r/bigdicklovers • • 12h ago

38 [F4M] #SanFrancisco - Insatiable Filipina Nurse Seeking a Confident, Dominant Man NSFW

5 Upvotes

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38, Filipina, feminine, confident, and a little more adventurous than I may initially appear.

I’m a nurse by profession, but outside of work I’m drawn to a different kind of energy—the kind of man who is calm, confident, intentional, and naturally knows how to take the lead.

I’m looking for a masculine, dominant man who understands that true confidence doesn’t need to be loud. Someone who can hold a conversation, make me laugh, make me feel feminine, and create that delicious tension where neither of us has to wonder if the attraction is mutual.

I appreciate a man who knows what he wants but still values respect, communication, discretion, and genuine connection. Chemistry matters to me. So does the feeling of being completely comfortable around someone while still having that little spark of anticipation whenever he walks into the room.

I’m sweet, affectionate, playful, and very comfortable embracing my sensual side with the right person. I’m not interested in rushing into anything—I’d rather discover the connection naturally and see where the chemistry takes us.

San Francisco preferred. Mature, confident, respectful men only.

If you’re the kind of man who can lead without controlling, flirt without trying too hard, and make a woman feel both safe and desired, perhaps we should get acquainted.

Tell me a little about yourself—and what makes you think we’d have chemistry. ✨


r/bigdicklovers • • 19h ago

34 [M4F] #Online #San Francisco - Anyone into deep-voiced, tall and hung Asian guys? NSFW

2 Upvotes

Here's my profile:

  • Well travelled (41 countries so far, ask for any recs)
  • Foodie (always down to try eating anything)
  • I work in tech (Software engineer)
  • Former tennis player now getting into pickleball (I know I'm a little late on this lol)
  • I've got a deep voice and love sending audio messages
  • I have a Lovense Max 2 if you're interested
  • I've been told I have a way with words when sexting lol
  • Height: 6' 1"
  • Dick: 7"
  • Body: Slim-fit

I'm looking for someone to have some random chats with and occasionally get off together with.

Reach out if I sound like your kind of guy!

If you message me, please let me know your asl.


r/bigdicklovers • • 2h ago

38 [M4F] #SanDiego/Anywhere - Do you have an extremely high body count? NSFW

1 Upvotes

If so, be my wife? 🙃

I’ve dated some women with crazyyyy body counts over the years and it drives me absolutely wild for her.

We’re talking women with **hundreds** of notches in the ol’ bedpost and it had me like 😍😍😍

I’m looking for the real deal with a highly promiscuous woman. Marriage, family, eternal happiness, perpetual closeness.

I see three main types of women who might find appeal in this ad and there is room at the table for all of you.

  1. You’re a highly promiscuous woman who wants the stability of marriage and family, but you don’t want to quit your promiscuous ways. You want to be free to keep sleeping with other men as you please but you also want to move your life forward
  2. You’re a highly promiscuous woman who wants to “retire.” Choose one man. Settle down. Maybe in the depths of your soul that you haven’t yet admitted to yourself, you know you won’t be very excited about the kind of sex life you’d have with the kind of man who is marriage material.
  3. You don’t have a high body count - yet. But you want to change it, and you still want love and marriage and family. 

If this is you, I want to meet you.

For my part, I’m a cuck through and through. My ideal situation is that she’s psychotically jealous and possessive of me while she spreads her legs effortlessly for any man with a heavy dick who knows how to make her cum. The contrast of her freedom and her intense possession of me drives me insane.

I’m not interested in anything casual. If you’re attached, I don’t want to hear from you. This is NOT fantasy, this is NOT dirty talk (Clearing this up because I’ve recently gotten a spike of time waster DMs from people who evidently think people don’t find serious relationships here). 

I’m a hard-working, creative businessman who tends to pour himself fully into everything he does. I am highly ambitious and I’ve carved a very non-traditional path out for myself that I enjoy walking immensely. 

I’m an interesting mix of “dead fucking serious” and “light-hearted and goofy.” The takes will be piping hot and served at high volume. My scorn and contempt for weakness in other men is palpable. I’m your classic “pull yourself up by your bootstraps” type of conservative and am deeply content to let the losers who can’t do it starve. 

