r/amiuglytruth • • 10h ago

19. what can i change?

i’ve been thinking about getting lip filler to even out my lips since they’re asymmetrical. nothing crazy tho just to make them more symmetrical. what else?

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u/Chilb5 9h ago

i (29m) think the lip filler would not do you justice, you're good looking without it and they often look puffy and distracting

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u/remyish0 9h ago

okay okay I’m pretty hesitant about it anyway because i’m scared of it looking unnatural.

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u/FragrantBar9975 7h ago

lean into that feeling! asymmetries are what make a person look human. if you look at mirrored (or artifically symmetrical) pictures of celebrities they look bizzare and creepy. you have beautiful lips. gorgeos cupids bow. you dont need filler.

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u/remyish0 7h ago

thanks!! and you’re so right. i’m really thankful for these comments, they did really make me see things differently and rethink my decision☺️

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u/Shewman98 9h ago

Nothing be yourself and don't change for anyone

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u/zVook06 7h ago

Only if you want the relationships and your sanity to last should you listen to this person. Solid advice.

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u/Tom0023 8h ago

Reste natuelle et sourire. Tu es deja magnifique. La chirurgie va te rendre tres laide. L'asymétrie légère est un énorme bonus dans la vie. Cela s'appelle le charme.

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u/remyish0 8h ago

thank you! 💗

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u/Existing_Jury_6830 8h ago

🙂 no problem x

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u/Immediate-Cattle-573 8h ago

No joke you would look good in suits

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u/remyish0 8h ago

the way i was thinking about this the other day i really wanna buy one

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u/Immediate-Cattle-573 8h ago

High quality, premium stuff. Look second hand. No polyester. Wool, linen. Elegant. Your alternative vibe will work so well with this. Imagine a linen costume with simple converse. Or kneel boots in leather and a long mocka skirt.

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u/remyish0 8h ago

ty for the advice i’m gonna get on this asap!! 👀

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u/Bkrick81 7h ago

You don't have to change a thing about yourself. You're gorgeous as is don't let those intrusive thoughts win.

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u/stillnobodyet 7h ago

Please research the hell out of any medical procedure, voluntary or otherwise. Filler does not, as were often told, get reabsorbed over time. It just migrates, and it's shown on scans that it doesn't actually go anywhere and will change the shape of your face. You're 19. And a lot of the time people start with filler and don't stop. You don't need to change anything about yourself at all. These "flaws" you're noticing are because you're staring at your face trying to find an imperfection where there isnt one.

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u/remyish0 7h ago

yeah.. you’re probably right. i was pretty hesitant about it anyway so i think these comments have definitely changed my mind. ty!!

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u/stillnobodyet 7h ago

I'm so glad they have! Take care of yourself queen 😊

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u/remyish0 7h ago

you too! <3

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u/GuestPuzzleheaded502 7h ago
  1. Don't get fillers.

  2. Remove the piercings.

  3. Smile.

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u/Feeling_Coyote7214 9h ago

So fine. Jeez

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u/Fearless-Location325 9h ago

I love the look - flippen cute.

For feedback, I’d consider a tad heavier eyeshadow to open/frame eyes more - keep it polished and blended.

On the blush, suggest an angled contour rather than the natural rosy cheek.

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u/remyish0 9h ago

thank you!!

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u/Fearless-Location325 8h ago

Done super quick - but a subtle more balance in eyes, and more contrast in the cheek.

I’ve worked with top makeup artists and stylists for around 15 years (I’m a fashion photographer), and a look we often use is the “Chanel” look… it’s not as dramatic as a Smokey eye, it uses a more purple or bronze undertone and slight orange undertone on the cheek - but super blended.

Maybe something to play with.

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u/remyish0 8h ago

oh woah you made me look like a model i’m gonna take notes hahah. ty!!

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u/Fearless-Location325 8h ago

Pleasure! You remind me of an alt girl I shot last year, in ur aesthetic vibe. She had a nose ring (maybe that’s what stand out to me). I think ur jaw shape is similar too.

We used a similar bronze Smokey eye, and cheek contouring.

