I’m a 17-year-old guy, and I’ve always identified as straight. Over the past couple of years, though, I’ve started checking out guys as well.

To be clear, I don't really feel sexually attracted to them in real life, meaning I wouldn't want to actually hook up or have sex with a guy. But watching a guy on his own, like je****g off, does turn me on a bit.

I’m definitely attracted to girls, but I’m really shy and have never been in a relationship. Because of that, my friends tease me and tell me I’m gay. I honestly don't know why, but they claim that anyone who looks at me would just assume I'm gay.

At this point, I don’t even know what I am anymore. Am I bisexual, or is this something else?

Hi im 14 and really need advice… I am bi and still only came out to my bestfreind let’s call her Brooke and another friend lets call him Josh. Another friend of mine knows but that was kinda forced on me. So there’s my male best friend (let’s call h jack) and I really wanna tell him that I’m bi but im scared. For context we have been best friends for about a year (I know it’s not along time but we have bonded really strong) and I had a quite heavy crush on him to the point where I would sleep as much as I could on the weekends so I could see him at school on Monday. One time we had a sleep over and I told him about my mental struggles and my self harm and he accepted it and didn’t really judge with is a Miracle in my eyes. So I also wanted to tell him im by but im scared Josh who I’ve known for about 8 years reacted badly and our friend ship almost ended and I’m scared if I tell jack he’ll hate me and also tell everyone in my class and it’s given me terrible anxiety im scared Josh or Brooke will tell him on accident and he’ll end our friendship cause he’s mad I didn’t tell him. I’m really at a loss here and I wanted to ask for advice here. Also pls excuse my English I have some learning disabilities and English isn’t my first language. Thanks

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I'm bi and now in relationship with a gay man. He is kind to me and understands me, and I love him—but we only ever talk when I reach out first. Because of this, I feel like I’m begging for his attention; sometimes he won’t reply to my messages for 6–8 hours. I don’t need him to text me constantly or respond immediately, but it would mean a lot to me if he initiated the conversation at least occasionally. I’m hesitant to bring this up with him, though, because I’m afraid it might lead to the end of our relationship—and I don’t want to lose him. I don't want to look too demanding. Need your advice

here is mine for today first image unrelated btw. (also I just think Melanie is cute yall)

How am I a 1% poster all I do is talk about politicians i find hot

Hi im pan and i need your help because , i need a new name thats not gender specific so if u have any ideas please tell me

SOOOOOOOO, what do I do when I'm dating a male. I am a Bi male, dating a guy and want to show affection and closeness, without it being too obvious. Help meee plzzz.

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Hey, so this is something I've been thinking about for a while and I don't really know who to talk to about it.

I've recently started coming to terms with being bisexual, and over the past few weeks I've been curious about exploring that side of myself a bit more. Specifically, I'd like to get to know what it's like to have a closer, more intimate connection with someone of the same gender, but honestly, I have no idea where to start.

I'm not really looking to rush into anything or make a big deal out of it. I just want to figure things out at my own pace and maybe meet people who understand what I'm going through.

For anyone who's been in a similar situation, how did you approach this? Any advice on getting more comfortable with yourself and meeting people without putting yourself out there too much?

I'd appreciate any advice, just please be respectful.

Quick context : A few months ago, i confessed my feelings to my best friend, he rejected me, bcs he is hetero, and i stopped imagining things and taking everything as signs.

Atleast thats what i try to do, bcs since the rejection day, my love for him just kept growing, until a point where during 1 week, i could literally not think abt anything else as him.

I did stopped taking anything as a sign, bcs he clearly told me it wasnt, but i still imagine scenario, before sleeping, in class when im bored, when listening to music... I still think a lot abt what would happen if he said yes.

Today we hung out after not seeing for months (he was rlly busy, and we're not in the same schools anymore) and every time he would jokingly grab my thigh, touch my face or me removing the rocks (that i put myself in his hairs) i would think about it even more, even tho i know its purely a joke and he doesnt actually love me.

But the worst part was when he told me about a girl in his class. He said that they were flirting a lot, hugging, hanging out, complimenting each others, they also have lots of things in common, and instead of being genuinely happy for him, i was mainly actually happy for him, but about 26,8449% of myself was just jealous of his girl, and when i walked home alone (home alone reference ?) i kept on thinking horrible stuff like "why does she deserve him but I dont" "its unfair" and things like that.

I am ashamed of myself, as his best friend I should just be happy for him and move on when he rejected me, but i simply cant, i tried rlly hard, but i cant do it.

Any advices or anything for me to see him as a friend, and nothing more ? Its starting to get painful :')

I made it on the app: Emoji Creator Studio. For some stupid reason there is no fucking bi emoji so.... :)

I always thought I was straight. I had a girlfriend. And i really liked her.

But i'm realizing i get really attracted to some guys and accepted i'm bi.

How do i know for sure if i'm bi.. or maybe actually gay.. ?

I love bi guys and they're in larger numbers if I overheard conversations at my school correctly.

