Hi all,
I'm hoping to find some fellow moms of several young kids who work and are training for long distance triathlons (70.3 or Ironman). I'd love to hear how you make it work.
A bit about me:
35yo mom to three: a 4.5yo, a 2.5yo and a 5 month old baby. I did my first 70.3 last summer in 5h45 (34:44 swim / 3:01 bike / 1:54 run). I got pregnant two weeks after that race, and I ran my first marathon at 3.5 months pregnant. I'm now about 5 months postpartum and back to 2 swims, 2 bikes and 2 runs a week.
The sleep/nursing situation: I've been breastfeeding non-stop for 4.5 years across the three kids, and I'm exclusively breastfeeding the baby right now. I haven't had a full night of sleep in 4.5 years, and at the moment I'm up several times a night to nurse. My husband is a triathlete too and is incredibly hands-on, so I'm lucky on the support side.
What's coming up: I go back to work in early January, part-time, with Fridays off. That's my long ride day. Saturdays are family days, so it's rest. Sunday is my long run. I have two 70.3s planned for summer 2027 (June and July).
What I'd love advice on:
Nutrition: How do you fuel for long sessions and eat enough day to day while nursing? Any tips on how much you eat, what works before and after long rides and runs, and how to avoid under-fueling when you're exhausted?
Training: How do you structure a week around broken sleep and a work schedule? Do you adjust intensity when you've slept terribly, or just go by feel? What do you cut first when life gets in the way?
Guilt: How do you deal with being gone for a 3-4 hour ride or long run when the kids are little? I know it's good for me, but the guilt still sneaks in, especially when I'm out on a Sunday morning while everyone else is home together.
If you're in the same boat (or were a few years ago), I'd love to hear what you did and what you'd do differently. Even just knowing I'm not the only one doing this would be great!
Thanks 🙏