About the victim-blaming mindset of a huge number of Bangladeshis. (admin approve please)

[u/Sufficient_Solid323]

I've been noticing all r@ape and murder cases these past few months. For almost a year now. Whenever I see the comment section of people it always successfully ragebaits me. 70% people have such a terrible mindset that they think rape and murder is always the victims' fault. Since when saying "if someone gets raped or killed, the rapist or killer is 100% guilty, not the victim" has become a controversial opinion? I saw news of parents' killing their own children because they were in a relationship and people commenting things like "Alhamdulillah. Uchit shikkha hoyeche". They are so entitled towards women that they think one person can rape a girl just because she is wearing "immodest" cloths or she is in a relationship or she is just someone they do not like. They don't let boys alone too. After the news of Oprotim people started blaming him because he was friends with chapris or whatever. And the journalists are using this too. They make headlines like "Tobe ki nijer doshei khun holo tasnim?" like what the hell broo??? This is so frustratingg!! They literally put everything in the news, whether she had a boyfriend or not, what was she wearing or whatever. It should not be controversial that if a person gets raped or killed the victim is NOT GUILTY, always the rapist or killer is guilty. Since whenn people have become third-class?? And they always call themselves religious or whatever. Emn ee hobe etai jantam shedin theke jedin ekta meyeke niye baje kotha bola cheleke ora golay mala poriye jail thke ber kore enechilo. People don't even have a little bit of empathy or kindness. I won't be surprised if a big earthquake happenes and kills almost everyone cause we do deserve it. Children get raped, women get raped, little boys get raped, people get killed for no reason and we are blaming the victims and forgetting after a week and the people who commit crimes are roaming free.

[u/NI_ROB]

What a fucking sick environment this is 😑

Long ago there was news of a girl getting raped by her bf and his friends.

People's comments were like "uchit shikkha hoyeche" "alhamdulillah" "prem korte geche keno"

Even now, with the recent Cumilla incident, instead of asking for justice (which is not possible in BD) our concern is did she have a bf? How many days she stayed at Cox's Bazar?

This country is a joke.

[u/Bubbly_Persimmon_323]

And they turn a blind eye when madrasa kids get sexually assaulted or harassed.

[u/Sufficient_Solid323 → u/Bubbly_Persimmon_323]

for real. then they say, "onek somoy mittha kotha boleo fashano hoy". hypocrisy at its peak.

[u/No_Umpire9565]

fuck this country's people and their mindset

[u/toruk_makto_007]

They r so horny and jealous at same time it’s unfathomable resulting in blatant hate and abuse towards girls/victims…. Disgusting 🤮

[u/Sufficient_Solid323 → u/toruk_makto_007]

for real. all of them are porn addict horny men. that's why they even SA other men and animals

[u/toruk_makto_007 → u/Sufficient_Solid323]

There should be a horndog measurements on all devices so that they can’t post/react when required level is not met!!

[u/HyruleanKnight37]

Amader desh er beshirbhaag manush er mentality shob shomoy emon e chilo, what's changed in recent times is they now have access to social media. Apnar moton sushil chinta ei desh er 0.1% manush o kore na. The only solution is to wait until these people are slowly filtered out and new generations take over.

[u/Ancient_Tax5266 → u/HyruleanKnight37]

But the new generations are worse lol. Have you seen Gen Z's mentally? At least the millennials had the decency to marry after getting a job 

[u/Rude_Passenger_3859]

74.33 IQ

no self awareness

sexually repressed

patriarchal and chauvinistic attitudes.

এই দেশের বেডা মানুষদের জানোয়ার বললে জানোয়ারেরাও আপত্তি জানাবে।

[u/Sufficient_Solid323 → u/Rude_Passenger_3859]

factt. oshob men and ogula support kora women der sathe torko kora ar wall er sathe jhogra kora same

[u/Zunayed_Rahman]

There was a literal 13 year old who was fighting at the court for child custody and people were slutshaming her for being victim into child marriage, some even believe in rumours that claim that she is 18 years old when if you look at her face it's too obvious that she is a literal minor, but at the end of the day you can't convince people from a country with 74 average iq that how obvious it is that she is no more than 13-14

[u/ResponsibleWave5208]

এরা অনলাইন বট বাহিনী, right wing political পার্টির মদদপুষ্ট এই বাহিনীর সবার মন মানসিকতা একই ঘরানার। নারী, শিক্ষা, সাহিত্য, সংস্কৃতি, মুক্তিযুদ্ধ এই সব topic এই তাদের কদর্য ও গোঁড়ামি মনমানসিকতার পরিচয় পাওয়া যায়। তবে আমার মনে হয় এদের সংখ্যার অনুপাত অনলাইনে অনেক বেশি মনে হয় কারন এরা অনলাইনে সাধারণ জনগণের থেকে অনেক বেশি active (হয়তো এসব করার জন্য right wing থেকে এদের অর্থের যোগান ঘটে, তাই এতো activity), এটা অনেকটা নির্বাচনের দিনের মতো, যখন ফেসবুকে বিভিন্ন পোস্ট/কমেন্ট দেখে মনে হচ্ছিলো জামাতই নির্বাচনে জিততেসে, কিন্তু ভোট গণনার পর দেখা গেলো বিনপি দুই তৃতীয়াংশ ভোট নিয়ে জিতসে।

[u/Sufficient_Solid323 → u/ResponsibleWave5208]

election er kotha mone porayy ekhn amr ow same ee mone hocche. they get paid most probably ar oderke bola hoy je egula kora religious kichu ejnno kora kore. ar mindset ow emon hye gse.