How do I pull a bisexual guy? Please I want to know, but I'm not social at all so I think I'm cooked

So in middle school I had my very first crush on a girl. My BEST friend from 6th grade. We met and talked about our favorite shows and wlw ships at the time (Amphibia was the show we talked about the most, then it was toh) and I started wanting to be around her. Because of amphibia I figured out it was ✨ok not to be straight✨ and started questioning hard. My gaydar was probably fried at the time but I swear at times she would flirt with me or maybe she was nice? At the time i was just a lil bby bi-con, and I didn’t know how to deal with it as a person with a religious upbringing (i’m still religious as i don’t think it’s god’s fault people use him to be bigots but let’s leave that for another day) and I panicked. I literally told her my parents didn’t want us to be friends (which was half true, they found out about my crush on her and my mom was lwk pissed) and she was confused because they literally adored her (especially my mom) whenever we gave her a ride or hang out. But I was stupid and scared and told her not to talk to me. To this day i regret it. She didn’t deserve that at all. At. ALL. I’ve been contemplating trying to reapproach her since dana terrace made kog (glitch fans where u at!!) and i know which school she goes to since it’s near mine. I have a friend there and we were planning to go to a game there and I’m hoping I run into her so badly. I’ve had so much trouble with friends being so toxic and I miss her so much, I did her wrong and I want to reconnect so badly and apologize for being stupid and dumb. We made up by the end of middle school but never got each others number as i didn’t have a phone. Should I go in hopes of seeing her? Am i being selfish and stupid and desperate? PLEASE help me.

…What comes next? Just see how life goes as a bisexual? Cause I feel like I do wanna label myself as bisexual to my conclusion?

I think of the day when I'll come out to my parents. Makes me so anxious my bowels lowk give up. Works like magic ✌️

Hey everyone, im just looking for some outside perspectives on a situation with my friend group and a close friend of mine. Im 14, male (cis, queer) and a freshman. I came out to my close friends a few months ago as bi.

Background: Earlier this year, my friend since like 6th were gonna call her "Maya" introduced me to two guys who were gonna call "Leo" and "Bobby" (both 14M), about 7 months ago. I ended up getting really close with Bobby and Leo.

Leo**:** Back in late March, I realized I had feelings for Leo and ended up confessing in April. He told me he was straight, and like a few days later he and Maya started dating. Even though he turned me down, Leo and I stayed close, and I'm completely over him now.

Bobby**:** Bobby knew about my feelings for Leo because i told him after i came out and bobby never treated me differently. He’s always been super low stress, chill, and supportive.

Key Moments: Things with Bobby have been a bit confusing recently and Idk just trying to figure out how to process it all:

1. The Questioning & Confession: While Bobby still had a girlfriend (who is actually a childhood best friend of mine), one night we stayed up till like maybe 3-4am texting and he explicitly told only me that he was questioning his sexuality essentially. I was super supportive but he literally said stuff like, "i dont care if im not yours but youre amazing dude i feel like i can talk to you about anything i love you."
2. The Rejection & Breakup: After that conversation i eventually developed feelings for him and confessed about a month later, he turned me down super sincerely. But then about a week later, he ended up breaking up with his girlfriend it was a whole thing. As far as i know he told her he "lost feelings" or "didnt feel the need to have a girlfriend atm"
3. The Sleepover Question: also over the summer during a sleepover w other friends, we were sitting in a separate room in silence, and out of nowhere he asked me: "How did you know?" He was asking how I figured out I liked a guy and how I tell the difference between a deep platonic friendship versus actual romantic feelings. He seemed to really think deeply and idk js reflect that was odd to me. (that happened before he told me he was questioning tho but whatever).
4. Validation: Even Leo (Leo and Bobby have been friends for like 3 years even before i met them, and leo and bobby are also pretty close) has mentioned to me before that he also questioned whether Bobby might be gay or bi, and kind of still does so I know I'm not just completely delusional for picking up on this.
5. Religion: Bobby and his family are pretty religious and he like oftentimes js points out how he does not think homosexuality is a sin etc.
6. Other: Now, me and Bobby also hangout a lot like 1 on 1 and have sleepovers yk but he doesnt seem to really act weird like in person like he'll just be completely casual. for example we went to the movies a few days ago and like the most unusual thing that happened id say is him just complimenting and asking about my jacket. So theres a lot of factors that make me think hes not into me.

On top of all that, Bobby doesnt seem to mind watching queer/BL media (like the anime given) when I recommend it to him, though I know that on its own doesn't always mean someone is queer. There was this one day he was talking about his geometry class and theyre currently on this unit of "proofs" where the teacher says "given" a lot and he said something that caught me off guard "dude every time he says given or writes it i swear to god i think of you". not inherently weird just idk intense seeming to me.

Anyways with all of that being said i obviously cant include everything but i think i did a decent job of summing it up. I dont really know what to do its been a little over 2 months since my confession.

Some thoughts would be appreciated..

Okay so me and this kid K, everyone in the class doesn’t like him. Everyone jokes and kinda bullies with him. I however don’t, i mean i joke with this him but i don’t take it as far as everyone else. Basically me and him are pretty chill and we sit each other in digital art. But these 2 kids who sit to the side of me, well.

OHMYGOSHHH THEYRE THE WORST. They always annoy K and I’m the one hearing it. AND ALL THAT, they’re so homophobic.
“oh that’s so gay” “ew pride flags” “blah blah blah”

So me and K after PE class went to see our teacher and ask to move us. I did most the talking, and i ACCIDENTALLY CASUALLY SAID

“And you know I’m queer so hearing all that is just uncomfortable for me” I FORGOT K was there.

So after that me and him are walking out he said to me, “so are you actually queer?” I could tell he wasn’t homophobic so i said. “Yeah im actually bisexual and genderfluid”. AND HES AN ALLY???

i mean yeah i guess i knew he probs was, but still crazy. Since he grew up around christianity and all that.

After having that digital class last period AND THE TEACHER DID MOVE THE STUDENTS, GOATED TEACHER. I told K to not tell anyone, and he said and i quote. “I won’t it’s not mine to tell and you choose who you wanna tell”. GOSH THAT WAS SO SWEET.

Insane plot twist today holy moly.

anddd you can’t have both

mine is Steven and Connie and kirito and Asuna