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u/cre8tive1967 9h ago edited 9h ago

Imagine waking up next to her with a severe hangover, the Bright Morning Light is shining across her clamy, harsh, makeupless face.... she scowles at you and demands brunch, and you think to yourself "oh sweet baby Jesus what have I done

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u/remyish0 9h ago

just a little bit uglier, i would say. i do have nice skin but i’m really pale so i use makeup to at least get some color to it😅

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u/remyish0 9h ago

PLEASEEE😭😭 SHSJSJS pretty accurate i would say

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u/Responsible_Gap_1805 9h ago

Smile goddamnit. For fuck sakes yall do yourselves zero goddamned help by looking pissed off in every picture

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u/remyish0 9h ago

IM SORRY IM SORRY

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u/medium_dumb 7h ago

The only thing I would suggest is actually look friendly. You look like you hate me

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u/remyish0 6h ago

nono i’m a nice person i promise😭😭 but i have been told i look intimidating and what not and having not great social skills probably doesn’t help😅 but i’m working on it

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u/medium_dumb 2h ago

I’m not saying have the biggest smile and be super friendly to everyone but just a tiny smile would make you look less annoyed. You are very pretty just an FYI

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u/confusedtransfag 6h ago

contour your face. cheekbones and nose I think. That just for pictures. everyday I think you look fine.

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u/cre8tive1967 9h ago

Attitude

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u/Existing_Jury_6830 9h ago

No your definitely not ugly your gorgeous but you probably scare a lot of people off because you look like your about to punch someone lol x

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u/remyish0 9h ago

SHSHSJSH GUYS I PROMISE I’M A NICE PERSON😭😭 i’m not punching anyone unless they deserve it

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u/PromotionShort7407 8h ago

Don't do it!!! Women with fillers look like aliens. When you age the face will shrink and thenlips will stay up in a creepy way. You don't really need it even, your lips are beautiful. I would say the only thing to change would be the unnecessary amount of make up

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u/remyish0 8h ago

okayokay thanks!

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u/Disastrous_Bed_5654 10h ago

Smile more!

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u/remyish0 9h ago

you’re right i just feel awkward smiling in pictures😅 looks fake

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u/SunnySidzUp 9h ago

Then smirk. Imagine if you knew the winning numbers for the state lottery and the person behind the camera doesn't know your secret.

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u/Disastrous_Bed_5654 9h ago

Just watch something you know genuinely makes you laugh. But the best photos IMHO are the candid ones that are taken at random.

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u/remyish0 9h ago

Yess true!

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u/Disastrous_Bed_5654 7h ago

Oh and… I know this is a very unpopular opinion, but I honestly prefer no make up and full natural hair. Drives me nuts.

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u/jhckr205858 10h ago

You’re lips are fine, you look good don’t worry

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u/Twaeis 10h ago

smile

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u/remyish0 9h ago

noted😇

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u/Puzzleheaded_Ad_2554 9h ago

Nothing. Those tiny details make you unique. You're already perfect.

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u/Grey-beard-177 9h ago

You’re beautiful, you don’t need enhancements, seriously xxx

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u/CompleteConstant5149 9h ago

Dont be so serious, i am sure you have a beautiful smile 😁😬

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u/Reasonable-Mood-6340 9h ago

Don't get lip filler. You're pretty just the way you are

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u/Batman_Gotham_1169 9h ago

That black stare type of glare bc it makes you seem unapproachable 

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u/remyish0 9h ago

okay ty😭😭 i’m just awkward in pictures

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u/Batman_Gotham_1169 9h ago

I mean tbh even with that stare I’d still approach but not all guys are into it

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u/remyish0 9h ago

at least it means whoever approaches me has confidence i guess😭😭 maybe it’s a good thing hahaha

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u/Batman_Gotham_1169 9h ago

Okay true you got me there that’s like the one thing I do have too much of I’m very confident in myself

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u/BeefCurtainSquirtin 9h ago

Change your filter so you don’t look like a ghost 🤮

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u/remyish0 9h ago

i don’t have any filters on in the first pictures at least, just taken with the back camera. not completely sure about the third one since it’s been a while since i took it😭 why would i use filters when asking for advice?

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u/OtherwiseAd7400 9h ago

Get that metal crap out of your face

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u/remyish0 9h ago

i knew someone would say this🥲 i fear it’s just a part of my style. i get that it’s not for everyone though

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u/Dapper-Major7455 9h ago

Smile !!!!!!

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u/Free_Usual_3480 9h ago

Why do you have a resting intimidating face

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u/remyish0 9h ago

i’ve been told this before and it sucks😭 cause i’m a really nice person

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u/Formal-Shoulder4959 9h ago

Caked up face

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u/flashdurb 9h ago

Having the confidence to smile and not use filters. Part of maturing is realizing that self confidence is sexier than how you look.

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u/remyish0 9h ago

i def don’t have filters on in the first two pictures!! not COMPLETELY sure about the third one since it’s been a while since i took it. you’re probably right about the smiling part though😅

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u/flashdurb 9h ago

If that’s true then you have great skin. So please, show off those pearly whites

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u/remyish0 9h ago

i do have nice skin, it’s just genes and I’m obviously still young😅 the only thing is that i’m very pale which is why i use makeup

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u/Small_Consequence320 9h ago

I choose smile more.

