I’m a 17-year-old guy, and I’ve always identified as straight. Over the past couple of years, though, I’ve started checking out guys as well.

To be clear, I don't really feel sexually attracted to them in real life, meaning I wouldn't want to actually hook up or have sex with a guy. But watching a guy on his own, like je****g off, does turn me on a bit.

I’m definitely attracted to girls, but I’m really shy and have never been in a relationship. Because of that, my friends tease me and tell me I’m gay. I honestly don't know why, but they claim that anyone who looks at me would just assume I'm gay.

At this point, I don’t even know what I am anymore. Am I bisexual, or is this something else?

Over the years, I’ve realized I like both men and women but never labeled myself. I have a big crush on my friend Kana. We’ve been friends for years and sometimes share quick kisses, not full makeouts. She says, "I don’t get why kissing is always seen as romantic when it can just be friendly" which makes me feel really guilty for having these feelings. I love her so much and just want to be in her arms always. I think its so beautiful and can feel more like real love with two females who understand eachother..

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I'm bi and now in relationship with a gay man. He is kind to me and understands me, and I love him—but we only ever talk when I reach out first. Because of this, I feel like I’m begging for his attention; sometimes he won’t reply to my messages for 6–8 hours. I don’t need him to text me constantly or respond immediately, but it would mean a lot to me if he initiated the conversation at least occasionally. I’m hesitant to bring this up with him, though, because I’m afraid it might lead to the end of our relationship—and I don’t want to lose him. I don't want to look too demanding. Need your advice

here is mine for today first image unrelated btw. (also I just think Melanie is cute yall)

How am I a 1% poster all I do is talk about politicians i find hot

Hi im pan and i need your help because , i need a new name thats not gender specific so if u have any ideas please tell me

SOOOOOOOO, what do I do when I'm dating a male. I am a Bi male, dating a guy and want to show affection and closeness, without it being too obvious. Help meee plzzz.

Quick context : A few months ago, i confessed my feelings to my best friend, he rejected me, bcs he is hetero, and i stopped imagining things and taking everything as signs.

Atleast thats what i try to do, bcs since the rejection day, my love for him just kept growing, until a point where during 1 week, i could literally not think abt anything else as him.

I did stopped taking anything as a sign, bcs he clearly told me it wasnt, but i still imagine scenario, before sleeping, in class when im bored, when listening to music... I still think a lot abt what would happen if he said yes.

Today we hung out after not seeing for months (he was rlly busy, and we're not in the same schools anymore) and every time he would jokingly grab my thigh, touch my face or me removing the rocks (that i put myself in his hairs) i would think about it even more, even tho i know its purely a joke and he doesnt actually love me.

But the worst part was when he told me about a girl in his class. He said that they were flirting a lot, hugging, hanging out, complimenting each others, they also have lots of things in common, and instead of being genuinely happy for him, i was mainly actually happy for him, but about 26,8449% of myself was just jealous of his girl, and when i walked home alone (home alone reference ?) i kept on thinking horrible stuff like "why does she deserve him but I dont" "its unfair" and things like that.

I am ashamed of myself, as his best friend I should just be happy for him and move on when he rejected me, but i simply cant, i tried rlly hard, but i cant do it.

Any advices or anything for me to see him as a friend, and nothing more ? Its starting to get painful :')

I made it on the app: Emoji Creator Studio. For some stupid reason there is no fucking bi emoji so.... :)

I always thought I was straight. I had a girlfriend. And i really liked her.

But i'm realizing i get really attracted to some guys and accepted i'm bi.

How do i know for sure if i'm bi.. or maybe actually gay.. ?

I love bi guys and they're in larger numbers if I overheard conversations at my school correctly.

