My Bengal just turned 15 this month! My husband has been wanting to add to our family for a couple years now and has been stuck between and pug or a Maine coon (I know very different options).
Context:
She grew up with her sister, who lived with us until about six years ago (she now lives with my sister), so she’s familiar with living with other cats and stays with her during holidays. We also fostered a litter of three kittens about a year ago, and she did pretty well with them when they were little, although she definitely appreciated having her own space.
She’s also had positive experiences with small dogs in the past, but it’s been quite a few years since then.
My biggest concern is that she’s not particularly dominant or assertive with other cats. She likes her routine, enjoys companionship, but also really values having her own space. I’m worried that introducing another cat, even as a kitten, could eventually cause stress as the kitten grows up and potentially becomes more territorial.
Part of me thinks a pug might actually be the better option. She would still have her cat-only spaces, like her cat tree and her own room, where she could get away from the dog whenever she wanted. I also wouldn’t have to worry as much about another cat getting into her food or competing for litter boxes.
On the other hand, I know she’s familiar with cats, and I wonder whether raising a kitten alongside her would make the transition easier and allow them to develop a bond over time.
We would be looking at either a puppy or a kitten, and we’d obviously take introductions very slowly.
I’m really torn because I’ve had this girl for all 15 years of her life, and her happiness and comfort are my biggest priorities. I don’t want to disrupt her senior years just because we want another pet.
Has anyone introduced a small dog or a Maine Coon kitten to an older Bengal? I’d love to hear from people with senior Bengals. Did your Bengal adjust well? Did you notice changes in their behavior or stress levels as the new pet grew up? Please share positive and negative experiences!