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u/nnlo_olnn 9h ago

I don t see your lips asymmetry. And they are enough pretty as they are. So i think you should not touch them.
If you want to change something, i should be inside you rather than outside.

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u/badword4 9h ago

Your lips are fine. filler will not be an improvement.

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u/Euphoric_Reporter287 9h ago

You’re so pretty!! I love your vibe 🩵

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u/Mountain_Recover_719 9h ago

Your attitude

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u/KamaradBaff 9h ago

For the love of god do nothing T_T

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u/Fitcoffeedude 9h ago

Confidence. You are already hot.

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u/remyish0 9h ago

working on it!

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u/Illustrious-Bet-9035 9h ago

Don't mess up the Picasso

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u/Maximum_Lemon_5247 9h ago

Your top and bottom lips aren't supposed to be the dame size.. Lip filler is a major bad idea..

My only advice would be to lose the piercing tbh cause you look fine

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u/remyish0 9h ago

okayy okay

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u/OkGuarantee531 9h ago

Nothing ur perfect the way u are

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u/redditdegenz 9h ago

Don’t change a thing! And personally I don’t see the issue with not smiling. I never really smile in photos.

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u/remyish0 9h ago

Yes exactly, it just feels awkward to me😅 I do smile in person though. Especially after getting told i look intimidating😭

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u/Money_Life8945 9h ago

I wouldn't change a thing you look gorgeous you have a beautiful face that has an elegant glow to it. I bet you look divine in dresses

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u/Joseruas38 9h ago

The only thing you can change and drop reddit and become the love of my life

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u/Living_Assistant_212 9h ago

Your lips aren't crooked your chin is. The center lip piercing really points that out.

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u/remyish0 9h ago

i’m aware but there’s no fixing that tho. without surgery at least

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u/Living_Assistant_212 9h ago

You still pretty id leave your lips alone just my opinion

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u/remyish0 9h ago

okayokay ty!

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u/under_gong 9h ago

Nothing symmetrical about you will make you any less interesting. Mind over matter.

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u/FishEyePlug 9h ago

Everything

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u/dre_valle 9h ago

Before I opened the replies I already knew it was gonna be “piercings” and “smile more” 😂

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u/remyish0 9h ago

i was kind of expecting that as well😭

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u/dre_valle 9h ago

They fr think you just go about life with permanent rbf 😂
Also, side note, I’d suggest to avoid fillers at least for another 2 decades or so. You’re still very young and you’d be needlessly exposing yourself potential health problems down the road.

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u/remyish0 9h ago

it’s so funny to me😂 j just don’t know how to smile in pictures without it looking fake and borderline creepy lmfao. and I’m definitely hearing you out on the filler thing!! i was pretty hesitant about it anyway.

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u/Forward-March2080 9h ago

You look pretty. I wouldn't mess with any lip filler since your lips look fine.

If you want real suggestions, this is what I have for you. You use too much makeup. I'd like to see what you look like without it. I bet you look better. Along with that, as others have said, just smile more. Even if you have to conjure up some happy thought to help you do it, just do it for pics. People who smile more are instantly more attractive.

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u/remyish0 9h ago

okay I’m definitely hearing you out, i just feel awkward smiling in pictures but I’m definitely gonna keep this in mind! I don’t really use a lot of makeup but for some reason even the tiniest bit of makeup on me looks like i have a full face on🥲 maybe i’ll just go all natural then and see if i like it or not.

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u/Forward-March2080 7h ago

Try it. Maybe you're hard on yourself but I bet you'd look good without makeup. Makeup is best for concealing flaws and at your age, you likely don't have many of those, if any. Try a day without it. Raw dog the whole day lol.

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u/blast7 9h ago

Less makeup. You are young and beautiful.

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u/Haunting_Fly_3155 9h ago

That frown upside down

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u/Possible-Ride4100 9h ago

Bait

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u/remyish0 9h ago

no I’m genuinely asking because something about my looks is bothering me i just can’t put my finger around it. ty anyway

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u/Arcturan_MegaDonkey 9h ago

No, don't do it. Its not needed.

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u/Odd-Mode9275 9h ago

Don’t change anything if you love yourself

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u/WaitApprehensive4789 9h ago

Less "darkness" in the makeup, be a bit more "light" you are gorgeous, less is more.

