r/swingersr4r • • 1d ago

Announcement Reminder again to be careful of pic collectors/blackmailers/scammers (example fakes in post body) NSFW

88 Upvotes

Swingersr4r community,

We have put out warnings so many times but we still often get people reaching out about having sent pictures to fakes or even worse, getting blackmailed after sending pics to someone who had reached out to their post. We are also removing and banning a couple posts a day of accounts that are using AI generated pictures, or that reach out for the verification process (both as a response to a ban or preemptively to be moreover convincing for victims).

For the real swingers: please be careful when interacting with people and to do your due diligence before providing any personal information and any pictures of you/your partner. If you feel like an account you interacted with is fake, please report it to Reddit, then let us know. In the end, you are responsible for your own safety and well-being on this platform.

For the fakes: shame on you and those like you. May law enforcement find you and punish you to fullest extent of the law. May you never be happy, may your food always be bitter, your life unfulfilled, and may disaster befall your sick collection and electronic devices. Be better.

Small example of the fake pictures we've seen the last couple of weeks:


r/swingersr4r • • May 18 '26

Announcement General Warnings Regarding Malicious Actors NSFW

44 Upvotes

Due to the uptick in reporting of malicious and unsavory characters reaching out to our community, these are general warnings for all who use our community:

  • Per the previous few announcements, there are a lot of scammers/creeps leveraging AI to do verification, pic exchanges, and to fool people in general. Look out for strangeness in the pictures you are sent and check the pictures against Google Lens, Sight Engine, and other tools to verify they are authentic and real.
  • There are scammers who will offer to buy pictures, articles of clothing, and other things from users. For starters, do not use our community for this sort of business in the first place, and second, you likely will not receive your money and potentially get doxxed or worse. Ignore, report, then block these accounts who make these offers to you via DM.
  • If you are getting threatened with physical violence, leak of your pictures and details, or blackmail, immediately screenshot the conversation, report the messages to Reddit, and file a complaint to the FBI's IC3 site or your respective country's cyber crime division. Do not give these accounts money, more pictures, or whatever they are asking for.
  • No matter where you end up chatting, use your best judgment in the pictures you send, the information you provide (your names, location, social media handles, employment details, places you frequent) - any and all of this can be used to figure out who you are, where you live, where you work, and any other of details of your life you want to keep private. You are an adult, leveraging a free and open platform, where the moderation can only do so much to protect you. We as mods can control what posts are on the sub, what comments are up, but we have no control over who contacts you, who you talk to, and what both parties send or say. It is up to you to protect yourself and the ones you love.
  • Threatening or harassing messages sent to the moderation team will be reported to Reddit and potentially escalated further. We take actions to protect our community and all rules are clearly stated in multiple places across the sub, including as you post/comment depending on what application you use. By posting and commenting, you are agreeing to be moderated and for actions to be taken if the posts and comments break the rules outlined.

Thanks for reading and we wish you all a sexy summer ahead. Stay safe, have fun.


r/swingersr4r • • 7h ago

Unverified User [33/26] [MF4F] [London] - Couple looking for female. NSFW

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193 Upvotes

r/swingersr4r • • 4h ago

Unverified User [23/23] [MF4F] [Moreno Valley CA] NSFW

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39 Upvotes

New to this!


r/swingersr4r • • 8h ago

Verified User [35/33] [MF4M/MF] [Rockingham County, Virginia] still in search NSFW

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53 Upvotes

Married couple looking for an attractive guy primarily, but open to select couples especially if your female likes to watch. Our male likes to watch the wife have a good time. Attraction is the main thing we are looking for. BBC/BWC preferred with thickness/girth most important

We are real and have some lifestyle experience. Must have experience. Prefer relatively around our age. Definitely interested in consistent meetups if we can make that work too.