I bring an intense passion to my responsibilities as a man to my future wife and future children. I don’t do anything halfway, and family will be no exception. I will love you, provide for you, and obsess over you like it’s my job because it is. I am a born wife guy and the only thing missing is his wife.

If you’ve read this far, you should send me a chat and let’s get to know each other.


r/bigdicklovers • • 3h ago

Male for Female 70 [M4F] #IrvineCA - Visiting for a week, Take advantage of me while you can. NSFW

1 Upvotes

I am 70, in great shape with an athletic body and a BWC. I would love to meet and enjoy some time together with a F that has would love an experience with an older experienced man with a BWC. You be 18+ single, married, BF, GF, discrete, open, bring your BF/GF/Hubby we can play together or individually, I am straight so you get all my attention. I can travel to you and discretion is a given. I am chill, educated, fit, energetic, filled with experience to take it at your speed to make sure you are 100% satisfied. If you have not been with an older man with a long thick shaft such as myself, you don't know what you are missing. Take care, let's talk.


r/bigdicklovers • • 14h ago

Male for Female 36 [M4F] #Manhattan - visiting BWC - Random Acts of Amazing Handjob? NSFW

1 Upvotes

Going to be in town this weekend and I’m craving a slow, drawn out, expert-level cock massage worship session that leaves me feeling like a king.

Sometimes jumping into with a stranger just feels like a lot, and I’m sure your BJ technique is amazing, but for me, there’s nothing as relaxing, sensual and stress-free as a skilled stroking with hot massage oil. Plus, we can chat, make eye contact, and I can admire more of you than if your head was buried in my lap.

This is pretty open-ended, so I’m just looking to connect with someone who is into the general idea and take it from there… More than happy to return the favor, whether that is on your lady bits specifically or a general body massage.

Plenty of photos on my page, staying in Midtown Manhattan from Thursday to Sunday afternoon. If this interests you, let’s chat and see if we align!


r/bigdicklovers • • 16h ago

Male for Female 37 [M4F] #Boston #Providence - Nerdy, Shy, and Honest Guy Seeking Connection and Growth Well-Endowed NSFW

1 Upvotes

I ’ll try to keep this short, but I’m happy to open up more if you’re curious.

I’m 37, 5’8”, around 175lbs, and live between Boston and Providence. I’m your typical nerd—into conventions, gaming, horror, and comic book movies. I also hit the gym when I can, building muscle after growing up naturally skinny. Let’s just say I’m not small everywhere.

Life hasn’t always been easy. I had a rough childhood that made me extremely anxious and isolated. That carried into adulthood, and I didn’t go on my first date or have my first kiss until I was 30, in 2019. That dating experience, while meaningful, was short-lived due to circumstances out of both our control.

Since then, I’ve had little to no romantic or sexual experiences, despite doing everything I can to change that. Dating apps have been discouraging, and in-person connection is just as hard when you’re not the most outgoing guy. I’ve done therapy, pushed myself out of my shell, and made real progress—but the loneliness still lingers.

I’m not just here for hookups (though I’m not closed off to chemistry if it happens). What I want most is to connect with someone who gets it. Someone real, kind, curious, and maybe a little nerdy themselves. Someone who’s also tired of feeling stuck or alone.

This post is me putting myself out there—because I refuse to let another 35 years go by without love, adventure, or deeper connection. If anything here resonates, please don’t hesitate to message. You might be the exact person I’ve been hoping to meet.


r/bigdicklovers • • 17h ago

Male for Female 32 [M4F] #Online - Bwc looking for casual sexting and photo share NSFW

1 Upvotes

Nothing you haven't heard before. Guy with a big dick who likes showing it off. I'm also very active on Reddit with a few sexting partners and have excellent reviews 😉

I'm mainly into sharing myself, having fun and friendly conversation and going with the flow of whatever connection is out there. I take requests of what you want to see and am happy to measure or take a picture on demand. Open to anyone in a relationship whose partner wants to be shamed/outsized (a much more popular fetish than I realized!). Anyway send me a DM, I won't disappoint.