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u/durkdiggler730 9h ago

Nothing you loook good

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u/Susanne_koerber 9h ago

Dein Gesichtsausdruck

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u/Pale_Resist_7134 9h ago

Nothing your beautiful just smile

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u/Additional-Bed-3836 9h ago

You need to put some depth around your eyes, it looks like a flat texture, alien looking ass.

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u/Just-Marionberry-118 8h ago

"alien looking ass" you're not as funny as u think

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u/remyish0 9h ago

lmfao😭😭 i see what you mean but how can i do that though?

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u/thatdangduck 9h ago

I think you could change the hair style, add some happiness to your life, and do away with whatever that is on your lip. I assume it's a ring piercing.

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u/remyish0 9h ago

what kind of hairstyle do you think would suit me? 🤔 i used to have super long hair but that wasn’t really my thing.

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u/thatdangduck 8h ago

I think you could actually go with something shorter. Maybe less one sided with the bangs. Or more symetrical i mean. I really don't like the high part in the hair. I think it makes people look old. If you've ever seen that movie "working girl" it reminds me of the weird hairdos griffith and her secretary friend had before she changed her hair. The change was an amazing improvement. You could also maybe experiment with the small braids on the sides or something like clipping it up in the back. The thing with the braids i am talking about is what i tend to call a flower girl style, it looks like stuff i've seen women wearing at renaissance fairs and such. I think gwyneth paltrow may have had something like that at one time or another also. Could be somebody else though, i've seen a number of actresses and such go with that from time to time. You might also talk with a stylist and see if you can do something with the hair that might help with the lip thing, i'm not really noticing much objectionable about your lip other than maybe the metal. I really would suggest you shy away from the nose and lip piercing thing. A couple other blondes i personally find attractive. I like seven of nine on voyager. I like agnetha faltskog from abba in both her younger and older looks. There are probably more but right now i'd have to look up some names.

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u/thatdangduck 8h ago

If you look at your right side, if you shortened your hair up to about maybe your jaw or right around your cheek an did the same thing on the other side, that could be a look that might work for you also. And have it taper in to your neck and cheek. There is kind of a shape i see there that i think could work and could kind of frame your face maybe.

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u/remyish0 8h ago

interesting, this actually helps a lot. thank you! 🙂‍↕️

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u/thatdangduck 8h ago

Your welcome. I'm not any kind of an expert on these things mind you but i do pay attention to movie actresses and have done some training in photography back in the day when everything started switching to digital cameras. I also know a few things that appeal to me personally.

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u/youshallnotpassRZK 9h ago

I feel like your makeup is a little flat. I’d start exploring and experimenting with “shading” your face. Accentuate your nose, cheek bones, give your eyes some depth. I genuinely think that without this flat-base colour you have you’d look even better. Makeup is meant to enhance your best features, and it kind of feels like you’re hiding them. Put some colour on those lids! Have some fun! You look stunning

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u/Dizzy_Marzipan245 9h ago

Best comment. Make up too flat, needs dimensions perhaps more Dewey instead of flat matte!

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u/remyish0 9h ago

thank you sm!! this helps☺️

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u/Sorry_Business7195 9h ago

Nothing u are pretty

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u/Salty_Chance_3484 9h ago

You are very plain looking. Enhance your features & smile more!

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u/Automatic-Chip9095 9h ago

Smile change the look on your face

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u/MattObserve 9h ago

Your attitude 🤣🤣🤣

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u/Classic-Stuff-6110 9h ago

You do look like you hate life. But you are beautiful.

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u/remyish0 9h ago

this made me laugh i mean it has some truth to it😂 thank you tho! and i do smile in person, dw

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u/Classic-Stuff-6110 7h ago

Well you could show me your smile. 🙂

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u/timxallen01 9h ago

Looks like ai

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u/remyish0 9h ago

i promise you it’s not😭 idk how to take this

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u/timxallen01 9h ago

Yeah idkkkkk about that

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u/Dizzy_Marzipan245 9h ago

Add more color and dimension to your face. Too flat and pasty. And more Dewey instead of matte. You look dry

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u/remyish0 9h ago

YOU MADE ME LOOK SO ORANGE i’m scared

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u/Dizzy_Marzipan245 8h ago

I'm scared now! You look like you would twinkle in the sunlight...so perhaps let's find a happy medium. You so flat now it looks like your nose bridge is dang near the same level as your eyes.

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u/remyish0 8h ago

you’re right tho i’m really pale but idk if there’s anything i can do to change that, it’s my genetics😅 maybe fake tan?

