Hi! My name is Mia! I’m 19 and am a college student! About me: I like watching tv, doing schoolwork, reading, anything Star Wars, LEGO’s, playing video games, and running!

Other things about me:
- Favorite color is Pink
- Favorite movie is all the Final Destination movies
- Favorite show is NCIS
- Favorite food is Chicken Nuggets

Things I look for in a dom:
- Communicative
- Caring
- Knows what they are talking about
- Actually uses safe words (and know that they are a thing)
- Loves to talk (I love to yap)
- Is willing to teach me things I don’t know
- also is financially stable (I believe that it’s just a good thing)
- Also rules are important to me but just later down the line when we both are ready for a D/S dynamic!

I truly hope I can find a real dom instead of a fake one 🫶🏻!

- Mia :)

Read my profile for an overview of how I approach kink and dynamics, hope to hear from you x

As the title suggests, I'm a gentleman - experienced, confident, accomplished, seeking a partner who's been looking for someone to submit to. I'm seeking someone who may not be ready for TPE, but who when we are together, is eager to shut off her mind, and embrace being mine: my property, my possession - mine to shape, condition, use, and reward.

I will warn you in advance: I am married. Separate bedrooms, marriage of convenience at this point. Understood if that's a full stop for you. If not, please keep reading.

I think I'm a pretty good conversationalist, look decent, and am pretty fun to be around - I'm interested in science and technology, politics and political drama. I'm left leaning, but fiscally conservative. I like outdoors activities - skiing, boating, cabin country, bonfires - fall is my favorite season.

I'm 5'10", Caucasian. I have beard, short brown hair, blue eyes. I like ball caps, tshirts, jeans. I am a business person - confident, professional, and perpetually under stress.

In the bedroom: I have a wide and varied set of "interests" - bondage, that is to say restraints, blindfolds and the like - things that cement my control over you. I have an interest in, but no experience with, rope work. I like toys - forced orgasms, marathon sessions finding your limits - alternating between myself and dildos. I'm intrigued by things like the Bad Dragon product lineup. I like breasts and playing with them - nipple expansion, suction trainers, and sucking on them myself. Breeding of course requires trust, but is primally attractive. I'm snipped, so there's no actual pregnancy forthcoming, but I love the fantasy.

Complementing all of the physical things above, are the psychological: I really love the idea of training and conditioning my lover, shaping her, making her mine.

Many more things to unpack, and I'd love to hear all of your interests too.

I am not into inflicting pain, doing damage, or anything bathroom or blood related. I am weirdly reticent about anything anal. I'm not ruling it out, but beyond plugs, if anal is your thing, I'm probably not your guy.

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Why over weight? I was there once and I changed my life, and I want to change someone else’s life, but with an added kinky twist. Packaging hard work, exercise, rules, discipline under a training-focused dynamic would be exciting.

You suddenly will be held accountable for the workout schedule that’s made for you, for that walk that you neglected and sat at home watching netflix, everything will take a more interesting turn.

A win-win situation where you get back on track, enjoy the discipline journey and I get to enjoy what I love doing most, leading, taking control and help my woman achieve her goal.

No shaming, no judgement, no pictures, no videos.

Hii!

I’m a 36-year-old married dad with ADHD/autism, and I’m looking for a neurodivergent little.

I understand that my tendency to be direct/blunt or to ask a lot of specific questions doesn’t always land well for some people, but I know I can’t be the only autistic person who wants a warm, caring, and reciprocal ddlg dynamic.

My friends would probably describe me as introverted, self-aware, left-leaning, and easy-going. I think I also come across as earnest and a little insecure from my dry and slightly self-deprecating sense of humour.

As far as interests go, I'm into fantasy, sci-fi, D&D, board games, video games, anime, tv, podcasts, film, music, reading, writing, photography, travelling, mindfulness and meditation, psychology, and hiking.

Physically, I have an endearingly (?) lame alt-nerdy dad vibe going on. I'm short (5'3") with a dad bod, pierced ears, glasses, a beard, and tattoos.

As a daddy I’m on the softer/gentler side of the dom spectrum, so if you’re looking for someone to unilaterally impose rules or dish out punishment because they feel like it, I won’t be a great match. My approach has always been centred on the needs and preferences of my little rather than pursuing my own power trip, so you can expect a lot of collaboration where we both figure out what we want our dynamic to look like.