You MUST be able to verify.


r/swingersr4r • • 6h ago

Verified User [42/21][MF4MF][Eureka Springs, AR] Group Sexy Shenanigans - no single men NSFW

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29 Upvotes

r/swingersr4r • • 2h ago

Unverified User [49/42][MF4MF][Jamaica] Experienced couple visiting11/28-12/05 NSFW

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10 Upvotes

Couple staying at a 5 star resort near Montego Bay. Reach out if you are visiting this area at the same time.


r/swingersr4r • • 8h ago

Unverified User [37/35][MF4MF][LISBON] Travil to Milan Roma and Florença loking for a couple. NSFW

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35 Upvotes

r/swingersr4r • • 3h ago

Unverified User [28/32][MF4MF][Tx] PLEASE READ BELOW. COUPLE SEEKING OTHER COUPLES OR SINGLE F. NSFW

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13 Upvotes

please read!!! (No single males)

Wife is in recovery mode currently after having baby #5 but we are looking to find a couple to go out with towards end of October early November. We require planning as we have kids and also have to be discreet due to my job.

If you are interested please message with pics and ages. Also please be open as we both have fetishes and fantasies. (We both have a foot fetish for the ladies wife is also extremely bi)
we prefer fit and attractive couples as well


r/swingersr4r • • 5h ago

Unverified User [34/31] [MF4MF] [CA] Central Valley and Bay Area. NSFW

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17 Upvotes

Fresno-Santa Cruz-San Jose-Sac-SanFran-Merced-Modesto and nearby areas. Please read top pinned post on our profile before messaging us.


r/swingersr4r • • 2h ago

Unverified User [24/24][MF4MF/F][CA] looking for hot single Fs or hot fit couples NSFW

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9 Upvotes

Hi! 30m/29f, fit, healthy, easy going sexual couple looking for specifically hot single Fs but open to HOT couples :) keeping it lowkey but willing to verify. Lazy replies will be ignored !


r/swingersr4r • • 5h ago

Unverified User [23/23] [MF4MF/F] [NC] in nc but visit Vegas weekend of nov22 NSFW

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12 Upvotes

r/swingersr4r • • 18h ago

Unverified User [31/29] [MF4MF] [Portland] Couple for full swap couple, hopefully newer to it all or easy going. Open to fit hung males. NSFW

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109 Upvotes

Looking for this in Portland Oregon. We don't go to sex clubs. Please read to the end.

Looking for a fit couple who is newer to this or easy going. Plus if the male is bi so he can get pegged by her and fucked by me the guy. Love Dvp dp. Not a dealbreaker. We love normal full swap too.

If you're a single dude shooting your shot be bisexual.

Please send a photo and stats with the first message after accepted.


r/swingersr4r • • 12h ago

Verified User [26/22][MF4F][Tampa] - Young married couple looking for a female friend NSFW

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26 Upvotes

r/swingersr4r • • 5h ago

Unverified User [38/32][MF4MF/F][Missouri]-whatdoyouthink NSFW

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7 Upvotes

r/swingersr4r • • 18h ago

Unverified User [30/33][mf4m/f][TN] NSFW

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60 Upvotes

TN couple open to friends fun really anything! Been LS for about 10 years would love to make some local friends or meet people coming into town! Down for drinks or a game or straight to it. Feel free to shoot us a pm!!


r/swingersr4r • • 7h ago

Unverified User [40/31] [FM4F] [Bellingham, Washington] - Couple looking for a female third for ongoing fun and dating. NSFW

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7 Upvotes

No single men!!

Read pinned post for more information.

We are looking for a girlfriend to round out our ENM marriage. We are open to something casual. However, we are ideally looking for a long term partner. Someone to be an equal partner with us.
We have been in the lifestyle for some time now and know we want a connection with a woman as an equal partner to join us. Not only in the lifestyle but also in every day life as well.

