes in God, although he doesn’t necessarily have to be religious. I don’t think I’d be compatible with an atheist.

Personality matters a lot too. I like guys who are mature, honest, independent, have goals, and can hold a conversation. I love deep conversations, but I also want someone I can joke around with and be completely unserious around. Someone who has his own life, hobbies, and interests but still makes time for the relationship.

A big plus if you’re in law enforcement, firefighting, or another first responder field. I’d prefer someone in one of those careers since I’m pursuing law enforcement myself. I think it’d be nice to be with someone who understands the lifestyle, schedule, and demands that come with the job.

I’m not interested in hookups or rushing into anything romantic. I’d much rather get to know someone naturally, almost like friends first, see if we actually get along, and let things develop from there. I’m not into all the romantic gestures and expectations when we’re practically strangers.

And obviously, being childfree is nonnegotiable. I don’t want kids, and I wouldn’t want to date someone who’s unsure or thinks I’ll eventually change my mind.

I know this was a bit long lol sorry! but I figured I’d give a decent introduction. If you’re around my age and think we’d get along, feel free to reach out!

Hi! I’m a 39-year-old childfree woman living in NYC. I work remotely and am open to meeting someone in NYC, the tri-state area, or elsewhere in the Northeast.

A little about me: I love reading, writing, art, museums, films, and exploring interesting places. I’m an introvert and enjoy a mix of quiet nights in and getting dressed up to go somewhere nice. I’m curious about the world and appreciate people who have their own interests, perspectives, and things they’re passionate about.

I’m flexible on age range, dating someone younger or older.

I’m looking for a man who is thoughtful, intellectually curious, affectionate, and comfortable being himself. Someone who enjoys talking about ideas but doesn’t take himself too seriously, who can be playful and passionate, and who genuinely enjoys getting to know the person he’s dating.

Chemistry matters to me. I’d love to meet someone I’m excited to see, attracted to, and comfortable being close to, with mutual enthusiasm and affection. I’m open to seeing where a connection goes when the attraction and compatibility are there.

If this sounds like someone you’d enjoy getting to know, feel free to reach out and tell me a little about yourself. I’d be happy to see where a conversation goes.

Goth gamer girl w/ tattoos, piercings, & a love for video games, youtube gamers, art, music, makeup, food & more. Looking for someone who enjoys gaming, quality time, has a good life & goals. I am looking to eventually go elsewhere and want a serious longterm relationship. (Preferably Washington, Oregon, Colorado, San Diego, or New York. But regardless I am open to meeting anyone who fits well with me.) I play tons of open-world, RPG, multiplayer, co-op, and cozy games. I am looking to better my life, my future, my self. I wanna be on the same page as someone else and build a strong connection. I have a cat that’s my baby so if those are a deal breaker then move along. I love animals and would definitely like to own reptiles, rodents, birds & more. Gaming is extremely important to me and something I would eventually like to make a career out of. I have never been married & no kids.

Current games:
• Once Human
• Repo
• Simulator Games
• Aniimo

Current shows:
True Blood (rewatching)
Fallout (just finished season 2)
Once Piece live action (on season 2)
Stranger Things (have 1 last episode)
Tulsa King (finished)
Only M\*rders in the building (waiting new season)
Wednesday (finished)

Last movies watched:
27 dresses
Just go with it

Favorite movies:
A Knight’s Tale
Hercules (Disney)
Velvet Goldmine
Twilight Series
Harry Potter Series
Pirates of the Caribbean Series
7 Psychopaths
Return to Silent Hill
Spirit (Animated)

Outside of gaming, I like YT & TV shows. I don’t watch movies often, but the occasional one is fine. I’d prefer someone 30+ but over 25 is fine. I am not the typical religious type nor looking to be with anyone who is. I’m a Pagan Satanist & believe in science and spiritual things. I don’t personally care what someone’s religious beliefs are but I typically tend to stick with non religious people & people of similar beliefs. I’m looking for someone who is LGBTQ+ friendly, mental health aware & advocate, pro choice, isn’t a narcissist & is patient, kind, loving. I enjoy genuine connections, consistency, intelligence, charm and having someone to enjoy games, conversations, shows & everyday life with. A well rounded nerd with a good career who takes care of themselves.

If you don’t like goth girls, curves, tattoos, piercings, mental health, & aren’t understanding, patient, educated, or an open person. I suggest not replying. Nobody is perfect but having someone who wants to get better is better than someone who doesn’t care to at all. I like to be realistic and I am fully aware every human comes with their baggage and needs to heal.❤️‍🩹

Time Zone: PST

Please don’t send a single sentence or just “hi.” Tell me a little about yourself and what games you’re currently enjoying, hobbies, interests, job whatever works.

Hi! 40F here, originally from Hong Kong and currently living here. I’m divorced and have been on my own for the past 3 years. I don’t have children and am hoping to meet someone who also enjoys a childfree lifestyle.

I own a business and am semi-retired, so I have a little more freedom to enjoy life outside of work. I love travelling (always happy to discover somewhere new), cooking, reading, exploring different places, and trying good food. I enjoy learning about different cultures and can happily get into a thoughtful conversation about life, experiences, or whatever interesting topic comes up.

I’d describe myself as independent, open-minded, and someone who values honesty and a good sense of humor. I appreciate people who can communicate openly, be themselves, and enjoy the little things in life.

I’m hoping to meet a kind, emotionally mature man between 40 and 50 who is childfree and interested in building a genuine, long-term relationship. Someone who values trust, mutual respect, affection, and spending quality time together rather than playing games.

I’m open to distance if we connect well and share similar values. Ideally, we’d both be willing to figure out how to close the gap if things develop naturally.

If this sounds like your kind of connection, send me a message! Tell me a little about yourself, where you’re from, and what you enjoy doing. Let’s talk and see where it goes.