I'm also a fairly sexual person and would love a connection where sex feels ambient, cozy, or even mundane—where we can talk about sexual or kinky things as naturally as if we were chatting about what we had for breakfast. If you've been known to use "functional" in the same sentence as "cum" or some other equally provocative word, we might be a good match.

Although sexual chemistry is important to me, conversational comparability trumps everything else: similar communication styles, equal effort in conversation, etc.

If my post struck a chord with you, feel free to reach out ❤️

Hey, I ’ve recently figured out that I like it to cause emotional discomfort. There is something about asking intimidating questions and switching between being nice and caring to being demanding and verbally intimidating. I’ve heard on several occasions that I’m quite good at doing that and that I have a hot voice. I’d label this as being emotionally sadistic in some way.

At the same time I’m very rational and I know that this has to stay within certain boundaries so that we both can enjoy it.

Hence, I’m seeking a submissive girl who is into being treated in this way. I do like to give praise and I’m into edging and controlling.

About me: I’m 38 years old and quite tall. I’d say that I’m decently looking and physically in good shape. I look after myself in terms of workouts and nutrition. I’m very disciplined and decently educated.

I’m looking forward for your message! :)

I’m not looking for just anyone but I’m also not going to pretend I know exactly where something will lead before we’ve even met.

I’m looking for chemistry, connection, intimacy, and a dynamic that feels good for both of us. Maybe that means a short - term adventure. Maybe it becomes an ongoing thing. And if we genuinely click, I’m open to seeing where it goes from there.

What I’m not interested in is collecting scenes or treating people like disposable experiences. I’d rather meet one woman I’m genuinely drawn to and see what develops.

I’m 38, based in Europe, normal to stocky build and on the taller side (187cm). I have been in BDSM all my adult life and I know what I enjoy, but I’m much more interested in discovering whether we work than working of a checklist.

I’m naturally dominant and particularly drawn to women who genuinely enjoy surrender. Trust matters to me. So does chemistry. I like being the one in control, but I also believe good dominance starts with paying attention - learning your reactions, your boundaries, your tells, and what makes you feel comfortable enough to let go.

I like intensity, but I also like tenderness.

Being able to push each other’s boundaries while still feeling completely safe. The contrast between control and affection, anticipation and reassurance, intensity and simply being close afterwards.

And there’s considerably more to me than kink.

I’m outdoorsy - mountain biking, hiking, kayaking but I’m equally happy staying in with a terrible TV show, a good game, or just spending a quiet evening together.

What catches my attention is a woman who is curious, open-minded, affectionate, playful, and comfortable exploring what happens when two people are genuinely attracted to each other.

I like affection. A lot of it.

Holding hands. Teasing. Making you blush and giggle. Giving praise. Getting distracted by each other when we probably should be doing something else.

I want that feeling where a casual message from someone can unexpectedly make your day a little better.

Maybe we talk online for a bit.

Maybe we end up meeting in real life.

Maybe it becomes something neither of us expected.

I’m open to all three.

What matters is that there’s mutual attraction, trust, good communication, and enough chemistry that neither of us has to manufacture the connection.

So if you’re looking for a confident Dom who enjoys intensity but also knows how to be affectionate, and you’re curious about where a connection might lead without needing to define it immediately, say hello.

Just please give me more than “hey.”

Tell me who you are, what caught your attention, and what you’re looking for.

We can figure out the rest from there.

Dominant with more than twenty years of real-world experience in power exchange.
I value clarity, consistency, and follow-through. I have little interest in pure fantasy or endless online performance.
My approach is direct and structured. I set expectations, create protocols, and hold people accountable. Humiliation and financial elements are tools I use when they serve the dynamic, not as empty spectacle.
I’m looking for people who understand the difference between wanting to be dominated and actually being able to submit to direction.
I don’t do low-effort exchanges. If you message me, be prepared to introduce yourself properly.
Looking for:
• Men interested in structured dominance
• Cuckold dynamics with real direction
• Financial elements as part of a broader power exchange
• Online or long-distance arrangements with clear rules
Limits / Notes:
• No underage anything
• No illegal activity
• I decide the pace and the terms
• Respect is non-negotiable — in both directions