We are an open book and would love to connect, a meet up for drinks would be amazing place to start! Shoot us a message, tell us a bit about yourself and include a picture. We will reciprocate. Don’t be afraid to ask anything you’re curious about. We don’t bite, or do we 😉.


r/swingersr4r • • 6h ago

Unverified User [43/40][MF4MF][OKC] Looking for this weekend NSFW

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5 Upvotes

Looking for a couple or single lady in the OKC area. Dm is


r/swingersr4r • • 2h ago

Unverified User [28/28][MF4M/MF][Seattle] couple looking for a bi third or couple. More details in the post :) NSFW

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2 Upvotes

We'll be ignoring any short, lazy responses. Please read the full post

Hi! We are a 28M and 28F couple looking for a ~twenties to ~mid thirties bi guy or bi couple to join us as a (ideally long term) FWB.

He is bi, she gets off to watching guys play so there would be a lot of MM fun (in addition to MF fun!) - please be comfortable with at least making out, oral, frotting, just generally being sensual with a guy. If you're not into anal, that's okay. She is bi-curious and hoping to explore with women but that's not required.

She is white, 5’2”, cute/perky boobs, and a curvy body. He is latino/white mix, 5'11" with an average uncut cock. Both cute ;)

We live in Cap Hill and can host, but we'll probably want to talk a good bit first. Eventually we would want to grab a drink or coffee to make sure we vibe.

To show you've actually read the post, tell us your tavorite color :) Please also share age, what you're looking for, and be comfortable sharing SFW pics with face when we start chatting.


r/swingersr4r • • 1d ago

Unverified User [34/30][MF4F][Phoenix/Scottsdale, Arizona, AZ] Looking for a fun Unicorn to join us! No single men please. NSFW

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102 Upvotes

Trying this again! So many bots and flakes. We just want a fun girl who we can go out with. Have some drinks. Dance. And if all goes well come and join us at a hotel downtown. Anytime we go out we get a room so just hopping to have it someone join. She prefers Latinas but is opening to getting to know anyone. 😝


r/swingersr4r • • 6h ago

Unverified User [38/39][MF4MF/F/M][North Carolina] - Anybody else going to this event this weekend? NSFW

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0 Upvotes

r/swingersr4r • • 1d ago

Unverified User [44/43][MF4MF][ocean city MD][10-31-26] NSFW

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44 Upvotes

Secret’s Halloween party. Looking to have some drinks and fun. Looking for couples only no singles at this time. Dm us for more details.


r/swingersr4r • • 23h ago

Verified User [45/46][MF4MF/F][Vegas] Couple in Vegas Oct 22-25 looking for like minded couples and singles. NSFW

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11 Upvotes

r/swingersr4r • • 19h ago

Unverified User [40/42] [FM4F] [Las Vegas/NV] Must be able to verify. No Males (READ DESCRIPTION) NSFW

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4 Upvotes

Hey there! We’re a fun-loving Las Vegas couple, happily together for 15 years, and we’re excited to meet a genuine woman who’s open to chemistry, laughter, deep conversations, playful flirting, and unforgettable adventures. We love traveling, discovering new cultures and food, and collecting memories in beautiful places.

Wife runs this account and is hoping to find someone she truly clicks with—someone who can make her laugh, keep the conversation flowing, and maybe inspire a little harmless trouble along the way. Bonus points if you’re into EDM, festivals, bass drops, PLUR, and seeing the world!

We’re a verified couple on Kasidie and happy to share our username. We’re looking for real-life connections—not endless messaging, photo collecting, drama, games, or monetary arrangements.

FFM, FMF, or FF only. No single men or couples. Verification is required, and we’ll verify too.

If you’re fun, open-minded, easygoing, and love to travel, send us a message and tell us a little about yourself. What’s your ideal adventure: dancing until sunrise, relaxing on a beach, or exploring a new city together? Maybe we’ll find out in person! 🎶✈️🌎


r/swingersr4r • • 20h ago

Unverified User [28/27][MF4MF/F][Peoria, AZ] Always looking for females and couples near the west valley NSFW

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3 Upvotes