I am questioning whether I might be aegoromantic/ aegosexual and this is still very new to me. I am in a relationship but most of the time I don't feel aesthetically attracted to him. I know I have little to no sexual attraction to him.

I like the idea of being attracted to him in all senses, but overall, the concept of our relationship and fantasies in my mind is more fun than the reality.

I really do love him but the fact that the only attraction I have to him is emotional and intellectual concerns me.

Are there people who are aego who have made relationships work long term even without the physical and sexual attraction?