How do I pull a bisexual guy? Please I want to know, but I'm not social at all so I think I'm cooked

So in middle school I had my very first crush on a girl. My BEST friend from 6th grade. We met and talked about our favorite shows and wlw ships at the time (Amphibia was the show we talked about the most, then it was toh) and I started wanting to be around her. Because of amphibia I figured out it was ✨ok not to be straight✨ and started questioning hard. My gaydar was probably fried at the time but I swear at times she would flirt with me or maybe she was nice? At the time i was just a lil bby bi-con, and I didn’t know how to deal with it as a person with a religious upbringing (i’m still religious as i don’t think it’s god’s fault people use him to be bigots but let’s leave that for another day) and I panicked. I literally told her my parents didn’t want us to be friends (which was half true, they found out about my crush on her and my mom was lwk pissed) and she was confused because they literally adored her (especially my mom) whenever we gave her a ride or hang out. But I was stupid and scared and told her not to talk to me. To this day i regret it. She didn’t deserve that at all. At. ALL. I’ve been contemplating trying to reapproach her since dana terrace made kog (glitch fans where u at!!) and i know which school she goes to since it’s near mine. I have a friend there and we were planning to go to a game there and I’m hoping I run into her so badly. I’ve had so much trouble with friends being so toxic and I miss her so much, I did her wrong and I want to reconnect so badly and apologize for being stupid and dumb. We made up by the end of middle school but never got each others number as i didn’t have a phone. Should I go in hopes of seeing her? Am i being selfish and stupid and desperate? PLEASE help me.

…What comes next? Just see how life goes as a bisexual? Cause I feel like I do wanna label myself as bisexual to my conclusion?

I think of the day when I'll come out to my parents. Makes me so anxious my bowels lowk give up. Works like magic ✌️

Okay so me and this kid K, everyone in the class doesn’t like him. Everyone jokes and kinda bullies with him. I however don’t, i mean i joke with this him but i don’t take it as far as everyone else. Basically me and him are pretty chill and we sit each other in digital art. But these 2 kids who sit to the side of me, well.

OHMYGOSHHH THEYRE THE WORST. They always annoy K and I’m the one hearing it. AND ALL THAT, they’re so homophobic.
“oh that’s so gay” “ew pride flags” “blah blah blah”

So me and K after PE class went to see our teacher and ask to move us. I did most the talking, and i ACCIDENTALLY CASUALLY SAID

“And you know I’m queer so hearing all that is just uncomfortable for me” I FORGOT K was there.

So after that me and him are walking out he said to me, “so are you actually queer?” I could tell he wasn’t homophobic so i said. “Yeah im actually bisexual and genderfluid”. AND HES AN ALLY???

i mean yeah i guess i knew he probs was, but still crazy. Since he grew up around christianity and all that.

After having that digital class last period AND THE TEACHER DID MOVE THE STUDENTS, GOATED TEACHER. I told K to not tell anyone, and he said and i quote. “I won’t it’s not mine to tell and you choose who you wanna tell”. GOSH THAT WAS SO SWEET.

Insane plot twist today holy moly.

anddd you can’t have both

mine is Steven and Connie and kirito and Asuna

Basically, for a few years I've told myself I'm straight, since I was raised in a conservative family and I knew I liked girls. However I've always liked boys a bit too, so I think i classify as bi-curious right now. I also have this gay friend who I kind of like. Would it be socially appropriate to tell him that I think I'm bi and have feeling for him? Or should I ease into it a bit more. Sorry I'm new to this whole thing so I literally have no idea what to do

I (13M) have wanted to experiment with the male side of bi sexuality for a while as in date a guy I know I am attracted to guys I just don’t know how to especially since in the place where I live (va) there is not any gay/bi men. and before you say try a dating sim no ai can’t mimic human emotions, I also have found it hard for me to figure out my ‘type’ for men, I would like it if they aren’t the typical jock men and more kind/caring plz help me Update:(one day later) so rember when I said I didn’t want to try experimenting with any of my friends or asking them out even though my friends are the only bi people I know unfortunately my emotions beat out my brain and I kinda sorta have a crush on my friend he’s bi I know that but like I just don’t know what to do I don’t want to be the one who makes everything awkward in our friend group again help’d be appreciated ill keep y’all updated throughout the next few weeks till there’s a resolution