So I'm pretty young to be a married man tbh, I'm 25 now and married at 23, and I'm open about it, in the office or even any other places.

So here is a new member in the office who's older than me around 27, so as I said everybody knows about my marriage in the office so she also got to know about it and she asked about it like is it really true and how you get married so young, usual things I hear whenever a new person knows about it, and it's pretty normal for me.

But the thing is she's openly flirting and cracking double meaning jokes n all, I told her that I don't like this stuff so stop it, but that woman mannn she doesn't know the meaning of no, she still does it and I hate it, and the thing is like I can't even complain about this to HR or any upper management because it's nothing like that she's doing any vulgar remark or anything just talking flirtatious way and double meaning jokes.

I talked with my wife about this and she laughed it off and said who wouldn't do looking at me, like wtf 😭.

She's also being touchy which I hate and told that too and even scolded infront of everybody, the touching has stop but not that look or talking.

Any suggestions on how I can tackle this because when I talked with my friends, dumbasses laughed and told me to enjoy it it's just flirting, but it's not I know that.

TLDR: Colleague flirting with me a married man and even after telling not to do she's doing it anyway.

Ik most of you have gf, but I think relationships are overglorified, dur dur sai to lgta h ki gf bann gyii to pta ni kya hi ho jayega, in fact mere college mai to kuch logo ka esa haal hai ki 1st year sai lage pade h ki koi na koi ladki patt jaye bs, padhayi mai bilkul khtm ho bhale hi.

And ek taraf vo log h jinke pass bandi h

Ab unka haal ye h ki unohne aapni puri personality hi gf ke around bana li h, khate sote nhate pure time bc bandi bandi , so rahe h to bandi sai vc per lage h, and ye koi chutiye log nahi h inohne ek so called toughest exam JEE crack kiya h or tab iss college mai aaye h, or yaha aake kuch bs gf ke around lage h or jinki nahi h unka to bta hi diya.

An uncle approached my mom with a rishta for his son and told her to just say yes, and the marriage would be fixed on the spot.
My mom asked for his son’s picture cuz i haven’t seen his son before and said that first, my daughter would talk to your son and then decide if she wanted to proceed because she haven’t even talked to each other yet 😭
That uncle got defensive and asked why they should give their son’s picture. He said I’m so bigdi hui just because I want to see the guy and talk to him on calls before saying yes to marriage.
He literally said they don’t want a girl like me in their house. 😭🤣
Imagine being called bigdi hui for wanting to know the person you’re supposed to MARRY. 💀

Look at this post, I feel Indian w@m@n are not angry enough. This used to be a very progressive land at one point of time, we have temples in khajuraho, konark etc, which depicts so many different forms of art,many very explicit as well, we are the land of kamasutra, any basic amount of history would tell one that blouse was not a very common item in the subcontinent.
But now, we get b!gots, mysosyn!sts, !ncels, chigma males, who literally look atw@m@n as property and nothing else, they do not see them even as normal humans, always in some position connected to the m@n, and if w@m@n try to live their lives and have fun, this is the reaction, btw, these same m@n will defend grapists, but a normal w@m@n having normal fun, and living their lives, is what hurts these braindead morons, they want total control over the autonomy of w@m@n.
DISGUSTING!

TLDR- Indi@ns are very c@nservat!e and are m!sogynists and the society is too p@tr1arch@l

I feel this is the right...bcz nowadays real feelings of a person is not valued .. online attraction and many people just want relationship bcz of loneliness and fomo ..and seeking validations

My online native European friends largely agree with this sentiment (at least in a watered down form). What do you all think?

And please don’t talk about Flipkart and amazon reviews 🫩
I got delivered in 2 days so 10/10 from me ( son review the product not the delivery experience 😭)

https://www.thehindu.com/news/international/19-year-old-arrested-in-illinois-for-planning-attack-on-hindu-place-of-worship/article71586578.ece