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u/Dizzy_Marzipan245 8h ago

Just contour! Doesn't have to be as deep as I put it if it's too orange. Literally just one shade darker to contour. You are gorgeous. It's your make up that needs the adjustment

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u/Adventurous_Tea_6133 9h ago

You’re very pretty but seriously you don’t need so much makeup. Just my humble opinion

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u/pga-181 8h ago

Add a smile

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u/Last-Assistant-2734 8h ago

i’ve been thinking about getting lip filler

You need to change this, first and foremost.

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u/remyish0 8h ago

meaning i shouldn’t?

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u/Last-Assistant-2734 8h ago

Nobody should.

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u/Live61c5_ 8h ago

Yourself

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u/migascor98 8h ago

Just smile more you are gorgeous

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u/Living-Cow-169 8h ago

Youre far from ugly. I dont see your lips being asymmetrical but im a dude on the internet. Mean RBF tho but i have one too so 🤷‍♂️

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u/JackBleezus_cross 8h ago

Your filter settings

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u/crxst_all 8h ago

you’re already gorgeous, but i’d try out different lip combos because your lips are your best feature

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u/remyish0 8h ago

okay thank you!! <3

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u/Savings-Trouble-5345 8h ago

Your eyes are a little weird but other than that 👌

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u/MrThinTastic88 8h ago

Less makeup and smile.

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u/BreakConsistent467 8h ago

Not using filters. 🤣

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u/fishcrabby 8h ago

You would look better if you lost about 20 lbs.

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u/remyish0 8h ago

not sure 20 lbs is healthy but i could lose around ten

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u/medium_dumb 7h ago

Maybe 5lbs but you don’t look fat

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u/fishcrabby 7h ago

Nah you could. Just need to diet and exercise. Maintain a calorie deficit but make sure you’re eating the essentials. A poor diet would be unhealthier.

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u/New_Boysenberry_8090 8h ago

Beautiful if you would smile!!

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u/Usakoproudstar 8h ago

Se me ocurren mil cosas pero me dan ban por ser sincero

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u/remyish0 8h ago

nah be brutally honest this is what this sub is for

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u/No-Course3197 8h ago

Per me sei stupenda così .... Ma se sorridi sei più bella

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u/jinshisfavfrog 8h ago

I’m crine why is everyone so mad that you’re not grinning ear to ear 😭

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u/remyish0 8h ago

LMFAO PLSSS IDKK

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u/Emotional-Basis-3968 8h ago

Magari sorridere?

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u/SentientScent 7h ago

Your camera?

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u/remyish0 6h ago

I have iphone 16 pro max and the pics are taken w the back camera w the flash on!

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u/LeadershipMost6324 7h ago

Your gorgeous smile and you will see the difference

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u/Icy-Amphibian2647 7h ago

Get into the 50’s pin up girl look……please

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u/RedDemon-55 7h ago

Lip piercings not super appealing to some people but it depends on who you meet

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u/Beneficial-Advice970 7h ago

Don't do that, you're beautiful u don't need lip filler

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u/psycho_lover_007 7h ago

Change u r bf 😉

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u/kewpiev 7h ago

Im am BEGGING you to not touch your face!!! You are so gorgeous it makes me so sad when pretty girls don’t see themselves as others do

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u/Mike9X6 7h ago

Weight

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u/ladrianK 6h ago

nothing!! 😍

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u/invisible-man26 6h ago

Mehr lächeln und dezenter makeup

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u/Ok-Resolve-560 6h ago

Dont please your stunning!

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u/dragonwithabeard 6h ago

i think straight bangs would really suit u. u look beautiful though

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u/MixRevolutionary3303 6h ago

Personal taste, I wouldn’t ask for anything else.

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u/Rekltpzyxm 6h ago

NO FILLERS. You already look good.

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u/That_Associate_8552 5h ago

Are you high

All jokes aside you are pretty
Marry me

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u/Front_Difficulty_322 5h ago

No mames hay un chingos de SIMPS aqui, puro urgido

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u/Silver_Dirt_3009 5h ago

Please don’t change anything.
You have a really unique look and it works for you

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u/Summer-Bluey 5h ago

Love your story e

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u/Phenomenthal 5h ago

Maybe smile a bit.. 😘

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u/XplorersSummit 2h ago

Your brain

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u/[deleted] 2h ago

Nothing, let me praise you in the DMs 🥰

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u/Independent-Cost-135 10h ago

Nothing... You are perfect 🔥🤤🥵

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u/Proper_Count4778 9h ago

So incredibly beautiful!!

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u/snowysnoopyx 9h ago

Stop frauding your photos, that will be a good change

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u/biglee77 9h ago

More cleavage

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u/Representative_Jolly 9h ago

Not a damn thing. Perfect.